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haha so basically yeah ames from detransition baby is a massive pussy. living in the world as a woman and being in touch with her emotions was too hard for her so she wrapped herself in masculinity like a safety blanket and that’s some loser shi- (looking in the mirror after my stylist cut my hair dangerously short and boyish) uh oh chat
listening to detransition, baby cuz it seems like an interesting book idk and im only like 22 minutes in but its already reminding me of my desire for a baby and the bleakness of being pretty unlikely to find someone to be my partner due to The Things About Me and how i might have to do it all alone or at best raise this kid with my friend which is fineee i guessss but tbh i dont want her to be there like i'd prefer whoever i raise the kid with to be my dedicated partner not someone who has to find a slot in her schedule a week in advance for me to talk to her about a serious thing cuz her polycule is a mess. anyway this book already got me in my feelings
"I remember Toni Morrison said something like 'the serious work of racism is distraction.' And something similar is happening with transphobia and the conversations of TERFs. The fight they want to have is a distraction. It is shallow. If I even acknowledge the terms they set, I walk into a distraction. Trans women are out here making really incredible art—I know so many trans artists doing mind-blowing things, making profound statements about what it means to be alive—and you’ve got this crew going 'BATHROOM! TRANS! WHERE U GO POOPOOPEEPEE?' Or whatever they say. That is a distraction. Even as a fight, it is frankly a boring and undignified fight. I’ve got better things to do."
even reviews which aren’t overtly transphobic but just disagree with reese’s views r so mind numbing to me. she’s a character you’re not supposed to agree with all of her views. she is cynical and disillusioned and maybe the most self destructive character i’ve read. you are allowed to hear her say something and go wtf as long as you are not assuming that is torrey peters’ opinion which she is pushing on the masses. like plsss just use your brain
If you're, just like me, a girl, I dare you to get your vagina checked! Because it's so fun and embarrassing and female health is important 💖 This is your sign and chance to self sabotage and expose your girl parts to someone. Are you brave enough? Call a gynecologist, make an appointment and reblog this with #lovebeingagirl when it's done 😊