Imagine being your f/os safe place. You're someone they can turn to when everything's been getting a bit too stressful lately. Your presence helps distract them from all the bad stuff that's bothering them
Imagine baking something and you’re left fending off your f/o with a spoon because they keep trying to eat the batter- NO NO NO NO DON’T YOU EVEN TRY TO STICK YOUR FINGERS IN THIS, KEEP YOUR HANDS AWAY FROM THE BOWL.
NO YOU CAN’T HAVE ANY UGH, THAT’S IT OUT OF THE KITCHEN, OUT OF THE KITCHEN, DON’T GIVE ME YOUR SAD PUPPY EYES.
f/o(s) who understand you’ve been hurting or have been hurt. who cares for you so deeply that they’d never ever think of leaving you, even at your lowest of moments. who will willingly listen to you about everything and anything, even if it seems silly or stupid. who will reassure you no matter how much you ask, no matter how repetitive it seems, because they truly believe that you deserve to be cared for.
or, f/o(s) who are also trying to heal from hurt as well. who are thankful for even what seems to be simply just your presence by their side, because they find peace in you. who appreciate even the smallest efforts because your help means enough to them already. shared conversations of “have you eaten?” “oh, not yet…” “then let’s eat together,” or telling them to rest because you want them to be well and they want you to be well, too
commission i got from @/hawkodiles on twt!!! i can’t believe i forgot to post it here god literally BLAH BLAH BLAH I’m crazy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 👹👹👹👹
Okay, so these are some doodles of my OC/sona and Gideon. To understand their relationship, it's better to see Vi as an small animal that follows Gideon around and bites him sometimes.
honestly, if we’re mutuals, consider me on your taglist. i want to see everything my mutuals make. if you don’t have a taglist but you want someone to see something, send it to me !!
same for ask games — if you reblog / post an ask game and you want questions for it, just dm me your post! you don’t even have to say anything. i’ll bombard you with asks any time !!
i simply want to engage with all my mutuals. i want to be your cheerleaders, i want to hear about your ships, i want it all. i promise i’ll never find it awkward if you just message me any time. even if you just wanna chat or gush ♡
I really hate how the white people in the self ship community treat bipoc self shippers. It's always bothered me how people overlook them and are just so rude to them. These people deserve a place in our community and sometimes I think more so then most of us. They go through a lot and to exclude them from a place that is meant to bring comfort and happiness, we do a shit job at showing them that. We need to do better, seriously. People need to stop with the performance activism and listen to them. People don't listen when bipoc voice their issues with the community or label it as discourse, it's not. They have every right to and we should listen. We need to listen.
And to any bipoc self shipper reading this, I'm sorry we have failed you in anyway. You deserve your place here among us and you should be told that.