Selfqueer is a blankqueer term for when you only take stances/sides on discourse that affects you personally, only speaking for yourself. Selfqueer is not inherently for or against anything, as all stances are up to the individual who uses it
(Thx @theworldsworstnightmares for the flag & name idea ur so real 鈽濓笍)
transmisogyny is so silly and dum8 8ecause so many people will post on this site like "ooo I love a MEAN 8ITCH I wanna get STEPPED on" 8ut then they meet a socially unpleasant tgirl and end up suicide 88ing her
if you think you're the number one burning down the house fan, you're wrong, it's victoria. if you think you're the number two burning down the house fan, you're wrong, it's me
It's honestly so disappointing that Homestuck fans chomp at the 8it to call essentially minor/side characters who are honestly inconsequential to the overall plot like Nepeta trans, 8ut staying dead fucking silent when Vriska is explicitly st8d to 8e a trans woman. It makes every headcanon from TMEs I see about her just 8oil down to an aggressively cis/AFA8 stock character of "8itchy white mean girl". Her character in reality is so much more fascin8ing than that.
the reality of 8eing someone who draws 8oth vriska and dirk a lot is i get 8oth tum8lr user sysmed-8aeddel and transmisogyny-soft8oy re8logging my posts <usernames i made up 8ut it's REALLY not that far off from the kind of people i see in my notes sometimes> and in 8oth cases i just kinda sit here like. glad you like my art 8ut. im not sure you want me on your 8log. are you lost.
Ngl i feel like using cis-IDs when one has transitioned sort of creates a divide 8etween transids and cisids and m8kes it seem like you're only REALLY your ids if you pass as them. Using "cis" for transitioned transids puts cisids on a pedestal in a w8y, 8ecause a lot of people want to transition. I think those who've transitioned in their transids should have more pride for calling themselves trans. No one is any less "really their ids" for 8eing trans and i feel like using the term "cis" for those who have transitioned or pass as cis perpetu8s the opposite. I know this is worded weirdly 8ut i hope ppl get what i mean 8y this
i just got may8e the 8est url on the entire planet universe 8ut i cant fucking 8rag a8out it 8ecause i plan to jump ship to entirely diff 8logs altogether. cries