I find it interesting how people don't seem to know about or expect trans men to get bottom surgery or other masculinizing surgery and treat top surgery as *the* surgery. Like, I saw my anthropology mentor today and I hadn't seen her since before I had surgery, and she said something along the lines of like "it must be such a relief to get *the* big surgery over with", as if top surgery would be the only major surgery I could feasibly get over the course of my transition. And you see this a lot with people equating trans men with having a vulva, using terms like "boypussy" (a personal ick) when referring to sexual experiences involving trans men, as if trans men couldn't possibly have other genitalia. And of course facial masculinization surgery is also a thing many trans men opt for, but it is never talked about as even a potential resource for trans men, despite it being a valid option.
Personally, I think top surgery is it for me. I would love to be able to get bottom surgery, but unfortunately I have genitourinary disorders and I don't think it's a good idea to mess with anything down there. But if I didn't have those disorders, bottom surgery would not be off the table. And getting a hysterectomy or something similar certainly is *not* off the table, I would like to get some sort of sterilization procedure at some point.
I don't know if this is part of people thinking trans men somehow have an easier time "passing" than other trans people without significant intervention (we don't) or people being uncomfortable with the idea of trans men "ruining" our femalehood, or maybe it's a combination of both ideas and others, but it's just such a frustrating phenomena.
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I love you fat transmascs who can't pass because of our curves and boobs. I love you fat gnc transmascs. I love you fat transmascs for whom passing won't make you happy. I love you fat closeted transmascs. I love you fat transmascs with PCOS. I love you fat transmascs with sensory issues who don't want to or can't grow facial hair. I love you fat transmascs who can't get gender affirming surgeries because of archaic BMI limitations. I love you fat transmascs who don't want to lose weight. I love you fat transmascs who've tried everything and cant lose weight. I love you fat and disabled transmascs. I love you fat transmascs who don't want hrt or surgery. I love you fat balding transmascs. I love you fat hairy transmascs. I love you fat transmascs who gained weight because of hrt. I love you fat transmascs on birth control. I love you fat transmascs.
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What a night.. honestly i don’t remember any of it. I was wasted! I’m so proud of myself I didn’t drunk text or call him! So that’s a fucking win in my book.
Also I got a 15promax yesterday and this thing suuuccckkkkssss compared to my s23. Android girl 4life. Plus tumblr iOS is not good compared to android. Makes sense why so many people just use the browser instead.
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idk who needs to hear this but if you have any kind of marginalized identity, you can't be "one of the good ones" bc eventually the people reinforcing that hierarchy will run out of bad marginalized people to hate and start raising the bar until that category includes you too.
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It's Tuesday bitches!
Just shot our first onlyfans vid too! Who knew roadtripping cross-country was so exhausting!
There's still a little time left to get a discount on your first month!
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Something about being trans and the line in the first X Men movie "....parents' rights groups who feel threatened by unidentified mutants in their school system..." hitting differently in 2024
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