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candlesnuff404 · 10 months
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We’re inbetween hyper fixations so we’re kinda bored and sad all the time
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beautyinthediss0nance · 11 months
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tangledinink · 11 months
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if i gotta deal with it they gotta deal with it
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writerjayne · 4 months
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I was thinking about things cause I saw a Supernatural edit, and my ADHD brain followed the thought train to Teen Wolf as it often does, and I have thoughts.
As much as I LOVE Stiles raising a baby/having a baby/ finding a baby and being naturally good at it while Derek is out of his depth when you break it down, it makes no sense.
Stiles and Scott? As only children and BOYS when did they ever have a chance to look after children? (While I think boys are perfectly capable of caring for children parents tend to favor girls in child care so like when would they have even had an opportunity?)
DEREK, on the other hand....
A) he has a younger sister with a fairly significant age gap. B) he had a pack that canonically is referenced as to having children, and with family/pack dynamics, it would not be a stretch that Derek has at least SOME experience with children, especially since it's implied Cora is closer in age to Stiles and co whereas Derek is in his early 20s in season one. (Obviously, we all know what a mess the Teen Wolf timeline is, but for the sake of this post early 20s)
Derek's not good with teenagers... As we know... *insert every early interaction with Stiles and Scott ever* But kids and babies? No problem Think about how he is with everyone in the show but then how he was with those little trick-or-treaters. He scared them sure but he also gave them candy, when he could have just as easily ignored them.
I just feel like if you gave him a baby, he would just be like: "I'm a father now, yes I need the most expensive diapers possible!"
Which after having this conversation with my roomie, I realized would make magical Nemeton baby Eli (My favorite explanation) make SO much sense. Found a clearly werewolf baby in the woods? Guess he's a dad now.
Now don't get me wrong, I do think Stiles would pick up very quickly on taking care of a baby, he's very empathetic and cares very deeply, but initially, I think he wouldn't have a clue what he was doing. He would love the baby and WANT to take good care of the baby but wouldn't really know what he was doing. And babies, especially younger babies can be overwhelming.
So what I'm saying is I need a fic where Stiles finds a baby, has no clue what he's doing and Derek is like: "No that's not how you hold a baby/change a diaper/ hold a bottle" and Stiles falls in love so I'm going to write one
Thanks for coming to my ted talk
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theotherhappyplace · 9 months
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thinking about bein a kiddo with adhd being told i was careless but i actually cared a ton and couldn't remember things well.
*shrug* only thing to be done is to be nicer to myself and the people that come after me.
ah well.
but you know,
you ever think about how like, a tree grows from a sapling, and you cut a tree, and see the rings, and the sapling is still in there. i think you can say things to the kid you. they still are in there. you can say "you're a good kid" to yourself now, even if its a little late.
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eldritcheyecryptid · 8 months
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Am I the only one who noticed Crowley’s hair went from 7.77 to 6.66 and am trying to figure out if it’s reflecting his character or if it’s unintentional???
For context—hair color 7.77 hair color 6.66
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finley-theal1en · 1 year
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How the past couple of days have been
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adhdxxsdiary · 2 years
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Source: @adhd-alien
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We don’t talk about this Enough
We don’t talk enough about the shame and guilt and disappointment attached to ADHD and other disorders affecting executive function.
The shame of living in messy spaces and not being able to just sweep the fucking floor like everyone else. And not brushing your teeth or hair for days or weeks and eventually having to spend thousands at the dentist and get a buzz cut.
The shame of always running late due to time blindness. And this extending to being late with deadlines at work or school, when in reality you had to take sick days because your brain wouldn’t let you get out of bed.
The shame of having sensory meltdowns because the world is too much, but being seen as having adult temper tantrums.
The guilt of knowing that you have so much you need to do, but you just can’t, no matter how hard you fucking try.
The guilt of knowing you can’t be a typical ‘good friend’ because you’re often inconsistent and even unreliable.
The guilt of knowing the food you’re about to buy is probably going to gather mold at the back of the fridge before getting thrown out; but you have to buy it anyway or you won’t eat.
The disappointment in yourself when you’ve been hyper-sexual for a week and now feel used and dirty and full of regret.
The disappointment you see in the eyes of the people you love when they see you curled up on the couch instead of following through on your plans, or doing the work you need to do, or doing your chores; but not knowing that you’re screaming inside to just do something, anything.
The disappointment of finally feeling like yourself, enjoying new hobbies, and functioning well again; then falling back into executive dysfunction and depression without any warning.
The shame, guilt, and disappointment of being afraid to share this with neurotypical people out of fear they might just say:
“Stop being so lazy” or “stop making excuses” or “but I saw you last week and you were fine”
As a result of silencing these conversations, we continue the vicious cycle and perpetuate our feelings of utter worthlessness; we suffer and we isolate and sometimes we even give up.
We don’t talk about this enough.
I think it’s time we start.
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nocturnowlette · 4 months
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A really annoying part of ADHD is not just that I struggle with doing stuff, but that I seem to entirely forget all the processes and tricks I learned to be more efficient if I don't do something for a few weeks. Like, every time I make a video, I forget that I should have a live notes section while writing so that I don't just stare blankly at the screen and have a direction and that while editing I should break it up between something rewarding so I don't just sit at the PC dreading editing so hard that I can't continue at all.
Productivity is so hard to maintain because I literally forget the things I need to remember that let me do it easier.
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witchyykitten · 1 year
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misssclumsy · 4 months
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adhdcognizant · 1 year
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🙂🙃🧡
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leiamcgonagall · 9 months
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