#also admittedly this is as much “as someone who doesn't have a daddy kink why did I get into the guy with THIS fandom”

[antimony-medusa]

In adittion to the "as a person with issues with suicide why did I get into DSMP" and "as a person with issues with child harm why did I get into QSMP," I'm watching phil's chat try to enforce adoption of everyone he sees and going "as a person who has issues with culturally expected childrearing, why on earth did I get into Philza minecraft". 😂

[solsung]

some nsft headcanons :

solstice is very much a switch and verse. she's open to domming, to subbing, to topping and/or to bottoming. she's very flexible to anything, though she does have a preference to topping women (albeit, she's more selective with the women/more fem-presenting enbys) that she sleeps with, and subbing with men/more masc-presenting enbys. at the end of the day, she's just down to have a good time, and doesn't really care or mind, and is usually just happy making her partner cum.

solstice enjoys a vocal partner. with men especially, she loves hearing them fall apart for her, getting more needy and whiny over time.

she really, really enjoys outdoor sex. especially sex in the water. coming from a desert town (picture arizona or the california desert), she really romanticizes both the rain and the ocean.

her safe word is twinkle. also, her favorite positions are cowgirl and doggy style.

with some planning and conversation in advance, she really enjoys the concept of a) waking her partner up with head, and b) somnophilia. consent is very important here, but it's definitely one of her biggest fantasies to be woken up to her partner fucking her.

solstice, being someone who loves teasing and banter, will call her partner all kinds of nicknames in bed. "cowboy/cowgirl", "sweet thing", "sugar" and "honey" are some of her favorites in and out of the bedroom. respectively, she's a fan of some light degradation in the vein of "my slut" but not so much "whore" or "bitch".

she might sometimes indulge in some light roleplay. while she isn't into dd/lg dynamics, I could see her calling someone "daddy" if they were into it. others that would work are "sir" especially (hello, gale? are you here?).

though she has small boobs and a pretty small ass, she still enjoys receiving attention with both. especially her chest; she'll often wear clothes that allow for lots of side-boob, and if she's in a fwb-ship/dating someone, she's all for them grabbing a palmful of titty.

she's a big, tall girl, so it's rare, but she does have a thing for size differences. if she were ever to have sex with someone bigger than her in any capacity, she'd definitely be very into how that makes her feel in the moment.

solstice's biggest trigger is being told someone loves her during sex –– this is a kink that would have to be negotiated beforehand, though she's also been known to under-negotiate in the moment. even if the person doesn't mean it, it's a powerful drug to her.

in terms of sex toys and straps, she looooves them. she's very down to strap any of her partners if they've been together for at least a short while. it can, admittedly, induce some dysphoria at times, which is why it'd need to be discussed so that if something happens, her partner is aware ahead of time.