i think the funniest thing coming from having a hands-on experience with sex is learning that some of the "fanfiction lied to you, here's how it really is irl" takes have even less in common with reality than some random smut you run across on tumblr
in the end, sex is a very personal experience, there's no such thing as universal recipe for what will feel good and what will turn you on. and the other way round too. the key is to have open mind and to experiment - not only with a partner - and to remember sex is supposed to be fun
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the end of meronia event and almost all of lawlight week aligned perfectly so that they’re in the gap btwn when my june classes end and when my july classes begin which means that i will have more time to work on things yippee!!!!
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on my Slayer Durge file, I was really in the RP zone and waited to reveal Slayer form to everyone until my Durge got to the Mindflayer Colony. She had just found the Letter of Forgiveness, was grappling with the familiarity of the brushstrokes, and then met Kressa and realized the first memory she ever had was of Kress's operating table.
my Durge couldn't hold back slayer form and suddenly the party was having to deal with the colony AND the fact that their leader was clearly hiding some pretty big fucking secrets from everyone.
and it was so fucking good. my slayer durge is kind of weak (bc of user error, from not optimizing, but i'm rolling with it), so being told by Astarion after that she wasn't strong enough on her own to make him feel safe. He soloed Myrkul, so imagine doing this horrible horrible thing, getting the power from it, and having the person you got that gift for telling you that your strength isn't enough.
the rp reasons for ascending astarion while still trying to resist ended up just writing themselves on that file tbh
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How the fuck do you even research how to drive
Like I want to learn to drive now that i have money for the lessons and test but i would have to do a written test and learn road laws and rules right? but where the fuck do i start with learning that shit?? Im autistic dumbass i need a simple guide with pictures i already wont be learning manual because im stupid at least make this part easy for me
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thots abt trans headcanons in de:
trans headcanons for pre-existing characters in de are cool and fun and i respect ppl who do it bc its fun but personally i just cannot get into it because... you dont think that being a fucking transvestite in revachol would vastly alienate your personal experience from a cisgender person? in a game where you can literally choose to be a bigoted, raging fascist... in a game that takes a half-comedic sequence to talk about revacholian homosexuality and how phobia and bigotry still very much exist despite its legalisation; about its politics and how different members of the community choose to live with their desires...that the realities of a trans person living in revachol would be on the fringes of its society - communal, and possibly illegal - where everything could hinge on staying closeted.... in a game that lives and breathes the divides between its inhabitants, a trans person existing in the story would be a pretty big fucking plot detour into abandonment; marginalisation; unemployment; poverty; cisnormativity; intersections of oppression... and that/those character(s) would DEFINITELY NOT be... like..... a highly decorated police lieutenant.
on the other hand, boypussy + amazing art. 👍👍
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What material gain do we have an LGBT community? Do you ask trans peopel what they materially gain from exclude cis people? Do you wonder why we have gay spaces?
It is BECAUSE of the current politcial landscape we should stop catering to our oppressors. Because a cishet person who happenst o ont feel sexual attraction demanding lgbt space, resources, support is in fact an oppressor.
Who is the real bitch here? The cishet making demands of those they oppress or the oppressed?
I said it in the tags last time but comparison answers don’t do much here because the question I’ve been asking is specifcally about ace/aro ppl in relation to the community. I wanna know what exactly excluding those specific people provides for the community. What resources, space, and support are they taking? I want to know the real negative impact they specifically cause that makes this amount of vitriol valid to you. Does it matter if you can’t even answer that without making comparisons to other members of the community? Is it that serious if you can’t provide physical issues they’re causing that’s not a vague “they’re taking resources.”
And not to be mean but if you’re the same anon you’re still very clearly the bitch here like between you getting that mad and a hypothetical “resource thief” I think the answer is lowk obvious
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My magnum opus...
All love and solidarity to lesbians ofc and I cannot argue w the sheer sapphic energy of Nasty Majesty -- HOWEVER. I was hit with a vision and I desperately need to know if I can fly under the radar with this joke LMFAOOO
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