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sunbloomdew · 6 months
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do you ever see a person and you are overcome with incredible fondness? and you just think "oh." but not in a romantic or sexual way you are just filled with warmth and it makes you happy, it just does. and you think "i'm so happy you exist. i'm happy you are somewhere out there in the world, doing your thing". it's love but also not entirely
like people are lovely and i feel it in my entire chest like a burning candle that smells like roses and a sunny day
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aroacearchangel · 5 months
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hey. do whatever you want btw. it’s your identity. kiss people for fun. enjoy sex. nobody’s stopping you. being aro and/or ace doesn’t mean you have to be repulsed by romantic or sexual activities if you don’t want to.
and also! things only mean what you meant them to mean. you can have platonic sex and platonically make out with your friends. it’s true. just be sure to communicate so that everyone involved understands and you’re good.
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thetisming · 4 months
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the aro/ace experience of going 'but am i actually aro/ace?' and then seeing an allo and being like 'oh. okay. yeah i am. what the fuck'
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fallenrain40 · 1 month
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"but aroaces can still feel lo-" shut up. it doesn't matter if we can feel love or not. why is this always your defense to why aroaces should be valid? it gets even worse with alloaces and alloaros. people constantly saying "aces can still have sex!!" and "aros can still have love and have partners!!" YES, they can, but you aren't bringing that up just to bring awareness towards aroaces. No, you are using that fact as a way to ignore and condemn the part that makes us aroace; the lack of attraction. I'm sick and tired of seeing aces and aros have to defend themselves by bringing up all the other ways they can love. Why can't we for once celebrate the parts of us that DON'T love?
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Friendship can be just as intense as romance. Romance can be just as intense as friendship. There is no one over the other. There is human connection, there is the strength of the bond that varies based on the specific circumstances surrounding each relationship. There is love - it may be platonic or romantic or anything in between. There is love, and it simply presents different forms.
Love doesn’t come with a hierarchy.
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bizarreaizen · 11 months
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aromantic and asexual cis men seriously need more recognition, they've been told that being a virgin above the age of 18 is weird and that they get no bitches and they've seen that romance and sex is very important to a man and you need to have it or your "lame" and "boring"
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nesonkin · 8 months
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platonic marriage but instead of kissing we are clasping hands like Sonic and Shadow in their super forms
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cyphyree · 6 months
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Oh You thought you had a cartoon crush?
WRONG!!
GENDER ENVY!!!!💥💥💥💥💥💥
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poobtato · 6 months
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I do NOT want to be allo
Not EVER
What I want is for the world to be hospitable towards aspec folks
Being aspec is a JOY to me. All the unpleasant feelings and experience came from how the world treat people like me—not from being aspec itself
I do not need to change this aspect of myself—and one that makes me happy at that. We need to make the world a better place
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aydaines · 1 year
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hey. don’t cry. approximately 20,773,000 aroace people in the world right now
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thediamondarcher · 8 months
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I want to thank Alice for this, in "sorry" it was the first time I've ever heard someone say the word "aromantic" in tv, it's something really important to me and generally to every heartstopper fan who's also part of the aro/ace community. It makes me so happy for this representation to also be made by my favorite author ever and someone who's also part of the community
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tired-teddybear · 8 months
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just rewatched barbie and it has only confirmed my belief of barbie and ken being aspec
ken only ‘likes’ barbie because that’s what he was basically created/told to do. his whole worth was based on how barbie viewed him
ken and barbie seem more like best friends than anything. i don’t think there was ever anything romantic there, ken was just told to believe there was. he was more desperate for her approval than her ‘love’ in my opinion
and like of course would you think that you like someone if you’re told you do and you’re that desperate for their attention and approval
barbie kind of obviously didn’t like him romantically from the start, which she’s aware of but doesn’t express to ken until the end
and honestly, her telling ken freed both of them from the expectations they were burdened by
aroace barbie and ace ken are real to ME
also i fully believe allan and ken start dating after everything settles down
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d4xn4v · 2 years
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🏳️‍⚧️HAPPY PRIDE MONTH🏳️‍🌈
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whoopsie-do0dles · 3 months
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Just a little vent
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crabofthewoods · 2 months
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istg half the blogs i see are aroace. do i magically attract the aroaces or is tumblr just aroace heaven
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