#asexual

[calamitydarcy]

shoutout to acespec and/or arospec people who still feel some amount of sexual/romantic attraction btw. shoutout to everyone who isn't fully aro/ace and isn't fully allo. shoutout to the aspecs who feel like they don't fully fit in aro/ace communities or allo communities because of it. i love you all i am baking you cookies

[shutinthenutouse]

[artsymeeshee]

More aroace Ford! Idea I had this time with Stan wanting to know what being aroace is. Even though he won’t fully understand, he understands it makes his brother happy and that’s enough for him.

[anotherqueersnailowner]

hey here's a friendly warning

If I hear anyone of you claim that the A in LGBTQIA+ is for allies and you don't mention the Actual Fucking Queer Identities it actually stands for I will teleport into your room and beat the shit out of you

[the-great-kraken]

if you see a male character kiss a male character, you assume they are gay.

if you see a female character kiss a female character, you assume they are a lesbian.

if you hear a character say they don't feel like their gender, you assume they are trans.

so why do a-spec characters have to jump through so many loops?

a character saying they've never had a crush or don't want a relationship or that they don't understand romantic love is so often ignored or used as fodder for other queer or autistic headcanons (reinforcing stereotypes that aroace people are secretly gay or always autistic)

why is it that our stories are always "up to interpretation"? why do we have to wait for the words aromantic or asexual to be said to be taken seriously? why is it that even when characters say they don't want relationships, fans will scream and cry about sex/romance favourable aspecs and qprs?

when it comes to gay and trans characters, even the likes of bisexual lighting is often treated as though it canonises their sexuality. for aroace characters, even the most explicit coding possible is swept under the rug in favour of other "interpretations"

i'm so tired of fighting for representation just to have it ignored and minimised by fans. let characters be aroace. please.

[tsgkamalia]

Hey papi 😍 what fantasies do you see?

Reblog if you’re in love 🥰 😍

[bloodyraremedium]

[moonage-nightterrors]

i’m like if a badass lesbian and a gay twink were co-possessing the body of a socially awkward aroace teenager

[sexyremys-blog]

Hi lovelies, 🥰😊

[wlrsna]

the beauty of aroaces characters that have SO MUCH love, that irradiates care on they own spacial way, that love the people around them SO SO SO MUCH that they can't barely say a word about it-

[iipastelhxrmony]

made an aroace pin today🧡💛🤍🩵💙

[shutinthenutouse]

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

I’m honestly not sure what hot is, like I know what I think is aesthetically attractive, and I can recognise conventionally attractive people but what is hot? Like what classes as hot? Muscles? Makeup? Is there like a list?

[gokbukethings]

A reminder that whatever your identity might be, we're all evil in the eyes of queerphobes. So no, no one is less or more oppressed, we're all equally discriminated against

[aspecpplarebeautiful]

Changing or adjusting your labels is a normal part of questioning. It's OK to not stick with a label. It's OK to try on a label you're not sure about and see how it feels.

[ostentums]

lol someone called me a heterophobe in 2024 because I’m aroace wtf??? 💀💀💀💀