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i walk a fine line between āiām asexual and i hate how much the world revolves around sexā and āsex is way too stigmatized and people should be able to be more open about it if they want toā
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Truer words have never been spoken.
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Friend: Don't you want to have a romance?
Me: I'm good, I have romance at home.
Romance I have at home:

#asexual#aromantic#aroace#aegosexual#aegoromantic#aegoromantic meme#asexual meme#aromantic meme#aegorose#i found out where am i#never had I thought it'd make me this happy š#ao3#thank you ao3 writers#lgbtq#pride month#ace pride
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Bruh did I just get clocked wtf
#asexual#aromantic#acespec#demiromantic#aroace#taylor rambles#fanfic writing#edit: holy shit this popped off
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And always will be
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#sexn't#tw sex mention#minors dni#lgbtqtext#lgbtq text#animated text#word art#ace colors#asexual#asexual text#asexual pride#asexual humor#asexual meme#ace#ace pride#ace humor#ace meme#acespec#acespec pride#acespec humor#acespec meme#lgbtq#lgbtq pride#lgbtq humor#lgbtq meme#queer#queer pride#queer humor#queer meme
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Nigerian Pride š³ļøāšš³š¬
I meant to have this out yesterday. Happy belated pride. :)
#empathetic society#happy pride š#nigeria#sapphic#transgender#nonbinary#asexual#pansexual#gay#lesbian#bisexual
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I feel this deeply š« I feel guilty sometimes because here I am, as far as I know, fully capable of having a kid (who knows if I have fertility issues or not, I've never bloody tried š¤·āāļø), which I know some people out there, both cis and trans alike, are dying for, and my empty ass uterus is just sitting here, going unused. I wish I could donate mine š
For sale: one (1) fully unused uterus and one (1) fully unused (assumed) fully functional fertile grounds.
Any takers?
I can't believe it's 2025 and we still don't have a way for me to give my empty uterus to a trans woman who wants to carry a child
For Sale: Ace Womb, Never Used
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The best way I can describe to an allo person how you feel about sex as a topic as a sex-repulsed or averse asexual is that it feels like a hype that never ends. As though Despicable Me came out and everyone around you was sending minion facebook memes to each other for years to come. The stores are full of minion themed products; they're in ads and your friends talk about them all the time. And deep in your heart you're like "I'm glad that they're able to enjoy something I personally don't like and am not interested in :3". But there is always this little voice in the back of your head that's like "If I have to see ONE MORE of these little yellow FUCKERS today then God help us all." You make an active choice to communicate only the former.
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Happy pride month specifically to folks on the asexual and aromantic spectrum who oftentimes feel isolated and left out of the conversation. You belong here as much as the rest of us and I hope that you are all loved in a way that is comforting to you.
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Forget AGAB, I'm ATKAB
Assigned Theatre Kid At Birth
#lgbtq#aromantic#asexual#aroace#lgbt#ace#aro#trans#lgbtqia#transgender#theatre#musicals#theatre kid#nobinary#nonbinary
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I want to live in a world where aromantic people and asexual people donāt have to lie to our doctors and therapists about our orientations to avoid them attempting to āfixā us, find an āunderlying causeā for who we are, or take us off necessary medications like antidepressants just in case theyāre āsuppressing our emotionsā. I want to live in a world where openly experiencing a lack of romantic and/or sexual attraction is not a barrier to receiving adequate healthcare.
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the bi/pan alliance and the aro/ace alliance in my city did the funniest possible thing for pride today
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Is it possible that the idea that this implied requirement for romance and sex comes from the idea of monogamy, though? Iām old enough that mothers still had āthe talkā with daughters before they got married. My Mum didnāt like talking about sex, but she struggled and hemmed and hawed enough to get across what she was told when she got married, and presumably what my grandmothers were told: you canāt say no to your husband when he wants sex, because it isnāt fair. Heās promised to only have sex with you for the rest of his life, so you owe him sex.
I ended up being the higher-drive partner and had an unsatisfying sex life before I discovered fanfiction, so I have mixed feelings about the idea. Specifically, I can get behind the idea that if you and another person are promising to be each otherās only sexual partners for life (or however long), it does seem like it would be the loving thing to do to make sure each person is happy with the amount and type of sex youāre giving each other. Not that sex is owed, ever. Just that if itās important to your monogamous partner, it would be kind to that partner to take their feelings into consideration.
Beyond that, I can agree that romance, sex, and sexual attraction donāt have to exist in a relationship for that relationship to be valid and beautiful and fulfilling. As long as both partners are on the same page.
Thereās also a thing that people who think theyāre being accepting do where they go āNot wanting romance is SO SAD AND LONELY! Not wanting to read romance novels is SEXIST! Not wanting a partner makes you a FREAK! Not having sex with your partner is BAD and ABUSIVE! Not feeling sexual attraction to your partner means there is SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU!⦠unless youāre aromantic or asexual, of course! Then you get a pass.��� The only acceptable reason to deviate from the amatonormative and sexnormative societal norm is to claim an identity label that exempts you. The actual thing youāre doing is still bad⦠but donāt worry itās OK for you to do it! It feels like, we havenāt actually challenged any norms at all, you just get a pass on them because you canāt help it, poor thing. If you have the capacity to feel these, you have the obligation to; you are only exempt if you claim an identity that says that you are unable to. It implies that we would if we could, but we canāt, and itās merely unfair to punish us for our shortcomings. Romance and sex are still social requirements, that hasnāt changed, we just are allowed a pass on it because we are unable to meet them. (And weāre still expected to reassure everyone that of course we recognize that their romance and sex is far more important than anything we will ever be able to have!)
I donāt want aros and aces to get special exemption from the requirement to have romance and sex and romantic attraction and sexual attraction; I want that to not be a requirement for anyone.
#aromantic#asexual#amatonormativity#monogamy though#monogamy makes it tricky for one partner to be like nah#because the other partner suffers#i suffer#this is my last monogamous relationship lol#25 years and im over it
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