Try not to take other peoples reactions personally. You never know what a person is experiencing that changes their perception. Their apathy, disinterest, nit picking, etc. is more about them than it is you. Take a deep breathe and try to move past it.
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When someone asks a followup question to your world building, sometimes they are legitimately confused (“sky whales? As in whales that fly?”) and sometimes they are eagerly on board and want to know more (“so cool! Are they still filter feeders? What do they eat?”) and sometimes they are smugly docking points from your story because cinemasins-style critiques have unquestionably polluted a lot of good faith readings of texts (“so what do they eat? Are they still filter feeders? *ding*)
If you are bad at reading tone, or don’t know the asker very well, it can be very difficult to tell those three apart. This can make a person very guarded, especially if it comes across as unsolicited critique.
I’m not saying “so if someone is rude about your questions, GET OVER IT,” but it might be prudent to check in first beforehand, and clarify what you’re asking and why, or if the creator is open to being prodded. And if they aren’t, maybe respect that. Or people might think you’re being a dick. One out of three odds is pretty significant.
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https://www.tumblr.com/hotvampireadjacent/731711141796085760
Is Kaiju Tegu ok? People get so bad with Tegu care
I’ve never cared for tegu so I don’t have enough information to comment on if something is or is not safe for them other than “please don’t leave groceries where your reptiles can reach them because reptiles don’t always choose edible to reptiles items” since that’s just a general rule of keeping any animal free-roaming in your home.
I haven’t kept up with that blog since they decided to tone police me in a very rude and condescending comment so I don’t really have much to say on the person or the lizard here.
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omgggg sorry i worded that too harshly i think but i said that from a perspective of a fellow nole fan 😭❤️ i was talking about how sinner said “he missed for 2 sets, i felt like he wasn’t feeling great” i think with having all the records and slam record it’s gonna be hard to motivate himself in the future i already predicted from last season. maybe he needs to face nadal again to really wake up that always does the trick. sorry if it came across as unkind i wasnt trying to be im too pessemistic rn because his level was unbelievably bad today 😭
lol. some fan you are if you lose faith after one bad match 🙈 yeah he did play badly today, but i wouldn't be too alarmed. he was injured going into the tournament and was sick at the start, he can't always pull off a miracle...
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Hello there day 2 of requesting can you please do a Yandere Whitebeard pirates react seeing the Black Titanic (oc crew), with like 22 teenager kids, get like new scars or injuries on their bodies every single time they would run in to each other
The Whitebeard pirates adore the Black Titanic pirates, so how would they react if they saw new visible scars and new injuries on their bodies?
Considering I haven't gotten a request from you recently, I have to assume you've sent this to me by accident, because this is most decidedly not day 2 of you requesting anything from me ^^;
My requests aren't open either, so I can't really help you.
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Are there many people in the world who are just generally unkind and don’t have the best interests of others at heart? Yes.
Will I keep assuming the best of every single person i meet until proven otherwise? ALSO YES!!!!
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I don't wanna accuse #FinancialFeminist of trying to launder the landlord economy but CNBC deciding to frame her choice to rent as a savvy business move rather than the obvious choice based on the cost of buying a home being inflated absurdly beyond belief certainly is A Choice
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