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bitchwholoveslife · 11 months
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As per usual I can't stand r/aromantic because aroallo people will make a post simply alluding to sex and literally be told in the comments to get out of the sub and take it to r/aroallo instead, like we've got yucky sex cooties or some shit. Like I get it if you're aroace and sex repulsed, but r/aromantic is not an aroace sub. Aroallo people have a place in the aro community!
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bitchwholoveslife · 11 months
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"The Good Doctor set back autism acceptance by 50 years" No, it's just showing how ablist people actually are once you get past respectability politics. People are making fun of Shaun explicitly and solely because of his less pleasant autistic traits. They say, "I support autistic people" while mocking Shaun for his monotone voice, awkwardness, lack of eye contact, meltdowns, and inappropriate reactions at inopportune times. The Good Doctor did not set back autistic acceptance, it just shows how most folks' ""acceptance"" of autism is purely for looks, and stops once an autistic person starts showing their traits instead of masking until they die.
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bitchwholoveslife · 10 months
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Being arospec is just being asked how many crushes you've had/who you've been romantically into and all that comes to mind is like two unobtainable celebrities, five fictional characters, and the 1 (one) real person you think you might have had a crush on 6 years ago
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bitchwholoveslife · 7 months
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My new neighbor is the coolest fucking person EVER.
She was asking about my haircut, and eventually said "but I couldn't get a haircut like that because I would look like a lesbian--oh no, are you a lesbian?! I didn't mean to offend you if so!" To which I flushed and freaked out a little bc I was there with my dad, our other neighbor neighbor/plug, and his wife.
But after explaining that I'm "bi" (as i put it publicly), and not offended by her lighthearted comment, the conversation recovered well. And she, a 64 year old woman in Alabama, told us about how she is asexual, and even defined it for us! It was such an amazing experience for me, as she was definitely the oldest queer person I've ever met, and I was simply floored by her level of confidence and pride in her asexual identity. It was the highlight of my day :)
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bitchwholoveslife · 10 months
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I hate capitalism because there are multiple careers that I would love to have, so many more college classes I would love to take, so much I want to do, all of which I cannot pursue for financial reasons. I hate that I can see in real time my own potential being wasted in the many sacrifices I have to make in order to stay afloat. There are so many people like me who WANT to do it all and genuinely change the world but we CAN'T because we are struggling to make ends meet.
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bitchwholoveslife · 10 months
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High as fuck tired as fuck and feeling very proud to be arospec tonight
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bitchwholoveslife · 11 months
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People try so fucking hard to upset me and misgender me when they see that I'm bigender. They send me stuff calling me female/a girl/a woman often. And it's like. Dude. I have made it very clear that girl/woman/female IS IN FACT ONE OF MY GENDERS. You aren't making me feel bad by calling me those, you're just outing yourself as a transphobe. Like, congratulations! You called the girl a girl. Wooooo. You called an afab person who literally identifies as a woman female. Wow. You're so clever.
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bitchwholoveslife · 10 months
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I will always respect the choice not to have kids but antin*talism, especially of the eugenics-y variety, makes me want to straight up kill people. I am not a bad person for wanting to have a child as an autistic person. Fuck you SO much
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bitchwholoveslife · 11 months
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My first chewelry necklace got here today and I'm so happy I could cry.
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bitchwholoveslife · 4 months
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"Would you love me if I were a worm?" I'm going to autistically chew off your limbs one by one if you yet again present me with a ridiculous hypothetical situation and then get mad at me when I don't give you the response you want
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bitchwholoveslife · 10 months
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Does your heart ever hurt a little bit when you think about how all of the fictional crushes you've had, currently have, and will ever have can never come to fruition in any meaningful sense. You'll never meet them, hold their hand, run your fingers through their hair. Never. Because they don't actually exist.
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bitchwholoveslife · 7 months
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Tbh the thing that pisses me off the most about ai art is that it really COULD have been good. Literally all they had to do was be like "Hey artists! Want to contribute you art to this project? Submit it here!" But noooooo they had to steal from people 😒
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bitchwholoveslife · 8 months
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Obligatory existentialist "What Was I Made For?" by Billie Eilish x James Webb Space Telescope photograph of II ZW 96 edit
Click for better quality bc I swear this bitch is HD
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bitchwholoveslife · 8 months
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Sooooo. Okay. Blog theme and icon changes for this blog, my main, and some others.
I discovered the term abrosexual in 2016. Since then, I have repeated gone through cycles of going, “Oh, actually I’m probably really [insert orientation]” after a long phase, and then having to realize once again that I’m abrosexual when it changes again. In the past year or perhaps more, I’ve mostly IDed as aro and omni... but, as per usual, shit changed on me again.
So. Once, and for fucking all, I am correcting my labels and flags, wiping a good portion of my blog, and changing other such things accordingly. I feel bad because I really got into the aro community for a hot minute, and now I’m feeling some romantic attraction, and it just... makes me feel like a fake? Even though I have literally no control over this.
Sigh. I just hope my few followers can understand. I still consider myself arospec, but I’m definitely abrosexual and mspec too...
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bitchwholoveslife · 10 months
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Sometimes I feel like I'm growing into a horrible amalgamation of my parents' worst traits and tbh that is so much more terrifying than the idea of just becoming one of them
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bitchwholoveslife · 11 months
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I haven't had nerve pain in my breasts in months but all of the fucking sudden it's back. Ugggggh
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