#blue-affirmations

[bluest-fluff]

When you've been traumatized in ways that made you question your worth, going through hard or stressful times in the future can make it harder for you to believe in your worth in the present. This is especially true if your present hardships activate past traumas. I'd just like to remind you that your worth is immeasurable and does not diminish even when you cannot see it. You have immense worth. You always did, and you have it still.

[noodles-and-tea]

IM OBSESSED WITH YOUR JOHNLOCK!!! 🥹🥹🥹

THE GUYS!!!

[postitforward]

Hey, y’all 👋

It is week five, our final week, of Holiday Blues. How y’all keeping? 

The holiday season can feel a lot. For those who celebrate, Christmas has come and gone, we are on the verge of a new year, and we’ve got the long winter months before us 😩 but that is why we’ve got Self-Care Sunday, and that is where we want to give you some essential time to rest and recuperate well into the new year.

For Holiday Blues this year, we have partnered with Therapy for Black Girls, who have put together some essential resources to help YOU through the winter and ensure you get the essential downtime y’all need to truly look after yourself. For this last week, the theme is Affirmations and Self-Care!

Did you take good care this year? Let’s talk about centering self-care and making more space for your mental wellness and personal growth in the new year. Join @therapyforblackgirls for tips and resources that will help you look after yourself when you need it most. 

🧘WATCH: Self-Care Sunday. Tumblr X Therapy for Black Girls: Affirmations and Self-Care. 12/31 at 1pm EST. 🧘

[byeolgirl]

HOW TO SET YOUR GOAL !

“It may take time, but I think that dreams do come true as long as you do your best.”

-Tzuyu of TWICE

Setting goals effectively involves a structured approach. Here's a simple framework to guide you:

by: byeolgirl..

1. Be Specific: Define your goals clearly and precisely. Avoid vague objectives like "get in shape" and instead specify exactly what you want to achieve, such as "lose 10 pounds in three months."

2. Prioritize: Determine which goals are most important to you based on your values, aspirations, and long-term vision. Focus your time and energy on these key objectives.

3. Break it Down: Divide large goals into smaller, more manageable tasks or milestones. This makes the process less overwhelming and allows you to track progress more effectively.

4. Set Deadlines: Assign realistic deadlines to each goal or task. Having a timeframe creates a sense of urgency and helps prevent procrastination.

5. Stay Flexible: While it's important to have a plan, be willing to adapt and adjust your goals as needed. Life is unpredictable, so staying flexible allows you to navigate challenges and seize opportunities.

6. Visualize Success: Imagine yourself achieving your goals in vivid detail. Visualization can boost motivation, increase confidence, and help clarify your path forward.

7. Track Progress: Keep track of your accomplishments and setbacks. This could involve using a journal, apps, spreadsheets, or other tools to monitor your progress over time.

8. Celebrate Milestones: Acknowledge and celebrate small victories along the way. Recognizing your progress reinforces positive habits and keeps you motivated to continue working towards your goals.

9. Stay Committed: Maintain a strong commitment to your goals, even when faced with obstacles or setbacks. Stay focused, disciplined, and resilient in pursuing what's important to you.

10. Review and Reflect: Regularly review your goals and progress. Reflect on what's working well and what needs adjustment. Use this feedback to refine your approach and stay on track towards achieving your goals.

[dumpitos]

happier days ahead…💭🫀🫂

[onyanjune]

Wdym it’s valentines already? (thanks ig artists for the reminder 💀)

Anywhoo I impulsively bought a super cute camcorder but I broke a piece off lmao. This was born out of my regret.

Thinking of men who fund your shopping habits and are terrifyingly good enablers.

The ones who gush about the product and encourage you to buy it. Just succumb to your desires already. They don’t really care about your financial worries since they’ve already had their card ready from the beginning. How dare you even entertain the thought of paying for anything.

gojo satoru ┊͙ kalim al-asim ┊͙ mikage reo ┊͙ tartaglia ajax childe ┊͙ zhongli if he was rich ┊͙ jing yuan

The ones who scoff but hand you their card anyway. They know you’re tearing yourself up internally, so just buy it already. Plus the pure joy when you get their approval is just too cute. They’re obsessed with how much you value their opinion and depend on them. They may seem cold and judgemental, but they’ll be sure to comfort you in their own way if you start regretting your decision and feel like it was a waste of money.

leona kingscholar ┊͙ vil schoenheit ┊͙ itoshi sae ┊͙ itoshi rin ┊͙ michael kaiser (he is my fav and i fear that i will include him in everything) ┊͙ morax (not zhongli since he’s broke) ┊͙ blade ┊͙ port mafia!dazai ┊͙ akutagawa

To those who have made it this far, I added some of these characters purely based on the vibes like I haven’t actively been keeping up with BSD in a while and I haven’t read Beast and stuff so… yea. Feel free to share your opinions in reblogs and stuff (〃ω〃)

[babydoll2]

𝑏𝑎𝑏𝑦 𝑏𝑙𝑢𝑒 𝑐𝑙𝑜𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑠 🪽

[dreamgirlglowup]

⋆.˚ ᡣ𐭩 .𖥔˚ 999 ⋆.˚ ᡣ𐭩 .𖥔˚

Embrace change and step into a new alignment with your soul purpose

.

dream girl glow up

[positivelypositive]

🌱

healing isn't linear...

...and sometimes the lows might overshadow the highs.

in those moments, hang in there. remember that there is a limit. nothing is endless.

not even the lows. the highs will reappear. it's just a matter of waiting it out ✨

[ayyy-imma-ninja]

Oh man I wonder how fairy moon is feeling now since he knows now that Lunar thinks he never truly cared about him and now that Lunar came to the realization he does care for him it freaked him out to the point he got sick. :(

"Like I said, this...isn't new. Sun and I have seen this before."

"Lunar will sometimes...fall back on certain thinking habits. When that happens, he...needs a lot of affirmations and reassurances."

*sighs*

"And I know it's my fault. So save it. And this whole thing wouldn't bother me so much in general, if it didn't..."

"..."

"...remind me of someone else."

[bluest-fluff]

You deserve to let go of trauma, but in the ways that work for you. If that means that you need the time and space to feel what happened to you, to voice it, to take action, then you deserve all of that. Being told to "just let it go" on someone else's timetable is invalidating. You never deserve toxic positivity - you deserve healing on the terms and timeline you need.

[artsyaxolotl]

Motivation Monday: Go at your own pace💙✨

[punkpandapatrixk]

[PPA Masterlist] [corresponding PAC]

❤️‍🩹I Just Want to be Loved ★ Concept Affirmations

❤️‍🩹4th House acceptance❤️‍🩹

The 4th House in my natal chart is the root of my identity. The soil here in this House is healthy and fertile. I am well rooted in the strengths and goodness of the signs occupying my 4th House. I am clear about my identity. I accept the lessons and challenges of my 4th House. I am confident that I can grow up well. I reach the potentiality of my 10th House in a healthy and sane manner. I fully embody the positive qualities of my 4th House – 10th House axis. I empower my 4th House root and leave an impactful 10th House legacy for all to see.

❤️‍🩹8th House transformation❤️‍🩹

The 8th House in my natal chart tells me hints of my Soulmates. My Soulmates are those who are similar to me in values and priorities. My Soulmates are powerful beings who have taken it upon themselves to transcend above all traumas dumped on them. These are powerful people; they are MY people. I attract my Soulmates both in friendship and relationship. My Soulmates and I have the greatest, most positive and helpful connections. Love is at the core of my 8th House relationships. I now transform all pain back to Love.

❤️‍🩹11th House celebration❤️‍🩹

The 11th House in my natal chart holds all of my wish fulfilment. Dreams of my material gains are realised here. My communities are the biggest supporters of my dreams and visions. It’s because I have amazing friends and confidants that I’m able to fulfil my Destiny with ease. It’s such a joyful thing to be alive and loved by those that understand me. I’m very glad of the Life I’ve had. I’m proud of the fact that I never gave up on me. It’s such a relief to have found my Soulmates and Soul Family. Never will I be alone and abandoned again. I am here, alive, and thriving. MY STORY, lives on. I am proud of what I’ve made out of myself. I celebrate, MY LIFE.

☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・.

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[befemininenow]

You were nervous of how people would potentially reject you as a trans girl, so you tried coming out first to your friend. Much to your surprise, she was supportive of you and taught a few things or two in secret on how to do basic girl things like makeup and heels. She sees you as a potential girl friend she could trust her secrets with and encourages you to come out to everyone. As much as she would like to talk about boys with you, you’re more interested in having her as your girlfriend. You’re happy being yourself around her. She is the Dawn that made you a blossoming Lily.

-I always loved this picture of two friends being happy together. I believe it was used in TG captions at some point and I could see why. They definitely look like they support each other for their differences, and it’s not just the dress.

[dumpitos]

happy mindset = happy life!