bpd + body dysmorphia culture is thinking you're not pretty enough to be mentally ill?? "you're not sick you're just weird and ugly. get on the treadmill."
scars are normal. scars are a physical proof of your body’s ability to heal. scars make it known that you’re alive. you’re marked by life. the raised scars, the keloids, the scars people stare at you for. they’re a visual map of your life & nothing more. scars have no morality scars don’t reflect on the morality of your existence. media loves to portray scars on monsters and villains and leave the heroes to be unmarred, but that narrative does not apply to real life. you’re a whole human being worthy of being seen, loved, respected.
[ID: Illustration of Wyll Ravengard from Baldur's Gate 3. He is in his devil form with horns and claws. His back is facing us and his arm is twisted as he tries to claw at his back. He looks like he is in pain and tears are in his eye that we can see. END ID]
Wyll Week Day 1 : Pact / Body Changes
I swear I won't make all these prompts sad I'll draw him happy later to make up for this
Talked with my therapist today about my gender feelings and it was so cathartic. I told her that I had been doing better because I was actively reframing how I think about womanhood, or rather how I don’t. I told her that I think gender is essentially socially constructed and that by extension so is gender dysphoria. It became so much easier to deal with my body image issues when I realized that my dysphoria was not unique, that it was body dysmorphia and should be treated as such.
The treatment for an eating disorder is not playing into your insecurities. Instead, it is accepting that there is nothing wrong with your body and that your symptoms are probably induced by other issues. Gender dysphoria is the same way. There is nothing special about it as a phenomenon. What IS unique about it is the way it’s treated. No other psychological issue is affirmed in the way that gender dysphoria is. Why is it that teen girls who starve themselves have a mental disorder, but “trans boys”/nb girls who want to remove their breasts are just suffering from dysphoria and must therefore be obliged?
The truth is that there is no difference. They are both examples of a misogynistic society imbuing girls with self image problems. And at the end of the day it is women who are trapped in a race to achieve perfection and become their “real selves,” as if your real self is not the body you were born into, but another being imprisoned inside an inadequate, imperfect female body.