#but i just KNEW IT because i'm also an infp and to be fair i don't believe the Myers Briggs is the end-all be-all of personality tests

[paranormaljones]

I KNEW IT AND NOW I'M CRYING

[ggensblog]

Hi!! I requested a matchup for your 100 followers event but tumblr must've eaten it up! I hope it's okay that I'm sending in a request again? Can I please get a general matchup for stranger things and marauders? I'm a straight female and my pronouns are she/her.

Physical description - I'm 5'9 and I have long and curly dark brown hair and brown eyes. I have a fair skin tone, I'm slim and I've got full lips and fairly large eyes. I also have these dimples that I really like! I love getting all dressed up.

Personality description - It takes me a while to feel comfortable around new people but once I do, I become really talkative and outgoing. I love helping out and I'm the therapist friend, people come to me to vent or for advice and comfort. I'm smart and ambitious; I love being the best at everything I do, but I'm deathly afraid of failure and disappointing the people I love. I'm quite the hopeless romantic and I love being in love! I adore big and small romantic gestures and I love domesticity sm!! I also daydream a lot and I can get lost in my own world for hours. I can be quite dramatic and stubborn and I tend to be withdrawn and distant at times. I get frustrated easily and I'm quietly competitive. My love languages are acts of service and quality time. I'm a ravenclaw, my mbti is infp and my enneagram is 4w3!

Hobbies/likes - I love reading, my favorite genres are poetry, Russian lit, and mysteries! I love learning about new things and knowing a little bit of everything. I adore adventures, witty and playful banter, joking around and having indepth discussions on anything and everything! I adore all forms of art and I have quite a few creative hobbies! I listen to a lot of modern/indie rock and I love watching films of all kinds.

Thank you very much!! I hope you have a lovely day ❤️

hello my dear ! thank you for your request <33 sorry it’s kind of late- hope you enjoy !

from stranger things i match you with;

eddie munson !

now *this* was a throwback ! but the thought of y’all together is just so,,, ugh i can’t explain it but it’s so good <3

- ok the domesticity ?? absolutely. like little things are so major. i.e. grocery shopping together, or taking turns picking movies to watch and what flavor the popcorn is, he loves it you seem to love it. very down to earth

- but, just because y’all are down to earth doesn’t mean there isn’t adventure. in fact, there’s a ton of it ! weekend road-trips into the city or the mountains trying to find cool places where y’all can hide out for a while <33

- y’all have so much in common it’s scary! like before y’all started dating i can imagine y’all were friends and had those moments where you like randomly said the same thing at the same time, everyone knew y’all were dating before y’all knew y’all were dating

from the marauders i match you with;

james potter !

i’m just now realizing how much i say ‘y’all’ despite having no southern origin- anyway, i feel like james and eddie are kind of similar so it made sense for them to be the two from your requested fandoms !

- james’s middle name is actually ‘romantic gestures’ so like- yeah. from just a box of chocolates and a card to fireworks spelling out your name and enchanted never-dying flowers, he knows how to woo a person

- in terms of in-depth discussions, it’s kind of hard to keep him on topic but he’s a pretty good listener in those cases.

- loves the kind of days where y’all are just lying together, maybe you’re reading out loud to him (doesn’t matter what, he loves the sound of your voice), maybe you’re chatting about your day. i feel like quality type and physical touch are james’s love languages

[be-my-wingman-anytime]

I saw your post about the top gun ships and I was wondering if I could please get one for top gun maverick? I'm a straight female, she/her and I'm 20! I'd like nsfw to be included please!

Physical description - I'm 5'9 and I have long and curly dark brown hair and brown eyes. I have a fair skin tone, I'm slim and I've got full lips and slight dark circles under my eyes. I wear glasses and I have these dimples that I really like. I dress mostly in relaxed suits, blazers and coats and I love the occasional dress or sweaters layered over a white button down!

Hobbies/likes - I love reading, my favorite genres are poetry, Russian lit, and mysteries! I love learning about new things and knowing a little bit of everything, I'm very interested in psychology, history, mythology and folklore, and fashion! I adore adventures, witty and playful banter, joking around and having indepth discussions on anything and everything! I adore all forms of art and I have quite a few creative hobbies.

Personality description - It takes me a while to feel comfortable around new people but once I do, I become really talkative and outgoing. I love helping out and I'm the therapist friend, people come to me to vent or for advice and comfort. I'm smart and ambitious; I love being the best at everything I do. I'm quite the hopeless romantic and I love being in love! I also daydream a lot and I can get lost in my own world for hours. I can be quite dramatic and stubborn and I tend to be withdrawn and distant at times. I get frustrated easily and I'm a little competitive.

I'm an infp and my enneagram is 4w3. My star sign is Taurus.

Thank you very much! I hope you have a lovely day ❤️

I ship you with….

Bob Floyd

You are within perfect kissing height for him.

That, alone, tells me you’re a perfect match!

Imagine all those forehead kisses

How, all he has to do is, is just dip his head slightly to capture your lips with his…

One swift, fluid motion.

….Puts his stealth pilot to good use -wink-

But I digress – Firstly, he fell for your brown eyes. They are deep. He spends all his time in the blue of the sky that, when he looks at you, he feels grounded on earth with those earthy tones of your eyes.

Your eyes are only emphasised by your long, gorgeous hair. Bob didn’t think he had a type. But you came along and suddenly he felt like no other appearance seemed to give him butterflies. Blonde hair? No. Blue eyes? No. Green eyes? Meh. But they weren’t your brown eyes with brown hair combo.

He noticed your eyes before he noticed your glasses (and not at all because I, the shipper, forgot you wrote you wore glasses, shipped you with Bob and then did a re-read and was like ‘Ohhhh glasses!’)

Glasses buddies through and through!

You both become the couple that breaks that normalises wearing glasses.

Yet you both don’t seem to break the stigma that nerdy people wear glasses because he’s a Top Gun Stealth Pilot who’s studying textbooks and undergoing exams etc. You’re a girl who always has her nose in a book because she either likes reading for pleasure or reading for knowledge. Extremely nerdy BUT IN A GOOD WAY! (Fellow Nerd so I’m not hating)

You’re literally the adorable nerd couple. The ones that others, who feel like no one will love them, look up to. You two set the goal.

Actually – that’s how Bob met you! Your friend stood you up at the bar, leaving you alone. But you’re smart. You bought a book with you. So yeah, here you are… in a bar, with a drink, a book, glasses, your hair down, wearing a dress (because you assumed you were going to have a nice time out).

He had watched you from a distance (not creepily). But he also saw that visible feeling he knew too well; the looking around for someone and the disappointment when you realise you’ve been stood up. Hence why you pulled your book out. You paid for a drink, you might as well sip away at it while doing something productive with your time.

Bob quietly approached you in the old-age move of buying himself another drink and, while waiting for his drink to be served, asked what you’re reading,

You’re not stupid. It’s the oldest trick in the book. Without even sparing him a glance, you stated the name of the book and the author.

To your surprise, he recommended a rare book by the same author, stating it was a good read. It’s not one of the author’s well-known works but it’s the type of book you need to give it a chance and you’ll be surprised.

You glanced up and was taken aback by his kind and humble features. You couldn’t help but match his smile, showing your dimples and making him smile more. You were the first to introduce yourself and he introduced himself back as ‘Bob’.

Simply that. Bob. No boasting that he’s the best pilot, or one of the best pilots, no lame-ass pickup lines following. Just humble Bob who seemed to share the same reading interests.

Your book left forgotten as you both conversed over 1…2…3 drinks, which loosened you up to start bantering and throwing playful remarks every now and then, making the two of you laugh and banter.

It was hours, HOURS, before you both decide to finally call it an evening.  But not without exchanging numbers. With alcohol in his system, Bob actually asked for your number!

Sweet, shy Bob… something about you just seemed to either give him an air of confidence, or perhaps he was actually desperate to get to know you.

You both never run out of conversations. There’s always something to talk about, discuss or debate (friendly debate only).

You’re also both content just being in each other’s company without conversation too. It’s a comfortable silence. Him just quietly vibing or reading a book, you off in your own world.

He gives a small nudge or rub to your arm if he needs your attention for something.

Especially if a look of concern washes over your face, especially if you’re overthinking.

You’re the therapist friend to everyone but he’s the therapist friend to you. You can talk to him about anything and everything and he’ll listen and give the most logical advice without it being biased.

You’ve introduced him to a few new books, he’s introduced you to a few knew things he’s read in the past. He doesn’t have as much time to read nowadays with his Top Gun training since he’s been picked to be part of such an elite squad. But you’re fine with that. He’s either taken it on board or he’ll ask you to fill him in and he’ll happily listen to you.

Hangs on every word you’re saying while giving you his undivided attention. Is it him being respectful or him captivated by your eyes? (Both. It’s both).

Dates with you two are a mix of adventure and romantic. Sometimes it’ll be something outdoors-y. Sometimes it’ll be something arty (like, those coffee dates where you grab a coffee together and then you paint a ceramic mug or something). Of course Bob paints a plane on his. But he gives his to you. He may or may not have tried painting a love-heart in the bottom on the inside of the mug (it came out a little wonky because manoeuvring the brush inside the mug was hard, okay?)

No date like this ever seemed silly to Bob. He loved it. And he appreciated that you didn’t hound him with pilot questions or to go for a ride in the plane (he’d get fired for it!). With you, he gets to be just Bob.

He’s your number 1 fan. He’ll support you in any endeavours you do and is always, always proud of you.

A kiss to the cheek and a whispered “I’m proud of you, darling.” Makes you melt.

He’s always adored the intelligence of your mind. And your ambitious spirit. And the way you just want to experience and learning anything and everything you can.

The pet names for Babe/Baby aren’t used. You’re both too mature for that. It feels too…teenager-y to be compared to a pig (Babe the Pig). So you’re content using ‘Darling, love, hon’ for terms of endearment.

You call him Bobby. But only you get to call him Bobby.

A little competition is good between you two. You appreciate that Bob doesn’t let you win simply for being a girl. Bob appreciates that you don’t hold back. You don’t get fiercely competitive but enough to have fun and make it interesting (mini golf etc.)

Bob is all about the sweet little moments. If he walks past you, there’s always a hand that trails over the lower back (kind of like silently saying ‘Hello. I love you.’). He always helps in the kitchen without being asked.

But it’s sweet because he doesn’t always make the first move, but he looks over and gives that little smile that tells you he really wants to do those kitchen kisses couples do in the movies, but he can’t bring himself to do it (too shy or doesn’t want to bother you).

But you know that smile and you’ll look up and smile back. When you don’t drop your gaze, he knows it’s okay to swoop in for a kiss.

Why did he kiss you? Because you’re adorable. And he loves you.

You could be doing the most mundane thing and it’d still be the most attractive thing he’s ever laid his eyes upon.

Picture this: soft evening, your head resting on the back of the couch, your feet in his lap, one hand gently rubbing your foot, the other holding open a book of poetry as he reads from it. Yes, Bob will read you poetry.

NSFW:

Bob is such a sweet and humble person, that it’ll likely be very vanilla in bed.

I wouldn’t say he’s inexperienced, but he’s just… he hasn’t been with a lot of women. And he’s very cautious with you. Doesn’t want to disappoint you or disrespect you (there’s a lot of stress for men with intimacy too!)

He always checks in with you. Makes sure it’s okay if he does this, or that.

“Is this okay?”, “Tell me to stop, okay?”

But you don’t tell him to stop.

Every soft caress of his fingers, every gentle kiss and tease of his lips and tongues has you withering with pleasure beneath him.

It’s hard to believe he’s not-as-experienced

He spends more time exploring and worshipping your body than he does with letting you do it to him.

He’s awkward.

He loves it when you run your hands over his abs, watching your reaction at how you're amazed by what he has hidden beneath his shirt. But god, does he love it when your fingers get grabby and needy and pull him down.

He loves blowjobs (who doesn’t?) but he doesn’t want to put you in a position where you feel obligated you have to give back what he gave you.

But also who doesn’t love seeing Bob lose control? That sweet, humble boy just moaning sinfully beneath your lips.

His hand lightly gripping your hair because God, isn’t that what long, curly hair is for?

The way his lips part as he lets out breathy little gasps.

You get those gasps near your ear too…

Every single time…without fail…as he sinks deep into you, he watches your face contort with pleasure. He holds back from making any noise until he cant…and that’s when he drops his head and releases a breathy gasp by your ear followed be a moan. You live for that particular moment.

Neither of you ever get tired of that feeling.

He starts of slow.

Pulling breathy gasps from both of you.

His lips hover over yours as both your gasps mingle with each other.

But when he changes pace, without warning, your moan is swept up by him kissing you so you can moan into his mouth.

You cling to him and he loves it when you bite at his shoulders or leave nail indentations around the small of his back.

It’s always romantic love-making. He rarely ever takes you in any ‘dirty’ position such as downward doggy or reverse cowgirl.

But even with his romantic love-making, it’s always rough thrusts in between. The ones that pull the odd curse from both of you.

Neither of you are known to curse but it somehow feels like it’s the only word required with the way Bob sends you over the edge.

You moaning his nickname in his ear is generally what sends him over the edge.

[marshmallowprotection]

Oh my ajdhah, may I try a matchup??

I'm a bisexual Greek girl (INFP) who loves to draw and play video games a lot! I can get into anything I like easily and even try to gather information about it as much as I can. I'm usually friendly and easy to get along with but I do have my moments where I might be kinda rude oof.

My humour is BROKEN and I WILL laugh at a lot of stuff. I tend to shower the people I like in love and give them gifts I think they'll like and offer support and encouragement. When I'm with someone I like, I tend to talk A LOT but I do have my moments where I want to spend a few hours alone to recharge my social energy (affection is still allowed yessiiiiir). I'm usually awkward and shy with someone new but once you get to know me, I'll be chaotic lmfao.

I have a very BIG imagination to the point where I feel the urge to walk around my room and imagining cool scenes in my head as I walk around and pretend I'm there as well (I'm also exercising sometimes and my school phycologist told me I might ADHD so I'm trying to get an appointment to get diagnosed!) and I tend to think about the good memories from my past and how much I miss those days. I tend to look up old shows or games I used to play and feel so nostalgic~ I even think about or go to places I used to go as a child and just stand there and think as I look around me. I tend to get emotional a lot, even at stuff like this smsm

I love animals so much and I have a cat that I will literally DIE for, he was there when I had absolutely no one and he means so much to me. I tend to shower him in affection and just hold him and even fangirl about him nearly everytime I see him smandhwj- I do that with other animals as well because they are so cool and cute!!

Sometimes my mood goes to the point where I sometimes don't think twice about the thing I'm about to say because I'm feeling intense emotions but if I hurt someone, I want to make it up to them and apologize. I'm open to communication and I'm willing to discuss a loooot of things about anything, at this point.

I'm also quite competitive and I like to challenge myself (but still have fun!!) to a lot of things! It gets me excited when I go face-to-face with my friends and sometimes other people on games and more or just completing something that looks very challenging to a lot of people! I also have anger issues which I'm trying to control skdjwhs

I also tend to be weird and do a lot of shit that other people don't really do but I usually don't mind if other's can't understand lol

I match you with...

Seven!

You're generally the kind of person that enjoys getting along with everybody. You're passionate. The type of person that could get easily carried away with anything that's on your mind. That means that not everybody understands you or gets why you do things you do. That's why when you make a bond with somebody, you know that you have to trust them to understand you in a way that nobody else has. Sometimes it feels like people are judging you for things that you can't control and it feels as though you might never find somebody who looks at you the way that you would look at them. An oddball like you need somebody that understands what it feels like to be on the outside looking in even if you're supposed to be on the inside.

Isn't that why you work perfectly with Saeyoung in the first place?

Because he is the kind of person that's on the outside looking in no matter what he does. He never imagined that he would be able to come inside and join everybody else. He always imagined that he would always be five steps away from the thing that he wanted. Even if it wasn't fair, he knew that his sacrifices were worth it. The one is with you, that's when he wants to choose to be selfish and explore the things that he told himself that he could never have. If he wants to allow himself to hear you talking all night long about something that you love, or pushing him to try something different for once. With you, he finds a rival that he's in love with who can push him to the limit of what he wants to be.

[whorediaries-09]

Happy birthday in advance!! Hope you have an amazing day and that this year brings you loads of happiness and love! My exams end on the day of your birthday so here's to hoping that we both have a fun 23rd 🤞😙

you wanted to have fun 🪶- send a request asking me to ship you with a character.

Physical description - I'm 5'9 and I have long and curly dark brown hair and brown eyes. I have a fair skin tone, I'm slim and I've got full lips and fairly large eyes. I also have these dimples that I really like!

It takes me a while to feel comfortable around new people but once I do, I become really talkative and outgoing. I love helping out and I'm the therapist friend, people come to me to vent or for advice and comfort. I'm smart and ambitious; I love being the best at everything I do. I'm quite the hopeless romantic and I love being in love! I adore big and small romantic gestures and I love domesticity sm!!

I love reading, my favorite genres are poetry, Russian lit, and mysteries! I love learning about new things and knowing a little bit of everything. I adore adventures, witty and playful banter, joking around and having indepth discussions on anything and everything! I love all forms of art and I have quite a few creative hobbies! I listen to a lot of modern/indie rock and I love watching films very much! I enjoy working out and I'm really good at tennis and badminton.

My love languages are acts of service and quality time. I'm a ravenclaw, my mbti is infp and my enneagram is 4w3!

Thank you! ❤️

hello sweetie! thank you for the wish and sending in a request! (i'm also taking my exams rn but they end on 25th 🥲) also i feel like i must ask you this, have you requested a ship on my blog before (probably for my valentine's event)? i feel like i've written a ship for either you or someone else really similar to you. let me know haha!

i ship you with remus lupin!

remus and your love is paradoxical. every time you're being affectionate to him and being so loving with him, and he thinks he's a monster and doesn't deserve your love. he thinks it's so selfish of him to 'bind' you with him. you're smothering him in love he doesn't think he doesn't deserve. but you know him better than he knew himself, and every time him tries to resist the things you do to take care of him, you scold him, because he deserves every bit of love. so, from resisting you washing his wounds from a particularly full moon to him accepting your love and affection for him, the both of you have come a long way.

remus would be lying if he said that he liked your music taste, because in reality he doesn't. it's not bad, but just something he wouldn't personally listen to. but he comes around, slowly enjoying it. mainly because he'll enjoy whatever makes you happy. he just loves you a whole lot.

remus lupin and you have in-depth conversations about books. the both of you have a similar taste in books. you have your own little "book club", which really has two members, you and him. the both of you sit down and have hours long conversations about the book either of you read over the week, and it just seems never-ending. you and him will analyze each character, breaking them down. yours and his friends know not to interact with either of you when you're discussing about a book.

you and him also have some intense conversations about other things. a few things that somehow are highly anticipated but kind of scary too. it's your idea of quality time. sometimes you'll sketch him, sometimes you'll write him poems. you see his beauty that nobody seems to see or decipher. you see him in a light nobody can see. because he's your eternal muse.

hopefully the ship didn't disappoint! have a nice day/night ahead :)!

join my celebration!

[musicallisto]

OMG ok also the name of this is so cute like?/?: (if we set aside the fact that it can kill us) ANYWAY CONGRATS MAY I PLS HAVE A ☄️ for the mcu???

idk what counts as relevant so do as you please with what you know about me and the following i consider as ‘relevant information’:

— i’m an infp which has to be my greatest shame and favorite trait MAXHFJEQ + i have a horrible sleep schedule i don’t even know where to begin anymore

— i write … detailed reviews when i ordered online and get hella mad when people rate something and don’t leave a review at all

— got a ukulele but i only know a few songs and i don’t really know the chords by names i just play it 💀

— this is bad but when i get mad or pissed i just play music that isn’t really my genre as in just anything loud idk if this is even relevant. i prefer oldies tho <3

— i’m a class and club president yay i know i said i hated it but i’m kinda liking it now HAHAHAHA i feel cool and it feels empowering when tasks get assigned to me like 😌 me? i can be trusted with this?

— random thing but in class my teacher told me (let’s call him sponge because this is a rushed codeword) that another teacher told him i had a mature voice and that i sounded like i was tall in real life and sponge said ‘only if you knew’ like?/?:?;!;&(&?8?8?8?8 to be fair i am 5’1 so i’ll let it slide but come on >:((

i’m sorry if this is long i got excited HANDHCJAKAKW

ves you are literally the most chaotic person I know on here and that is a real compliment asjcbjbbsj q i love you and also!!! whats that "if only you knew" mr.sponge huh??? shorties gang arise >:(

☄️ comet

Being class president at Midtown certainly comes with its perks. not only are you entrusted with most of the important stuff (because someone has to run things around here while everybody else is gawking at the Avengers or something), you also get to be unbearably noisy about your classmates. which is not necessarily a good thing, from a purely moral standpoint, but a girl needs her reprieve from the harsh bitterness of being a leader. Anyway, your keen eye does not lie, and it's telling you there's something weird about Peter Parker.

Which your bestest friend in the whole world MJ certainly agrees with. In between rounds of unrelentlessly teasing her about her crush on him - "why do you keep tabs on him so much? oh my god, MJ, you're obsessed with him" - and mindlessly strumming your ukulele sprawled out on your bed talking about anything and everything, you try to theorize what in the three hells your best friend's beau could really be up to.

"Maybe he's one of those Avengers." "MJ, I'm not even sure he's thrown a punch in his life."

But you have to admit the mystery is kind of thrilling. More than boring academics anyway. Especially since you have a pretty good hunch Parker's affiliated in some way with The(tm) Tony Stark, and you're set on figuring out how. And it's also during one of your ~investigating~ expeditions that you get bitten by the weirdest snake in all of Manhattan.

It's already strange enough to have a viper slithering around freely in Manhattan of all places, but to have it bite you in the ankle, unprovoked? That's just your luck these days. One second you were walking down an alleyway and the next you could barely stand on your feet from the excruciating pain, and a... bizarre thumping in your veins? MJ's frantic, she who normally does not wear anything on her sleeve, and convinced that you're going to die right there and right now, but you've actually never felt more alive. Like you could climb on the walls and take on anyone in a fight. Like you could hear every New Yorker's breaths and see the warm, reddish silhouettes of humans through the concrete walls. Like you could silently creep up to anyone, anywhere you wanted...

Oh boy. Hope this weird ass bite from a weird ass snake doesn't awake anything in you.

Hope Peter Parker's remains the only one with a whole identity to hide.

[act-addict-actors-matchups]

@anonymous said,

hello !! can i get a matchup? im a pisces, infp & a ravenclaw. i am 5'0.5 and have medium length black wavy hair and brown eyes. i like to try new things though i can be shy & hesitant sometimes. i like things to remain light-hearted but i can be serious too when required. i have a different type of persona for every person,, if im comfortable with someone i get really really talkative and bubbly. (1)

also im like super addicted to my phone,, it's hard for me to even function w/o it. im pretty much a night owl and my sleeping schedule is messed up. i really like fashion, listening to music, travelling, photography, video games & SWEETS. I don't think im very good at comforting others but im a great listener. I'm super lazy & a big procrastinator. (2)

I cannot call or text anyone at all without dying like every second unless we're close. Usually, if i don't get my space i get really annoyed. I'm really stubborn too. I don't really have a hobby except listening to music, reading manga, webnovels or drawing? im so sorry this was so long thank you tho!! (3)

✧ Thank you so much for requesting a matchup anonnie. I don’t know when you send this but I hope you’ll see this and like it. 💓

I’d match you with: . . .

➜ HOW YOU TWO FIRST MET ; You were an intern at his company. One day, while everyone else was at lunch break, you were struggling to finish the assignment you were assigned which was due tomorrow and it didn’t help you at all that the person who was supposed to help you weren’t doing their jobs at all. With a groan, you pushed yourself off your office seat and made your way to the kitchen to get yourself a cup of coffee. It looked like you were staying overtime anyway. While walking towards your destination, you heard the background music of your favorite game and stopped in your tracks. At first you thought you were imagining the sound since it’s been a while since you last played it and there was literally no one else in the building aside from you but after listening more carefully for a while you were sure that someone in the office was indeed playing your favorite game. Careful not to make any noise, you basically tiptoed to the source of the sound only to be greeted with dark blonde locks. The celebrity of the company himself, the person who earned the trust of his coworkers and superiors alike like it was nothing, the one and only Chikasagi Itaru was playing YOUR favorite game. His pink eyes, which reminded you the stone Star Ruby, was glued on the phone in his hand deep in concentration under his bangs. You didn’t even realize you were in a daze until a curse left his lips and he threw his head back in frustration. That is when Itaru noticed that you were here and saw the whole thing. Now, don’t get him wrong, normally he wouldn’t even think of gaming while he was at work but there was this rare event he absolutely had to participate and rank. His game addict instincts basically took control over his mind. With a small smile on your lips you approached him and offered to help while he was desperately trying to think of any excuse to get him out of this situation. You knew you weren’t going to participate in this event no matter how much you wanted to anyway so you might as well use your skills to help someone in need, right? After convincing him to lend you his phone, which took a lot of effort ngl, you cleared the level he was stuck on with ease and handed him his phone back with a smug grin on your face. That was the moment when you became a gaming goddess in his eyes and as a thank you, he helped you with that assignment and miraculously, you managed to finish it before the deadline and started a new friendship with the hardcore gamer.

➜ PERSONALITY COMPATIBILITY ; First of all, you two compliment each other in a “we’re so similar I get why you’re like that”-way. You two can relate to each other with pretty much everything. He also has two different personas although it’s a bit different from yours but whenever Itaru is in professional mode, he is gentle and charming like a prince who genuinely cares about others but he somewhat maintains his distance and likes to keep his private life to himself but when he’s in home mode, he is not afraid to curse and be rude who also starts to get a bit lazy and outright competitive. I feel like he’s the type of person who would procrastinate as well so i’m just imagining you two lying down and telling each other that you should get up soon but none of you actually makes an attempt to do so.Cue you two rushing to finish whatever you were supposed to do afterwards. Don’t worry about not getting any space because Itaru is not the clingy type unless he’s like, really tired from work but who wouldn’t want to cuddle with their lover time to time? Also, I feel like he can manage your stubbornness because he’s a pretty chill guy.

➜ SHARED ACTIVITIES ; Like I said before, you two are basically two peas in a pot so if you really want to you can manage to do everything together. The fact that you like video games is a big plus in the relationship. Sometimes you two just game until the sun rise on your day offs since both of you are night owls and your sleeping schedule is basically nonexistent. If you’re in need for an extra player, Itaru personally drags Banri in your gaming sessions as well so you’re also good friends with the high-spec delinquent. Of course, he will take you out from time to time on normal dates like a mall, arcade, fun fair or a expensive restaurant, but this generally happens when you’re celebrating an important day like anniversaries or birthdays. I can picture you two sitting at a bakery, enjoying whatever you’ve ordered and passionately discussing if the newly released gamer keyboard is actually worth buying or not or going to an arcade and compete to see who can get the most tickets at the end of the day. I can also picture him dropping by your house with your favorite desserts after you’ve accomplished something amazing at work. In short, you’re literally the only person he’s willing to go all out for and he wouldn’t want to have it any other way.

➜ ZODIAC COMPATIBILITY ; Itaru’s birthday is on April 24 which makes him a Taurus. The connection between a Taurus and a Pisces will be built on sheer love and adoration for each other. The earth sign and water sign are complementary to each other. They are both caretakers of those around them and will thus nurture each other, and their relationship, with immense devotion and absolute dedication. Taurus helps Pisces to stay grounded and to focus on the reality. Pisces, on the other hand, soothes the rigidity of the Taurus to unwind themselves from the constant stress of expectations. This aids the bull breathe a little lighter and infuses their with self-assurance and optimism. This relationship will survive the test of time if both parties involved have unbreakable trust in each other and nurture that connection they have painstakingly built over the years. They must remember to be honest and committed to their partner through all times. If natural communication flows between them like clockwork, this will be a beautiful love story with a prominent tag of 'happily-ever-after' pinned right to it.

[amai-no-ura]

Hi, there! Maybe-a-1 anon is back to answer your questions. Also, I dunno if this helps, but I'm an INFP. Thank you for dedicating so much time to this, by the way.

>> INFP 6 is more common than 1, but 1 core is totally possible for Fi-dom (ie, Marie Kondo, INFP 1w2). INFP 1s will have a problem of overdoing Te though, because enneagram 1 values competency a lot, hence strong push toward using Te and more rigid Fi.

I mean... Sometimes? It depends on myself and the people around me. What have I been doing lately? How am I feeling about myself? Some days I hate myself with a passion and think I'm the worst person on the planet. Like, I have anxiety attacks telling me literally that. Other days, I think I'm doing pretty well given my limited capacity to make the world a better place.

>> this is dependent stance thing, both 1 and 6 do this on daily basis.

And whether I feel like I'm better than someone depends on the person. I'm pretty sure I'm a better person than my dad, but I think my mom is a better person than me, at least in some ways. Am I a better person than, say, my coworkers? I have no idea. I know some good things I've done that they haven't, but I know some bad things I've done that they haven't, too.

>>> that's also bit general enough and can apply to everyone though.

I do have strong moral reactions about at least some issues, and I tend to stick by those gut reactions. I try to avoid black-and-white thinking, but on some issues I feel it's justified (e.g. that bigotry is wrong; it's fair to debate what CONSTITUTES bigotry, but if we can't agree on the basic principle that bigotry is wrong, I have nothing to say to you).

>> This is just high Fi, I do this to as ENFP.

But for what it's worth, I do highly value logic, consistency, and integrity. If I can come up with a good enough argument against my gut feeling, I'll change my mind (Bird model, lol). I don't want to be hypocritical, cowardly, or intellectually lazy.

>> Can you elaborate on this a little? Why do you value logic? Both 6 and 1 value logic but the motive is different.

Somewhat, yes. I believe what I believe, and if others want me to change my mind, they need to present me with new information.

>> Again, this is general enough. First, what is your first reaction when something contradicts your belief. Is it in your head or in your gut?

I won't change my mind to please someone.

>> Speaking like a true Lion primary lol.

Nobody's standards or opinions can change the truth.

>> This is Fi-Te at work, fact is fact. But where is this truth originated?

I've lost a friendship over my refusal to back down when I knew I was right, and I don't regret it.

>> Again, this is Lion primary thing. But I notice that 6s will feel bad and doubt whether they are right for a while before deciding 'nah, I'm right, it's better for me'. For gut type, we don't really care about other people all that much. And there is no doubting our judgment, often until it's too late. Like, I had a gigantic fallout with friends, I felt bad but I didn't focus on whether I was right or wrong. It's my will and I'll carry on, what I can learn is a bonus.

An ISTJ 6w5 friend of mine is different, she said if she were me, she'd feel bad leaving friends (source of stability). I only felt bad because I was powerless then. The motive is different, although it's 8 and 6 and not a good parallel to 1 and 6, but I'd say try to look where your motive is coming from - gut or head.

They couldn't present me with a logical argument for their position, and I wasn't going to act as if they had.

>> gut type (afaik) is hard to be swayed by logic. Even if they value logic themselves. How much logic affects your decision making?