Tips for writing London as a setting if you've never been there
London's a popular place to set a story! It's often imagined as sexy, cool, and suave. Whilst this is sometimes true, the thing that it predominantly is, is absolutely and entirely chaotic! So here are some aspects that you may not know about:
-Public transport is absolutely crucial to the infrastructure! Few people drive in London because of how well connected it is, and bus stops and train stations are often used as meeting points or details in directions.
-There's a LOT of crime, like, a lot. All cities have it, but London has a lot of variety. Stabbings are incredibly common (to the extent where it becomes a bit of a joke), almost everyone has a story where they've found or seen a dead body, and there are many money laundering/drug den fronts under the guise of highstreet shops (they're not well hidden).
-Despite it's chaos there's a strong code of etiquette most people hold themselves too. Some are actual rules (stand on the right side of escalators, don't queue jump) but some are simply social expectations (don't stop in the middle of the pavement, keep your bags close to your body, don't take up multiple seats.)
-A lot of tourists to the city are COMPLETELY FERAL and widely hated. They'll stand in the middle of the road, block up bridges, swing around cameras and selfie sticks in busy places, and completely ignore the social standards of polite society. People Do Not Like This. (also American tourists have a tendancy to just randomly start conversation with people? It's a bit weird and generally not done but it's not strictly a bad thing.)
-Rush hour is INSANE. We're talking almost static traffic, trains so packed that you're pressed into people on every side, buses that are so full they can't stop to let more people on. Some days it's better some days it's worse, but if you can avoid travelling at those times YOU DO.
-There are a lot of scam artists on the streets. Most major cities have these, they suck, they're aggressive, and they'll take your money! Some give you flowers and then force you to pay, some take photos of you and boost up the price to get them, there's always new ones, they're relentless, and you've gotta tell them to fuck off.
-Black cabs are not at all popular for normal people! They cater to tourists, rich people, and old people. They're great, the cab drivers are hard working and very knowledgeable, but they're also very expensive. Awful as it is, uber's cheaper if you're desperate, but buses go everywhere so it's just not really worth it.
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CAN'T RELATE
⸻ tw: rant, unrelatability, trauma, family issues
sometimes I wonder if
the trauma I hold is
even my own.
I'd hear books of stories
of pain and suffering
lingering in the
m e m o r y
of my brain that echoes
into feelings that just appear.
I'm
not
a victim
of any form of despair;
a healthy body with
decent intellect to
actually function
in a society that doesn't accept
outliers.
it's funny how I acquaint
with people who only had
problems on their shoulders
(I hear them, cursing the people around them
...I wondered if I were one of them)
I can't join every conversation
because there wasn't a place
for a boring average person
who is grateful for their life, their family,
their achievements
to join a group of
kindred spirits
who shared
their worries
their tears
their pains
(because I don't have
such things)
I lie to myself -
you must have something like them
you think of something that they understand
you realize it's futile and never joined in
(even if you badly want to - you could never join in)
because my frustrations
are nothing compared to their scars
my emotions are still bareable to breathe with
( y e t I a m c o n s t a n t l y s u f f o c a t i n g )
and guilt overwhelms me when I try to speak
" my parents are unreasonable "
(my parents and I get along just fine)
" I can't stand their unjustified behavior "
(there wasn't anything to be mad at in the first place)
" God I want to rant about it "
(I want to join in too, but my life is not like yours for you to understand and even if I try to talk- I'll end up ruining your mood. If I dare speak I'd be a thorn on the field of cotton buds blossoming in the spring. An annoying fly that buzzes around as you try to let out the frustrations you held on)
and I could only say repetitive phrases
I've always said in the past,
because I can't comfort a broken person
who seeks for someone to understand them
I can't be that person - because I'm not like that
and I just watch at the sidelines
as other people support each other, and I clap
I'm happy for them
because I knew they deserved
the love
and care
they could never have before
(but I cradle myself to sleep
knowing that nothing good comes my way)
- an average person has nothing
going for them, only a flimsy
existence that dissipates quickly
and the negative part of my brain
hopes they keep suffering. - that
they live in sorrow so I can
elevate my worth more than I could
ever imagine - thoughts my morality
despises for existing ( and I berate
myself for even thinking)
in the silence on my own;
they frolicked together
across meadows and oceans of
endless venture - and I just watch
because they never invite me
because I am not like them
because even if I'm considered a friend
I'm just a person they brought in
because I was there when a group
of people came together and
deemed each other friends
and I'm stuck alone again and again,
seeing people get closer and closer as I
stand there eternally alone - watching watching
watching watching watching their moments play out
I'm stained with envy as I could never take the chance
just wanting to be part of their world - their life story
because I'm always sick on living in my own tiny bubble
endlessly lamenting my flaws until I crack myself
down over and over again - because no one ever
notices the fool that tries to fit in - the average
wallflower listening the same tales of tragedy
same problems, same worries over and over
like a chant that just brings out my insecurities-
(I d o n t w a n t t o b e l i k e t h a t)
....
I try to find meaning in my life
because no one else could
no one knows my story
and it's funny that even I
faked being apathetic
just to not have my identity
be shattered
as I listened to another story
that will never be like mine
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