#charismatic

[femmefatalevibe]

Femme Fatale Playbook: How To Be More Charming & Charismatic

Learn To Be Comfortable In Your Own Skin: Confidence and self-awareness are two of the most magnetic traits someone can possess. Accept yourself for who you are. Don't feel ashamed of your personality, quirks, values, passions, etc. Uniqueness makes the world go round. Accepting that we're all different vs. superior/inferior to others is an important life lesson that draws others to you and makes them excited to connect with you.

Remain Interested To Become Interesting: Listen more than you speak. We have two ears and one mouth for a reason. Keep (a reasonable, non-staring amount of) eye contact. Nod and smile to acknowledge that you're actively listening to the other person as they're speaking. Ask follow-up questions. Keep your mind and questions open-ended. Become fascinated with what makes other people tick.

Learn To Speak Your Truth Without Providing Unsolicited Advice: Blindly agreeing to everything someone says sounds disingenuous and makes you appear untrustworthy. Accept that a healthy person will respect your individuality, honesty, and having your own opinions based on your personal life experiences. However, there's a difference between having an incompatible view and forcing your values or desire onto another person. If someone wants your opinion, they're likely to ask you directly for advice on a situation. If you feel the need to chime in, ask for the green light before stating your take on a situation (outside of emergencies or dangerous situations, of course).

Don't Take Yourself Too Seriously: Embrace your sense of humor (appropriately). Be playful. Operating like an emotionless robot is off-putting and makes everyone feel uncomfortable (including yourself). A subtle joke or clever comment can break the ice and relieve any social tension.

Remember Small Details; Initiate Thoughtful Follow-Ups: People feel seen and heard when you remember small details about what they say – their likes, dislikes, plans for the rest of the week, a big project at work, something going on with their family, friends, pets, etc. Actively listening to your conversation partners will allow you to remember the small details about those you speak with and makes others feel more appreciated by/connected to you. Asking how someone's trip to that new city, a casual review of a hot new local restaurant, the status of a work project, or surface-level personal matter will make you memorable and, therefore, more charming and charismatic.

[therealnorapresley]

The most handsome charismatic man that ever walked this planet

[run2yujin]

face card face bank face economy

[asgoodeasgold]

"Matthew Goode, he could play Bond, he walks into a room and there is something about him."

Ricky Gervais (co-director of Cemetery Junction with Stephen Merchant) explains (see little clip below) the difficulties of making 'charismatic' Matthew dislikable.

They had to change his character Mike Ramsey's lines to make him more horrible. Stop being so charming Matthew.

Also, that smile abd those wild curls! A young Bob. Never mind he is a rotter.

📷 Cemetery Junction (2010) my edits. Footage is from bluray bonus features.

[vertigoartgore]

2006's Hellblazer #225 beautiful cover by Lee Bermejo.

[swmeltem]

Leader🤌

[dndtreasury]

Gentleman's Guard by Dragons & Stories

[noovva]

ENGİN AKYÜREK | UMUT

Movie: Bir Aşk İki Hayat / Two Life One Love 🍃

[transparentdreamruins]

[gramarobin]

Emotional manipulation. I said what I said.

[femmefatalevibe]

What does it mean to speak less when trying to seduce someone’. Can you provide a conference example of how it would look like? How should one act etc?

Hi love! I would say that this concept boils down to two main principles: Not offering any more information about yourself than absolutely necessary to continue the conversation (nothing too personal, keep it light), and remaining interested to be interesting.

Regarding not offering any more information about yourself than absolutely necessary to continue the conversation (nothing too personal, keep it light):

Keep the conversation on a more surface level; avoid any sensitive topics or emotionally-charged topics (like a breakup, toxic ex, strained family relationship, financial struggles, workplace drama, or job/career difficulties)

Focus on conversational topics you would pitch to a magazine, post on social media, or take a quiz on vs. something that would be better saved for a close friend chat or therapy session

On remaining interested to be interesting:

Ask questions before sharing information about yourself. Initiate a conversation with a question. Ask relevant follow-up questions as a response vs. offering to disclose an anecdote or personal information about yourself

Use their answers or shared stories as a way to frame your reply. Volley the conversation back to your conversation partner by paraphrasing what they just said to you to show that you were listening and sought to understand what they were saying. After paraphrasing, ask another question that dives deeper into an aspect of their shared story, opinion, recollection of an event, etc. As an example, if they were telling you about a work presentation, ask about how they felt before, after, or during, what it was about, why the presentation mattered, what their colleagues and bosses thought, the next steps, where it was held, what they had for lunch after, etc.

Hope this helps xx

[thisindividual]

I just want to hug him. I should've hugged him. We were really close in proximity. Just, too many ppl.

He waited for me bc I was "alone" this time. This guy leaves after lecture once it's done. Literally, my guy is Lightning McQueen once he hears "dismissed".

The one time I am by myself, he lingers until he catches up with me in the hallway.

This was the last confirmatory hunch. I thought I was delulu, but trust ur intuition.

He likes me.

[sunmiyane]

Sides of Jieun that leave me melting on asphalt on snowy days:

1. Handsome/Charismatic Jieun 🆒️🆒️🆒️

[thingsdavidlikes]

The Actress by Roberto Pazzi

[virgovirgo]

@virgomoon putting me on...

[swmeltem]

Most charismatic man in the world🫣