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redysetdare · 11 months

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Ig one of the reason I fear that an identity i may or may not have could be tied to trauma I've experiences is the fact that everyone saying you can heal from trauma. if i identify as something but it is tied to my trauma, then if i heal from my trauma what do I do? Do i lose that identity? do I find myself lost and alone again with no one who understands my experience? if I still have the identity even after I've "healed" then have i really healed at all?

#text #trauma #contimplating if I'm loveless aro or not #or if i feel any forms of attraction #or even if my low-empathy is caused by my trauma #so much of how i view love and my emotions got fucked up because of trauma #i hate this #i hate not knowing #i hate the idea that i could join a community and then be wrong or get 'fixed' and then be alone #i feel so alone right now #i want people who understand but idk how to open up about that.#im so bad at this

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