#cyber bullying

[shsl-fujoshi]

Hey. There's something I think a lot of my friends need to hear.

When someone online does something, or expresses an opinion that makes you feel uncomfortable, upset, or unsafe, it is normal and okay to want to talk about those feelings and tell people what happened.

It's totally normal to get that off your chest. its normal to tell someone close to you. It's normal to gossip about it with your friends.

Its good to express yourself when you're feeling uncomfortable and unsafe!

But expressing those feelings doesn't have to take the form of a moral crusade.

You don't have to be "spreading awareness" or "calling out" someone when you express the feeling that that person made you feel uncomfortable or unsafe.

There's no benefit to turning those feelings into a crusade, because ultimately, while your feelings are valid, mass harassment campaigns are always a negative.

You don't have to keep your feelings to yourself or hide it when you're feeling hurt or scared by another user.

But don't feel like you need to turn those feelings into a crusade against them in order to feel justified in expressing your upset.

[virmochi]

For the roleplay committee on Tumblr

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Enough with the pathetic targeting of roleplayers on Tumblr! It's downright despicable, especially given that the majority of these creative individuals are minors. Get a grip on reality and find something better to do with your time than spewing disrespect.

LISTEN UP, if I catch wind of any more of these toxic comments, I'll make it my mission to unearth your sorry identity and ensure your account is obliterated. Consider this a warning – back off and let people enjoy their space without your mindless aggression. The consequences will be swift and severe.

To those who have been hurt by the senseless targeting on Tumblr, I offer my sincere apologies. Remember, it's not a crime to pursue your passions, including roleplaying. Don't let the negativity of others dictate what brings you joy. Do what you love, stay true to yourself, and embrace your interests without reservation. Your well-being matters, and there are supportive communities out there who appreciate and respect your creative endeavors. Keep shining and doing what makes you happy. 💙

IF YOU SEE ONE OF THESE ASSHOLES TAUNTIN' OTHER ROLEPLAYERS, TELL THEM TO FUCK OFF!

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SPREAD THE WORD!

#PROTECT TUMBLR ROLEPLAYERS

[221bluescarf]

I just don't understand some people

By far I'm not the only one

An online friend of mine who has schizoaffective received a note at his home telling him "I'm watching you". I've seen the note. it's suspected to be a neighbor.

It just makes no sense

it's hard enough to know what's real. Now we have to worry about people purposely triggering paranoia because why?

is it funny?

Maybe we can overlook the troll messages. But some people are worse than that —more sinister even. They use our illness against us, manipulate us, "gaslight" us. I've seen it many times. I have stories.

I think it's wrong to bully or manipulate *anyone* with *any* mental illness. But with schizophrenia in particular we already struggle to know what's real, to know what's true and what's paranoia, struggle to remember correctly, to think clearly… It's totally unfair and hateful to take advantage of that.

I hope none of you have to experience this behavior, but if you do you're not alone... in a good way <3

[gwydionmisha]

CW: Suicide

[sophieinwonderland]

A new hate blog is on the scene: Meet @no-context-endogenics

The DNI is rich when your whole blog is dedicated to witch-hunting and calling out endogenic systems by name. But let's see if this blog is even living up to its own name.

Here's the first post on their blog:

First... literally have no idea what's wrong with this. But second... Let's take a quick look at the pinned of this system they targeted.

Literally a traumagenic system.

IN THE FIRST POST OF THIS BLOG!

To be fair, they did post to the endogenic tags, but a lot of pro-endo traumagenic systems do when users like this make them feel unsafe in traumagenic spaces.

Right... which is why you posted the previous traumagenic system on your no-context-endogenics blog that claims to be about posting endos! 🙄

Also, I can't tell... are you lumping in mixed origin systems with "endos" here? It seems like you are, because the blog has a tendency of posting mixed origin systems too when it claims to be posting endos, as well as ones that just don't state their origins. Because many mixed origin systems do, in fact, have a disorder and are very public about it.

For example...

Mixed origin, polyfragmented DID system.

(Also, runs some of the coolest and most important plural blogs on Tumblr.)

Another post on this blog, which I'm not including here, was from a 14-year-old polyfragmented c-DID system. That system didn't say if they were endogenic or traumagenic, but I think it's safe to assume that they were most likely at least partially traumagenic.

And no, I think systems that harm the community definitely deserve hate. People who are out there calling out systems, fakeclaiming them, implicitly fakeclaiming trauma, bullying, etc.

But systems who are just existing as endogenic... sorry... we aren't your scapegoat.

I generally try to be nice with these. At least relatively.

But I'm going to fail this time.

You. Are. Pathetic.

All of you.

Endogenic systems have NOTHING to do with why systems are fakeclaimed. Do you want to know why systems are fakeclaimed? It's because systems... are weird. We are. We're a step too far from the norm and the average neurotypical singlet can't comprehend multiple existing in the same body together.

That makes us easy targets. And we should be standing together. We should be supporting each other.

But people like you are only interested in tearing us down because you're too cowardly to put the blame for your fakeclaiming on the actual fakeclaimers.

You want to talk about ruining the community, but you fakeclaim other systems. You hurt other systems. Including traumagenic DID systems. Because you're miserable and you have to inflict your misery on others to make yourselves feel better.

Have you ever been to Fakedisordercringe?

Because let me tell you, the people who get fakeclaimed there aren't usually fakeclaimed for being endogenic. Yes, of course they're anti-endo. But many who are targeted are traumagenic DID systems and it has nothing to do with endogenics at all.

Although... I guess that also applies to the @no-context-endogenics too, doesn't it? I mean, out of every post there, I think this might be the only one that's actually purely endogenic. (Not mixed origins, unknown or explicitly traumagenic.) Most of the blog is just Fakedisordercringe-style posts targeted at trauamagenic DID systems.

Minor bodied? Minor bodied with over 200 headmates? Using the word "headmates?" OSDD-1b? Fictive heavy? Undertale fictives?

The cringe subreddits would gobble you all up in a heartbeat.

And you know what the most incredible part of this is???

You're supporting them!

You give them the moral justification they need. You support this ridiculous narrative that there are these groups who are causing DID to not be taken seriously by... existing... often, in the case of most endogenic systems, not even claiming to have a disorder in the first place. Just... being plural.

And you give the okay for these singlets to feel morally justified in attacking and fakeclaiming systems just like your own.

You are EVERYTHING wrong with the system community.

You're the reason systems fear expressing themselves online or in public. The reason fakeclaiming is so rampant. You contribute to this toxic environment of fear and paranoia in system spaces.

You're not defending the system community.

YOU ARE THE ONES RUINING THIS COMMUNITY!

You're just a bunch of cyberbullies.

And the same goes for anybody supporting you too.

(And before anybody takes issue with me posting this when two of the bullies acting as admins for the blog are minor-bodied, I'm just going to remind you again that another one of their posts which I didn't share here targeted a 14-year-old polyfragmented DID system, so I really don't care about the ages of the bullies in the slightest.)

[wolfiemozart1787]

Thank you SO much

Hey, I just wanted to say to everyone who’s supporting me in this very unfortunate and just plain shitty thing that’s happening on AO3 - thank you. I really do appreciate it. AND just for those who have absolutely no idea what’s going on, I’ll explain it.

So, basically around three weeks ago I wrote and posted a smut fic on AO3 about two characters from Jackson’s Diary (if you don’t know what it is, it’s a Webtoon) and I immediately received an ENORMOUS amount of backlash, due to the fact the one of the characters was 17 - ergo, underage. I thought “well, that’s a reasonable thing to get titchy about”, so I re-tagged the work and stated in the A/N that the specific character was aged up a couple months, just to smoothen everything out. But, SURPRISE, it didn’t work. I started getting more backlash, which then turned into hate. It just kept coming and coming. At this point I was like “Jesus, how does one short fic cause all this?”. Then I received several requests (actually no, orders) to take the work down. Now, I’m new to writing fanfiction. I’ve been into reading it for maybe 4 years now, but I’ve only just started publishing works and this is the first fandom that I’ve officially joined, and I didn’t know that specific people had power over what I can and can’t write, sooo...yeah. But then, things took a turn.

I was scrolling through the fandom one day when I found a post titled “Please stop”. I was curious and clicked on it, only to find that it wasn’t an actual fanfic but a call-out post, telling all the people (aka me) who post smut fics (I literally posted ONE) to stop because it’s a.) disgusting, b.) is a basic representation of pedophilia and c.) is basically child p*rnography. Now I was astonished at these accusations. I aged up ONE character by a couple months, now I’m being called a pedophile? I explained that I myself am a minor, even younger than the underaged character, but of course that didn’t change anything. I tried to explain politely in the comments section that I didn’t mean anybody any harm whatsoever, and I was then harassed (and that’s not an overstatement) by several people, being told to take it down. So, my naive little brain couldn’t take it anymore so I took the work down. I then posted an apology. Now the reason I did this was not because I regretted writing the work, no no, it was just to stop all the goddamn disgusting comments about me. But it turns out I’d only added fuel to the fire.

I started receiving even more vile comments, some including death threats, others untruthful accusations about how I was a groomer or a child sexual abuser, others just calling me the most disgusting person alive. This had a serious effect on my mental health. I’m naturally a very happy person. I love making people laugh. I love making people smile and feel good about themselves, but now I felt like shit! I felt like I was all the things people were calling me. I was told to kill myself because everyone hated me. I don’t think there was a single supportive or positive comment on that post. I left it up for ages, until one day I came across a comment (from the same person who posted the “Please stop” fic) talking about a TikTok video about it. And I thought...”oh no”.

I IMMEDIATELY got my ass over to TikTok and saw the video, and...let’s just say I didn’t take it well. The comments were...unexplainable. Calling me the most vile words a person can be called. Accusing me of pedophilia, for the thousandth time! So many comments...horrible things said by people who don’t even know me! Judgement of my character, of my virtues, and they just kept coming. Then there was ANOTHER post by the same account, which then brought in MORE hurtful comments. By then I’d had enough. I had a full-on mental breakdown, trashing literally everything. Then anxiety started. I’m still in school, and I kept thinking “what if somebody at my school knows I did this?”. I started becoming anxious all the time, and it was all I thought about. Until somebody actually supported me and posted about the whole thing on Tumblr, which brought in SO many wonderful people! And I’ve tried explaining it to people on TikTok and AO3, but nobody will listen. But here I know people will listen. I’m sorry for sharing my whole boring story with you all, and by the way, it’s still ongoing so if you want to go have a look, it’s still up on AO3 with more comments every day!

But yeah, I just wanted to say that I really appreciate all my supporters in this difficult time, you really do make my day.

[kaiserrreich]

My take on recent events pt1

So recently, yesterday, my friend Claudia (@kkukolka, now @anastyaaaaa) was banned and left Tumblr. Due to the mass/false reporting and constant harassment from one blog, @kinggeorgev-queenmary (former windsormob, king-george-v-queen-mary, BelaDJ1 and other accounts)

She has harassed us through intimidating tactics such as malicious anonymous asks and DMS in excess, and in the case of Claudia, reporting. And after this, I will no longer sit in silence while you try to put down my friends over petty drama because we won't validate your obsession with a dead man.

False reporting:

Why did you report this Windsormob? Is it because you were upset that you're being held accountable for your actions. Is it okay to falsely report until I do it? Then I'm a "stalker bully." Mhmm 'kay.

Asks

Why are you dragging me, anonymously because of my interests? The first two, you went into @kkukolka 's inbox after blocking her to say all of that? Are you really that bothered and obsessed?

A recent one:

DMs and other messages

Using her main account

Part 2 will be coming soon since I've used up my image limit lol

@foreverinthepagesofhistoryy

@leonisandmurex

@queenalexandraofdenmark

@ladylucie

@victoriademedici

pt2

pt3

pt4

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video

@staff

[roselyn-writing]

TW: toxicity and toxic people/Cyber harassment.

My friend showed me the pic, But I’m not going to show it! Also: I changed the account name for a reason!

I never wanted to talk about this but enough is enough. I even ignored them for a while because they aren’t worth it, but enough is enough, First I don’t copy people's ideas that’s a first! Then second that person claimed they gave me gifts, etc, well, here is the deal I never asked them to draw for me but they did and I also drew for them, I was nice to them, I gave them ideas to draw and helped them when they were sad. Then they and their friends kept talking behind my back and guess what? They claimed I was the ‘copycat’ they kept talking in their own language too! They framed me for stealing their fics and ideas! What a bunch of sickos and toxic people, I blocked them and they started to spread lies and etc, I’m not going to mention any names because I don’t want to make them famous. That’s all for today! Thanks for listening ❤️❤️❤️. Also; I don’t block people for no reason at all. When I do, then there is something serious behind it.

[queen-d33]

My likes- humiliating men especially on cam! Just do what I say and be mesmerized by my voice while I watch you and laugh at your worthless self

Dislikes- men, so useless!!!!

[shsl-fujoshi]

When you talk about expressing discomfort/dislike about someone without turning it into a moral crusade, how do you mean? Do you mean keeping it private, not putting their name on it, asking followers not to bother them, what?

Don't use phrases like "call out", "spread awareness", "want people to know", "share this", "tell people to block."

Use phrases that relate to your personal feelings.

"I found out that (information) and I'm really uncomfortable and upset about it so I blocked them."

"I found out that (information) and I could use some reassurance right now."

"it turns out that (information) so I won't be following them or reblogging their posts any more."

and if you want to be extra considerate, have these conversations in private instead of in public.

Don't tag posts with fandoms involved.

Make posts about these things unrebloggable.

Talk about the event in discord servers instead of in public tumblr posts.

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[a-star-is-here]

Y’all another PSA

Cersei is back and impersonating @1shadowhole again, please report @/1shadowwhole(two “w”s)

[jjongolese]

this is my first petition, and i’m pretty hopeful that people may see it and reply- (i’m sorry if i’m not too literate — english is not my strong suit)

(cw // content mentions dec 18th, mentions of suicide and cyber bullying)

[sl4tc4lt27]

Shit going on in the COD cosplayers community on tiktok makes me not wanna engage in the contents anymore.

I really dislike people jumping to conclusions without ACTUAL proof, or with small screenshots from UNRELIABLE sources, making videos and more videos about the situation like a know it all. Big cosplayers on the paltfom sending followers to harass and bully the person being accused, saying shit like "i never liked him anyway", "he was too arrogant" "he was too full of himself"... so people can't be confident and outgoing now???

It's crazy.... this kind of shit that made me not want to participate in the KPOP community a few years back. And now this lead to a person harming themselves bc they didn't see a way out of this.

I'll say the same thing i commented on a creators post about this... I think the lesson to take here is: don't get involved if you're not PERSONALLY in the situation or if no one ASKED for you to get involved.

Don't jump to conclusions and "address" some topics just bc you're part of the community, serious and CRIME (like accusing someone of being a pedophile on the platform) related things should be going to authorities, not tiktok "reporters" who have a bunch of impulsive children dying to take their side on things cause they're a fan.

Please let's be more mature in the future. This is serious. Let's have emotional responsibility! We are talking about real people's lives here.

Do better.

[foreverinthepagesofhistory]

Hello everyone. I’m sorry that this had to come down to me making a post about this terrible subject. I’m here today to address the cyber bullying that has befallen the royal fandom. Me and @abigaaal and @katjaa (deactivated) have been notoriously harassed by @krasivaa and @goofie-light.

First let me explain about @krasivaa, or as she’s more commonly known, Divna. It first started as a friendship between me, @katjaa and Divna, then @abigaaal joined our little trio. Before long @katjaa messaged me and told me that Divna was repeatedly harassing her and was calling her mean and vile insults. She was also body shaming her and sending her cruel asks from different accounts. This got so bad that she had to deactivate her tumblr account. Divna was still my “friend” and I didn’t understand the full extent of @katjaa’s situation until she started repeatedly lying to me and manipulating me. She was always telling me that I could’ve done this better or that I was “fake”. I still wanted to be friends with her until she messaged me in one long message that my so called actions and posts were hurting her and others. She spread lies about me to @abigaaal and shen she called me horrible names in the chat. I was very shocked at this and confronted her about her actions to @katjaa. She then started angrily telling me that I was a liar and started swearing at me in a horrible way. I then spontaneously blocked her and tried to repair ways with @abigaaal and others including @queenalexandraofdenmark and @duchessofvolterra. They did not know why me and Divna got into a fight and definitely did not know the full situation so there was a lot of explaining to do. We all repaired ways but then @abigaaal repeatedly messaged me over time that Divna was doing mean stuff and saying terrible things. She was also manipulating her to do what she wanted. This FINALLY came to an end when @abigaaal posted this post confronting Divna and Jade who I will explain right now.

I first heard of Jade (aka @goofie-light and @rewrite-starsss) when @abigaaal messaged me saying that she was Divna’s irl friend. She sent me various messages of Jade body shaming her and was horrifically bullying her. Then I saw @abigaaal’s recent post showing EVEN MORE disgusting screenshots. I knew that this bullying was bad but I didn’t know the full extent of it. Then this morning I received this message from Jade:

What she is saying here is OBVIOUSLY a lie and I immediately blocked her after telling her to go to hell. I also reported her for cyber bullying and harassment. (also idk why it says we are mutuals bc we aren’t)

If ANYONE and I mean ANYONE is experiencing cyber bullying, PLEASE report the blog or tell someone who can help. It is important that this stops and that everyone is okay and away from this shit. Also PLEASE watch out for Divna and Jade. They are manipulative people who deserve to be brought to justice.

Thank you for listening.

[princesscupnika]

Shadow banned for speaking my truth that I never sold to any of these people

@instagram @staff @staff my Instagram is: St0rm.cloud

That person is a killer and will let me die in silence while stealing my life and ripping it apart you will be an accomplice to MURDER

I am begging pubically for order of protection and look what they did to my page

They took down anqelradi0 and shadobanned me on Instagram with a major bug on my app

My page that proves my innocence and shows that I was bullied for 3 years for

Everytime I speak my truth and file reports the shadowban me

[traumatizedjaguar]

Some people won’t let you explain yourself and all they’re doing is looking for arguments that’s what bullies do. Ignore people.

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