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verymarykate 6 months
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a counter agent sets you up with your next rental boyfriend 馃殫
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im-secretly-a-frog 2 months
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I'm freaking out again...
So I've got a crush on one of my friends again, and I think they might actually like me back?? One of our mutual friends keeps telling me that they do, but I'm not sure. I'm just gonna dump my thoughts here, and if anyone can help me, please do.
Evidence that they do like me:
They held my hand when I asked them to (Ikr, I was so bold) and didn't let go until we got back to class
They used my thigh as a pillow?? Idk if this counts but I'm still putting it here.
They get really flustered when we joke-flirt but don't ask me to stop.
They "curled up into a ball of embarrassment" when asked if they liked me. I was not in the room, but this was via a trusted friend.
They let me rest my head on their shoulder and almost fall asleep using them as a pillow.
My friend says that they like me.
Idk how valid most of these are, but anyway.
Evidence that they do NOT like me:
most of these could be platonic
They didn't say no when asked if they liked me, but they also didn't say yes.
they get embarrassed about everything.
Guys, please help Idk what I'm doing and I'm scared of messing our friendship up.
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stagesofbalding 6 months
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Would You Date a Bald Guy?
Dating preferences vary from person to person, and while some women may have a preference for men with hair, there are many who find baldness attractive. Here are some reasons why women might be interested in dating a bald guy:
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healthfor 3 months
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Embrace the journey of dating with an open heart, discovering shared laughter, genuine connections, and the beauty of getting to know someone special. May your path be filled with exciting moments and the joy of building meaningful connections
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Relationship Advice from a Single Person pt 2945: If your beloved/lover does not love the moon as much as they love you, dump them. It's a red flag. This also goes for sunshine, poetry, art, music, books, sunsets, flowers, starlight etc.
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datingtip4men 5 months
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Kissing Advice
I'm sure you are familiar with that awkward moment at the end of a date when you're not sure on how to go about getting a kiss. First of all, it's very important to know that some women have a rule that they don't kiss on the first date. I don't agree with this rule and think a kiss would be a nice way to end a date. But, you must play by and respect her rules.
Sometimes you can just tell by the chemistry between you that you are going to kiss at the end of the date, if not before. Other times you will have to use your own judgment and read her body language.
If you start to kiss her lips and she turns away, offers her cheek, or offers to give you a hug instead, don't take it personally. She may not feel comfortable enough with you to kiss you. She may have the no kissing on the first date rule, she may have a cold, or she just may not feel any attraction towards you.
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Lastly, don't try to force a kiss. This will only piss her off. And she may not even want to date you again because you did not respect her wishes of not wanting to be kissed for whatever reason.
In closing, I hope you don't hold it against a woman if she will not kiss you at the end of your first date. There will be plenty of time for kissing and intimacy on later dates once you get to know each other and establish some physical chemistry.
It's really sad that some guys won't ask a girl out again if she won't give him a kiss at the end of the first date. Give romance a chance! Don't give up so early in the game! First dates are normally just for getting to know each other and not for intimacy. There are exceptions to the rule (one-night stands and sex on the first date comes to mind).
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馃ぉ Date night
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grofektop10 6 months
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Top 10 Modern Dating Rules Everyone Should Follow
Introduction: In today's fast-paced and ever-evolving dating landscape, it's important to adapt to the changing times. Modern dating has its own set of rules that can help navigate the complexities of finding love in the digital age. Whether you're new to the dating scene or a seasoned dater, here are ten modern dating rules that everyone should follow.
Be Authentic: Honesty and authenticity are crucial in modern dating. Be yourself and present your true self to potential partners. Pretending to be someone you're not will only lead to disappointment and misunderstandings down the line.
Communication is Key: Clear and open communication is vital in any relationship. Be upfront about your intentions, expectations, and boundaries. Effective communication helps build trust and ensures both parties are on the same page.
Respect Boundaries: Respecting personal boundaries is essential in modern dating. Everyone has different comfort levels, so it's important to listen and respect each other's boundaries. Consent and mutual agreement should always be a priority.
Embrace Online Dating: With the rise of technology, online dating has become increasingly popular. Embrace the opportunities it offers, but also exercise caution. Use reputable dating platforms, be mindful of your personal information, and meet in public places for initial meetings.
Take It Slow: In the age of instant gratification, it's important to take things slow. Rushing into a relationship can lead to misunderstandings and unrealistic expectations. Allow the connection to develop naturally and give each other time to get to know one another.
Be Mindful of Ghosting: Ghosting, the act of suddenly cutting off all communication without explanation, has unfortunately become prevalent in modern dating. Avoid this behavior and be respectful by providing closure if you're no longer interested. Treat others as you would like to be treated.
Practice Active Listening: Listening is a vital skill in any relationship. Show genuine interest in your partner's thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Practice active listening by giving your full attention, asking follow-up questions, and showing empathy.
Embrace Equality: Modern dating is all about equality. Both partners should contribute equally to the relationship, whether it's planning dates, initiating conversations, or making decisions. Avoid traditional gender roles and embrace a partnership based on mutual respect and shared responsibilities.
Prioritize Self-Care: Taking care of yourself is crucial in modern dating. Prioritize self-care and ensure you're in a healthy emotional and mental state before entering a relationship. Set boundaries, engage in activities you enjoy, and maintain a support system outside of your romantic relationships.
Have Realistic Expectations: It's important to have realistic expectations when it comes to dating. Understand that no one is perfect, and relationships require effort and compromise. Don't expect someone to fulfill all your needs or complete you. Instead, focus on building a healthy and fulfilling connection.
Conclusion: Modern dating can be both exciting and challenging. By following these ten modern dating rules, you can navigate the dating world with confidence and increase your chances of finding a meaningful and fulfilling relationship. Remember to be authentic, communicate openly, and respect boundaries. Embrace the opportunities that online dating offers, but also take it slow and practice active listening. Prioritize self-care and have realistic expectations. By following these guidelines, you'll be well on your way to successful modern dating.
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emilycutiesblog 2 years
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Am bored 馃槓 I need someone now
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pinkpuff25 7 months
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The Secret Sauce to Sustaining His Interest in You
1. Maintain Independence: Continue to prioritize your personal interests, hobbies, and friendships. Show that your world doesn't revolve solely around him, which can make you more intriguing and attractive.
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2. Communication Balance: Strike a balance between being responsive and giving him space. Being attentive and engaged in conversation is important, but avoid overwhelming him with constant messages or calls.
3. Mystery and Intrigue: Don't reveal everything about yourself too quickly. Leave some aspects of your life and personality for him to discover over time. This can create a sense of mystery that keeps his interest alive.
4. Be Confident: Confidence is attractive. Believe in yourself, your worth, and your value in the relationship. Confidence can make you more appealing and assertive, which can be very attractive to a potential partner.
Most of all:
Love yourself first
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laurensliminalspace 1 year
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Beginner鈥檚 guide to wlw dating
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If you鈥檙e a woman who鈥檚 never tried dating the same sex before, the wlw (women-loving-women) dating scene can be really intimidating. I know when I first deconstructed my old, conservative religious beliefs and opened up my dating apps to women, it was pretty nerve-wracking! I was excited and curious, but I really had no idea what I was doing. It took me a while to find my feet, so be patient with yourself. There鈥檚 no need to rush!
Dating men can often seem much more straightforward, especially at the start, because the gender roles are more clearly laid out - so it鈥檚 easier to know what鈥檚 expected.聽Men are still largely expected to ask women out and take the initiative, so as women we don鈥檛 have to stick our neck out and risk rejection as much.聽Not to mention men are generally far less selective than women, at least in the initial stages of matching online and going on dates. Finding casual sex with a man is typically much easier and quicker than finding casual sex with a woman, as well.
That said, there are many advantages to dating women. Women are far less likely to slut shame or devalue another woman for having sex early on, and engaging in casual or ethically non-monogamous/polyamorous relationships. Casual sex with women is typically safer as well - there鈥檚 less risk of assault, catching STIs, and no risk of pregnancy.聽Taking initiative with a man might be seen as desperate or too masculine, while taking initiative with a woman is more likely to be seen as confident and assertive.
If you鈥檙e feeling overwhelmed and need some guidance, here are some tips to get you started!
1. Don't be afraid to take the initiative. Many women won't make the first move, so you'll probably have to ask them out and initiate physically. I generally find the rule of three is a good rule of thumb - ask someone out on a date three times, then step back to see if the other person reciprocates.
This can be helpful when asking questions on apps during the texting stage too. Try asking questions three times in a row, then pause to see if the other person asks you anything. While people have different conversational styles - and some people don't like asking lots of questions - it can give you an idea of whether the person is curious and interested in you.
2. Women tend to be more subtle and cautious when flirting too, so it may be harder to detect. If you meet a woman in public, it鈥檚 likely she will just assume you鈥檙e straight, unless you meet at a LGBT-themed event or dress in a way to make it really obvious you are into women (e.g. wearing pride themed accessories).聽
If in doubt, be direct, as most people have a hard time detecting flirting accurately anyway. Not to mention, many people just flirt for fun and for an ego boost, so it鈥檚 best to communicate clearly and openly if you are genuinely interested.
3. Don鈥檛 be afraid to ask direct questions like, what are you looking for on here? Also don鈥檛 be afraid to ask if the person is single or married, and whether they are seeking a monogamous or ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationship. There鈥檚 a fairly high number of unicorn hunters in the wlw dating pool - couples seeking women for MFF threesomes or triads - so it鈥檚 important to screen them out if it鈥檚 not your thing.
Also, stay alert for people catfishing. If you鈥檙e unsure, insist on a voice or video chat before meeting in person. Make sure you meet in a safe, public place, and let someone know where and when you are going.聽
4. You won't get as many likes and matches from women as men, so don't take it personally. It doesn鈥檛 mean you鈥檙e unattractive or undesirable! There's way more men on apps than women, and men are far less picky as a rule (at least when it comes to having sex - men may be more choosy when it comes to commitment and marriage). Not to mention, statistically LGBT women are a small minority compared to cishet men.聽
5. I recommend the dating apps HER and LEX to start off with, if you're looking for LGBT-specific apps. However, plenty of lesbian, bi and queer women also use the mainstream apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and OkCupid. As well as that, there鈥檚 a few subreddits specifically aimed at LGBT women, including r/lesbianr4r and r/l4l and r/meetLGBT.
6. Try attending local LGBT-themed events and meetups. You could start with Meetup.com, but I find a large number of local events are primarily advertised via Facebook. I would recommend joining local LGBT Facebook groups to find out more about social activities in your area. Volunteering can be a great way to get to know new people as well, so check out any local volunteer opportunities.
Further Resources:
It can be helpful to familiarise yourself with common slang in the LGBT community. The HER app website has a great glossary here:聽The Official Lesbian Slang Glossary from HER
I'd recommend this website for some great resources - if you scroll down to the bottom of the page, you can find some free video classes and workshops: Conscious Girlfriend Academy
Autostraddle has some great articles to get you started too: How to Be a Girl Who Dates Girls: Your Lesbian Dating 101 Syllabus聽
Check out this page for safe sex tips with women: Figuring Out How to be a Lesbian Safer Sexpert聽聽
Best of luck!
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relationship4ever 1 year
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Check this official website to "Discover Why Good Men Pull Away"
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healthfor 3 months
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Embrace the journey of dating with an open heart, discovering shared laughter, genuine connections, and the beauty of getting to know someone special. May your path be filled with exciting moments and the joy of building meaningful connections
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theglamourheart 1 year
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If he鈥檚 shutting you out, here鈥檚 what鈥檚 missing...
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epicgeekdom 2 years
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