#delusional attachment

[riddledem0n]

Since im Ken I say that Allan is taller. No CRITICSM 🥸

[neuroticboyfriend]

those with identity delusions, you know yourself best. if you want people to not reality check you, you have every right to that. you do not need to be fixed, you can exist in whatever way make you comfiest. being psychotic not mean you cant make decisions on your own self and health. you are your own person (or not-person, if that who you are).

[angelivampic]

i truly do not understand why people hate IRLs always supporting people with mental illnesses until it comes to someone who has delusions and psychosis "delusional people dont know theyre delusional, thats the point of a delusion" is absolutely not true. there is lots of people with delusions who know its delusions but cant shake off the feeling and no, reality checking does not help most people (coming from someone with delusions + psychosis myself) and you should NEVER reality check someone unless they want to be !!

much love to IRLs and those with delusional attachments <3

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Delusional Attachment / IRL MAD flag

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A flag for those who have delusions of being a fictional charaters, beings, etc. Flag based off this one(link)!

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[fictionfreedom]

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Cyberqueer

A label used in opposition to radqueer, though is not the opposite of radqueer. Cyberqueer is: Pro-para and entirely in support of all paraphilias pro-mogai pro-altbody pro-otherkin, alterhuman, therian, and fictionkin pro-IRL/DA pro-chronosian pro-aldernic pro-oculoid Entirely for punks of pretty much any kind anarchists all religions people with "Proper" transid labels (EX: Transable = BIID) xenogenders neopronoun, nounself pronoun, emojiself pronoun users complex labels, complicated labels, and contradicting labels self-diagnosis kingenders BDSM/Kink, and kink at pride.

It does not support: Transids who continue to use transid labels, knowing the harm they can cause to the trans community pro-contact non-consenting paraphiles terfs/radfems anyone who is anti-para Basic hated people (Nazis, Fascists, homophobes, transphobes, swerfs.)

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[dsafkinfessions]

I'm new to this whole kin idea thing, I don't think I'm one myself but I'm just curious

Would you mind explaining what the terms in your description mean? I want to know more about this topic so I'm less confused!! <3

Sure!! I was already planning on it actually :3 so here for anyone who doesn't know!!

IRL / DA(delusional attachment): Someone who genuinely believes to be a fictional character due to an identity delusion caused by psychosis, schizophrenia, ecc. Identifies AS the character, meaning they can't separate themselves from media. Might or might not have memories.

Fictionkin: Someone who has such a strong connection with a character to the point of identifying as them. Or someone who believes they were said character in a past life. They're aware they aren't actually the character themselves (at least not right now) therefore they can separate their identity from their media-self. Might or might not have memories.

Copinglink: Someone who identifies as a fictional character to cope or just for fun. They're aware they aren't said character in reality. They don't have memories but they can make them up if they wish to.

Fictive: Alter of a system based off a fictional character. Is NOT the character themselves. They can separate themselves from media completely. Might or might not have memories. (I'm not a fictive myself so please correct me if I'm wrong here).

Kin: General term used to describe any of the above.

Kinnie: Someone who simply relates to a fictional character. (You guys can't confess here, sorry).

Mod note: please be aware that reality checking/fakeclaiming is always harmful and should never be done. If you think being any of these is harmful for someone's well-being, kindly offer them to seek professional help.

[dreamdropcompanions]

this user believes in object sentience

[comorbididy]

Reminder that the term delusional attachment is not only medically unrecognised, but just flat out not real and was coined by an ableist and racist racefaker. Not just that but it’s also literally impossible according to the way delusions work. You don’t know you’re delusional, that’s what makes it a delusion. Claiming your delusional destroys the whole point of a delusion; a STRONG FALSE BELIEF. By admitting it’s a delusion, you admit the belief is false, therefor discrediting it as a delusion.

I’m making this post though mainly because I’d like to discuss an alternative to this. Pathological Demand Avoidance. I am Benny from Benny Loves You IRL and have been for the past year. My family and other alters have been accusing me of being delusional my entire existence as Benny, so I proposed it to my psychologist who’s a specialist in trauma and dissociation as well as autism and PDA. He stated that it’s very commonly observed in PDAers (mainly young children, but can be any age) instances where they become so attached to a character they believe they are them entirely. This is not a delusion, as with the majority of criterias, there’s another explanation for it.

I’m not trying to tell anyone who they are, I’m trying to explain why. I’m not saying you AREN’T that character, I’m just saying you aren’t delusional. If you’re autistic and are another person/character, PLEASE keep PDA in mind. PDA is glossed over enough as is. And don’t use the term DA. It’s harmful and medically inaccurate.

[justalilpearlie]

Introduction/Fun Pearlie Facts

Was abt time I did one of these.

Hello everyone, my name is Pearl, Pearlie or Sam/Sammy if you're feeling like it. Friends also call me Martini sometimes.

I am a minor, my labels... we dont talk about them (fem presenting ftm gay/mlm + trying out gendervoid and verinix + bigender??) uhmm and I go by He/She, tho mostly He/Him by strangers- I can She/Her myself and close friends/mutuals are allowed! (I also go by neos: Void/Moon/Sweet/It/Fluff/Love/Fizz/Paw)

I'm from Argentina, born and raised, never moved. Speak fluent english and spanish.

I got the 'tism and the adhd, aswell as BPD and a few other things I wont list right now! But yeah I'm psychotic (ooo scary word.. lmao)

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I'm an IRL of many, mainly c!Pearl (mcyt), Samuel Emily (fnaf [games canon]) and Shin Tsukimi (yttd). If you don't like it you can leave, block me, or whatever, cause you aint gonna change my life or how I am. I'm in therapy, which unlike random hate and harrassment online, does help me :)

I like to roleplay, draw, sometimes make playlists or moodboards.. And my biggest interests right now are Life Series (+ evo + new life), Empires1(+ a bit of e2) and FNaF! (i dont rlly like the books tho lol..)

I use kin tags for reach cause I'd love interaction from any fellow lifers or empires ppl, hermits aswell!! Tho I havent finished s8 or s9 yet...

Fictionkins, therians and traumagenic systems all welcome!

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DNI prefferably:

- Basic DNI criteria (proshippers, homophobes, transphobes, racists, TERFs, ableist, etc)

- Endos/non-traumagenic "systems" DNI. block me if u want, i wont argue abt it in the comments/reblogs. or interact if u want but im not gonna follow u back or anythin shrugs.

- reality checkers or anti-IRLs DNI. I aint "romanticizing" shit, I'm existing and living my life, if thats a problem to you too bad cause my psychologist aproves of what I'm doing, since I aint harming anyone and I myself am doing dandy.

- anti-kin also DNI cause most of my friends are fictionkins and if you talk shit abt my fellas idk i wouldnt like having u around much

CCs interact at your own risk. This is my domain, cyan man & moon lady. /hj

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"Disclaimer"

- I talk about MajorMoon (Scott x Pearl) a LOT, if u didnt notice by the acc theme. These are my romantic memories, its a gay ship, not woman/gay man, so if it makes u uncomfortable or u hate it or whatever then ur probably not gonna like my content lmao. COUGH, consider joining us if you do like what you see... /nf We're a small comunity of supporters.. just me.. and a few of my peeps... that was a joke, sir. /ref

- This isn't roleplay, its my main acc where im ""unapologetically"" myself, but if u do wanna rp life series/empires u can always shoot me a dm and maybe I'll give u my discord.

- I talk about myself (c!Pearl) using 3rd person in many posts tagged with main fandom tags. This is to cause less confusion to casual fans slash ""normies"" (lhj) that well.. don't know what IRLs are! Also that way I feel safer and don't have to worry as much abt getting harassed and such for my identity.

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Special People Mentions!! fps = * (1 or more.. wouldnt say in a priority sorta order but. more or less yea)

Family! <3 🌼@pehpurr* SISTER!! super duper cool, her art is great and you should check it out!! YOU. You're the brightest little girl (i say like ur not older than me) I'VE EVER MET ACTUALLY! You're so passionate and loving I freaking adore you!! I love you so much Scar, you're one of the best things to ever happen to me, Kanny &lt;3 ⚙️@gentlexmadman DAD!! you are my daaaad, you're my dad! woogie woogie woogie! ANOTHER amazing artist! mr "I know that guy-", very funny, Henry "Autism" Emily... the copper king, my father. Speaking to you is always comforting. Love you so much papa, you're amazing :)

Simply special <3 ☕@insomniac-coffeehouse** You're all simply so very special to me. I love spending time with you guys and playing stuff together, you mean a lot to me and I'm so glad I met you. I hope we're still close for this year and many more! You're incredibly talented, not only at art, at everything you do. You spark joy in my brain and my heart <3 From the bottom of my heart, I'm in love with the hope you bring to this world. 🍊Jack***, oh my dear Jacky, where do I even begin, sport... you really are my other half. Mi media naranja if you will. haha.. I love every second we spend together, I love your voice, I love your eyes, I love your smile, your laughter. I love your use of words, the way you speak, your humor, your seriousness and goofiness. You stiff fuck, you were made for me and I was made for you, and I wouldn't have it any other way. You're my everything, mi vida, mi luz, mi estrella. Mi amor, mi mundo. <3

New friends! 🍓@strawberrystarfield I know we met fairly recently but you're all incredibly fun to talk to, your art is also amazing, your accent is real pretty (cough for a bri-💥), you're real sweet and I love reading all your thoughts and critiques about things :} (love ya Aspen /gen) 🏜️@fagdykegtws My right hand man! I know we just met through the rarepair server but oh my god we're in the same brainwave!!! You're so fun to vc and chat with and you got the best ideas ever fr fr, love ya Chewy, you're real sweet even w how lil i know you ;)

That's it folks, love yall and see you around!

[dexhatesnormies]

People who encourage and feed into delusional attachments, do not interact with me! You're anti-recovery and I don't want to see that shit!

This includes:

Calling DAs by the name of the character they're delusional attached to

referring to the character as the person that's delusionally attached to them

refusing to separate the character from the person

Agreeing or otherwise confirming that you believe these people are the characters they say they are.

Does this mean I want you to go out of your way and find DAs and tell them what they're experiencing is a delusion? No! Reality-checking and denying the existence of these beliefs is JUST AS HARMFUL as encouraging them. Encouraging and feeding into these beliefs is JUST AS HARMFUL as denying and reality-checking them.

As someone who experiences episodic delusions (due to bpd) it is so gross how often I see people feeding into delusions and ultimately making it harder for DAs to recover. It's gross! And I don't want anyone that participates in this shit to interact with me. Ever!!

Also, I'd like to add, if you have to ask yourself if something is a delusion or not, or you have to wonder. Or if while experiencing the delusion you at all think "this might be a delusion", it's probably not a delusion.

[clownboyarisu]

Hi I need more system and psychotic irl mutuals pls interact and follow if u are either of these things pleasepleasepleasplsplspsl

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Pawqueerverse IRL/DA

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This is a flag for those who are a IRL/DA of the Pawqueerverse(link), this can be a single pawqueer mascot or multiple.

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[c4i-r0]

i love you people with cluster a disorders i love you people with cluster b disorders i love you people with cluster c disorders i love you people with learning disabilities i love you autistic people i love you people with adhd i love you people with neurodivergencies i love you people with hypersexuality i love you people with DID i love you people with OCD i love you people with DPDR i love you maladaptive daydreamers i love you people with no empathy/low empathy i love you people with high empathy i love you people with PTSD/CPTSD i love you people with schizophrenia i love you people with DAs i love you people who can’t get diagnosed due to things outside of your control i love you people who are clinically diagnosed i love you people with bipolar disorders i love you people with depression i love you people with panic disorder i love you people with anxiety i love you people with anger issues i love you people with psychosis i love you people OCD i love you people who are unsure of what you have i love you people who have one disorder i love you people who have multiple disorders

[dollietoon]

Style study // redraw of one of deamlalgia's drawings!!

[dreamdropcompanions]

our plushies are not just plush companions they're daydream and psychosis companions aswell we are a maladaptive daydreaming schizophrenic SQUAD lmao

[komokiihatesyou]

I haven't Acutally had a intro, But hello! My name is Ren Hana or Hiro!!

I a IRL/Delusional Attachment to the Character "Ren Hana" From the Horror p//rn, "Boyfriend To Death". I do not have much to say about Myself but if you have any questions please go ahead and ask me!