#demiaesthetic

[ryanyflags]

Anaesthetic / nonaesthetic / a-aesthetic (anae for short) flags part 1 :> 🌸 (Due to the image limit, this is split into 2 posts.)

I noticed some a-spec flags were missing tertiary counterparts, so I made some. Some of these flags have already been made before, so they're not all original (I still wanted to have all the flags together in a set, and all in the same res).

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greyaesthetic | demiaesthetic | aegoaesthetic

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non sam anae | non sam anae | neu anae

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anaevoid | anaeflux | anaespike (1)

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anaespike (2) | anaejump | dark greyaesthetic

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light greyaesthetic | atomoaesthetic | delloaesthetic

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fictoaesthetic | cupioaesthetic | bellusaesthetic

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reciproaesthetic (1) | reciproaesthetic (2) | lithoaesthetic (1)

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lithoaesthetic (2) | frayaesthetic (1) | frayaesthetic (2)

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apothiaesthetic | orchidaesthetic | myraesthetic

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anaeflexible

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I'll also note that some of these terms can have multiple names, with the "aesthetic", "anaesthetic", "nonaesthetic", "a-aesthetic", & "anae" part being interchangeable. This isn't applicable to every term though. I also chose not to list everything to try to keep it brief. So for example, greyaesthetic can also be called greyanaesthetic, greynonaesthetic, and greyanae.

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[A-spec flag sets masterpost]

[nightfallsystem]

demisexuals and demiromantics and demiplatonics and demiaesthetic and demisensual and demialterous and demiqueerplatonic and demi-anything people are so cool!!!! look at this post with your eyes if you agree :D

[vlada-slavik]

LGBTQIA+ CAT PROFILE PICTURES [ pt 13 ]

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[flip-flopping-frede]

Weird realization.

So I’m lithromantic. Being in [romantic] relationships is traumatizing for me. I’m aegosexual. Putting myself in a real-life sexual situation with another person is incredibly uncomfortable for me. I’m caedplatonic. I don’t really experience platonic attraction to people. Regarding my aesthetic and sensual attraction… I only feel aesthetic attraction to people I basically [idoloize], and I do not feel sensual attraction to ableist people. I think I struggle to feel sensual attraction, honestly.

If you notice, I don’t really have the types of attractions most “allos” have. I in general, don’t really have any kind of “attraction” to other people. I also have a personality disorder, so if I do feel “attraction” (that I am capable of feeling) towards someone, it is usually pretty intense. Also, I don’t really “have” anyone in my life. My friendships usually unfortunately eventually fall apart. It kinda feels I am in an unhealthy and socially dangerous situation by lacking a healthy support system? And also, I don’t really feel a pull towards other in-real-life people? I’ve also been in an autistic burnout for over a year now, so I kinda feel like establishing new connections and maintaining something would be really draining on the minimal executive functioning I do have.

Bottom line is I don’t think I experience “loneliness”, or at least not significantly enough to want to seek out a brand new relationship of some sort? I have also been longing for a snake, however sometimes I have bad days where I feel like I shouldn’t get a snake because I can’t even take care of myself? 😪. Idk it kinda sucks living like this in a perpetual state of not being able to recover from this autistic burnout, or be able to be a functioning member of society, or want to be a participant in society.

[questioning-aspec-culture-is]

Is there such a thing as experiencing demi-aesthetic attraction? Because if so, that's maybe me.

Before, I thought that the fact that I do not care about people's appearances was because I am ace, but after finding out that I'm arospec as well, and there are lots of different a-spectrums I have re-evaluated that thought.

I feel like if I find a person aesthetically pretty or not (in an entirely asexual and aromatic way), is very much linked to if I am friends with them or not. Like, I don't generally find people pretty. People are just... people. (It's kind of irrelevant what they look like, imo.) But all my close friends are the prettiest there ever are and I /know/ me thinking they are pretty is entirely based on the fact that I like their personality and because of that I start to associate their appearance to the positive things I like about them. Like, I wouldn't think they were pretty if we weren't close friends first.

yeah! that's definitely a thing!

if it's a type of attraction, then you can feel it in different degrees. therefore, it makes sense to be able to use different labels for it.

[genderstarbucks]

Can you do a demiflexible flag? The current ones specify sexually or romantically demiflex. I would suggest replacing the green/purple with darker gray

General Demiflexible Flag!!

Demiflexible is a term under the aspec used to describe someone who is mostly demi- (romantic/sexual/platonic, etc.), but occasionally feels attraction to someone who they do not have an emotional connection to. This term can be used to describe romantic, sexual, platonic, or any other type of attraction.

[yeehaww-sims]

Also if you're still doing flag requests an InterNon flag would also be awesome!! deviantart[.]com/softglitch/art/Intersex-and-Non-binary-InterNon-Flag-919334588

We meet again Anon! Finished your requests, you can find them Here:

[SFS] | [MF]

[Original flags post]

I also added some flags I did as personal recolours, and some my partner wanted, as I've been sitting on them for a while sdfjkldfskjl

Also if the otherkin anon sees this, I added a couple nonhuman/alterhuman flags to the mix as well! You can find the newly added flags below.

Arin wanted a bimbo-gendered flag so. Who am I to tell him no. The rest that aren't recent requests are the ones I've had for a while. Also I know Furries aren't alterhuman/otherkin etc but I saw it while looking and threw it in there.

[Plaintext: Bimbogender x2, Term Collector x2, Demiaesthetic, Femme, Femme Lesbian, Enbian [alt flag] Polyamorous x5!, Otter, Nonhuman Unity, Alterhuman x2, Furry, InterNon, Androgynos, Ay'lonit, Saris, Tumtum]

[aspec-identities]

Demiaesthetic

[Id. Image on the top of it is written demiaesthetic in bold black text. On the left is the demiaesthetic flag. There are three horisontal stripes, the stripe in the middle is narrower than the other two stripes. Stripe colours from up to down, white, pink and grey. On the left of the flag is a black triangle. On the right is written Demiaesthetic experiences aesthetic attraction to a person after they have developed an emotional connection to them. End id]

[mogai-headcanons]

Kassandra from Assassin's Creed is an eaglekin godkin nonverbal biogender gendervoid reciproqueerplatonic borderalterous demiaesthetic apressensual panromantic nonsexual tempusexual cupioflux aphrodite lesbian with PTSD, BPD, and bulimia who uses boo/boos, ar/arc, ae/aer, fleur/fleurs, fey/feys, pri/prin, bow/bows, merc/mercs, cor/corp, paw/paws, ro/rosem, 🌼/🌼s, and 🌷/🌷s pronouns!

dni link

[two-hearts-beat]

is there such a thing as demi-aesthetic? like not about sexual attraction but feeling aesthetic-attraction (only) after some sort of emotional connection?

[ryanyflags]

Can you do a lith and demi combo? For attractions

lith + demisexual | lith + demiromantic lith + demialterous | lith + demiplatonic lith + demisensual | lith + demiaesthetic

I assume you meant different types of attractions, so I combined the lith flag with different demi flags.

They all follow the same format. Since lithosexual and lithromantic use the same flags (and I haven't seen any particular flags for other lith attractions), all these use the same colors for lith. (I actually did end up finding other lith flags here, which happen to look like what I did with these combo flags, so it still all works out lol)

I rearranged the placement of the demi stripes to be on the bottom, with the top three stripes from lith. The dark grey triangle is a combination of the black triangle from demi and dark grey stripe of lith.

The color stripes at the bottom of each flag were changed to match their respective demi orientation.

Flags used,

lith- flag.

demi flags (they're in the same order as the combo flags above).

[artsyaech]

shoutout to aspec folks!

shoutout to asexuals

shoutout to aromantics

shoutout to aplatonics

shoutout to asensuals

shoutout to analterous folks

shoutout to anaesthetics

shoutout to demisexuals

shoutout to demiromantics

shoutout to demiplatonics

shoutout to demisensuals

shoutout to demialterous folks

shoutout to demiaesthetics

shoutout to gray-aces

shoutout to gray-aros

shoutout to gray-any-other-attraction

shoutout to aceflux folks

shoutout to aroflux folks

shoutout to any-other-attraction-flux folks

shoutout to aroaces

shoutout to aroacespecs

shoutout to aegosexuals

shoutout to aegoromantics

shoutout to aego-any-other-attraction

shoutout to cupiosexuals

shoutout to cupioromantics

shoutout to cupio-any-other-attraction

shoutout to acespikes

shoutout to arospikes

shoutout to any-other-attraction-spikes

shoutout to reciprosexuals

shoutout to reciproromantics

shoutout to reciproaroaces

shoutout to recipro-any-other-attraction

shoutout to alloaces

shoutout to alloaros

shoutout to omniaspecs

shoutout to eclectio aroaces

shoutout to sex-favorable aces

shoutout to sex-indifferent aces

shoutout to sex-repulsed aces

shoutout to aces who enjoy sex as an activity

shoutout to aces who enjoy erotic media

shoutout to romance-favorable aros

shoutout to romance-indifferent aros

shoutout to romance-repulsed aros

shoutout to aros who enjoy romantic media

shoutout to aros whose favorite type of media is romance

shoutout to autosexuals

shoutout to autoromantics

shoutout to auto-any-other-attraction

shoutout to autospecs

shoutout to bellussexuals

shoutout to bellusromantics

shoutout to bellus-any-other-attraction

shoutout to quoisexuals

shoutout to quoiromantics

shoutout to quoi-any-other-attraction

shoutout to fraysexuals

shoutout to frayromantics

shoutout to fray-any-other-attraction

shoutout to apothisexuals

shoutout to apothiromantics

shoutout to apothi-any-other-attraction

shoutout to orchidsexuals

shoutout to orchidromantics

shoutout to orchid-any-other-attraction

shoutout to loveless folks

shoutout to lovequeer folks

shoutout to acespec folks who don't specifically label themselves

shoutout to arospec folks who don't specifically label themselves

shoutout to acespecs who experience sexual attraction

shoutout to arospecs who experience romantic attraction

shoutout to acespecs who experience romantic attraction

shoutout to arospecs who experience sexual attraction

all of y'all are valid as hell

[julietianboy]

( 🧺 ) dandelion demi flag

[ id: a flag with three horizontal stripes, the top and bottom one being thicker, in the following colors: yellow, green-ish and light green.

The first has a black triangle pointing to the middle stripe, to the left. The second flag has a dark green triangle. /End id ]

definition:

a flag for people who are demi or demispec for most attractions, but not all; a dandelion demi/demispec flag.

examples:

- someone who is demisexual, demiplatonic and demisensual but not demiromantic. they feel sexual, platonic and sensual attraction for people they're close to, but that doesn't apply to romantic attraction.

- someone who is demiaesthetic, demiplatonic, demisexual and demiqueerplatonic but aromantic. they feel aesthetic, platonic, sexual and queerplatonic attraction to those they're close to, but that doesn't apply to romantic attraction, specifically because they're aromantic.

- someone who is demiromantic and demiplatonic but heterosexual. they feel romantic and platonic attraction to those they're close to, but that doesn't apply to sexual attraction, specifically because they're heterosexual.

[even-if-in-another-time]

okay. question for the allos. so. do you guys like… find someone aesthetically attractive at first sight?? and i mean specifically aesthetic attraction, not necessarily tied to romantic or sexual attraction. do you have to get to know someone to a certain extent in order to find them aesthetically attractive? because now i’m wondering if there’s such thing as demiaesthetic attraction

[thegendercollecteroffical]

Stars beside main ones ✨

My non SAM and SAM attraction orientation

Sexual orientation

✨Aspec

✨greysexual

Clypeussexual

Dreadsexual

Erotisexual

✨Nomasexual

Acevague

Xenirian

✨Lesbian

Romantic orientation

✨Arospec

Bellusromantic

Dreadromantic

✨Greyromantic

✨Lesbiromantic

Destinoromantic

Arovague

Platonic orientation

Panplatonic

✨Greyplatonic

Abroplatonic

✨ nomaplatonic

Queerplatonic orientation

???

Aesthetic orientation

Demiaesthetic

✨Lesbiaesthetic

Sensual orientation

Nomasenual

Lesbisensual

Emotional orientation

Fictoemotional?

Physical orientation

Omniphysical

Quoiphyisical

Alterous orientation

GreyAlterous

Quoialterous

[our-oriented-aroace-experience]

I once wondered if I was aegoromantic or lithromantic. This is because while I felt "something" for some people, I did not want the same feelings back from them.

For example, I basically did not want to associate with them or anyone else. Another time, a friend of mine told my crush (or so I thought at the time) about "something" in me without my permission. They rejected me, but pretty soon after that, the "something" I felt disappeared as if it had never been there in the first place. (At the time, I thought I was crazy for not being too depressed about being dumped, because I was just feeling rather awkward and apologetic that they knew about my "something".)

In hindsight, it was probably closer to "lithalterous" (I feel alterous attraction to all kinds of people, but don't want them back the same way) or "demiaesthetic" (I think they are cute, cool, and nice after getting to know them). I am still exploring my sexuality. I often think it's great when people are confident in their sexuality. I am not even at the starting line of coming out yet. I wish there would be more discussion about oriented aroace.

Felt (Aspec identities are already quite obscure to begin with, and more specific labels such as oriented aroace are even more obscure)