#dream girl

[honeytonedhottie]

manifest!!⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁💕

in this post, i'll talk about some manifesting methods. remember, that you should not put so much power in the methods bcuz its not the method that manifests, its your thoughts. methods are simply tools to help u think in ur favor…💬🎀

🧁 LIST METHOD ;

super duper easy, just make a list and read it over. then affirm something along the lines of "i have it all right now" and then thats it. you have it now congratulations. just stand on it.

🧁 DISTRACTION METHOD ;

simply affirm for a bit, then DROP IT and find something else to do. you already have it after all. just don't contradict urself.

🧁 SUBLIMINALS ;

even easier. just listen to some subliminal for subconscious saturation. i like to listen to the calm version of subliminals so that i can listen to my music and just saturate like that.

now you can repost this and add onto this post, add in what manifestation methods that u like to do so that we can all give suggestions to each other…💬🎀

[venusplanetofloveee]

[paper-heartss]

staying busy and productive before the year end 💻☕️

[dearbabydolly]

I miss 2014 (I was four)

it’s either roses or beds all over my mbs -_- my badd

[malusokay]

Journaling prompts to reinvent yourself ౨ৎ

how do I want the world to see me, and does it match how I see myself?

how do I show up for others, and how do they show up for me?

what about my life feels like love and what doesn't?

where does my time go, and where do I wish it would go?

who do I admire most, and what about them speaks to my soul?

is the way I live aligned with the life I dream of, or a I just coasting?

what qualities in others feel the most magnetic to me? Do I reflect those?

what’s inside my bag, and what does it say about me? (be honest, even the gum wrappers count.)

if I could script my perfect morning, how would it begin?

what passions have I ignored that I would like to reclaim?

what’s one small, powerful shift I could make today to move toward my dream life?

write a tender letter to the future version of yourself. What do you hope they’ve become, and what do you want them to remember about now?

As always, please feel free to share your own prompts and check out my insta for more of me! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

[unknownn-girl]

just like a dream

you are not what you seem

[el-princess]

— the princess guide on glowing up:

recently i noticed how in love i've become with my appearance after a long time of strongly hating how i look. i wondered how i got to this point so i worked backwards to figure out what changed and made this post.ᡣ𐭩

GETTING OVER MY INSECURITIES

social media is one of the main things that attributed to my insecurities. when you're constantly bombarded by posts praising girls that look nothing like you for their beauty it's easy to trick yourself into thinking that must mean you're not beautiful since you have nothing in common with them. someone's beauty does not take away from yours, but it can make you forget yours. the first change i made that signified the beginning of my new found self love was when i started to look at models and influencers and actresses that looked more like me. i believe there's beauty in every feature, you just have to see it in a beautiful light. i stopped considering my features ugly when i distanced from any content that would insist on them being flaws and instead exposed myself to beautiful girls who had the same exact features and realised they didn't make them any less beautiful.

SETTING MY OWN BEAUTY STANDARDS

a crucial point in my journey to loving my physical appearance was disregarding society's already set beauty standards and it's expectations. the truth is you can't build your confidence based on how much you fit others' standards because everybody has their own idea of beauty and what might make you beautiful in someone's eyes might make you ugly in another's. so that's why i decided to create my own standards and measure myself based on what i personally think is beautiful.

i did this by taking out my journal, closing my eyes for a few seconds and imagining what i considered to be the epitomy of beauty, then i wrote down a description of what i imagined. if you're having trouble picturing the details, you can try answering some of these questions:

what kind of girl would i see on the street and would leave something that is more than an impression on me? what texture is her hair? what color is it? how is she wearing it, is it parted in the middle or to the side? is it styled or is it down? is it long or short? is she wearing makeup? if yes, is it natural makeup or is it more on the bold side? is she wearing jewellery? is it dainty or flashy? what is her body type? is she skinny or curvy? does she have her nails done? are they long or short? what type of clothes is she wearing?

after i decided on my own beauty standards, i made changes to my appearance and the closer i got to that image i had of the perfect girl in my head the happier i grew with myself.

EMBRACING MYSELF

now while i was picturing the perfect girl in my mind, i made sure that she had my features. i didn't imagine her without my 'insecurities'. essentially i was just imagining myself if i reached my maximum potential, i didn't change anything i was already born with i only changed the customizable things in a way that i thought was beautiful / suited me more. and that's what i wanna talk about in this part, the importance of embracing myself the way i am.

embracing myself didn't only help me in the mental aspect where i started to love myself more, but it also helped me physically. i started to look a lot better when i stopped trying to force myself to look 'sexy' and admitted that i was more suited for makeup & clothes that are more on the cuter side.

obviously i'm not trying to tell you what to do, but i'm willing to bet that you would look a whole lot better if you wore clothes that fit your body type instead of forcing yourself into tight and uncomfortable clothing. the idea is to understand that there isn't only one type of beauty, so you don't have to force yourself to do things that don't suit you to be beautiful.

IDENTIFYING YOURSELF + YOUR STYLE

i've talked about how you should do things that suit you, but how do you even know what does or doesn't suit you? well you have to start by identifying what 'you' are first.

while i was going through this phase of my glow up journey, i found that there are three things that you have to know about yourself: your face shape, your skintone/undertones and your body type. you can figure them out by looking at yourself in the mirror and referencing these charts below. if you're having a hard time determining where you fit, you can ask a family member/friend for their opinion. i think that wearing things that compliment you makes you look put together no matter what your style is, it gives you the perfect 'canvas'.ཐིཋྀ

from these three things you can figure out what eyebrow shape, hairstyles + hair colors, clothes and colors would suit you the best. you can do that by simply going on pinterest or tiktok and looking up "hairstyle recommendations for ____ face shape". you can also use celebrities with similar traits as inspiration.

as for developing your style, i think that is something you naturally develop over time as you try out things and evolve your taste. but if you're stuck on where to start, i recommend quizzes! there are a lot of korean/chinese quizzes scattered over the internet that can help you. something else i recommend is checking out @/dreamgrlarchive's blog, she has a lot of posts dedicated to finding your style. also, don't shy away from trying out trends or aesthetics that pique your interest, you're drawn to them for a reason so don't let people online shame you for it.

EMBODYING CONFIDENCE

the mental aspect of glowing up is something that often goes unnoticed. glowing up doesn't only require changing physically but also mentally. you have to make sure the inside matches the outside. journaling allowed me to work through any negative thoughts and feelings i had towards myself as well as identify any habits i used to do out of insecurity that i needed to get rid of. you'd be surprised at how many beautiful girls lack self esteem. become comfortable with the fact that you're beautiful.ᡣ𐭩

[4mookiecookie20]

literally just a girl and her cat

[nenelonomh]

body hair removal, girl advice

removing body hair is a personal choice and varies from person to person. some girls choose to remove body hair for comfort, aesthetics, cultural reasons, or personal preference. it's important to understand that there's no right or wrong decision when it comes to body hair—it's all about what makes you feel confident and comfortable in your own skin.

however, if you do decide to remove body hair, it’s essential to do it properly to avoid skin irritation, ingrown hairs, and other potential issues. proper hair removal techniques can help maintain the health and appearance of your skin, ensuring it stays smooth and free from unnecessary discomfort.

general tips:

exfoliate regularly: this helps prevent ingrown hairs and keeps your skin smooth.

moisturize: after hair removal, use a gentle moisturizer to soothe your skin and reduce irritation.

wear loose clothing: after hair removal, wear loose, breathable clothing to prevent irritation and let your skin breathe.

why proper hair removal matters:

prevents skin damage: following proper techniques reduces the risk of cuts, burns, and skin irritation.

reduces ingrown hairs: correct methods can help prevent hairs from growing back into the skin, which can be painful and unsightly.

maintains skin health: proper hair removal can help keep your skin looking and feeling healthy, smooth, and soft.

methods of hair removal:

shaving:

tips: use a clean, sharp razor and shave in the direction of hair growth to reduce irritation. use a shaving cream or gel to protect your skin and provide a smoother glide.

why it's important: improper shaving can lead to cuts, razor burns, and ingrown hairs.

waxing:

tips: apply wax in the direction of hair growth and pull it off in the opposite direction. ensure the skin is clean and dry before waxing.

why it's important: improper waxing can cause bruises, skin irritation, and even tear the skin.

depilatory creams:

tips: test the cream on a small patch of skin first to check for any allergic reactions. follow the instructions on the product carefully.

why it's important: leaving the cream on for too long or using it on sensitive areas can cause chemical burns or skin irritation.

epilators:

tips: start with a lower speed setting if you're new to using epilators. exfoliate your skin beforehand to prevent ingrown hairs.

why it's important: using an epilator incorrectly can lead to pain, skin irritation, and ingrown hairs.

laser hair removal:

tips: it's best done by a professional. if using at-home devices, follow the instructions carefully and avoid sun exposure before and after the treatment.

why it's important: improper use can cause burns, pigmentation issues, and ineffective hair removal.

i hope this was helpful! ❤️nene

[thecheekyblog]

We declutter!

Before the new year start, one thing that i did that made me feel so great was to declutter my space. I did not realized how much i was holding on to things. Like clothes that were almost 10 years old that i was not even wearing no more.

We do not realized how much we have until we sort out the things that we own. As i was putting all my clothes on the ground and start deciding what would make the cut for 2025, i went down memory lane. I look at certain look and remind myself of the person i was then and the person i am now.

It is never easy to let go, either it clothes or that gift you received in 2010 from that guy you don’t even talk to anymore. Like letting go , is letting go of old energy, things that are taking space for the new and better things.

As i was cleaning my wardrobe, when i started letting go of clothes that i thought i was real attached, it got real easy to throw away almost half of the clothes and shoes i own. Weirdly enough, i felt so light. It was as if some weight was lifted off my shoulders and shit felt great. No lie.

Like, since i was not aware of what i had, i would buy the same thing time and time again. Like why do i have the same exact black top 5times?

Now, i have two huge bag of clothes that i would give away and shoes i will sell and the nicest part of it all , i have gain space and will be doing a good deed by donating my stuff.

It is so nice to know what i actually own, knowing where everything is! It just feel like a good way to start your year.

It will take time, but it is so worth it.

Give yourself a day before the holiday season where you know you wont be disturbed and start the sorting process! Prepare a new playlist/podcast so you don’t feel the time pass. When it is done, clean your space. Take your time to do so. You want everything to be where it is supposed to be. Greatness cannot be rushed. And making the most out of our space will require time if you want to do it properly.

Also, declutter doesn’t only have to be your clothes, it can be things on your phone, people you follow etc, but an easy start will be your room

I have added lil check list that could help,

I hope this helps, kisses from your favourite auntie

[shibaincubus]

Help- I don't know what I feel ꒰(˶◞ ‸ ◟˶)꒱ - Journal Prompts

Figuring out your feelings is super important for solving problems. If you just bottle them up, they can turn into actions that hold you back.

So, take a moment to understand what you’re feeling—it can really help you move forward!

Here's some prompts

Which kind of situation have I encountered that make me think twice -> Was there any change recently (mindset etc.)

Where do you feel unsure -> What makes you feel that way

In which ways do I police myself -> is it stricter then with others

How do I feel about others -> do I put them on a pedestal; do I put - - myself down; are they "enemies"

What 3d actions does this feeling provoke is it demontivation, laziness etc.

Which mindset do I have in the situation: do I think about the past, present or future

Does the feeling appear in uncomfortable random situations (could it provoke subconscious fears and negative thoughts)

Access when the feeling feels the strongest is it with people, alone or in special places

Ignoring your emotions can leave you feeling unmotivated and low-energy, making it harder to reach your goals.

Finding out what causes is solving it to 50% because we can bring the subconscious in the conscious and deal with it and bring new abundance in our lives

[imahgined]

the rosy blog project - episode 1:

꒰ঌ intro + pt. 1 on how we made 2024 actually feel like 2014 ໒꒱

hiiii sweethearts! ໒꒰ྀིᵔ ᵕ ᵔ ꒱ྀི১

welcome to the first episode of the rosy blog project! i’m andrea, but you can call me roseate. i'll be your host to this dreamy corner of the internet, where we celebrate all things feminine and inspiring.

this project is my way of reviving the iconic rosy blog era here on tumblr. in the 2010s, life felt slower, filled with hobbies, fashion, beauty tips, boybands, fandoms, iconic tv shows, and bubbly playlists. here, we'll savor the little things that made us feel connected, feminine and creative!

༊࿐ ⊹ ˚. part 1: what was the rosy blog era?

just in case you weren't around on tumblr in the early 2010s, rosy blog content focused on the years we spent hours reading glossy magazines like teen vogue, watching our fave youtubers, and scrolling through dreamy blogs. the rosy blog style was unapologetically girly. it embraced soft pinks, cream tones, and everything feminine. it was all about finding joy in the little things, like curating playlists, buying self-care products, and creating a space that felt uniquely yours.

༊࿐ ⊹ ˚. part 2: my take on how we made 2024 really feel like 2014

from the beggining of the year, i saw so much content on ig and tiktok from people begging to bring back 2014 vibes in 2024. i definitely believe that, collectively, we made it happen. this will be a series of a few blog posts breaking down this year's best moments and how everything felt like the rosy blog era.

section 1: music and pop culture

ariana grande in her wicked & eternal sunshine era: she literally embraced everything we loved from her yours truly era and reinvented it to fit her glinda role. the looks we got from her were super feminine, elegant and classy. seeing her like this reminded me so much of her gorgeous 2010s aesthetic. also, her eternal sunshine album was insanely good. the dreamy vocals felt like a new era that revisited her feminine side from her first album. last year, we even had her yours truly live sessions. inmaculate vibes!

madison beer slowly becoming viral again: i've been a fan of madison ever since i discovered her. this year, i got so excited when her song make you mine went viral. the techno style and her beautiful voice reminded me of some of her earlier songs, even a bit of i won't let you walk away. she’s so talented, and back in 2014, she was all over tumblr. i hope she finally gets the recognition she deserves!

fangirl nostalgia: during the 2010s, you were either a 1d, 5sos, jb or btr fangirl (or all of them at once!). so much has happened this year with our faves—jb having his first child, btr touring again—it’s been a beautiful revisit of the memories we made in those fandoms. and the best part? we continue to create new ones by supporting them into their adulthood. (except for the tragic passing of liam—may he rest in peace).

lana in coachella: nothing felt more 2014 than our beautiful lana headlining coachella this year. her ethereal voice revided her most iconic songs, and the vibes were simply the dreamiest. i completely adored the setlist, and her styling was too cute! classic lana, yet timelessly fresh.

girly pop revival: from sabrina carpenter's short n' sweet tour to taylor swift's eras tour, 2024 absolutely brought girly pop back to the mainstream. we had amazing albums from artists like charli xcx (the most 2014 revival ever) and rising stars like tate mcrae, addison rae and many more. my personal favorite? FLO's debut album, access all areas. their vocals and y2k style are a must hear i'm sure you'll adore.

.mp3 by emilia: if you haven’t heard of emilia i'll be GLAD to introduce you. she's an insanely talented argentinian singer, composer, actress and model (also, the most stunning girl ever). last year, she released her second studio album, .mp3, with a 2000s-inspired sound and vibe. it's the girliest, most empowering, and fun album from a latin artist. this album served girly vibes with genres like pop, urban, dance pop, and contemporary r&b. even though this project and tour leaned into a y2k aesthetic, it also gave me major 2010 vibes with its sounds, looks and visuals. i'll dedicate a whole post to her and the album soon because, genuinely, the art direction is INSANE, and it's my favorite thing ever

for now, that’s it for this first section. i have so much to share with you—from lifestyle to fashion and so much more! i hope you enjoyed reading this 2024 recap, pt. 2 will be up soon.

i'd love to hear your thoughts on this post! let me know what you’d add or want to chat about, my dms are always open lovelies! have a magical and dreamy day ೀ ׅ ۫ . ㅇ

[livelaughlaney]

mood 👩🏼‍🤝‍👩🏻

[honeytonedhottie]

spicing up ur school uniform⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🗒️🎀

im a private school girlie and like many other private schools, i wear a uniform. in this post i'll be sharing tips and tricks on how to spice up ur school uniform + beat school air for the best, barbie charm school-esque school year…💬🎀

ACCESSORIZE AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE ;

ik every school's dress code is different so take this section as it applies to you. accessorize like crazy! bracelets, earrings, hair accessories like headbands, clips, barettes. however u can make your uniform look cute and more girly, GO FOR IT.

♡ headbands ♡ barettes ♡ earrings/rings ♡ bracelets/necklaces ♡ legwarmers

HAIRSTYLES ;

making sure that ur hair is on point is CRUCIAL. experiment with different hairstyles over the weekend so that u can plan out a couple hairstyles for the week and alternate. the easiest ways to find cute hairstyles is to look up hairstyles for your hair texture and ur face shape. if u can find a tutorial for one and not the other thats ok. thats why we test them out to see what we feel the most beautiful in.

BEATING SCHOOL AIR ;

beating school air is all about touch ups. carry around some perfume or body mist with u and apply it at school (not during classes but in the bathroom and stuff) just to make sure that u always smell fresh and sweet. esp if u go to school in a hotter place. make sure that u always have the following ;

♡ perfume ♡ deodorant (possibly the most important on this list) ♡ mini hair brush ♡ compact mirror ♡ lipgloss ♡ dry shampoo ♡ pads/tampons (even if ur not on ur period, just in case u save another girl's life 💗) ♡ bubble gum ♡ hand cream ♡ and ofc other makeup that u wanna reapply throughout the day

and ik that this list may seem like a lot but it makes a world of a difference. plus it all fits nicely in my bag but feel free to make adjustments suited to ur own needs 🫶🏽

make sure that ur uniforms are always cleaned and ironed and u just dress urself with the upmost care and meticulousness. you'll feel 10x better and more confident and you'll look adorable…💬🎀

[highdustcopolla36]

sofia coppola's office, 2000

[shanpanzeee]