#dream girl aesthetic

[ash-says]

Practicing Tact and Open mindedness:

One of the important skills to develop so that you can effectively navigate both life and social situations is TACT and OPEN MINDEDNESS.

To practice this first you should be aware of your own sensitivities, emotions, principles,etc and then explore arenas that contradict it. The "my way or highway" approach is an essential cause it helps you to be stable in your roots but at the same time you have to branch out yourself in different directions.

When consulted with facts it's foolish to be stuck on the old narrative. People who have the stability to ground themselves in their ideals but are adaptable enough to change things according to the situation go a long way and are able to navigate life ten times better.

The mere fact that you are alive is because your genes were able to mutate and adopt in the surroundings. Survival of the fittest.

Not only this when you are receptive towards others opinions you open a gateway to constant learning and are able to charm people. People love to talk and when you listen you get information that might just help you grab a job, impress your crush or make your life a tad bit easier.

Practicing tact also helps you in balancing out the extremes and opens the path to contemplate everything from different scenarios and then arrive at a decision.

It not just adds grace but also enhances your character.

Trust me nothing attracts people like a moth to the flames like being non judgemental and tactful.

Try it out. The amount of eye opening information you might receive will be shocking.

That's all for today's show on ash-says. Stay tuned for more illegal tricks and explosive opinions.

[blissfullyecho]

how to create a leveling up/dream girl/rebranding plan 🤍🍸🖤

establish your aesthetic

first thing’s first, you need to know where you want to go in life and what is your “aesthetic”? do you want to be giving “classy, businesswoman”? what about “nyc socialite”? of course these are just examples, but you should know what type of girl you want to embody. remember, you don’t have to fit a narrative, but you should have a general “aesthetic” that you want to be associated with. even if it’s 50 million different aesthetics, it’s whatever makes you, you.

visualize yourself/life

get inspired by making a vision board (physical or digital) and add to your board (if digital) daily. i find that this helps you stay in alignment with where you want to be in the future. you have to stay in that frequency and remind yourself of what’s next to come… because this new life is what’s next to come.

start with habits

please refer to my “starting your leveling up journey” post, but basically— you should create 1-3 habits for each of your goals and work on them until they become second nature. then when you’re ready, start implementing more habits that are aligned with your goals.

create routines with your habits

can you incorporate some of these new habits into a morning or evening routine? we all know that routines are important— they almost become our personalities and they set the tone for the day and night, and even the next day. for me, i know i’m only inspired to exercise in the morning around 10am, so exercise is part of my morning routine.

create daily + weekly goals

let’s say part of your journey is learning a new language. a daily goal could be learning one new vocabulary word in that language. your weekly goal could be knowing the alphabet in that language. use this method for all of your goals.

don’t overwhelm yourself with goals, routines, and habits

start slow; don’t overwhelm yourself. if you want to work on one goal at a time, then work on that one goal. burnout is real and it’s very hard to get back into the swing of things afterwards. i understand most of us are impatient when we just want to be a different version of ourselves, but it’s going to take some adjusting. i suggest not working on more than 3 things at once, but if you can work on more, go ahead

be a part of a community to keep you accountable

tumblr and facebook groups in my opinion are the best ways you can connect with other women who are working on the same thing. you can inspire one another, bounce ideas off of one another, and it’s super fun. you might want to even document your journey online.

set milestones and have a reward system

let’s say you would like to lose or gain weight, no matter the number, focus on 5-10 pound increments. when each milestone is successfully completed, reward yourself with something nice. maybe it’s getting your nails done, or splurging on a product that everyone on tiktok keeps talking about. apply this to any of your goals where there are milestones to get to.

don’t waste the day

you should not have any “zero days” meaning… you should be doing at least one thing everyday to reach a goal(s) you have. it doesn’t matter if one goal was to maintain a more organized, clean environment— do your dishes, set the trash out, clean up the hair from the bathroom sink, etc.

[333angelnumber333]

sugarybisous

[adoree-skyl4]

My love for this aesthetic is insane ୨୧

(not me in these pics!!)

[hellobabydoll333]

Hii can you make affirmations on Song Jia??

It girl: Song Jia Affirmations

🍒🍰 I always put myself first

🍒🍰 I don’t see anyone above me

🍒🍰 My only competition is myself

🍒 🍰 I’m the it girl of it girls

🍒 🍰 I am my own object of inspiration, admiration and my muse

🍒 🍰 My aura is pink & heart-shaped

🍒 🍰 I always prioritize myself

🍒 🍰 I never allow anyone to have any power over me

🍒 🍰 People often call me charismatic

🍒 🍰 I am my ideal self

🍒 🍰 There’s no one better than me

🍒 🍰 I have no problem with being me, I’d want to be reincarnated as myself again

🍒 🍰 I know my worth

🍒 🍰 I am an icon through and through

🍒 🍰 I never let anyone take advantage of me

🍒 🍰 My perfection is reflected in everything I do

🍒 🍰 My beauty is unstoppable & incomparable

Note: hi hi here u go! 😊

Wonyoung ver.

[2000sbbygirl]

heart shaped belly rings!

[pllblog]

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Heyy, Angels! I love having cute sleepovers with my BFF. It can be hard to have ideas for sleepovers. I want you guys to know some of my favorite things to do at sleepovers along with some new ideas of my own. Grab your pencil and journal. Lets get our cute sleepovers planned. Enjoy!

Go to a coffee shop

Dress up in a cute outfit. Bring a bag with a book and study supplies. Walk to your local coffee shop and try each others favorite drink. Talk to your friend about life and chill.

Paint nails

Put on cozy socks and cute face masks. Play you and your friends favorite show. Me and my friend watch Pretty little liars! If you don't have a favorite show you both like I recommend looking!

movie & popcorn

What's your favorite movie? Mines Coraline. watch each other's favorite movies and microwave some popcorn. Relax and grab blankets and pillows!

Learn a dance

Learn a dance choreography off of YouTube! Have fun and don"t be afraid to mess up. when you guys are done show the dance to a sibling or parent.

Deep talk

Get serious with your friend. Tell each other secrets and about things that you don"t think you have ever told anyone about yourself. Friends keep secrets.

Go to the mall

Go to the mall! Me and my BFF love going to barns and noble and Starbucks. whats your favorite store in the mall?

photo shoot

Get dressed up in your cutest outfits. take tons of photos. If you need ideas look at Pinterest! Print your favorite photos at the end for memories.

XOXO, E

[angelicflirt]

just girly things ₊˚⊹ ᰔ

[dreamgirlvibes]

Exciting NEWS! 📖

I’m selling the short version of my E-Book for $5 as a soft launch! Get it now! 💎 I am so happy with the results and the beautiful rendition of it and so much advice! It’s giving Dream Girl Mood Board and I am sooooo ecstatic to share with all my dreamy babies! You can send me a message for the direct invoice and link to purchase! I’ll be making a video very soon to speak about the entire DROP which is coming out in 2 weeks with you all 💖🏆😮‍💨 I hope y’all love it as much as I do. Xoxo 💋

[ash-says]

Things to be aware of as a Hopeless Romantic:

We all have been there daydreaming about the perfect man, the perfect life, the perfect whatever,etc. Still life is not full of roses and thorns are inevitable.

So here are some aspects to look out for according to me so that you won't fall in the delulu is the only solulu trap.

Remember if you follow me, we don't do regrets here. We accept, take accountability and move on. We don't soak ourselves in problems. We solve them effectively.

1) Drop those rose-colored glasses. Crush them under your feet and now look at the world again. Learn to accept reality. It is what it is. Not what you make it out to be. Learn to become an observer of your life from time to time. It will give you the real picture.

2) Potential is useless if you are not leveraging it. It's a trap both for yourself and others. You see potential in him of changing and being a good guy?? Girl, he *IS* not a good guy. It's not your job to raise a man. It's embarrassing. Stop babysitting grown men.

3) Standards are important but ensure they are not rooted in fantasy. Let's be honest finding a man who is rich, dark, tall, sexy and talks in the way you read in your romance novels is difficult. I am not saying it's impossible but don't be too rigid. All I will say is make sure you are also on the level where if you come across such a man he should be ready to date you.

4) Men view sex differently than us women. I know many of you will get triggered after reading this but the majority of men really view women as sex dolls. Blame the porn industry maybe. Good men exist but not every other man who talks sweetly is good.

5) A person in your life treats you nicely. Always talk sweetly, tells you that you matter to them but their actions don't match it. Chances are you are being breadcrumbed. Plans being cancelled? Messages being unseen? But when confronted all you get is,"Sorry love, I was busy. I was going to do it. You matter a lot,etc etc." Breadcrumbing. Be smart it can happen even in friendships too. I understand people get busier with time and things do happen. Use your discernment to see who really is busy and who is faking to be busy.

6) That uncle was so kind to me. He talked to me sweetly and always tried to help me out. Now, that's really sweet of him. Next he calls you home to help out with the household chores and he is alone at home because his wife is out of town for some work. Would you go and help? Yes. Will you go alone? No. That's unsafe.

No matter how much a gentleman a man appears to be you are not allowed to be in a situation where he could potentially take advantage of you. You always bring along a friend or deny it. I know it's wrong to not help someone but at your own risk. No. Never. It's common knowledge in our society.

7) Dreaming of a Prince Charming to whisk you away from all your troubles??? Dream on. The idea that a soulmate or one person will magically solve all our issues is dumb. We as human beings add to each other's happiness rather than becoming the core of it.

8) One of the biggest mistakes I have seen girls around me make is of being fully invested in a relationship to the point one small fight makes them depressed. That's codependency. It's unhealthy.

9) Never make your relationship your identity. You should always have a separate identity out of it. Stop curating yourself for your partners. Morphing yourself according to their likes and dislikes. That's one way ticket to an identity crisis after breakup. Compromises are essential but changing your core self??? Crazy shit.

10) Your relationship should not be the reason for your downfall. It happens especially with my intense girlies we invest so much of ourselves in the relationship to the point it becomes our focal point and when it faces upheavals we are devastated. The mental distress starts flowing in other areas of your life and suddenly your grades are falling, your career seems unstable, etc. Develop the emotional strength to compartmentalize your emotions and not allow them to overflow in other areas and affect them.

Imagination is fertile but being delusional is being stuck in a swamp.

That's all for today's show on ash-says. Stay tuned for more illegal tricks and explosive opinions.

[blissfullyecho]

ideas to work on during your self-improvement journey [that girl]

1. body language— both reading and practicing (perfect for those of you who are verbally awkward)

2. being more exclusive with your time, effort, energy, and presence

3. finding a theme or mantra during your self development journey— it helps if you are someone that finds quotes and words helpful and as reminders

4. strengthening your life skills such as cooking, baking, cleaning, budgeting, shopping smart, self-defense, etc.

5. evaluating your boundaries and communicating your boundaries

6. not letting anxiety or depression become who you are and defining you as a person

7. learning how to enjoy being alone without feeling lonely

8. identifying self-destructive behaviors such as taking toxic exes back or self-sabotaging

9. becoming more bold with the actions you take towards something you really want aka going for it with your whole heart

10. not letting rejection hit you personally. it’s okay that we’re not a right fit for someone just like it’s okay when they’re not a right fit for us— that doesn’t mean we think horrible things about them and vice versa so stop taking rejection personally

11. not getting attached prematurely

12. not pushing anyone away once we feel like we’re becoming close

13. setting standards for yourself and who + what comes into your life

join my self-development membership page here that has dozens of free ebooks that i’ve purchased, 2.5 hours of leveling up audio content that i don’t post on tumblr, and the addition of weekly content uploaded every wednesday or thursday 🤍

[333angelnumber333]

nail inspo #1

[funfettified]

details from my igirl fallon top + shorts ᰔᩚ🎀🦇

[diaryofdesi]

having pink workout gear is a motivation for me!

[2000sbbygirl]

victoria's secret

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⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚ 2000's Night Routine˚୨୧⋆｡˚ ⋆

Hey, angels! I hope today has been a good one. I am currently very tired from finals week. I wanted a cute night routine so, I created one for us to share. I usually start my night routine after dinner. enjoy!

Hygiene

Hygiene is a part of self-care. wash your face, brush your teeth and hair. Take a shower if you don't in the morning. stay clean and fresh!

Change into pjs

put on your cutest pj set. It is important that we sleep cute and comfortable.

Stretch

Pretend you're a ballerina, if you want to romanticize it. stretching will help you sleep better. It is a great way to wind down after a long day.

Paint your nails

Take time to paint your nails. while you're at it you can call your BFF or watch your fav show. Who doesn't want cute nails!?

Watch your fav show

My favorite shows are Pretty little liars and The Vampire Diaries. what are your favorite shows? Get cozy!

Read and/or journal

My favorite things to read are magazines and rom-coms. Tell me in the comments what your favorite thing to read is. While reading or journaling light a candle. Set the mood.

sleep like an angel!

XOXO, E