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Episode #2022-16, Evolution

My version of comics by Husband & Husband

Original: https://www.instagram.com/p/BvAkNqBBGR2/

[waysingleton]

HEAVYSET ALPHABET: A is for Amoreau! He's studying abroad in the States, from France, and took a work-study gig in the college's library. To his surprise, many library-goers seem to always need his help specifically. "Waoh! Les américains aiment beaucoup les livres !!" Seems like books aren't the only things being checked out 😍 !

[unabashedmakersalad]

Best Relationships Dating And Singles

[klim0vski]

WHATEVER YOU DO, DON’T DOUBLE TEXT HIM!

WATCH THIS FIRST!

[absentmoon]

ok im back from lunch SO . i think spade uses she/they/neos..... shes like. not a girl but she IS a girlfriend but only for aesthetic purposes its like makeup. sometimes she forgets that gender is like, a real thing for a lot of people and not just like. not??? like she sees her gender as one might view a uquiz result or personality type. relevant but only in an amusing way

[desertmage]

My bf took me to my first expensive restaurant! The food was delicious! We even had dessert mage 😱😂

[aurohollo]

WizAir (* not thirsty, just self is thee Art & the day is my stage, multi-persona-shapeshifting-funseeker-b1111onaireHearted-single) #gaydating #gaypride #altgay #gayrocker #gaypunk #gaylove #gaythugs #gayskater #gayskinhead (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CejZypRpAwX/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Coffee (ep.2023 -10)

[neoangelo987]

I wish I could have taken a handsome boy to prom with me.

I wish I could have held my hands around his waist as we swayed to Ed Sheeran in that thick crowd on the dance floor, regardless of who was staring.

I wish I could have cuddled with him all night at a slumber party later that night.

I wish we could have spooned each other all night as we shared a blanket on a hardwood floor.

I wish I could have taken him to the beach on the weekend.

I wish we could have collected sea shells together.

I wish we could have held hands walking up and down the boardwalk, playing games, going on rides, and watching the hot day shift to a cool; windy night.

[cotieguzman]

Poly, Married and With Kids

I went on a second date today.

If you can believe it I connected with him over Tinder (shocker, I know). The only reason I bothered wanting to go on a date (which, if I am honest I thought was not a date when we first met for coffee) are for two reasons:

He is married, has kids (and is still happily married and living with his wife), is in a polyamorous relationship exploring what his bisexuality means to him.

After a few exchanges he wanted to meet in person because he prefers direct and open lines of communications face-to-face (boner!)

Why would the first point be a point of attraction? I know you're asking. Let me tell you.

I barely have time to remember to wipe my own ass if I take too long of a shit so the idea of a full time boyfriend exhausts me. So knowing that he has a life outside of my own that he is committed to going back to is appealing to me. I currently don't have the time or energy for a full time boyfriend (at least I think I don't). One day I could likely commit to something like this but I have found myself with barely enough time to breath.

Anywhoooo.

So I have gone on a second date. The first date was an obvious success. We went for coffee. I always have an exit strategy for coffee dates because I usually get bored after about an hour and I will want to move on with my day.

This time it was different for me.

Outside of questions involving some clarification around the dynamic of his relationship, a basic understanding of what he might be looking for in someone, I was actually intrigued by who this dude was. Firstly, hes fit (I know what you're thinking but seriously, I need someone who can climb a mountain with me and not fucking die). Secondly, he has a career as a medic in the military. Thirdly, he is a NERD! Like, we talked Star Trek, Battlestar Galactica and plants. Fourthly, he is fu-ck-ing hot (at least by my standards anyways). Firth(ly?), when we sat and talked over coffee (which was for 2.5 hours) he never once had his phone out. He didn't need to chronically check it or need to have it sitting out on the table like a security blanket.

After we finished our coffee date I felt refreshed and when I asked if I could kiss him (in public people, lets get used to this), I was his first kiss with a man ever. Do I hear birds singing in the background?

So, second date happened today. If I want to get to know someone I am going to avoid doing something like the movies, or seeing a show or something that is going to keep me from talking with the person (time is very precious to me so LETS GO).

We went to a board game cafe. I like board games a lot and he mentioned that he did also.

It was a great choice in the end.

At this point, the only shitty thing about sitting across the table and kicking his ass twice at the game was that my normal "I want to fuck this guy on the table" demeanor was starting to kick in. I am still trying to come across as a gentlemen despite knowing that I am a kinky little slut on the inside. *sigh* We played for two hours and decided to head to Campio for some za and beers.

I wanted to kiss him before pizza. I wanted to taste him. So, when we sat in the vehicle I asked (yes, I ask every time at the until I KNOW, you know?) We kissed like fucking teenagers and it felt great.

Campio was great. Now he is opening up about some interesting stories as a medic in the military and I try and make my life seem interesting without having to bring sex into the conversation. Whatever I am doing, it is working.

We finish eating, pay, leave and before we even get into the car we make out in the middle of the parking lot. He drives me home and we make out some more before I get out and go home to bed and make this post instead of being responsible and going to be bed for my 5:00AM wake up for clients (it's currently 12:59AM - I am dead).

You're probably wondering why I didn't take him home and fuck his brains out. Remember what I said about being a gentleman? Yeah, I can do that sometimes. Many people just don't get to see that side of me.

My take home.

Are straight men entering into queerdom my new flavor of interest for considering as a possible romantic partner? It feels nice to have someone want me (but... like this, not because they want to use me for sex) and he actually SAYS it. It also feels kind of nice knowing that I don't have to do all the work arounds of navigating another gay man with the same bullshit narcissism and gay themed trauma we all experience having to deal with one another (excuse the run ons, English was not my strong subject). I also feel refreshed by the idea that he knows NOTHING about me so I don't have to enter into this (whatever this is) with my walls so high I can barely breath.

On the plus of not getting laid.

I can save myself for my live show for my JFF account tomorrow.

[unabashedmakersalad]

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[gaybluedreamer]

being loved 

i treasure so much being loved in a romantic way. i've met so many boys but i've only truly been in love with one. when i was with him, everything seemed so nice. being in his arms was something else. he had a unique touch and we kissed i felt on another reality. sadly we didn't last long but it was nice having someone show me what love is and i hope i get to experience it again soon ;)

[desertmage]

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