#genderflux

[polyamorouspunk]

By the way you can be as much or as little trans as you want to be. Going all-out with bottom/top surgery, hormones, vocal training, etc.? Super cool. Just want hormones and no surgery? Cool. Just want vocal training? Awesome. Just want to wear different clothes? Still trans if that’s what you want. Want to change nothing at all other than using different pronouns than when you were a kid? If it’s trans enough for you, it’s trans enough for me. Only want to be trans sometimes, when you’re in the mood, when Mercury is in retrograde? Sounds legit to me. All levels of transness are valid.

[bloompawz]

Imagine

[actualalivecreature]

not femininity or masculinity but a secret third thing (faggotry)

[oh-look-a-homosexual-punk-bitch]

You can change your name, it doesn't matter how often you change it, it doesn't matter however many names you go by, if you want to, you can change it, you could change it every week, every month, every year, it doesn't matter, you can change your name, don't feel bad about it

[candy8448]

If this post gets 3000 notes by the 16th April, i will come out to my friends

Edit: Should i lower it a bit?

I will lower it a bit

1000 notes

Edit2: im scared 0.0

Edit3: ajahahaaaaaaahhhh nooooo everyone is tagging everyone to spam and akahajaiGsjsuyasbdusb

Edit4: skauagsjeysjsdudhn we've hit the notes 0.0

Thanks :0...... ill come out then... not right away but hopefully before the 16th wish me luck 0.0

@felicitylemon got us to the end soooooo...... tank you

[beautiful-indecision]

[it-is-only-a-novel]

Some nonbinary people don't have a gender.

Some nonbinary people are a third gender.

Some nonbinary people are both a man and a woman.

Some nonbinary people are between man and woman.

Some nonbinary people are a few genders at once.

Some nonbinary people change their gender periodically.

Some nonbinary people have different amounts of gender.

Some nonbinary people have a little bit of a certain gender.

Some nonbinary people don't understand their gender.

They are all nonbinary.

(I'm sure I missed some, and for some more than one may resonate. Add in your own!)

[ssejdoesthings]

Happy coming out day to my fellow queers who have to get out a PowerPoint presentation to explain their identity

Terfs back the fuck off.

[jiabeewrites]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

pride polls: gender edition

put your pronouns in the tags!

reblog to support another genderqueer!

(you'll probaby get a happy pride msg if i see u reblogged)

[strawby-jelli]

A customer called me by BOTH my pronouns today. Like an adult woman not a teen. Nobody has ever done that, not even my friends at work. It made me so happy. Everyone looks at me and just defaults to she/her but that woman actually took my funky lil name tags with cut up stickers into consideration even though we’ll never see each other again

[thefrogginbullfish]

[lemon-penguinn]

I'm nonbinary. People, in general, do not tend to see me as a trans person, even though I identify as one.

Everyone usually thinks of me as a girl. A cis girl who has decided to pass herself off as a nonbinary person, or a trans boy, simply because she thinks it's "trendy". A cis girl who wants to be part of a community because she feels lonely. And that's because, by many people's standards, I just "don't look trans", whatever that means. I guess it's simply because my gender expression is not rigid. It changes.

Deep down, I feel like a stereotype: a teenager with a female body who claims to be a boy but occasionally wears dresses and skirts comfortably. In the eyes of others, perhaps, I am nothing more than a cis girl infiltrating trans spaces. I'll be honest: I've cried over this very situation many times, because, what am I to do about it?

Do I have to change and stick to the gender role that is expected of someone like me? Do I really have to change the way I show myself just because I'm not a girl, but I also don't perceive myself fully as a boy?

I think that's ridiculous.

In the end, saying that "if you are nonbinary you have to be androgynous" is something that perpetuates stereotypes and gender roles. It's like telling a trans girl that, to be a real girl, she has to wear a skirt - it makes no sense. Do all girls only ever wear skirts and dresses? Do all boys only ever wear black, loose tank tops?

Of course they don't.

My expression, my tastes, my clothes, my voice, and the way I act do NOT determine my gender identity at all, just like my private parts. Because I believe that gender is a part of us. Not a part of our body, our clothes or our personality. It's true, though, that our gender identity can influence those other things. I think that's why certain actions or concepts make us dysphoric or euphoric: because our gender influences whether we perceive positively or negatively those things that affect us.

But, until the day most of society can understand that gender isn't a rigid set of rules, nonbinary people will remain generally perceived as no more than "girls who want attention" (if we live in a female body) and "weird boys" (if we live in a male body). We do not exist. Breaking out of binarism is seen as a phase that will end once we grow up. Because, apparently, many people think that being nonbinary is something that doesn't exist in the adult world.

[ofishal-fish-posts]

3,000 Followers Special: Official Fish Posts Gender Reveal

I have exactly, and I do mean exactly, 3,000 followers as of posting this...

So it's time for the big reveal...

I am genderfluid!

I am also genderflux!