#genderqueer man

[genderqueerblog]

I don't have anyone irl to tell this too, so I hope it's okay to tell you.

I'm genderqueer, genderfluid, and transmasculine. I've been identifying that way for a couple years now. But recently I've been thinking about how much masculinity plays into my identity. I basically have 7 genders, and all but one have some degree of intrinsic masculinity and/or maleness, and the one that doesn't (exclusively a woman) is the rarest. My most common gender is genderqueer man. I want to go on hrt, get top and bottom surgery, and change my legal sex to male. I'm comfortable with people assuming I'm a guy, grouping me with guys, etc. I decided I want to recognize this in the way I label myself, but I'm still in the process of picking a label. I don't know which way I'll go, and I'm open to suggestions. I'm considering:

-genderfluid (what I am now)

-genderfluid man

-genderfluid trans man

-genderfluid and a guy

I just needed to tell someone because the only friend I was out to doesn't talk to me anymore, and posting on my tumblr feels so lonely. Thank you.

December 1, 2023.

I apologize for the wait, but I'm glad you shared this. It's an honor to be able to use this blog as an outlet for my closeted siblings.

Whether you're labeling yourself as genderfluid, a genderfluid man, a genderfluid trans man, genderfluid and a guy, something else, or you haven't decided yet, I hope that you have a friend you can be yourself around again, and that you feel more confident than you did when you sent this ask.

[thatqueergarbagerat]

Forgot I had [can't think of a word that doesn't make me dysphoric] for a second and now I'm sad that I can't go downstairs shirtless

[shk0lstun-flagz]

Rosboy

for any mlm / nbylm that feel feminine in nature

( alternative flag made for fun )

[dragonpride17]

Thank you for answering our question re: self-coined and kink terms! Here are some further requests, some of them fitting that description:

-kinkgender (https://ix-c-999.tumblr.com/post/713521657985335296/kinkgender-a-gender-experienced-in-relation-to) -pellic (https://ix-c-999.tumblr.com/post/745214669557497856/pellic-a-term-for-someone-who-prefers-non-sexual) -cupiopellic (https://ix-c-999.tumblr.com/post/747570196306444288/cupiopellic-cupiopellic-is-a-term-for-somebody-who) -bambi gay (this flag https://static.miraheze.org/lgbtawiki/f/f8/Bambi_gay_flag.png) -turigirl -delphinian -non-binary man, but could you make one with the same flag that says "genderqueer man" as well? (this flag https://static.miraheze.org/lgbtawiki/thumb/8/86/Nonbinary_man.png/1200px-Nonbinary_man.png)

Thank you once again!!!!!!!

[ID: 8 blinkies of different pride flags, with the name of each label in pixel lettering. In order, they are kinkgender, pellic, cupiopellic, bambi gay, turigirl, delphinian, and non-binary man (2 blinkies reading "nonbinary man" and "genderqueer man"). /end ID]

thank you for the request!! <3

[valentinesie]

＃％．GENDERQUEER REDESIGN ‹ ꜝ

Info and images ids under the cut!

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EXPLANATIONS ᶻz﹒﹒﹪﹒﹒＞0☆

A flag for anyone whos genderqueer! I made it simply because I personally don't feel any connection toward the green and purple one, not to mention how it looks like the t//rf flag.

GENDERQUEER: an umbrella term with a similar meaning to non-binary. It can be used to describe binary cisgender and transgender people within the LGBT+ community who feel that they have a queer or non-normative experience with their gender. It can also be used alone, as it is a broad term!

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STRIPES && MEANINGS ᶻz﹒﹒﹪﹒﹒＞0☆

In order, 1. Complex gender identity or presentation. 2. Non-comformity through the binary lenses of non lgbts. 3. Feminity, throught a queer lense. 4. The overall experience of being genderqueer. 5. Masculinity, through a queer lense. 6. Ones gender identity and sexuality being tied. 7. Poc genderqueer individuals and the beauty of the genderqueer / gnc community.

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IMAGES IDS ᶻz﹒﹒﹪﹒﹒＞0☆

1 & 2 Genderqueer redesign: A rectangular flag with 7 stripes that are, in order: Grape purple, Pink, Flamingo pink, A larger barley white stripe, light yellowish green, Leaf green, Plantation green.

Icons are Ukyo from Amnesia && Sonico!

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[neopronouns]

veldiquerl | lesquoy

veldiquerl/turiquerl: someone who is both a veldian/turian/gay man and a genderqueer girl; a genderqueer girl veldigirl/turigirl

lesquoy: someone who is both a lesbian and a genderqueer boy; a genderqueer boy lesboy

[pt: veldiquerl/turiquerl: someone who is both a veldian/turian/gay man and a genderqueer girl; a genderqueer girl veldigirl/turigirl

lesquoy: someone who is both a lesbian and a genderqueer boy; a genderqueer boy lesboy. end pt]

more veldigirl and lesboy terms! colors are from/based on the veldigirl, lesboy, genderqueer guy, and genderqueer gal flags. the first term is 'veldigirl'/'turigirl' with the 'gi' replaced with the 'que' from 'genderqueer', and the second is 'lesboy' with the 'b' replaced with the 'qu' from 'genderqueer'. i went with 'querl' over 'quirl' so as not to get confused with qirl!

flag id: two flags with 6 stripes. the left flag's stripes, in order, are very dark purple, dark blue, turquoise, very light orange, soft red, and dark purplish-pink. the right flag's stripes, in order, are dark indigo, pink-red, light orange, very light orange, soft teal, and dark sky blue. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

dni link

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Genderqueer Gay Man Pride Flag

Gay: experiencing homo attraction; umbrella term for those attracted to the same gender or similar genders (alike their own); homo-/simul-/simili-.

Genderqueer: an umbrella term for non-normative genders and non-cis identities; someone whose gender identity does not correspond to conventional binary notions of gender.

[genderqueerdykes]

Hiya ! I'm a trans / genderqueer guy and I'm wondering, is it normal for me to not want to get a binder ? Double sport bras is already hell enough sensory wise (I'm autistic) and I just,, don't wanna. Farthest I'd go would be trans tape. But I'm worried I wouldn't be valid ? I've never really had a problem with not passing but i'm just paranoid that I might be outcasted from other transmascs in the community :-(

it is your transition, not theirs, so when asking if something is appropriate for transitioning in your body, it's really important to consider your needs first and above all else

that's completely normal =) for most of my life, i have not worn binders. when i was in middle n high school i wore two loose sports bras, and for a while after that, but then i just stopped due to back pain, and autism sensory issues. i got a proper binder and then wore it for about... 3 months before going wow, i like this even less!!

neurodivergent ppl, chronic pain havers, and hell, even some NT able bodied trans guys just don't wanna bind. that's just as much of a trans man experience as any other. besides, you do have to take your health and safety into concern, and overall it is better for your body to not have a constant source of very tight compression around your rib cage.

so i wouldn't worry about any possible stray comments from someone with low self esteem, you are taking your transition into your own hands. your body, your transition, your agency. you make up the rules. nobody gets to tell you how you identify based off of a garment of clothing you may or may not decide to wear. i hope that helps, take care, good luck, stay safe out there, you are valued!

[raccoon-queer]

y'know what? I just realized that I stopped seeing myself as a girl a while ago. when I look in the mirror, I see a boy, even though most people still perceive me as female. it's weirdly validating in a really nice way. I don't care how people perceive me anymore because I perceive myself as a guy and it's my gender my rules no matter what pronouns the 70 y/o man I cashed out at work yesterday used for me. I'm pre-T, pre-surgery, pre-everything, and yet I've found a way to love myself that no one can ever take away from me

[kim-elysium]

It was really warm in my city today and I dressed accordingly

[high-theyre-frendough]

Today is a rare moment in which I feel sexy. I looked in the mirror and while I know that I do be stoned as fuck, I am more of myself than I ever have been.

Thanks to an increased dosage of testosterone, I have been getting even more masculine. I’m harrier!! I love it! My face is getting scratchy with more hair and acne!!! I smell even more like a man (according to my gf who says the smell is getting stronger; she also keeps pointing out my facial hair). I look more like a man. I talk more like one. I feel more like one.

My mullet has been coming in the way I like it that gets people telling me that they’re confused how I manage to pull off wearing it. I look more sexy. All I need is to be able to afford a few things to finish my body modifications and preferences (tattoos, piercings, maybe a dick).

One day I will be exactly how I should be. Today is not quite. I love myself though. Maybe it is the antidepressants that I was finally prescribed talking, but I think I want to be alive. I want to look at myself shirtless in the mirror and look at my flat, hairy chest.

More than a year post op and I can look at myself sexy in the mirror. Scars instead of heavy triple Ds and nipples. I am more of myself.

Every day, I slowly become more of myself. One day, I will learn who I am.

[genderqueerblog]

Genderqueer cis-ish man culture is wincing when people call you “Mr,” even though you’re very much a man, and feeling confused about why that is

[shk0lstun-flagz]

Gxrly Trans Man / FTM / MTM

An identity meant to ease dysphoria, and/or help deal with transphobes by simply ignoring them as they don’t matter. For trans men that would like to reclaim the traditional “fem” terms/pronouns that incorrectly get used on them as gender neutral instead. The x is there to indicate NOT being a binary girl at all but instead it’s connected to the word “girl” in a nonbinary/gender neutral way, or in a way a man would consider themself to be “girly”

Shx FTM Pronoun Flag

Shx/Hxr/Hxrs/Hxrself

This pronoun flag is meant to go with the Gxrly trans man identity by viewing all the times you get called “she/her” as gender neutral. I feel like shx/hxr is a cool gender neutral looking version even if it sounds the same 💀 made this for myself since I simply cannot use regular she/her as a transman lol, but others can and that’s cool too

She FTM Pronoun Flag

For trans men who are comfortable with regular she/her pronouns :)

[none-gender-left-man]

Heard it's butch day 😌 (any pronouns but she/her, no thirst or flirting- only aesthetic compliments thanks)

All the old people at my new nursing home laundry job gender me correctly without even knowing ("young man" 🤭) and I work with like five other badass butches of various orientations and gender alignment on my team I am thriving in the gender department rn - Talon

[quoteunquoteman]

I am not broken, I am not ill, I am not monstrous, I’m just me. And you are just you.

[neopronouns]

flag id: three flags in a nine-stripe format, with the fifth stripe being twice as large as the rest. only the first, second, third, and fifth stripes have color, while the rest are transparent. the top flag's stripes, in order, are dark yellow-green, pale indigo, and white, and cream. the bottom left flag's stripes, in order, are very dark yellow-green, pale indigo, very light sky blue, and cream. the bottom right flag's stripes, in order, are dark yellow-green, pale indigo, very light pink, and cream. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

heir heiror | heiress

genderqueer role systems! 'heir' is used in both masculine and neutral senses, so i just made up an additional word lol.

heir system genders are genders related to being an heir of [x]/an [x] heir. they are connected to [x], [x] aesthetics, heir aesthetics, and being genderqueer. these terms should be named as ‘[x]heir’ - for example, a kitten heir system gender might be called ‘kittenheir’.

heiror system genders are genders related to being an heiror of [x]/an [x] heiror. they are connected to [x], [x] aesthetics, heiror aesthetics, and genderqueer boy/guy/manhood. these terms should be named as ‘heiro[x]’ - for example, a kitten heiror system gender might be called ‘heirokitten’.

heiress system genders are genders related to being an heiress of [x]/an [x] heiress. they are connected to [x], [x] aesthetics, heiress aesthetics, and genderqueer girl/gal/womanhood. these terms should be named as ‘heire[x]’ - for example, a kitten heir system gender might be called ‘heirekitten’.

to use these templates, place them over a ten-stripe flag template and color in the five blank stripes. typically, terms in these gender systems use the same color on the two stripes surrounding the large middle stripe (here's one example and another), but they don't have to.

tags: @radiomogai

dni link