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csuitebitches · 3 months
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Traits I’ve Noticed in Confident People 
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Disciplined - if a target is set, it is achieved 
Speaking - Can speak multiple languages. Can express thoughts clearly even if vocabulary is limited. The listener understands their point. 
Strong extroversion socially - can approach and talk to new people with ease, but also make them feel comfortable. Good at following up, asking questions and inserting little stories about themselves without exposing too much 
Strong general knowledge / industry knowledge. They know what they’re talking about 
Hard to please but not arrogant about it. They won’t readily accept a fact or opinion, even if the majority agrees - they’ll debate with it, think over it, play the devil’s advocate
Good posture
Strong set of principles and self control. There’s no shame in wanting to say, help someone, choose not to drink socially, buy a coffee for a poor person on the street; they don’t hesitate to do good deeds 
Hygienic. Clean, groomed, well dressed, well maintained. 
Observant and proactive at the same time. Can pick up on body language relatively easily - can sense discomfort or unease in someone and do something about it. 
Have a strong sense of self identity. Can be opinionated but open to challenges. 
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girljournalsblog · 3 months
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retrogirl0s · 1 year
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How to get Your Life Together🌼💡
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Remember you can always start again. Clean out your social media. Create a new account for your new taste in music. Start socialising with new people. Choose new signature scent and style and purge the outdated parts of yourself. If you don't like where you are at, but you don't know what to do about it?! Try starting again.
And this is some simple tips to get your life together, you can follow now :
Have a signature accessory clothing article, make up look, or hair style.
Have a fragrance Make your hair scents and lotions match your perfume.
It's okay to dine alone Bring a book or people watch.
Love your hair Research the best brands for your hair type and use masks weekly.
Your nails don't need to be fancy, but keep them maintained.
Stay worldly Know works of art, artists, designers, films, books, politicians.
Spend your lunch break reading the paper or a magazine.
Crying is not a weapon It's okay to feel your emotions, but never use them as an excuse to avoid your problems.
Jealousy is boring Love and appreciate others. If you can't love them, forget them.
Boost others Flatter others, but don't deprecate yourself in the process.
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Don’t sulk Don't let the whole world know your problems. If you don't want someone to give their opinion. don't share your situation.
Your life is between you and the universe Don't post your personal matters for others to see.
Don’t emotionally blackmail others They hurt you? Let them know and then move on. It's between the two of you and not the world.
Cook dinner Cook dinner and listen to music, the radio, or a podcast.
Treat yourself to candles and flowers. Be your own cheerleader.
Take naps Take a cat nap on a Sunday afternoon with the blinds open.
Drink your water, eat your vegetables. Take care of your body.
Never have time to take off your jewelry before bed, but always have time to take off your makeup. Your nighttime skin regime is important.
Mystery is beautiful You don't need to reveal much of or about yourself.
Never appear other than as you are Don't lie about yourself. Embrace who you are at your core.
Love & light 💕
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blissofthesoul · 1 year
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I thought I would share my answer to a therapy prompt, I haven't realize how much my mindset has shifted but I figured someone might need to hear something like this as I wish someone told me this growing up.
I did everything I could in this situation and that in time my chance would come. I was asked, how did I know this was what I wanted to do? How did I know I would get to where I was be today? How did I know that I would be successful in the occupation I dreamed of?
I don't know if you are religious but I am, God gives us a mustard seed of belief and that's all we start with; that's all we need to believe in Him, In ourselves, in our situation, in our abilities. It's alot like characteristics or talents or hobbies, at first we don't know what it is that we like, we don't know if we will succeed but If we believe enough in it and we continue to foster it and grow with it, we see ourselves start to flourish more. It's a whole lot like faith, it's believing that our time to succeed will come but for right now it's about learning the things that will makes us grow. God puts us through situation because he knows when we are at our weakest we are actually at our strongest because in the moment we are able to see all that is around us clearer which is when we are able to take in the knowledge we need to grow. Stop letting the world define what success means to means to you. The more we give the power to the world the more we start doing it for them and not for ourselves. Success look different for everyone, it might be similar but it's never the same. When we are able to determine what success look for ourselves, we stop looking towards other for a definition, we stop comparing our abilities and talents, our characteristics, our hobbies. We know at this point the world/occupation is unfair, your level 10 might be someone level 1 or level 50, there is someone who will be at a disadvantage but it about taking that disadvantage and fostering it to the point they can no longer say it is a disadvantage but now a advantage. This world gives us plenty of opportunities to make life fair, it about taking and having courage to succeed.
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my-self-reflections · 9 months
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sandramiksaauthor · 11 months
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What to do After You Relapse (11 Steps to Get Back on Track)
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amaretrapp · 1 year
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2023 What Will It Be…….
It’s a new year so it’s time to start new. Know that you can control small parts of your future. It’s time to start a new era of yourself. Know that you are powerful. You are strong. You can do whatever you set your heart to do. As long as we stay positive and keep striving for our goals anything can happen. Also let’s remove anything that’s negative out of our lives. If we have individuals that are not doing anything for us but giving us a toxic relationship/environment, it means that it’s time for them to be removed. Surround yourself with people who are clapping for you instead of hating.
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designerdollar · 1 year
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Don't relegate valuable personalities to such cheap slums.🍁 _𝓀𝒶𝓏𝒾 𝐹𝒶𝒾𝓏 𝒜𝒽𝓂𝑒𝒹
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ccorinthian · 2 years
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fuck you ageism fuck you life ending at 30 fuck you makeup industry forcing us to feel bad about a natural process fuck you hustle culture fuck you instagram fuck you youtube fuck you glorification and deification of youth fuck you who make people feel bad for not having "achieved anything" in their 20s fuck you people who peaked in high school and try to drag everybody down by insisting it's all downhill after 19
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putting my prediction on record now that the coming decade is going to see the rise of viral-marketed fancy at-home water filtration systems, driving and driven by a drastic reduction in the quality of U.S. tap water (given that we are in a 'replacement era' where our current infrastructure is reaching the end of its lifespan--but isn't being replaced). also guessing that by the 2030s access to drinkable tap water will be a mainstream class issue, with low-income & unstably housed people increasingly forced to rely on expensive bottled water when they can't afford the up-front cost of at-home filtration--and with this being portrayed in media as a "moral failing" and short-sighted "choice," rather than a basic failure of our political & economic systems. really hope i'm just being alarmist, but plenty of this already happens in other countries, and the U.S. is in a state of decline, so. here's praying this post ages into irrelevance. timestamped April 2023
#apollo don't fucking touch this one#serious post#not a shitpost#hope i forget about this post and have no reason to ever look back on it one day#fyi i'm aware that access to potable water is already a major issue in parts of the U.S. yes i know flint michigan exists#i'm saying that this issue is going to GROW unless local & federal governments work together to fix it.#so it's a matter of if we trust them to fix it. And well--do you?#what are the chances the government just denies there's a problem until the water actually turns brown#at which point it's already been common knowledge for years and people have just become resigned and that's our new normal#i'm mean come on. how many of us already believe that we're being exposed to dangerous pollutants we don't know about and can't avoid#like that's pretty much just part of being a modern consumer. accepting that companies will happily endanger your life for a few pennies#and the most you'll get is like a $50 gift card as part of a class action rebate 20 years down the line#probably the history books will look back on Flint as a warning and a harbinger that went ignored#luxury condos will advertise their built-in top-of-the-line filtration systems--live here and you can drink water straight from your tap!#watch the elite professional class putting $700 dyson water filtration systems on their wedding registry#while the rest of us figure out how to fit water delivery into our grocery budget while putting 90% of our paycheck towards rent#also eggs are $15
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tutterypuff · 6 months
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I'VE BEEN SLEEPING A THOUSAND YEARS, GOT TO OPEN MY EYES TO EVERYTHING
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csuitebitches · 2 months
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Level Up Pyramid.
I will never stop yapping about how important it is to get your basics right. If your base routine is not solid, no matter what you add on to it, it will never be sustainable.
most of us get motivated in the middle of the night, build an elaborate routine that we’ll follow for less than 2 days and we’re back to square one.
I get so many asks about girls getting stressed over their routine and how they should solve the issue. If your routine is stressing you out, you need to cut. It. Down.
this is a pyramid that will teach you to get the basics down and in what order.
if your foundation is strong, your base routine will be an unshakeable of your life. if it is an unshakeable part of your life, you will slowly but surely get better at those things. as you get better at those things, your confidence will increase. as your confidence increases, you will be ready and motivated to take on more challenges.
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theloveinc · 1 month
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OlderDad!Bakugou who gets a haircut and his baby doesn't recognize him and he doesn't want his dad to pick him up 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Bakugou has a cry in the bathroom and you have to spend the rest of the night consoling him.
Also Hiiiiiii, miss u, hope youre gooooood
head in my hands bc of this, just thought abt bakugo growing out his hair a little bit right after baby's birth...takes him months to go and get a real haircut cuz he doesn't wanna burden you more than he already has and by the time he's okay with the thought (but only for "AN HOUR MAX," is what he says), he has a mullet thing going on and all this scruff on his chin🥺🥺🥺
so he gets home with his regular ol' haircut, maybe a little shorter just to account for ... not wanting to go again so soon, and baby's HOLLERING bloody murder as soon as they see him and refusing to be taken out of your arms, doing that thing where they're flipping their face back and forth to dodge a kiss...
it's so tragic bc not even a little cheek nuzzling helps to calm them bc bakugo's CLEAN SHAVEN and smells like aftershave instead of like dad when he tries!!!!!!
and after, you watch him kinda sulk into the bathroom, thinking like aw yeah thats a bummer but also pretty funny, too (esp bc the haircut does look good🫣🤓), AND HE DOESN'T COME OUT FOR LIKE an hour???
....until you finally have to ask him if he's okay in there and you're opening the door to him sitting on the toilet seat, arms crossed and red cheeks a little streaky with tears...
LJFKASDJFADSJK it's the cutest, most sad sight you ever did see!! ofc Bakugo tries to deny it, but the way he tears up again (after you're done assuring him he did nothing wrong) when his baby finally realizes it's him and smiles (and then how he refuses to give them up again until bedtime) has his ass. EXPOSED.
(i love and miss u more than air, earth, water, dirt + HOPE YOU'RE GOOD TOO BESTIE ILY)
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me: i live for fanfic comments. they are all that sustains me. they are my life's very blood.
also me: [the actual worst person on earth at replying to said cherished comments in a timely fashion, rolling up into people's ao3 inboxes like five months to two years after the fact to say thanks for reading]
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elation-station · 10 months
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the town bisexuals are at your door it is time for you to pick a bride
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wwxsflutesolo · 8 months
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"Chuuya. Come to your senses. Our fate will not end in a place like this. Because you and I are destined to—"
@/kedreeva// ernest hemingway - the old man and the sea// death cab for cutie - summer years// unknown// unknown// lidia yuknavitch - the chronology of water: a memoir// richard siken - saying your names// taylor swift - gorgeous// unknown// victor hugo - les miserables// jeanette winterson - lighthousekeeping// sylvia Plath - lady lazarus// margaret atwood - power politics// tory adkisson - Anecdote of the Pig//richard siken - planet of love, wishbone// ethel cain - hard times// margaret atwood - variations on the word love
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