#girl defined

[one-time-i-dreamt]

not a dream

If you remember Girl Defined (ugh), Kristen and Bethany's brother has accused their mother Heidi of unspeakable things

He did a verified AMA on Reddit some time back where he revealed just how much his family failed to protect him as a child victim of SA and now has come out with something even worse

I knew this family was bizarre and disgusting, but this is worse than I ever imagined

My heart hurts for Michael and I believe him wholeheartedly

Heidi you will pay for your crimes one way or another

[ysabelmystic]

Has anyone recently asked themselves: what is girl defined up to?

Well I’m here to bring you

God honoring sex tips

[spurgie-cousin]

the Jordan and McKay video is going to take me a while to go through and make notes on bc it's 2+ hours long and i have to do other things today sadly lol but I just gotta share this direct quote from Dav that I think is really indicative of where he's at:

"it's at this point where it's like, I hope this isn't true. Because I don't want to go through life always having to think I'm the worst in order to find the life in Christ. And that whole thing (where) it just sort of requires you to feel really bad or at least admit that you're just sort of a nothing, you have nothing. And that's why you need Jesus and isn't this such great news?? It just stopped being good news for me."

After that he talks about how whenever he came to the church about his struggles, his problems were blamed on him not working enough on his faith and relationship with God and how that has a serious effect on how he viewed himself as a person and it is wild to feel like i relate so much to Dāv fkin Beal. I'm also really surprised that he seems to be deconstructing Christianity as a whole as opposed to Bethany's flavor of fundamentalism.

I'll add some more takeaways later as I get through the video but just had to share that one asap

[fundieshaderoom]

Bethany's "Deconstruction" IG QnA

[doomedlvr]

DAVE ACTUALLY DECONSTRUCTED???

[emma-needs-attention]

I saw this while reading a girl defined article and I'm infinitely disappointed that the link doesn't go anywhere

[sadgirlnoga]

My 2024 predictions:

Sssniperwolf will be forced to delete all content featuring her ex husband

Very specific Deviantart accs will become animetoks next targets

Somebodies gonna make an ice cream stand where all the flavors are named after political ideologies, resulting in some of the funniest reviews to ever be seen

Girl defind will be caught in a fraud scandal

Hunter Schafer will announce she is leaving euphoria after the official trailer for season 3 is finally dropped

Numerous claims of Matt Walsh cheating on his wife with trans women(or a trans woman) will be brought to the public eye

A massive amount of family vloggers will have their channels taken down by Youtube, potentially forcing other family vloggers who havent had their channels striked to take down all of their content and/or retire

Copious amounts of forgotten kids shows will become super popular on Tiktok

Deviantart will be floptoks next target

Courtney Love will become a meme

Andrew tate will have beef with Pepsi of all things

Poison will be announced as dlc for Street Fighter 6(again...)

Three Days Grace will be caught in a massive scandal

Liza koshy will be forced to make an apology video, for what? Idk yet

Non russians are gonna discover shkola(2010) and start referring to it as "russian euphoria" (im literally already doing this, no im not russian)

And last but not least( or should i say the least attached with reality of mine yet) a self portrait of Van Gogh will get recalled or sold off to someone, footage of it being brought into a truck will spread across the internet like wild fire.

[disbear]

if you're not obsessed with niche fundie influencer drama like I am then this will mean nothing to you but DAVE FROM GIRL DEFINED IS DECONSTRUCTING. THEY POSTED A VIDEO AND HE LITERALLY SAID OUT LOUD THAT HE IS NO LONGER REALLY A CHRISTIAN AND HE IS DECONSTRUCTING. I FUCKING CALLED IT. I KNEW IT AS SOON AS HE GAVE A NUANCED THOUGHTFUL REVIEW OF THE BARBIE MOVIE. I KNEW IT. FOUR FOR YOU DAVE. YOU GO DAVE.

[abcitycake]

I have officially disowned my adopted mother

I'll keep it short; I'm keeping low contact with her, I'm no longer calling her mom, and only by first name. I never realized until today how really narcissistic she has been my entire life. A year ago I made a post about the ableism, and toxicity she causes. It's fucking over. I had very little relationship before with her to begin with, it was nothing more than a boss and an employee relationship. And only about money. The reason why it's over is because of one, STUPID reason..

Over a two piece swimsuit.

She's a conservative Christian and believes in modesty shit. I've realized how much of a pervert she is. Let that sink in. After this I'm taking measures for changes.

[duggarsetal]

Ellissa and Andrii's son has been born

[one-time-i-dreamt]

Obsessed with the fact that one of the bigots from Girl Defined is trying to rebrand her social media to sell courses on how to make courses allegedly (for $2k, no less) and is also allegedly "heavily inspiring herself" with other people's content and she shared this IG story about somebody who made a parody of her account

Which is, by the way, completely fine and allowed by Instagram's ToS and now she has caused said parody account to get extra attention and notice from others and it went from 14 followers to 600 in less than a day

And she is big mad about it and it even appeared first in the search bar for me, in front of her own account

sheworksshart > sheworkssmart

[ysabelmystic]

In case anyone wanted Girl Defined updates

Bethany Beal and her husband Dav met up with Paul and Morgan and they were such nightmares that Dav came clean about his deconstruction.

So yeah Dav’s not a Christian anymore. Which I did have on my 2024 bingo card I just can’t believe it happened.

Very excited for both of them because maybe this will force Bethany to grow a brain that can fathom things beyond the realm of god honoring anal.

[spurgie-cousin]

(She's joking for those of you like me who couldn't tell lol)

[fundieshaderoom]

Heidi Baird posts THIS on IG after Dav and Bethany's video about Dav's deconstruction journey

[normalvirgin]

I just can help but think all dolls are cute. Even when i searched for pictures of "creepy haunted dolls" all i could think was how fun it would be to brush their hair and sew them clothes

[gossipgirldefined]

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but living with trauma and moving on are not mutually exclusive.

There won’t come a time when the impactful things you’ve experienced are no longer part of your story, and it is YOUR story to tell.

Sharing your experience doesn’t mean you aren’t healing. Acknowledging how others have harmed you doesn’t mean you are claiming to be helpless. What others call “fragility” and oversensitivity is actually intelligence and intuition.

Fundamentalism IS abuse by conditioning people to despise themselves for good and natural parts of their humanity. Case in point.