#grooming rituals

[techdriveplay]

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[hateaintwinning]

Unwelcome-ozian is an abuser

Here is a check list of common abuse tactics and Unwelcome ozian's perfect score. Reminder as of writing this the victim is a teenage girl, and was 15 when she began chatting with nwo.

Emotional abuse:

Silent treatment - refusal to communicate.

Gas lighting - playing victim after coercing a teenage girl to tell him more and then ghosting her. He implied he didn't want anything to do with her publicly after privately pushing her to talk to him .

Blame shifting / victim blaming - calling the girl obsessed after he manipulated her and trauma bonded her to them by love bombing and alternating between validating and ignoring her. Ignoring her for weeks and months after asking for updates, and then talking to them for 3 days, promising to read everything, then back to ignoring them despite her pleas to be acknowledged. Then using this trauma to further gas light and harm her by painting her as the aggressor.

Intentionally humiliating a teenage girl - putting her on blast, along with her deep personal traumas and thoughts, intimate details, and identifying information to his follows and the entire internet.

Manipulation:

Calculating - not responding to use the victim's emotional upset against her instead of asking her to stop. Using his followers to dox and humiliate her.

Hypocrisy - wanting others to respect his boundaries while violating other people's boundaries. Wanting others to compasionately consider his condition and mental emotional state while ignoring that of others, or better yet using it to insult and dismiss them.

Excuses - using sympathy for his trauma to avoid responsibility. Avoiding criticism (and growth) by acting as though anyone who takes issues with his behavior are trying to silence him, which is a disgrace to all that is being silenced, and further hypocrisy because he is the one who dismisses and silences so many other survivors.

Threats - saying he will post the (dox) stalkers papers again to another website multiple times after staff removed the content for violating community guidelines. Possibly suggesting he may sue the victim.

Stalking / hoovering - admitting to monitoring the victim's accounts, and saving their posts.

Validation/ supply - the people he is the warmest to are teenage girls who validate and adore him. I say this after speaking to many users. He gets a supply of validation and attention online and likely uses this justify himself and or soothe his extremely low self worth.

Lack of empthy - Cruelty and vengeance in his response. Not caring about the trauma he may have been inflicting or the long term damage to his young victim. Score keeping by looking for payback with a malicious attack on his victims reputation.

Lack of remorse - no accountability or acknowledgement of the pain and damages he inflicts. Instead of changing or growing for the better, this is a pattern continuing to develop and escalate.

Grooming:

Inappropriate boundaries - setting no boundaries on what the teenage girl can say or talk about with him one on one. This intimacy was wildly inappropriate.

Breaking boundaries - pushing her to continue when she wanted to stop.

Inappropriate displays of sexuality - responding to her and encouraging her after she calls him "Daddy", says "I love you", and "another part of me think you could never resist reading what I send you" directly after talking about experiencing sexual feelings. He replied saying he will not reject her

I don't like the pop psychology demonization of NPD, but Unwelcome-ozian himself explained there is a category of abuse specifically classified as 'narcissistic abuse', and this fits his behavior the best. Pedophilic narcissistic abuse.

[reallysublimepoetry]

@justforratkings

[silence-iz-violence]

Unwelcome-ozian 's aggressive and obsessive behavior

Establishing this X/Twitter account belongs to the same person who runs the nwo blog

This also shows the person behind this has multiple blogs. I want to mention one of the other teenagers who came forward was getting messages threatening to dox them right before I got doxed. nwo is admittedly monitoring (stalking/hoovering) me.

Obsessive. He had one, in his own words, "brief" interaction with this person.

Aggressive + obsessive, there's more of this but the limit on posts is 10 images. On the x account this person calls trump a big baby and its strong irony.

I hope this helps shed light on this person and their character. They have a pattern of aggression and violating others.

[falinscloaca]

the misbegotten are sooo underrated its insane

[draculovemp3]

And so I imagine a bachelorette party w my gals my best friends right. Then I just burst into tears

[chiarrara]

I watch big brother because I like watching girls get ready

[eyreemusings]

ace and sebek's dynamic is so funny to me

it can be a menace who says bullshit every second and the friend who believes every single bullshit

or

friend who teases a lot and the victim of the said teasing

[bhaalsdeepbat]

Mercy coming back to the Elfsong with their braid out and Astarion just internally screaming at all the knots he knows are in there bc this is a creature that should NOT have long hair yet- yet this beastie insists. And he isn't about to be the one to tell them how to live their life 😩

[motherhenna]

more post-adderall dose increase discoveries

Now that I'm not experiencing excruciating executive dysfunction around menial tasks like consistently brushing / flossing my teeth and cleaning up after myself immediately rather than waiting for dishes and trash to build up to the point that it's gross...I'm noticing some more interesting things. I definitely still have executive dysfunction, though now instead of it making everything equally difficult across the board, it's retreated to slightly more labor intensive undertakings, like preparing food and working on my novel. And I never thought I'd see the day that I'd procrastinate by...cleaning??

Before, if there was a task I was avoiding / struggling to start, I'd just kind of...sit there in my bed and play video games and eat, all the while stressing about the fact that I wasn't Doing The Thing. Now? I'm still not Doing A Thing, but at least in the meantime I'm fucking washing my bathroom mirror, breaking down some amazon boxes, and doing laundry lmao call that productive procrastination

[hateaintwinning]

Everything Unwelcome Ozian has done regarding this situation are abuser tactics. With the pure arrogance they have, seems like they're someone used to not having any accountability and getting away with hurting people. Who's comfortable hiding behind the internet and feeling superior because of their privacy, while violating others.

They are planning on attacking the teenage victim again and tumblr, and everyone who supports/follows/boosts that blog are giving them a platform to do it. What they did was cruel and pedophilic and they have no remorse. Abusing an already traumatized kid and leaving them even more vulnerable. From what they post and write they know the damage this does, the trauma this causes, how abusive it is. Its sick and they know it, they don't care. The more people who report the more likely tumblr takes action.

"The abuser starts the story where you hit your emotional, mental, and spiritual breaking point"

[reallysublimepoetry]

Unwelcome-ozian doesn't want or care about supporting survivors. If he knows someone, a kid who's actively being subjected to TBMC and RAMAOA he will make it worse, and publish stories of them being raped online. Along with their identifying information and location. He doesn't care if you're a kid. He will put that on the internet for you to deal with for the rest of your life, for anyone to find.

 He will publish your triggers and mental and emotional weaknesses, personally (re)traumatizing you purposely. As well as putting you through having each of those triggers brought up. He will make aspects of your life and trauma, the names of your abusers and their professions public before you're ready. He will threaten you and leave you in fear and in pain and he will gloat about it, and avoid any accountability or responsibility for how he treats the people he's supposedly here for.

He does this after he gains your trust, and asks you to tell him things. He's an abuser and a child predator who likes the supply of attention and validation and prestige he gets online, who sadistically tears down anyone who threatens his ego. He acts with extreme cowardice and childishness. Don't infantilize a grown man for his trauma history, remember his victims have a very similar history.  remember his hypocrisy.

[silence-iz-violence]

The Groomer Doc - unwelcome-ozian/ UWO/ U.W Ozain is a predator

All the screenshots and posts regarding the grooming allegations against unwelcome-ozian (UWO / U.W. Ozain) in one place. Its a Google doc.

[wandringaesthetic]

Few things make me feel more like an alien than any discussion of hairstyles. Eventually I will just say "yeah, uh, I never got a haircut I was happy with so I just stopped getting them" which is true I haven't gotten a professional haircut in 10+ years. every now and then I trim off the split ends. most coloring or stylings on other people look neutral to bad to me?? Like, I don't? Understand? What looks ""good""? To other people?? I don't understand why one would put effort into this or how it's ""supposed "" to look. Why is this? Superior? To how it grows out of my head and yet is also more effort?

[blogneeldasthings]

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[horrid-mothlegs]

Deshedding myself by hand like a wire coated dog