#growth

[encourageequipempower]

[pinkpigtailsprincess]

◠࡛۬🏩⋆.How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days ! 🍋‍🟩 ₊˚☆ 💿ୢ꣒

𝓐: Have you ever been personally victimized by a guy before? he’s made you feel crazy? stressing you out? well today ill be giving advice on how to get rid of him with ease and my credentials? being absolutely STUPID about this boy for possibly 2 and a half years…(not my proudest moments) 💢

Dial “D” for DETACHMENT ๋࣭⭑

The d word is gonna be a key source is forgetting about this guy it may start slow but gradually reply to him slower,don’t engage with him lots when you see him at school,work etc. and if you’re angry enough and over him you’ll be able to do this with ease - distance is key

Remove his presence from your life ๋࣭⭑

not his PHYSICAL presence but his spiritual presence so his clothes,memories,any relic that reminds you of him or that keeps you attached to the IDEA of him must go any and all of it BUT if you choose to keep something like shirt at least wash his scent and skin flakes out of it P.S - keeping a negative energy in your sanctuary is not the way to go

FLITER HIM OUT ๋࣭⭑

you HAVE to completely filter out his presence in your personal possessions and my that i mean your devices delete pictures,delete his number,delete chat and call logs,block him on all socials , stop stalking and engaging with his social media , stop obsessing over him i promise you are more valuable than a crumb of attention or satisfaction a guy could give you ESPECIALLY if he’s playing mind games

AFTERMATH ๋࣭⭑

Now even thought you may miss someone doesn’t mean that you HAVE to go back to them or that they’re some special being NO. you can miss the memories you have with someone and the love they gave you but that doesn’t mean that they are the beat for your mental and physical health you are ALLOWED to mourn the loss of a relationship that once seemed perfect

and beware these steps wont completely wipe your memory of this person but it will help you to stop obsessing and realize that you are worth more and deserve better NEVER let a guy drain your energy or back you feel ugly or bad about yourself you’re way to valuable for that !!!

𝓐: Thanks for tuning in pretties remember never let someone break you do or steal your spirit and your energy you’re worth more and you deserve better!! 🫶🏼

[aiyanayanas]

From me to me:. #Thankful30

[throughtheeyesofmeblog]

[carpethedamndiemdejavu]

"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anaïs Nin

[theglowsociety]

Journal Prompt: What messy moment was actually a turning point in my healing or self-understanding?

[aiyanayanas]

And that's the difference between me and you.

“I don’t care if we on good terms or not, the secrets and insecurities you shared with me would never leave my mouth.”

— Unknown

[thepeacefulgarden]

[expansions-world]

[the-healing-mindset]

A rebirth can be scary, but once it's done, you'll be glad you went through the experience!

[aiyanayanas]

She is me. She's working on handling it differently.

[rythms-of-synthax]

Quote of the day

[selfhealingmoments]

[stillhere-erehllits]

This a a reminder to not fall victim to the sunk-cost fallacy. Just because you invested time and energy into something, does not mean you should indefinitely waste more time and energy on it, if you decide it’s not what you want anymore. This goes for anything, from books, to relationships, to jobs, to hobbies, etc.

If it’s not serving you anymore, move on.

[inmyglowupera]

Growing, glowing up 💛