#he him lesbian

[sydsixxftm]

FtM butch 🤝 MtF butch

Both equally loved parts of the lesbian community

[mogai-sunflowers]

femme lesbians who use he/him pronouns are literally so fucking cool like. people always try to explain he/him lesbians by saying “well it’s like butches cuz they’re masculine” and don’t get me wrong: he/him butch lesbians have my heart but he/him femme lesbians are literally just as real and valid and if you truly want to learn to believe that pronouns truly do not equal gender, then you’re going to have to stop thinking that “he/him lesbian = butch lesbian” because then you’re just trying to say that lesbians can use he/him if they’re masc enough but im here to tell you: literally any lesbian can use he/him pronouns. you can be the femmest of femmes and still use exclusively he/him pronouns and literally none of that invalidates anything about you.

so long story short: he/him femmes, especially femmes who exclusively use he/him, are literally to die for. i fucking love you <333

[hehimdykesrock]

THATS MR. DYKE TO YOU

Edit: forgot to say this is my art lol

[ack-cough]

He/him lesbian StormCatcher apon thee!!

[genderqueerdykes]

people are cool with he/him lesbians until he's also a man and then suddenly there's a problem. obviously pronouns do not = gender, but i wonder why this is.

[milkandhoneyfemme]

Giving all the handsome transmasc and he/him lesbians/butches a big femme kiss on the forehead. I love you. You belong here.

[literary-butch]

The way Leslie Feinberg talks about the women's liberation movement in Stone Butch Blues (I think in chapter 13?) really fucking resonated with me and made me go oh shit because this is what we've never recovered from. This line that says you must fit into the conventions that is either 'man' or 'woman' but only ever in the way other people describe for you. We had this for the gay lib movement, third wave feminism, the debates about lesbian sex ethics, modern trans debates. Its why we hate women who are masculine and men who are feminine, its why we hate drag performers and any trans person who doesn't perfectly pass as cisgendered. Its why nonbinary is only accepted if you can be seen as woman-lite. We are still culturally clinging to the differences between the binary sexes instead of deconstructing the ways compulsory gender has harmed most of us. I think we need some serious thinking about the nuances between freedom to express and cultural gender identity, how we can enjoy butch/femme identities without forcing them into a new binary all over again, and ALSO about how specifically lesbian trauma around cismen affects how we treat and see masculine presenting women, butches, and the trans*/nonbinary people in our community.

[fallenangelwerewolf]

I drew myself! :D

(He/him)

[fixing-bad-posts]

[Image description: A text post, edited blackout-poetry style with the lesboy flag to read, “i think male lesbians are valid.”]

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Submitted by @butchexe

[sydsixxftm]

The communal boygirlfriend

[mangomagicaart]

Since I did that one exercise of Floofty with lighter palms I decided to do one of Snorpington and Gramble. Ofc Snorpy gets this treatment since like his sibling, he's black too. But I designed Gramble to be mixed race so it makes sense for him too!

[tiedupcowb0y]

tumblr butches get behind me. Never set foot on twitter please you're too sexy and beautiful they cannot handle a butch who calls himself a man

[therealmerbirb]

Stormcatcher finds out what someone's been referring to him as. It's causing him to question his identity...

shoutout to @ack-cough and her outstanding he/him lesbian fanart of the deities that inspired all this! I hope you enjoyed Stormcatcher's reaction to the lovely interpretations of him <3 and I hope everyone enjoys the video. I had a lot of fun making it!

All voices were done by me and all characters belong to Flight Rising. The fanart pieces shown are once again both by @ack-cough

[hehimdykesrock]

I think im officially 2 years post op this summer ☀️

[a-hypnos-v]

Queer community when contradictory labels:

Transmasc, lesboy, and he/him lesbians are a thing, bi lesbians are also a thing, queer people aren’t entitled to have an easy to understand identity, and just because you don’t get it is no reason to invalidate them, let alone accuse them of invalidating themselves, being lesbiphobic or harmful for the community. Labels are made up, it’s all a construct, it’s up for that person to assign what that label means to them.

[mogai-sunflowers]

he/him butch flag!

he/him butch flag-

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flag by me, requested by no one! tagging @radiomogai​​ and @corax-blackwolf​ :3