#high class heaux

[haruharuz]

Subtle ways to change how people view you:

Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation

Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace

Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things

Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume

Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent

If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.

Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.

Stop messing with your little imperfections only you notice. There’s no need to straighten your shirt, rub your hand down your pants etc. Leave it be and you will appear more confident.

[kingess]

How to love bomb a male

Tangible steps to manipulate men by love bombing them

Love bombing a male is nowhere near as simple as it is a girl, as women often desire an established partnership and oftentimes a family from way earlier ages than men. Men don't come with social expiration dates nor have societal pressure for love, so love bombing them requires deep drilling into their unhealed desires and actual passions. Do understand that mens first and primary goal with you will always be sex. That's the first thing in their mind even if they do want something more as well. Don't let this discourage you to manipulate them past it & override it.

Listen to his life goals and derive knowledge about what need he's trying to fill with that goal or what wound he's trying to patch.

Your job is to be a dopamine rush, learn those things that make him light up with positive emotions and talk about them in different forms.

Make him visualize those things that light him up by telling stories of what you two could do. Does he want to build a house? Talk about tasks you both could do. Does he want to travel Europe? Make up specific imageries of places you two could go to or even talk about yourself as an individual in this fantasy he's just sneakily placed into. Once you plant these images they're like short films he watched and affect him accordingly. Those imageries will activate in his brain when he faces triggers of his dreams & you're right on his mind.

Make him feel special by remembering his favorites and giving him compliments based on his insecurities. If he's been made feel stupid, compliment his intellect, if he feels less accomplished than others make sure to make him feel extraordinarily talented and adept. This will make him feel like you see and know him like no one else does, "the real him", even though it's just his delusional ego stroked through his coping mechanisms.

Try to be genuine with compliments. Identify qualities that are important to him & use them. And never forget to discard him and take it all away from him just when he's started to trust your love.

And hey, Happy hunting babes

[dosesofglamour]

I don’t know who needs to hear this but you don’t need to get cosmetic work done (especially if you’re under the age of thirty)….simply limiting your gluten intake, changing your diet and prioritising your gut health, will drastically improve your appearance.

[honeybunnyhousewife]

Something I don't see talked about often on here is how being a spoiled gf/wife to a high achieving man means spending quite a bit of time by yourself. A man who is a doctor, lawyer, business owner, etc. has many responsibilities and likely busy seasons. One component of this is keeping the house nice for when he does get home but the other is cultivating hobbies and good routines for yourself in your alone time.

Pick up pilates, running, swimming, tennis, etc. Arrange flowers or garden. Watch cooking videos and always have something on the stove. Read, read, READ. Your self development journey doesn't end once you've got your man.

My lawyer is in a busy season right now so I've been going to the gym to run almost every day in the evening.

Just some food for thought ❤️.

[teauchiha]

Idk how to say this nicely, but ladies, do not have a significantly uglier best friend (woman). This will inevitably lead to jealousy and resentment. The ugly(er) friend will certainly use any opportunity possible to compete with you in only the categories they excel over you and take every chance to lower the effect of your grace.

You would think female friendships, especially BEST FRIENDS, would uplift each other any opportunity possible. Nope. Absolutely not in this bff combo. Social class, wealth status, degrees, the car you drive, boyfriends/husbands, purses, makeup skill, etc etc might be considered contention points. Being prettier than said other person is in comprehensively more important and contentious than any of these.

Be wary but better yet REFUSE being best friends with a significantly uglier girl. She will take every chance possible to artificially inflate her worth and put you down, especially in front of others, especially in front of men. Don’t think she isn’t using every opportunity to gossip and spread rumors behind your back to make people believe you’re ugly on the inside because she cannot stand how pretty you are on the outside. Don’t get me started on how she will literally copy/emulate all the uniqueness you have about yourself to make the things that make you you less authentic, use your light and attention from others to benefit herself, try to steal your men and friends, and downplay your intelligence. If she can’t convince others you are not beautiful (because everyone knows you are), she will make it her life mission to make others believe that’s ALL you are- JUST a pretty face.

Please beware.

[chichiscloset]

What "Levelling Up" Means To Me

Levelling up means knowing what you want and being bold enough to ask for it

One of my favorite sayings is:

"You don't get what you deserve, you get what you are willing to accept."

Relationships, business negotiations, and friendships are all affected by this. There's no point in settling in life, ladies. If you’re constantly putting your best foot forward and not reaping the rewards, that you need, it’s time to switch things up. The people that make the most significant changes in their lives are the people that decide to.

You can reach your goals by getting a mentor or coach, as this will assist you. As long as you have access to the internet, you can do this for free. The internet provides multiple opportunities for mentorship through social media platforms such as YouTube or Instagram. If you're a post+ member my inline worksheets and 1-1 coaching will be up and available by November 27th!

You can reach your goals by getting a mentor or coach, as this will assist you. As long as you have access to the internet, you can do this for free. The internet provides multiple opportunities for mentorship through social media platforms such as YouTube or Instagram. If you're a post+ member my inline worksheets and 1-1 coaching will be up and available by November 27th!

Levelling up means creating healthy boundaries

In multiple interviews, Ciara has detailed what her life was like before her relationship with Russell Wilson. She talked about the challenges of becoming a single mother after a toxic relationship and how that helped her develop better boundaries. Read our blog post on boundaries we must set in realationships here!

Healthy boundaries allow you to be accepting of others without selling yourself short.Creating boundaries is as easy as setting out what you will and won’t accept from the people in your life.

Do you have a girlfriend that only wants to talk about herself for hours on the phone? If so, it might be a good idea to establish a specific amount of time that you will talk with her during the week and keep fat it at that.

Are people constantly taking your kindness for granted? If so, healthy boundaries might look like distancing yourself from people that always take but never give. Boundaries are the secret to peace of mind and the cornerstone of emotional well-being.

Take action! 

Using your three closest friends and family members as examples, I encourage you to evaluate your boundaries this week. Does anything need to change? If so, you know what to do. Let's level up!

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[honeyknome]

Odette & Odille

[vintage-tigre]

[modelgfrichbf]

bitter chocolate

[haruharuz]

Glossy, juicy lips. Vanilla perfumes and cocoa hand creams. Business and first class plane seats. Smooth, crystal clear skin and buttery soft legs. Trips to Cancun and France. Spending weeks in South Korea exploring. Speaking multiple languages. Jewels on my wrists. Fresh macarons and hot cocoa.

[kingess]

Stepping in 2023 with 3 mantras:

And what about it?

Sounds like a you problem.

That has nothing to do with me.

[dosesofglamour]

I absolutely adore Brooke 🤍

[honeybunnyhousewife]

you aren't exclusive until he begs for you to be only his. keep your roster until you get that bag 💰.

[brownsugar-dreams]

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[chichiscloset]

The Importance of Dressing Well...

One-tenth of a second. That’s how long it takes a stranger to determine your authority, trustworthiness, or likability based largely on how you look.

How you look and how you dress, matters. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Accepting this fact can be an incredibly valuable opportunity; for those who choose to use it wisely. Dressing well is an extraordinary resource that every woman can use to facilitate living her very best life. It’s only logical to use it.

You can instantly improve your self-perception and performance simply by changing your clothes. We consciously and subconsciously tie the connotations of our clothing, to ourselves; by way of them being (even temporarily) a part of us. Clothes have a real power to make us feel frumpy, lazy, or less than smart; and equally so, sexy, powerful, professional, glamorous, smart, feminine, or dare I say beautiful.

Dressing well gets you treated better, and could even get you free stuff.

But why does it matter what other people think of you anyway? Well, because on a subconscious level, we treat people based on our perceptions of them. It’s in your best interest to be perceived well. It’s therefore important to dress how you want to be addressed. Dressing well makes you more likely to get a promotion, catch the eye of that cutie in Whole Foods, or get even a free upgrade on your next flight

Our brains quickly draw relevant conclusions based on face value, until we have an opportunity to obtain more information conversation, body language, etc. How you’re dressed is one of the only pieces of relevant information the world has from which to judge you. Are you a friend or foe? Do you have status or authority? Are you trustworthy, competent, or likable? By dressing with intention and dressing well, you have a powerful opportunity to skew first (and ongoing) impressions in your favour.

Our brains quickly draw relevant conclusions based on face value, until we have an opportunity to obtain more information conversation, body language, etc. How you’re dressed is one of the only pieces of relevant information the world has from which to judge you. Are you a friend or foe? Do you have status or authority? Are you trustworthy, competent, or likable? By dressing with intention and dressing well, you have a powerful opportunity to skew first (and ongoing) impressions in your favour.

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[highclassheaux]

Black Friday Lingerie Sales:

If you are making the transition into high end s*xwork now is one of the best times of the year to buy lingerie and begin building your wardrobe. Summer sales, anniversary sales, sample sales and Black Friday/after Christmas sales was when I would buy almost all of my lingerie when I was first starting out.

Most of these sites/designers are a bit on the pricey side (which is another reason to buy when it's on sale) but I put a few mid and lower cost options/brands in here as well because not everyone has Agent Provocateur money.

Agent Provocateur - 30% off site wide (use code AP30) this may not seem like much but if you purchase from their outlet (pieces that are already discounted) it will add up nicely (doing it this way and you can literally buy a set for less than $100).

Bluebella - up to 50% off site wide definitely check out their "outlet" section as well

Bloomingdales - 25% off selected items

Curvy Kate - up to 50% off site wide - great store if you are plus size

Dita Von Teese - 20% off and though that may not be much, her sales page is definitely worth checking out

Fleur du Mal - an EXTRA 30% off of sale items with code 30FLEURYOU

For Love and Lemons (on their site, not VS) - 30% off everything, use code CYBERWEEK (if you're into very feminine, pink, "girly" lingerie, definitely check out their sales page)

Harlow and Fox - 30% off all in stock items (they don't have a large collection of in stock items because their lingerie is usually made to order but I wanted to mention them because their bras go all the way to G cup)

Journelle - 20% off everything which includes their sales page

Moxy Intimates - $10 off $50, $25 off $100, $45 off 150 + free US shipping

Net-A-Porter - up to 50% off select styles

Playful Promises - up to 85% off of everything

Revolve - up to 70% off

Saks Fifth Avenue - up to 80% off of select styles

Studio Pia is having a sale as well (the discount depends on the collection).

The Outnet - an additional 25% off of everything with code BLACKFRIDAY

And my absolute favorite: HONEY BIRDETTE IS 50% OFF select styles (just stop reading and go right now)

Honorable Mentions:

Ann Summers - up to 50% off everything

Yandy - up to 80% off sitewide

I know Ann Summers and Yandy are not considered high end, however, I'm mentioning them because if you need photos, doing online s*xwork or need additional pieces to create content to post on your social media, these 2 sites can really come in handy. However, if you are really slim and/or have a small chest be very careful if you order from Yandy, a lot of their sets have a tendency to run slightly on the bigger side (even their size small) and a lot of their pieces are actually sized S/M and M/L not S, M, L, etc. They do have some XS pieces that will fit A cups fine. But if you are plus size, they have a substantial collection of plus size lingerie.

I'm not mentioning SHEIN because although they are also doing a Black Friday sale, their shit is always cheap lol.