Saw on my dash how “x is allowed to exist, but y is not.”
And. Hoo boy. No. No “x” is NOT allowed to exist. If I say I’m asexual, I’m expected to also be 0% Romantic Aromantic Asexual. If I describe what I would want in a romantic relationship, I’m told it’s “just” a friendship. If I describe my demiromanticism, that’s just a “good head on my shoulders” or has people suspicious I’m only friends with them to date them—neither is true. I can and will sit with romantic feelings that ONLY develop when someone is SAFE platonically indefinitely. But also demiromanticism is not “Aromantic Enough” and therefore I’m not “Aroace Enough”. Asexuality and dating? Either you break your boundaries or the other person feels physically neglected or you can’t have exclusivity. Dating apps? Free ones do not include asexuals with the full features—it’s either a trial period or essentially a paying Allo has to approach YOU—with maybe the exception of Tinder. Paid service apps that include or are for asexuals are few and far between.
Remind me how romantic/grey&demi aromantic asexuals are so “accepted.” Because this isn’t even getting into the constant allonormative messaging. This is just the practicality of when an asexual falls in love, wants to date someone, or would like to try experiencing either.
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I’m not going to reblog the post itself because I don’t want that behavior on my blog, but oh my god I just saw a post about “looking for fics about your favorite character on ao3” and good lord the amount of bad takes both in that post and in the notes?? I have to just ramble about this for a moment because oh my god. it was ludicrous.
people were complaining that, and get this, unfinished fics exist. and that if you read an unfinished fic you’ll have to, get this, wait to read more until it’s published next. they were allll up in arms that there’s fics for a character that don’t cater to their specific interests. that they involve other characters and either do/don’t put them in a romantic relationship when they want the opposite for the character.
like at this point, most of you people in the notes on that post are 1) just being mean and condescending about FREE WORKS you can, may I remind you, READ FOR FREE and EXIT at ANY time! if you don’t like it!, don’t read it!, it’s so simple!, and 2) straight up do not know how ao3 works lmao
like I saw soooo many people in the notes complaining about a certain ship, dynamic, tag, etc, and like… y’all know you can filter by romantic vs platonic pairings, by ratings, by excluding certain tags or other qualifiers, etc etc etc… you know about ao3’s actually incredibly usable filtering and searching system… right… right??
at this point I’m just convinced a lot of these people are spoiled by large fandoms with 100k+ works for their characters and have decided to just be mean and condescending for no reason on main, about literally free fan works you can read for free any time that people spend hours and hours pouring their free time into out of sheer love for their craft. cuckoo bananas behavior if you ask me 🫠
I was legit so close to commenting that maybe they should try shipping two characters with <10 fics, with 0 fics, try liking a rare pair, try hyperfocusing on a character or niche type of fandom with a tiny but lovely circle of fans, and stop treating fan works and fic as Content TM that they deserve to have handed to them that caters to exactly what they want for free and maybe they’ll calm down lmao
like y’all aren’t cool you’re just being mean. we fundamentally approach fic in wildly different ways and honestly the way you do sounds exhausting. literally could not be me, I’m to busy finding joy in shared love for characters and not flipping the table in a rage because there’s one (1) element of the fic that isn’t specifically catered to me, maybe try that and you’ll feel better, hmm?
and yeah I’m aware that last sentence is me being condescending towards them, but frankly it’s warranted when so many people are being that mean and haughty for no reason lmao but truly those takes were horrific. fellow fic writers and even fellow fic readers I interact with, am mutuals with, authors whose works I read, readers who comment and interact with my works, fans of niche fandom subsets that run in the same circles as me— I hope you know this is so wildly not how I approach fics, I love just finding fics for my characters and forming these lil communities where we share our interests and love for them and hype each other up. I love what we have in these fandom niches and I hope you know I would never dream of being so mean and condescending towards y’all. fic writers and readers and fan communities are so special and I cherish it even if clearly there’s people in the notes on that other post who don’t know how to do that lmao. I love your unfinished WIPs, I love your fics that may only partially be what I’m looking for, I love when you write characters in a way I wouldn’t expect but shows your love for your particular headcanon, I love the variety and diversity and variance in fic. I love us. genuinely. fic writer moots I am hugging all of you and I frequently reread your works, even the unfinished ones. ♡
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How to Improve the Cooling Efficiency of Your AC
Do you ever feel like your air conditioning unit just isn’t doing enough to cool your home? Do you find yourself constantly adjusting the thermostat to try and achieve a comfortable temperature? If so, you may be wondering how to improve the cooling efficiency of your AC.
In this article, we will explore some tips and tricks for maximizing the efficiency of your air conditioning unit, so you can stay cool and comfortable all summer long. From simple maintenance tasks to more advanced upgrades, we’ve got you covered.
The Importance of AC Efficiency
Before we dive into our tips for improving AC efficiency, let’s first discuss why it’s important. In short, an efficient air conditioning unit can save you money on your energy bills, while also reducing your carbon footprint. By consuming less energy, your AC unit is able to operate more sustainably, which is good for both your wallet and the environment.
Additionally, an efficient AC unit can help maintain a consistent temperature in your home, which can improve your overall comfort and quality of life. When your AC unit is working harder than it needs to, it can lead to uneven cooling and hot spots throughout your home.
Simple Maintenance Tasks for Improved AC Efficiency
The first step in improving the efficiency of your air conditioning unit is to perform some simple maintenance tasks. These tasks can help ensure that your AC unit is running smoothly and effectively, so it doesn’t have to work as hard to cool your home.
1. Clean or Replace Your Air Filter
The air filter in your AC unit is responsible for filtering out dust, dirt, and other particles from the air before it’s circulated throughout your home. Over time, these particles can build up on the filter, restricting airflow and causing your AC unit to work harder than it needs to.
To improve the efficiency of your AC unit, make sure to clean or replace your air filter regularly. How often you should do this will depend on the type of filter you have and how often you use your AC unit. As a general rule, it’s a good idea to check your filter once a month and replace it as needed.
2. Clean Your AC Coils
The coils in your AC unit are responsible for transferring heat from the air inside your home to the outside environment. Over time, these coils can become dirty and covered in debris, which can reduce their ability to transfer heat effectively.
To clean your AC coils, you can use a soft-bristled brush to gently remove any debris or dirt buildup. Alternatively, you can use a specialized coil cleaner, which is available at most hardware stores.
3. Check Your Thermostat Settings
Make sure to check your thermostat settings to ensure that they’re set correctly for your needs. If you’re leaving your home for an extended period of time, for example, you may want to set the temperature a bit higher to conserve energy. Similarly, you may want to adjust your settings at night to ensure a comfortable sleeping temperature.
4. Clear Obstructions from Your Vents
Finally, make sure to clear any obstructions from your vents to ensure proper airflow. This can include things like furniture, curtains, or other items that may be blocking the flow of air. By keeping your vents clear and unobstructed, you can help improve the overall efficiency of your AC unit.
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