#hpd

[cluster-b-culture-is]

(questioning) cluster b culture is accidentally telling someone about your homicidal ideation and them saying "it's ok lots of people have intrusive thoughts about that." no. you don't get it. I LIKE thinking about this. It makes me feel BETTER.

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[hpdcultureis]

hpd culture is thinking ur hot shit and everyone needs you one moment and the next thinking you dont deserve anyone or any attention the next

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[borderline-culture-is]

tw abuse and death BPD + suspected HPD culture is your brain being sure you are an abuser, that's what everyone says so it must be right, and like they say, all abusers deserve death, right? You want to die a painful death and become a zombie to get the attention you've always craved, since of course, everyone will be happy about it.

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[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

unfortunately for the both of us, i really like you

[sin-esthezia]

the thing that gets me the most about ableism against pd’s is that ppl will be like “these disorders make you an ASSHOLE!!!!” and then turn around and pretend that other disorders can’t and don’t make you act shitty.

depression and anxiety can make you irritable and snappy. they can cause you to refuse to listen to people and to be distant and withdrawn. they can cause you to seem angry, bitchy, rude, uncaring, etc.

ptsd causes an array of difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. it pretty much shakes up your entire worldview and sense of self a lot of the time. ptsd can cause you to get angry often. it can cause you to yell and scream. it can cause you to withdraw from others, run away, or cut them out. it can cause general changes in demeanor and more cynical worldviews. it can make you seem grouchy, negative, explosive, impolite, difficult, needy, controlling, etc.

and yet when people with personality disorders have symptoms of that nature, suddenly we are irredeemable monsters. when it’s npd, bpd, hpd, or aspd instead of ptsd or depression and anxiety, people suddenly and magically lose the ability to be understanding.

mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse. i firmly believe that. hurting others is never justified simply because you have any disorder.

but if you can be patient with people who have depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd, or any other more well understood mental illness, you can be patient with us.

[chronicallyqueercoining2]

"We need more mental health acceptance and awareness!" Y'all still call ppl with cluster b disorders evil 💀

"We need more weird people!" Y'all COMBUST when someone is xenic 💀

"Healthy coping mechanisms are important!" When someone age regresses, you call them creepy 😭

"More people need to be proud of who they are!" When you see a furry, you cry 😭

(U should totes follow me if ur a supporter of these so I can b on the good side of tumblr XD /nf!)

[npdemu]

thank you for your constructive criticism. unfortunately, i have been sent into a rage which i will not mentally recover from for three years

[dollotron]

the overuse of narcissist, psychopath/sociopath being used as an insult in media makes watching basically anything completely unenjoyable. At first it just made me roll my eyes because it negatively effects me, but now i just look at it as lazy and bad writing. Someone in that show is selfish? They're a narcissist. Someone acted aggressively or violently ? They're obviously a psychopath. It's getting really fucking old and boring

[frogsforthefrogwar]

We love people with low and no empathy here!

[aintnopartylikeaprideparty]

as someone who has experienced abuse from someone with a personality disorder, it's actually incredibly easy to not dehumanize everyone with a personality disorder. i've seen people do borderline eugenic rhetoric surrounding people who have npd, aspd, bpd or other personality disorders, and then be like "I'M allowed to say these things because i'm a survivor, and if you disagree you are hurting abuse victims."

and frankly? i'm tired of it. as an abuse survivor i'm here to say that you're NOT allowed to turn into a fucking eugenicist the moment you're hurt by someone with a personality disorder.

does hurting and belittling other people who happen to have the same disorder as your abuser, people that are already suffering and that are already looked down on by society, bring you any healing? does it bring you peace?

Being hurt by someone isn't an excuse to hurt others that you feel justified in lashing out on. you're literally in control of your own actions,

you may claim to be making a safe space for abuse survivors, but i will never feel any solidarity with you, and i ESPECIALLY don't feel safe with you considering i might have a personality disorder.

you are excluding a large amount of abuse survivors in the name of "advocacy". a lot of people with personality disorders developed one or multiple due to heavy abuse. in the aim of creating a safe space, you are excluding the ones who need a safe space the most.

[ghostfacetheballfondler]

[image id: 4 kittens sitting upright next to each other looking at the camera. from left to right, the orange cat has the text bubble of "i'm bpd". the light colored cat has the text bubble of "i'm hpd". the black cat has the text of "i'm npd". and the gray cat has the text bubble of "and i'm aspd" end image id]

[gif id: pink sparkling text that says, "we are the cluster b brothers!" end gif id]

[cluster-b-culture-is]

cluster B culture is not understanding why everyone gets so upset when you don't apologize for something you aren't sorry for (what, you really want me to just lie? where are your manners??)

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[hpdcultureis]

HPD culture is crashing and getting super pissy and bitchy when people stop looking after your physical and mental needs for a day so that THEY can look after THEMSELVES …. oops

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[necromances-chances]

how the world feels about cluster b

bpd: need me a bpd girl ahah mood swings hahaha crazy girls with daddy issues

npd: a narcissist is anyone who is mean to me ever and i sense them with my Empath Eyes

aspd: exclusively serial killers and psychopaths, they are so evil and terrible

hpd: what the fuck is that

[autopsyfreak]

tired of people on tiktok acting like BPD and HPD are the ‘good cluster b disorders’ or the ‘victim cluster b’s’ meanwhile NPD and ASPD are the ‘evil mean abusive cluster b’s’

stfu.

we’re in the same cluster for a reason, you can’t support some whilst demonising the others.

[nicepersondisorder]

sonic sez