#i am a tf2 blogger i am not a priest or your therapist

[aprofessionalwithoutstandards]

I just wish people wouldn't see transman/transmasc and automatically assume bottom and submissive and wants to get fucked. no one ever sees transmen as tops or dominant or actually fucking someone (not "but he's RIDING a dick tho"). it makes me sad and feel left out and I wish people had more representation that wasn't "haha transman has pussy, he needs cock in it and pregnant". it makes me feel gross and wrong that all I wanna be is a top and it makes me just feel sad about sex

I'm not sure why you're telling me this and I'm also going to encourage you to learn to express this in a way that doesn't refer to content that includes trans men bottoming and/or getting pregnant, which is often made by trans people who enjoy that, as "gross". I'm a transmasc vers and I absolutely understand where you're coming from, there IS a big underrepresentation of transmasc tops AND transfem bottoms while I'm here, with the most examples really coming from t4t spaces (and even then, it's really only trans gay guys posting abt trans guy tops and trans lesbians posting abt trans girl bottoms, m/f t4t sex is still so often Trans Man Has Vagina And Gets Penetrated, Trans Woman Has Penis And Penetrates, even though that's really not the case for everyone lol), but also like. idk what u want me to do about it LMAO. When it comes to stuff like this, you really have to learn to either make your own content, make friends who will make this content for you, commission people who will make this content for you, and/or just suck it up and deal with it lol. The overrepresentation of transmasc bottoms in nsft content definitely exists and is a problem, but also there is nothing wrong with being a transmasc bottom and transmasc bottoms/verses deserve to be represented and be able to make content about the things that they enjoy. Your preferences aren't the center of the universe, basically. If other people bottoming makes you "feel sad about sex" then that's some "second-hand dysphoria" bullshit and not something I can help you with