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cumulusbrume · 11 months

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scug relationship chart thingy :3

super chaotic version with all the lines under the cut if you wanna see that. for some reason

yeah it’s a bit difficult to understand

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xxplastic-cubexx · 5 days

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obligatory beach divorce doodling

bonus rough cover redraw of x-men #41 (1995) But Beach Divorce below cut

#mcu #marvel cinematic universe #xmen #xmen movies #xmen first class #cherik #charles xavier #erik lehnsherr #professor x #magneto #snap sketches #'snap i thought you were drawing old cherik this weekend' so did i but i was inflicted with visions sorry </3 #i have my lil 92 comic sketched so ill do that tomorrow. not finish it but ill work on it 💀#i wsa just gonna draw the first thing but then i figureed i might as well draw Most of the beach-divorce-related things i want to #just so i could put it all on one post. however this is a lie and i know ill wanna doodle more beach stuff #the first drawing Unsurprisingly was motivated BY the xmen 41 legion quest cover- at the very least the total blackout of erik's face #i wanna draw more of erik using his powers .. i wanna figure out how i wanna draw the effect etc etc #i was just gonna redraw the cover but i already liked the sketch i did of the first thing so. here we are #plus i figure someones already done a redraw of the cover but if anyone cares ill finish my version ig LOL #as for the comic ermmm it was just an excuse to draw erik with glowing eyes </3 and fading-glowing eyes </3 #thats why i didnt draw the whole. Choking Moira bit. but i wouldve if i was redrawing the whole scene #kinda wish i did now that i think of it cause it coulda looked cooler prob but oh well maybe in like. three months when i redraw this #for exactly five cents ill redraw the whole beach divorce erlkjealkaje i can see it so clearly in my mind #what if first class was a comic drawn by a freak thatd be wild #but yeah thats why everything look rough as christ these were just supposed to be silly lil thangs #'silly things' and its beach divorce OK.#ok bye im gonna do my homework

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eshithepetty · 4 days

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'Where are the he/him lesbians in media' does greg universe mean nothing to you

#JOKE JOKE THIS IS A JOKE #unless...?#inspired by this current fiasco (my last reblog)#steven universe #greg universe #but fr that guy had some sort of gender crisis at SOME point i guarantee it #theres just something about his vibe #yknow??#hes like a sweet old man that youd find in a bar. Looking kind of lost..#newly divorced you wonder? Maybe finally getting the chance to experiment.. couldnt hurt to lend an ear #and then you talk to him one minute and learn that NO this man(?) has been to So many gay bars #and has met queer people you wouldnt even /imagine/#literally!! because then these 3 bright colored hipster ladies come out and greet him like an old friend and youre like 'oh...'#and then you learn his dead wife was apparently an ex alien princess or something. You dont even know #you would be far less pressed to believe it if the purple one didnt just swallow a martini glass whole #''yknow being a man isnt all that it's cracked up to be kid''#''sometimes you gotta follow your heart.. like me!!''#''and i know i look like any run of the mill boring old man but you know what they say.''#''theres a bit of magic in all of us ey? you just gotta invite it in :)''#and then him and pearl make out sloppy styledhgdhdhGSGHDGDHHDG sorry

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this-doesnt-endd · 3 months

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A little appreciation post for my dad for fathers day cause i love him and im very greatful to have a dad who loves me and is in my life and one of my favorite memories is that when he bought his first house two years ago he wanted me to be the first person to step foot in the house aside from him cause i always believed in him and he knows hes not perfect and has made mistakes but i couldnt ask for a better dad.

#he always wanted the like nice house with rooms for all of us kids and a nice big yard and he tried but the rescession and divorce #and family loss and trying to get upward movement in his job without a degree didnt always allow for that but he tried #and i told him id always believed he'e get a house one day and itd be all his and he did and when it happened he got me #on a cross country train so thatd id be there i literally sat right next to him as he signed the papers and got the keys #and i find it interesting cause the first time o saw it it looked exactly like the house from my dreams like down to the layout it #it was just all so meant to be #and while i dont physically see him as much and id like theres never a day were i dont get a text or call or instagram reel sent and he #often tells me abt how proud he is of me and how he loves me and hes always believed in my dreams and anything i want to do and im also #really proud of him cause hed told me before he never wanted to be like his father who was not around and the breif time he was wasnt good #and hes never been like thats hes alwayd been loving and caring and supportive and trys the best he can hes always been a great dad #and i know not everyone gets that or even gets to have a dad so im very very greatfull that i do

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supercantaloupe · 2 years

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im not gonna link it cause im not interested in getting into shit tonight but i really hate that post thats like “as a jew i dont think jesus was divine or the messiah or anything but i think he was still a cool guy” bc i dont. i think he sucked actually

#sasha speaks #and its not just me being bitter about modern day religious xtianity & cultural xtianity pervasiveness either #dude was first of all not unique; there were a lot of messianic offshoots of judaism around the first century #(cause one of the key features of the moshiach is liberating the jewish nation from foreign powers ie rome)#(which. yknow. jesus didnt do)#but also a lot of the shit people point out that jesus supposedly did as being Good and Sticking It To The Man. kinda sucked for us actually #no the money traders in the temple courtyard were not corrupt they were performing a necessary public service in a central location.#yeah the teachings about being kind to your fellow man and the immorality of obscene wealth i vibe with but like #jesus and his cult were hellenized jews in a cultural context where hellenization (as opposed to non-assimilated judaism)#was a big and uncertain divide at the time #and jesus' cult going so far out of its way to not only accept but embrace hellenization and assimilation for the sake of proselytizing #and growth #directly and actively goes out of its way to divorce itself from the rest of judaism; declare the rest of judaism to be bad/wrong;#and eventually seek to 'replace' it in some way #(maybe other hellenized judaic cults could have survived if the jewish revolts hadnt failed in the first century and the romans hadnt #effectively forced us into diaspora 2 electric boogaloo but speculation doesnt change the fact that non-hellenized judais #m is what survived to the present day as judaism)#also talking about jesus by applying modern sociopolitical labels is just dumb.#the concepts of 'people or color vs white' or 'socialist' or 'anti-capitalist' or whatever. none of those existed in the first century #and it's disingenuous to sincerely call jesus an ancap person of color icon or whatever.#anti imperialist (anti roman empire anyway) was certainly an existing political position back then #but lets stop pretending jesus and his cult were anti rome. they were hellenized. they were hellenizers.#they actively changed their religious and cultural practices to embrace hellenic culture and make itself more attractive to hellenic culture #if jesus and his cult were really anti roman imperialism then maybe jews wouldnt STILL be harassed for being 'gd killers' today #but we are. so. guess they weren't lol #anyway. jesus sucks. hate that guy

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muirneach · 10 months

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since everyones sharing family cheating stories i was gonna say i dont know any cheating incidents in my family but actually my great great aunt owned a pub in dublin and her husband was, forgive me for saying this, a malewife but also he would cheat on her all the time. she knew btw she just didn’t give a shit because she was busy running that pub like the navy. when my grandmother took the train down to see them as a kid her uncle would take her to the mistresses house for tea first 😭😭

#and then he would buy her a new swimsuit and she would swim in this one pool that was? connected to the ocean?? idk lol it was the 40s #and THEN they would go to the aunts pub #and she’d dance on the tabletops until last call. and then the men there would give her money as they left for the night #kids used to do whatever the hell i guess. shoutout to my grandmother and her aunt and uncle #all my grandmothers aunts were very short girlbosses who didnt care about their loser husbands woohooo #anyways besides that i dont have any evidence of cheating in my family #i wouldnt be surprised if my grandfather cheated lololol but he and my (other) grandmother got divorced #so idk he had opportunities to sleep around after their marriage #tales

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heartyearning · 2 years

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the way i live my life is LIDORALLY just like doing whatever’s gonna make my friends have a laff. have a good chuckle. no matter how stupid the thing is or how silly it’s gonna make me look to other ppl if it makes them do a little snort come hell or high water i will do that thing

#like for instance going to the tea party themed christmas party dressed as the teapot #see the thing is i know to ppl who dont know me very well i come across as insanely obnoxious #esp bc im one of the only dudes in my dept so ive run into ppl being super judgey about that #(not in a 'not all men' way that im saying this btw its just like. we got some ppl who are leaning a liiiiiittle too close to terfism for #my liking. they havent Quite crossed the border and they also dont know im trans but if i was transfem instead of (passing) transmasc...#who knows. not me)#so anyway yeah i come across as obnoxious or as though i take up too much space and i do recognise this but like #my friends like it. and fucking hell i didnt wanna do a theme w the WHOLE dept like the 3rd yrs are nasty anyway and dont like anyone #if it had been just us i also fully would have pushed for the divorce theme bc we did wedding last yr #and everyone had a good laff at that suggestion but like 2 ppl were soooooo against it which like #if it were for a good reason ofc fine but they didnt wanna do it bc they wanted to do . tim burton characters.#girl. no!#like also we're in fucking costume design you cant think of smth for urself ??? also just no ?#anyway. divorcebabesdivorce isnt happening even tho feiran specifically asked where the theme went on the poll #(shes like a friend of mine but not like A FRIEND of mine shes moreso just a classmate & i like my classmates)#so just to be like. see even ppl who arent naturally indulgent of me liked that idea.#anyway. teapot time is fun too

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valctovoel · 2 years

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These days I can only draw memes.

#oc #my art #oc: lucious #oc: carlos #oc: nick #i love nick hes so pathetic #pretends to be scottish while hes from buttfuck alabama #he fakes an accent and all #he was married and even his wife didnt know he wasnt scottish #they divorced but they also had a daughter who thinks her dads cool (hes not)#these days he is a legit exorcist (like he knows what hes doing and what he does works) but he used to be a phony one #he didnt believe in spirits and just scammed people. but hey hes legit now.#are snakes even allowed in the operating theatre? no. is luci there anyways? yes

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arolesbianism · 2 months

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I should rly start eternal gales posting again I need to make sure the ppl who follow me know how much Tali and Aris make me to insane so that the isat au can have its full effect but alas I am allergic to drawing the human eg cast like 99% of the time and rn the only thing stopping that from being 100% is that I like fucking around with different art styles sometimes

#rat rambles #oc posting #eternal gales #honestly most of the times that Ive drawn them in recent memory has been either because I needed to remake their refs or because I wanted #to change smth abt my human artstyle and needed to use them as my test dummies since making dure Im still calable of drawing them is vital #shout out to them for forcing me to start learning how to draw humans so I could neglect to give them basic features for years until #something or another forced me to give them another facial feature #but nowadays they have successfully earned noses eyebrows ears eyebrows again noses again and also fingernails ig #maybe I should try to redraw some old eg art at some point that might be easier #but yeah aris and tali are the favorite children most of the time I love putting them through the horrors #longggg story short aris's mom was abusive towards both of their dad and that lead to him rebounding onto tali's mom and then tali's mom #died during childbirth and tali has a bunch of health issues which lead to him becoming even more depressed and stressed and that's on top #of his ex stalking him and harrasing him while abusing aris whenever she had custody and while eventually she lost custody she still kept #threatening their dad until he died when the two were lil kids and the two moved with their shared grandparents who took the death of their #son rly poorly and it sparked a bunch of conflict between them leading to them divorcing and aris chose to stay with her grandpa while tali #left with her grandma and the two didnt interact for years until they ended up in the same online friendgroup and had an awkward reunion #the two have a complicated relationship for many reasons but one of the roots of their disconnect is that aris' mom Hated tali and heavily #demonized her and tried very hard to drill it into tiny aris' head that both tali and her dad were people she was supposed to hate #and while aris never hated either of them she did feel the pressure like she was supposed to even after her mother was gone #and she felt even more that way after tali left leading to her feeling very uncomfortable upon her popping up again #tali on the other hand never had this but did have some resentment towards her for not coming with her as she tends to see aris as the last #remnant of the happy family she feels she was supposed to have but lost #and after her grandma died and she was left to go through some horrific shit alone that comfort that the idea of aris brought began to #override any anger she may have felt towards aris and she clung onto aris rly hard after the two reunited even if for the first few years #aris was deliberately distant most of the time #aris ends up being struck Hard by guilt once the two actually meet in person again during the main plot due to a variety of reasons #but the big initial one is that first moment she has where she goes wait. did she always have prostetic legs. uh oh.#tali getting to play that fun game where she lives in enough of a high tech environment to have fairly fancy prosthetic limbs but not w #enough for them to feel like more than a hinderence most of the time #theyre heavy and clunky and it sucks to try to clean them because she has to keep one arm on at all times and this has lead to infections

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sumarmz · 3 months

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Mourning the loss of what a good writer I could've been if I had stuck with it but noooo all my family just had to tell 9 year old me that being an author was a stupid dream and I HAD to go into science fml

#sumarmz waffles #i feel like turning this emo in the tags tho #sumarmz is emo #anyways emo time #its so frustrating bc like i was so set on it and i full on wrote a 100 page story about my pet birds (i was obsessed with them(#and like everyone knew how set i was on being an author #the only person who like actually supported that tho wss my dad #weird to think about how hes the only one that supports my interests considering how shit he is #but then again #when it comes to parenting hes not horrendous #like he is not a good father and thats a whole different thing #but i mainly hate him bc of things my mums told me about #but then again my mum is a whole different story #idk what to believe anymore #all i know is that i used to get scared when they wrre in the same room #idek why i didnt see them speak once until last year when my mum asked for a divorce #even when i didnt know anything about their relationship it was still tense #bloody hell how did i get here #i was talking about my interests what am i yapping about #anyways #sucks that full grown adults got pissy that a 9 year old had big dreams #and when i decided yk what ill compromise and be a vet bc i like animals but its sciencey #IT STILL WASNT ENOUGH FOR THEM #LET ME DO WHAT I WANT BRO #then my mum was like oh be a biomedist its good pay and u make medicine #she doesnt know what a biomedist is #i did my own research and she has not a single clue of what its about #then i wss like fine i'll be a dermatologist im into skincare #my mum hates that too but whatever #anyways now idk if i actually want to be a dermatologist or if thats just a result of me settling and compromising

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nagdabbit · 7 months

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hello, i am in need of personal advice, preferably from a transfemme person and/or parent, who isn't siobhan because she is Too Close to the situation and i don't want to do anything brash like she does

#cis friend amy fakename and her wife betty fakename got divorced after betty came out and began to transition #they have remained EXTREMELY good friends and everything and coparent really well #amy came over tonight to talk to me about betty's behavior at present #theyve been seperated for just about three years now and betty began transitioning almost five years ago #and everything has been good between them #except amy found out from their seven y/o daughter cassie that bettys (married poly) gf stays over during her week with cassie #the kind of thing that wouldve been fine except that its out of the blue and amy had to hear it from a seven yo child #same with cassie going to a sleepover with a friend and finding out —again from cassie—that betty also stayed the night #and slept with one of cassie's friends moms #and apparently numerous other things that amy didnt want to get into so i get the feeling i would be even more pissed #but every time amy tries to discuss any kind of groundrules about strangers around cassie #especially ones that 1) any doesnt know anything about amd 2) are likely not permanent #betty says that she is being transphobic for asking that she doesn't just sleep with people while cassie is there and aware #i do not know how to like #help them #siobhan is firmly on amy's side and i am too #but i dont know what i can actually do thats helpful or actionable that wont hurt either of them #cuz i do believe that betty needs to have some boundaries when there is a CHILD involved #and a child tasked with keeping secrets at that #i just dont know how to support or how to talk to betty or if i even SHOULD cuz this is a new one for all of us #we created a lil family at the shop but somehow amy and betty are the only ones with kids #none of us know how to handle this cuz they dont know when to even ask us to do #if there is anything

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lovphobic · 11 months

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man what the hell. and now i notice the guy i was having a lot of fun duoing with unfriended me wordlessly???

#whatever dude i took your friend in the divorce. second he gets bored of for/tnite THAT wedding is on 🙄#lord grant me the wisdom to not drop a 'hey did i do something wrong lol' in the dms. if im able to do that. idk ps messaging restrictions #for stuff like this. like come on dude we were good whats all this about #i only have one guess and its that his wife didnt like us hanging out ??? which i hate how pick me that sounds but literally we only ever #talked when we were playing ov/erw/atch LMFAO???

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screamingay · 1 year

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god that was an awful shift i hate how corporate let us hire more people and then as soon as we put them on the schedule they decided having one more minimum wage server per day (for first shift only!!!) was too much for The Budget. i had to bargain to get someone else to come in today and help me out and it was STILL hell.. rant incoming in the tags

#we're back to 2 ppl on first shift but the new guy cant actually handle floor or dishes on his own so it's basically 1 person #plus someone following behind them to help a bit #apparently they used to have disabled workers as 'interns' just gettimg unpaid experience which is awful but at least #it meant they could actually schedule 2 other people. but i guess they got shit for not paying disabled workers #which i get. but since this new guy makes minimum wage too it means they wont let us schedule another person for first shift #which we desperately need when it's just like. me and him. in an ideal world he would be paid and getting work experience and there would #still be enough people to do the job fully #also all morning i was so scared the safety inspector would pop in bc i was told he would be. so i double checked all the possible hazards #before we opened and he literally stepped into the dining room. took a picture of it on a digital camera. then left #he didnt even come in the kitchen!! christ #but i was still stressed after that and all through lunch bc now residents' families can come in and eat like they used to before covid #and we had 2 of them today and if we fuck it up for them they can complain to corporate and im not used to running a real restaurant!!#we have to act like it's a real restaurant even tho we arent given the same resources or allowances and it's so frustrating #tbh today wouldve been 10 times easier with any other cook bc we had the fucking worst one here today. she gets frustrated when anyone asks #her for anything and she goes on rants about how bad all the other cooks are and she puts WAY too much strain on the dishwasher #using unnecessary dishes and making them wash things she could just rinse herself in the back. AND she's always telling me how to do by job #my job #and what i should do differently! it's distracting!! and makes everything harder bc she will fr just make up rules and treat u like shit if #u ignore her and do it the easier or better way #her home life sucks and she takes it out on all of us all the time. get a divorce and move to the city like you really want #it'll make everyone so much happier #(including you)#i need a new job so bad i get paid nothing to do like 4 jobs at once and im always on a time crunch and it's been absolutely killing my bac #and shoulders and feet #and joie de vivre lmao #if i get a new reliable car soon i could probably make more driving for fucking grubhub #i didnt even eat at work today. almost 8 hours straight of running my ass around the kitchen in my Shoes For Crews black sneakers #and i ate literally One piece of french toast at the very beginning #plus i came in already sick of everything bc the stupid parking garage app i have to use now malfunctioned and wouldnt let me out #bc it didnt have my entrance to the garage last night logged for some reason

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wwwyzzerdd420 · 1 year

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I really just do not get women At All

#understand that i used to 'be one'#i was never under the impression that men would hurt me #i wasn't raised by women so maybe thats why? they never were able to infect me with that paranoia #i never felt unsafe around any man not even homeless men in the streets downtown San Antonio at night #i was never catcalled until my mid 20s #i was never ogled or at least i never noticed until my mid 20s #so i didnt even think that kind of thing happened to women cause it never happened to me #and ngl i was only catcalled ONCE and i was heavily made up with a wig and costume #ive always been too ugly to be harassed #i didnt even experience the trauma of moms picking apart their daughters appearance cause.. never had a mom #the first time i was ever body shamed was by other girls my age who HAD moms who were incredulous -#that i was in 4th grade and not shaving my legs yet (wasnt allowed/taught)#second time ever was in 6th grade after we moved to a predominantly white town and all the rich girlies started ripping me apart #i really truly and genuinely wonder if i HAD someone who cared about me raising me would i even be trans?#would i still be a man if i were raised with a mother and if my older sister took ANY interest in helping me?#would my perspective be different if my main romantic abuser had been a man instead of a woman?#and like. ive engaged in some RISKY behavior #like going on what i thought was a friend date with some divorced loser i picked up as an uber driver #like almost getting kidnapped while delivering pizzas on my birthday #like going to conventions dressed scantily clad completely alone with nobody checking in on me?#would my perspective be different had any of those times gone poorly for me?#or did these incidents not work to make me a paranoid woman because theres some different male wiring going on in my brain?#everything goddamn else traumatizes me so easily so im Genuinely asking here.#im more traumatized from being called bad names on the phone while trying to WORK than from almost being raped by a stranger #is that a bad thing????

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toastsnaffler · 2 years

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uwgrhrhfbf feeling very pathetic + missing my ex rn..... not so much the dating part but we were best friends for soooo long :^(((

#ik its been a while but some things were just so easy with them there yknow. i havent felt that ease in such a long time now #the hole they left behind still hasnt filled in...ive never known as truly or cared as deeply abt anyone before or since #last time we fought rly was the last straw. if they wanted to resolve it I wouldve. but they said not to contact them anymore so I haven't #maybe that was smth they said out of anger + now theyre too proud to take it back (<- in character) but they couldve texted me anytime so.#but its so strange.. they havent blocked me on any social media but they removed me from their instagram followers #but they still follow me?? why not just block me entirely? and we're still friends on fb/discord too.. even tho our fight was over discord #I don't want to block them bc I wanted us to work it out + stay friends. and if they messaged now I would consider repairing the damage #so I'll leave those channels open in case they ever come back #they unfollowed me on spotify + deleted some playlists theyd shared with me but specifically not the ones they made FOR me(??)#which is also odd. the funniest part of it all (to me anyway) is they unfollowed me on duolingo... thats when u know the divorce is real #like WHY would u remove me on duolingo and not discord which we both use DAILY and still see each other active on..... what.#they always were an enigma #I didnt like the person they had become when we were last in contact. I think they were around some very bad influences #at their uni.. they were very bitter and saw the worst in everything. it made me so sad to see them change like that #it happens. but even with that + how they treated me I still cared abt them very deeply + still do now tbh #I hope theyre ok wherever they are + whatever theyre doing. sending nice thoughts their way #and I do still hope that someday maybe theyll reach out again I do miss them so much sometimes #man.#anyway too much thinking I need to go to sleep #goodnight ily silly ppl on tumblr #.diaries #.vent #<- i suppose

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tinylittlebab · 2 years

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HEYYYYY i have a scale and i didnt even have to buy it!!

#i figured there was one in roomates room and i mentioned that i was gna buy one to my sister since shes going to the store and apparently #the scale actually belongs to her and it was just put in his bathroom when i moved here bc they didnt want it to trigger a relapse which it #def wouldve 5 months ago so good call. its in the shared bathroom now. glad i didnt have to buy one and now i can weigh myself. ofc we #talked abt this right after i ate so im not gna weigh myself immediately but i will soon #usually my mom send money directly to me but this time my dad sent it to my sister for me for whatever reason which makes things difficult #im gonna call her tomorrow and ask abt it maybe but shes going to see my dad tomorrow so might be a bad idea. he is getting more erratic #i might not get any of my things back from that house which sucks. knowing him he will probably burn the house down and then kill himself #like hes been threatening to for years. i hope he just kills himself qithout doing any other damges. i want him to die #well. hopefully he doesnt burn everything down and hopefully he kills himself before they divorce so my mom gets stuff from it #tho if he does it after they divorce then it will go to all his kids which would be good. my mom needs the money more though #well. ill see if my sister can give me some cash or smth so i can actually buy stuff. tho based of the amount sent i should get some more #sometime soon so idk. hopefully. shes been reall bad abt sending me money on time and sending the right amount and its hard to buy food #well at least ill have to spend less on it now but i wanna buy a foodscale and blades so. my sister is going with the store with me bc she #wants me to actually go bc i dont have much food in the house. i mentioned what i wanted to buy and she said she can just hang at subway #while i do it so i think itll be ok. i didnt tell her abt the blades ofc. well i guess i can use my change to buy the stuff #anyway. i wanna know how much i weight and how much i eat before i start restricting bc its a very useful thing to know #im at a sustained weight and diet and im not gaining anything now so i can adjust it accordingly

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