#i do sometimes talk about bg etc privately BUT tbh there's nothing i could hear about it that would affect my belief that HL are together

[homosociallyyours]

what do you think about louis’ dms with bentley’s mom?

Hi nonny!

My answer is: I don't think about them?

I'm here for a good time. I love the music of One Direction and all its members' solo projects, I find comfort and joy in the relationship that I believe HL have with one another as I hear it in their music, and I love coming up with silly little fantasies where my own versions of them (who are frequently lesbians lol) can have fun and find happy endings in a variety of ways.

I'm not here for stressing about whether or not someone I don't know got a message, the contents of that message, or any discourse about it :)

Highly recommend this approach to fandom if you frequently find yourself stressing over/upset about things like this. There's a very good chance that we'll never have any definitive answers about anything (we can't even get straightforward answers about the meaning of song lyrics!), and once I accepted that and stopped worrying about Knowing What's Definitively True my appreciation of the fandom got even stronger than it already was!