#i guess i like them as a qpr tho

[chippuyon]

getting ready in the morning

[callixton]

i think the thing to understand abt martha jones is that even after she leaves she is five seconds away from dropping everything and traveling with the doctor at any given time. bc that itch to blow everything up and damn her personal duty to hell in search of a higher call never leaves her. but martha is smart. and rational. and has spent a long fucking time needing to keep herself safe. (bc he comes when she calls but never before.) and so she has gotten very good at keeping herself on the right side of those five seconds. but i do think if ten was a different person (if he could acknowledge how much he needed her instead of just how much he liked her) (if he didn’t feel this righteous martyrdom when it comes to being left alone) (if he cared enough about her to beg. if he cared enough about himself.) i think that her answer no would come crumbling down pretty quickly is all.

[witchspeka]

Ritsu doesn't respond to Shou's messages, not cause he's disinterested or doesn't consider him a friend, but because 90% of the time he forgets he owns a phone

Like from an outsider's POV Ritsu seems like he's cold towards him or mildly annoyed but in reality he's just introverted and hasn't had any friends before besides his brother

Whatever you think they feel for one another is mutual, whether it's friendship or love or just mutual understanding and sympathy

Like, I can see them argue and be annoyed with eachother's personality once in a while but they care. I like to believe this isn't my bias but canon fact, Ritsu wouldn't have agreed to help Shou otherwise

They understand eachother. Shou tells Ritsu his big ideas and Ritsu understands how he's come to that conclusion and gives criticism and Shou listens to him. Because he knows it isn't an insult, he knows its genuine advice, he knows Ritsu actually listens and wants to help

That has its shortcomings as well, I think they're overestimating how well they understand eachother sometimes, there's a certain degree of projection happening. Their situations are similar but very, very different

What I'm trying to say is that they don't hang out that often but ten years post canon Shou could call Ritsu up after they haven't spoken in forever, unsure if he even has his number anymore, ask for help and still receive it. That Shou would let Ritsu crash on his couch after he impulsively quits his job even if months passed since their last conversation. It's not about personality compatibility with them, its about trust.

[sysig]

Colour picking, palette teasing (Patreon)

[ohmystarrynight]

hoooooly moly I adore your art style. Like. Can I eat it?? Absorb it through my skin like a frog????? If I splat my face into my screen hard enough, will it absorb into my face???????? Also. I've been getting back into Knight Rider (read: thinking about it from years ago and considering watching more of it) and. your human kitt is giving me LIFE. I absolutely love the way you draw him! Could you maybe draw kitt and Michael holding hands... Maybe- they're definitely in a qpr and. they would hold hands. and I haven't seen enough art of them :( the tumbly knight rider fandom is tiny :(

Also! As a kid I used to love ttte, and I LOVE the doodle you did of the coal engines going up the hill with brakes on! It just felt so true to the characters :33 those coal trains were little shit bastards lmao

This is getting long, but I have sooo much to say ;-;

Okay I think I can consider this to two or three more questions-

Do you have an art fight account? May I draw you fanart/how do I credit you as Creator of the character if I may? And could you maybe do colour swatches next to a drawing or sketch or whatever? Like if you decide to draw kitt :3 could you give him a colour palette off to the side bc I kinda suck at matching colours when they're amongst other colours :3

Okay yup too long but. I love your art!!! Keep going I love this 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Good gracious you’re sweet!! This made me smile sooo stupid big omg 😭😭❤️ I’m glad you dig my self indulgent human kitt nonsense haha!! Idk if this counts but for NOW this is all I have for kitt and Michael holding hands and it’s part of a hilarious collab I did with @colloquial-kayak 😂 they also have an awesome human kitt design!

I can totally start color swatching! I used to do it ages ago and just.. stopped? I guess??? I’ll start doing it again tho! And I’ll try to get a legit doodle of them holding hands soon!

Im ALWAYS so excited if people draw my stuff! Honestly credit to my tumblr here is fine (ohmystarrynight), I used to be on instagram but meta is 👎👎👎 so now it’s just here and twitter (art_makes_art). I love seeing people’s stuff! And sadly I don’t do artfight (mostly bc my brain ain’t big and I don’t understand it lmao)

Keep it groovy!!!

[tex-now]

Ranking every kasa ship let's gooooooo (excluding saki ofc)

18. Toyakasa

No. No. No. No. Ew. No. No. How amatonormative do you have to be to ship these two. Fuck off if you ship them. Please. Im begging you

17. Ichikasa

I would probably block you if you ship this not because I think it's weird but more so because I despise it so much. Ew. But like. Do what you want. I don't wanna see it tho.

16. Honakasa

WORLD'S NUMBER ONE ROMANTIC HONAKASA HATER HERE!!! but I love them platonically so they go higher I guess.

15. Shihokasa

Ew if we're taking it seriously but shiho having an unrequited crush on tsukasa and wanting to bash her head into a rock anyone. Anyone. And then it turns out she was comphet and actually attracted to saki the entire time so she latched onto the boy most like her. Anyone. Anyo-

14. Ankasa

Ew. Just ew. Ifk what it is but I hate the idea of an and tsukasa dating. Makes me sick. I hc an as bisexuality so that's not the issue here I just hate them romantically

13. Harukasa

I've read one harukasa fic and it was cute but not enough for me to really like them. She would Not date him

12. Akikasa

I actually used to like them but then I grew an aversion to them idk why.... keep this away from me

11. Mizukasa

I like these two! They have a fun dynamic and tye idea of them dating is realky funny to me. It's my crackship if you will

10. Kanakasa

They are QPR. no they don't kiss or go on dates or any of that but tsukasa joins honami in visiting kanade and they go shopping with mafuyu and sometimes tsukasa braids kanades hair for her to keep it out of the way okay. Don't look at me

9. Minokasa

I. Don't look at me. The fucing first anniversary conversation they had. Look at it. Read it. The April fools event. Crawling into a hole and dying

8. Kohakasa

Yes it's going to get worse. These two I actually ship romantically so burn me at the stake I deserve it

9. Airikasa

Okay so basically. I had a thought one day. I love platonic aisaki. I love the tenma siblings. I love the idea of big sister airi to saki. And. Tsukasa and airi interacting because they both care about saki and then at one point they start holding hands

7. Enakasa

I'll be honest I just like them. They're so silly. T4T. Transmasc ena and his loving wife. I love them. No thematic shit just my sillies

6. Mafukasa

Me and the bad bitch I pulled by being autistic I fucing hate them/pos

5. Shizukasa

The beautiful bride and the ugly groom core... pandemonium changedtye way I think about these two I fucing love them actually. They're so silly.....

4. Emukasa

THEM!!!!! THEM!!!!!! THEY!!!!!!! MY PREVIOUS FAVORITE SHIP!!!!!!!!!! THE SILLIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

3. Nenekasa

I hate them so much I hate them. They make me fucing sick o hate them. They kiss and I scream and rip and tear at the walls I HATE THEMMMMMMMM/pos

2. Polysho

... I'm so normal about them. Grips seat.

1. Ruikasa

They fake up my mind every minute of every day and I can never stop thinking about them. I've filled three notebooks with drawings of just them I have so many wips of them. I hate them. I love them. They've ruined me in a way I never thought possible. Fuck

[nerves-nebula]

Do you have any loveless/heartless characters? I think they're real neat <3

this post got superrr long lol. im avoiding my homework <3

so this is a complicated ask for me because my definition of "love" is intentionally different from a lot of more mainstream conceptions of it. love isn't a feeling to me, it's something you DO for people you care about, right? you make someone feel loved by doing things that show you care. you putting in that effort and correcting your behavior for their sake is love.

so in that way i don't consider any of my characters loveless. because to me Love is something you chose to do so nobody can really be loveless inherently, they're just choosing not to act loving towards someone.

HOWEVER, from what i've gleamed from a quick google search about loveless aros, it doesn't necessarily seem that being loveless is exclusive to my definition of love?

like, i'm seeing loveless aros talk about not having those kinds of feelings or doubting/opting out of western ideas of love that don't fit them. some talk about not forming that kind of "deep emotional bond" though I'm confused if they mean like.. in general, or just romantically. cuz i've never had a deep romantic bond but i've never really considered that an indictment of Love Itself so much as a type of love that I'm just not a part of.

some people are describing it as specifically romantic love that they know they can't feel. but then again some people are just using it to mean they reject "love" as a label for their emotions/experiences, so like. idk.

it feels like im on the exact same page as a lot of these people it's just that their conclusion was to throw out the word love and mine was to not accept the premise that romantic love is the highest or most important kind of love and focus on, like, other forms of love that are important to me. like my siblings and friends.

soooo i can't say any of them are loveless for sure, cuz i don't identify that way and i'm not sure i grok it yet.

HOWEVER,

I do have aromantic characters, if that's what you mean. though a lot of them are in weird psychosexual situations with each other (just cuz i dont wanna have sex doesnt mean its not fun for my characters to), though there's one or two healthy QPRs thrown in there.

tbh my understanding (or lack thereof) of romance seeps into all of my characters so even the ones who are supposedly in love are doing it with hints of aromanticism cuz like. i dont care what a crush is, yknow? there's only so far romantic tropes can take me before i tap out and just do my own thing.

but as for like canonically aro characters i've got Hondo & quinn, dotty, toasty, Thomas (you guys don't know Thomas yet lol she's a peach), Ezra and Pet (pet is a weird monster tho and Ezra is sort of dead so idk if that counts), Misha Mistaka, Pasiflora, and probably my new one, Benbeck.

I also consider Groe aroace but that's like, a whole thing. cuz Groe is mostly known for having been married to Maureno (one of my characters i explicitly consider allosexual, if not alloromantic) and their relationship takes front and center at every point sfsdf.

because even when i dont see it as romantic i LOVE to make characters lives intertwined and dependent on each other. due to my own personal issues. to be honest i dont think groe and maureno are "in love" i just think they're inextricable dependent on each other. i think their "romance" is an inherently aromantic one because it's not about romantic feelings its about their friendship and trust, which includes kissing and sex sometimes but isn't diminished when they don't do those things.

I don't think Groe feels romantic feelings but i get that two characters who ostensibly have their weird fucked up "romance" be the core thing going on in their life isn't exactly the aromantic rep that ppl are looking for. i mean, it is for ME, but not for everyone.

i guess im just not Good Aro rep tho, cuz im not interested in romance but i AM interested in finding a person who i know I can depend on for everything and share my life with, yknow? i want someone who i know will always be on my side.

and that looks the same to a lot of poeple as romance but the experience of it was way different. cuz i can be with them forever and never want to do more than kiss their forehead as a sign of affection and that'd be great for me, while i KNOW that's unthinkable for a lot of people.

but when writing my characters it's hard to really portray that internal difference. so i think ppl just assume it's romance, and like, that's fine i guess?

so like, groe and maureno fuck cuz it's fun and cuz they have unresolved issues but it's not crucial or even really important to their relationship- to the point that they care WAY more about who each other is hanging out with than who each other is having sex with.

but now i'm rambling about asexuality and stuff.. uhhh the point is YES i have aromantic characters NO I dont know if they're "loveless"

but if a character isn't aromantic or at least aspec that's probably cuz i made a concerted effort to think of them as such.

[aspecpplarebeautiful]

I’ve been trying to figure out for sure what alterous means for me, bc I can’t help but be curious if my feelings for my girlfriend are “Romantic like with a capital R” lol, or if it’s in a vague abstract-y demi/recipro maybe alterous maybe romantic way lol.

I found this description of alterous when I was reading Reddit posts about it, and it basically said “I want to be close to you and around you and do everything with you, I just don’t care what form it takes and how we categorize ourselves.” And I totally get that. At the same time, I was the one who asked if we wanted to start officially dating bc honestly I wanted to be able to say to people “I have a partner! I have a girlfriend!!!” And I wanted that label for us too bc I just wanted that feeling of, yes we are committed to each other. But… it didn’t exactly feel like a romantic instinct to wanna call them my partner? And now that I’m thinking about it, my ex and I considered each other as boyfriends, even tho we definitely weren’t dating in any conventional sense, it was a qpr and I had no romantic feelings towards them, not even the “idk if this is romance or not” feelings like I have with my girlfriend. So yeah I think I wanted the label just so I could clearly say, “yes I’m their boyfriend and she’s my girlfriend.” But I honestly wouldn’t have cared that much if she didn’t care about official labels, but I also knew that she would love it, so I wanted the label for her too… and the way we talk and act, definitely looks romantic and the way I act when I’m rambling about them to my friends, I probably look like anyone else who is romantically in love with someone. But I think my point is, I don’t care whether or not our relationship feels “Romantic with a capital R” or not. I like that it feels kinda romantic coded bc I like doing and being cute with her in a way that’s probably romance coded, but I don’t need it to be. I guess… I guess I would consider my feelings towards her as romance-inclined alterous. And I could use my gender identity as an example. I’m nonbinary, but lean towards transmasc too even tho I don’t always feel “Masculine with a capital M”. I’m alterously in love with her, and it leans towards romantically too but I don’t always feel that “Romance with a capital R.” Huh that actually makes a lot of sense to me.

This turned into a slightly chaotic ramble lol but maybe other people can relate or it’ll help them if they’re trying to figure things out. I’ve sent in quite a few asks the last few days, but honestly this is my favorite place in all of tumblr from the first day I found this so thank you for being here for all of us :)))

~wolfyboi

Thanks for sharing your process! I definitely think people will find this helpful, it's not always simple, but it doesn't have to be.

I'm really glad to hear this blog has been helpful! And don't worry about sending in a few asks, multiple asks are definitely welcome.

All the best!

[feshippingpolls]

I hope it's okay to send this as.. I guess propaganda? for the "should this option be removed" poll instead of just leaving it in the notes.

I think the "ship it platonically" option should stay. It could be considered the equivalent of saying you see the characters involved in the pair up as aro(spec), ace(spec), or aroace(spec) and in a quasiplatonic (also called queerplatonic) relationship.

That's not the same thing as simply not shipping them. You do, just not in the context of a romantic and/or sexual relationship. A QPR isn't just "being good friends" with someone, and it shouldn't be treated as such.

(Sorry for the novel, I'm just a very passionate aroacespec person who enjoys both romantic and platonic shipping a lot.)

Mod being personal for a sec, this is why the option matters to me as someone whos aro-questioning and highly values my platonic relationships like even if I don't think Claude and Hilda should kiss their friendship makes me so happy that's just me tho anyway pantless marth

[our-queerplatonic-experience]

I honestly don't know how to start this cause I'm awkward lol but basically: my mom thinks my close(ish?) Friend is my "boyfriend"... could not be further from the truth 💀 (also sorry this is a bit long btw i like detail & that is a pain for me to deal with sometimes. This could be catagorized as venty but this is meant to be just a bit of a mind dump)

I'm aromantic asexual (romo+sex repulsed/adverse) & bigender (boy+girl), the um- suspected "boyfriend": she's a lesbian trans woman. This has happened a couple times, ligit were that mean gay & overly nice lesbian meme & somehow A NOTABLE AMOUNT OF PEOPLE THINK WERE DATING 💀 told her like imidiatly over text just to clear anything up like if my moms weird or smth. She was just like "oh shit" & we havnt mentioned it since.

What makes it a bit awkward tho is I DO lowkey have a squish/qp crush on her, on & off, but I know that my attraction tends to fade & waver with time (like- Lithqueerplatonic / Queerplatonicflux I guess). So I wouldn't really want to be in like, a qpr w/ her. That & I've always kinda "worry" that my boy/masc part may make most lesbians uncomfortable being in a qpr with me and vice versa with gay men & my girl/ fem part.

Anyway I just have really intense platonic feelings when I do have them & I wish as a society we were more ok with expressing that ;> RELASHIONSHIP ANARCHY WHEN?? when will ppl be "allowed" to kiss their homies goodnight without it being perceived romantic?? WHEN ;D (I'm also on the aplatonic spectrum, dont have many friends & dont plan on having many. I think too many ppl overwhelm me.)

My ideal QPR would just be like: cuddling/leaning on eachother, time together, nicknames & small gifts of appreciation (inexpensive &/or handmade stuff or food), I find kissing weird as a concept so a no for that personally in general. And like, at this point... thinking out loud idk if I want to do that w/ her specifically or if I just want a qpr? Cause like I'd only feel comfortable even touching ppl I'm fairly if not really close to & she checks that box by being in my short friend list. For reference: I only started regularly hugging & saying I love you to my best friend recently & we've known eachother & been mutually eachothers best friends for a decade. (I used to occasionally question if i had qp feelings for him but I am like VERY sure it's just heavy platonic appreciation. i love him so much hes the brother i never had i fr cannot stress how much i love him hes fr fr the best bro bro not even related to the topic really i just want to say that i love tf out of him hes awsome)

Anyway plz prey/etc that I don't get weirded out by my mom so much that I come out as aroace 💀 (i find even the idea of being in a romantic/sexual relationship repusing & unconfortable to think about. Just not my thing, if that changes fine i just don't anticipate that happening. Also I don't think she's like, a "kick me out" aphobic, just an uneducated 1. I just don't want to deal w/ any of it tbh. I want a clean cut "I am [blank]" statment and for the "conversation" to be over with but I don't expect that ) tldr: wish me luck on this journey of the cringe that is existing ☺

good luck!!!!! existing do be difficult but it will be okay :]

[ohh-fiddlesticks]

pinned post thingo… pt 3 !

hiii my name is 💥 micah 💥 and this is my selfship sideblog! i use he/him and im a certified transsexual 🔥 aroace and gay as well. its a complex and wondrous thing yk how it is ‼️ i’m also australian 🎉

i tend to see my selfships as more on the fictional side; i like to explore the relationships like any other relationship in fiction, meaning that it wont always be the healthiest, so… keep that in mind i guess 👍

i dont like to associate this blog too closely with my main but if you get notifs from a blog with a url starting with d and a rainbow pfp of castiel, thats almost definitely me! if u wanna know the exact url feel free to ask and i’ll let you know 👍

you can also check out my strawpage for some general info about me and an f/o list, etc. :^)

i draw sometimes ‼️ i tag all my art with “#my art”

my main f/os are dave s.trider & c.handler bing but ive also got a couple more in the bag!

proship and closely associated please kindly don’t follow 🙏 strictly nsfw or 18+ blogs preferably dni too closely also . generally tho i’ll just block people i don’t want interacting

f/o list, sharing boundaries, etc. below the cut!

for romantic f/os, my general policy is that i’m not particularly comfortable with sharing and while you’re free to follow or interact if we share f/os, keep in mind i’m less likely to follow back— this ofc does not apply if i follow first. platonic, familial, etc. f/os im totally fine with sharing, in fact i think thats awesome

also! i have no tagging system— that being said, if you want me to tag a certain ship for filtering purposes or similar, i’d be happy to do so

characters i talk about in a romantic manner (some are f/os, some not, it’s complicated):

dave strider (homestuck) — f/o. thats my boyf riend . basically my first proper f/o i heart him lots 💗

chandler bing (friends) — f/o. thats also my boyf riend. my beloved sarcastic repressed boring yet not boring guy. this may come as a surprise but i also love him lots

hitch (ruby redfort) — f/o. i dont talk about him as much but i do love him. middle aged secret agent who’s afraid of crocodiles and is secretly silly :-)

prismo (adventure time) — f/o. also dont talk about him as much but i love him i prommy. idc that he’s 2D i will find a way to give him a kiss 🫡

jonny goodman (friday night dinner) — fictional crush or something i dont even know. i was briefly obsessed with him during my fnd interest period and i still hold him dearly and sometimes rewatch some fnd episodes and think of him

bernard black (black books) — i truly dont know tbh i just love black books and am a little obsessed with him. manny & fran too but i dont have gay little crushes on them so

jeremy usbourne (peep show) — practically an f/o atp but im in denial. side effect of my recent peep show obsession was developing a secondary obsession with this freak

characters i have some sort of weird little qpr situation with

foxy (fnaf) — idk how to explain it he was one of the first characters i started selfshipping with in some variety and i like him :-)

the nice cream guy (deltarune) — he’s a developed character 2 meeee. we’re gayass boy best friends

red guy (dhmis) — who knows but it’s not a normal friendship folks

characters that are my friendssss my familyyy etc. you get the idea

toriel & asgore dreemurr (deltarune) — my parents:)

kris & asriel dreemurr (deltarune) — my siblings:)

basically the entire rest of the main characters from the other medias ive already mentioned — my friends:)

THAT’S ALL FOLKS!! THANK YOU FOR READING :^)

[a-confused-teen-venting]

Hi, fellow aroace here in regards to your last post

I myself am sex-repulsed, but there are members of the ace community who engage in sex/masturbate/etc. while still identifying as asexual.

I don't have much experience with hypersexuality (what I've gleamed is that it's compulsive) but I don't think it disqualifies you. In my eyes being aro or ace is about not feeling that attraction, but also about not wanting sex/romance to be a requirement in your relationships. There are aces who have sex and aros who do romantic gestures even if they don't get anything from it bc their partner likes it or just because they don't mind it. The issue arises when they are told they have to feel that kind of love.

When I was figuring out being aro, the questions that got me to consider it was "do you feel that attraction? do you enjoy these kinds of gestures? do you want them in my life, consistently?". And even answering all of those negatively, it took me a while to actually settle on aromantic bc I was afraid of not feeling love. Nowadays tho I'm aro and very happy about it. And if it changes, so be it!

In the end I leave you with what my dear friends told me when I was questioning about both being ace and (especially) being aro - try the label out, see if it makes you happy, and either keep it or discard it. Either way you'd have learned something abt yourself.

Labels are allowed to change, and you're allowed to be wrong while you figure it out for yourself. They're descriptive words. In the end their purpose is for you to define and describe your feelings, right? And other people shouldn't police you about whether you're a "true asexual". Community isn't build to be exclusive.

Sorry for the lengthy post, and I hope you figure it all out.

thank you so much for your message!

i am aware of asexuals and aromantics that engage in things they don’t particularly require to be satisfied in a relationship for the sake of their partner, which is a totally valid thing to do.

however, at times i do find myself in that train of thought when trying to figure out my identity: will i have a partner? if so will it be a normal relationship? how about a qpr? would we have mini dates that would be strictly platonic? would we do physical things?

at times i cant really answer questions like these because of uncertainty, lack of experience and confusing emotions. in addition, mentally i think i have to fit a certain criteria to be considered a “true asexual” or a “true aromantic” to but i guess i should be more focused on me and my own experience.

like how i responded to someone before, i want to be open to trying the label and figuring out how i feel about it. and like you said, i could either discard it or keep it onces i figure it out. which is much better than how i have been doing for years which was putting it off to the point i have uncertainty on my sexuality.

again, thank you for sharing your experience. reading your message was very comforting in a way, and I apologize for the late response.

[panzershrike-pretz]

TAG GAME!

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Thank you so much @xxluckystrike!! Love you a lot!!

- Name:

Pretzel or Pretz (preferably)! But I don't mind if any other parts of my URL are turned into nicknames as well (you can callme Pan, Panzer or Shrike if you'd like!)

- Pronouns:

I'll go with pretty much anything? She, They, He, It- use what you'd like! I don't mind a bit :]

- Star sign:

Gemini! I don't have a clue what this means tho 😀

- # of siblings and fun facts about them (if you have any):

I have a brother and a sister, both older than me. My brother is very into military stuff and my sister is an ecologist (I guess I got stuff from both). But i'm the cooler 👉😎👉

- # of pets & their names:

I have only a shih-tzu, her name is Kessy! She's the love of my life, a little guardian angel :]

- Fandoms:

I'm into Band of Brothers, Starkid Musicals, Warriors, Good Omens, Pirates and I don't know if you'd call Ornithology a fandom of birds but oh well xD and also Vulture Culture and Taxidermy! Get them dead stuff babessss

- Favorite color:

Blue! Tho green is a close second (especially military green, that's too pretty)

- Favorite song:

Too hard of a question 😭 uhhhhh i really love Elephant's Dance (from Ye Banished Privateers), which is fucking awesome by the way. Go listen to it if you like sea shanties- it's art

And Cortard's Solution from Will Wood BECAUSE IT'S FUCKING AMAZING

- Favorite author (of anything readable - books, fanfics, zines, webtoons, whatever!):

I mean... @xxluckystrike amirite 🤏😎 love your stuff so much KDJWKAK

I have a lot of stuff i see on webtoon bit i really don't remember the names of anyone- i'm also into clangen blogs :] the Warriors fan in me has no chill

- Favorite fic type:

Not being smut, i'll read anything my friends post tbh. I'm not picky xD and I also don't really venture far from my friends works. I do love oc stuff tho! :D

- Favorite Holiday:

My birthday should be a Holiday

- Do you have a partner (romantic, qpr, anything!)?:

Nop :D

- Hobbies:

First and foremost, oc creation and worldbuilding! I have what? Some 200 characters? Probably more? I love each and everyone of them :]

Then I'm also a collector so I love to care for my stuff, as well as making art (especially drawing my characters) and staying with my dog :]

- Fun facts about you:

I HAVE MORE THAN 500 FEATHERS!! SO MANY OF THEM!! LOVE THEM!!! MY BABIES!!!

Also in eleven days i found 226 feathers on the beach- it has to be a record, right?

TAGGING!! :D: @luckynumber4 @sweetxvanixlla @whollyjoly @1waveshortofashipwreck @coco-bean-1218 and whoever else wants to join!

[dvrtrblhr]

I also see Shez as a him/herbo aro (and on the fence on them being ace?? only because I think they want to hate-fuck Byleth lol)

I just didn't get any romantic undertones from any of their supports. But I do like QPR Ashe/Shez and Dimitri/Shez for your next poll <3

(Also Shez/Rodrigue because I was so excited to be Felix's step mom when I saw we could support Rodrigue only to find out he has a wife T_T)

I think it makes a lot of sense for Shez to be aromantic though I hadn't considered it before. They could also be very inexperienced (romantically, not necessarily sexually) which is usually how I write Byleth, now that I think about it.

Ashe and Shez will be at the poll as those 2 were mentioned at least twice (and I really like Shez & Dimitri's relationship, personally).

I thought of adding Rodrigue, I admit! I like their supports and I like Rodrigue and I love that he had so much new content! But the infidelity is a thing I guess...

I actually always headcanon'ed that Felix's mother was alive during 3 houses events. I liked the idea of Felix being surrounded by more people than just his dad.

(I was completely wrong about the Gautiers though - I never considered Miklan and Sylvain were half-brothers and I never imagined their father would be this cold, calculating, repressed but loyal enigma. Honestly, I liked being wrong in this case tho, I think the Gautiers got even more interesting after Hopes!)

[dolorum-magne]

Hello!

May I ask your opinions on Brim (Brian x Tim) and Jay x Tim?

Of course!

Brim (Brian x Tim): not my personal favourite but I'm fond of it still because it was the first thing I saw of the fandom when I had just started getting into mh. I like them more as best friends but I still think the ship is pretty good!

Jam (Jay xTim): I LOVE this ship! Its my personal favourite ship, I really love it. Its the one I started shipping as I saw their relationship develop throughout the series and the one I draw art for and read the most fics about :)

Gonna include some others even though no one asked lol

Bray (Brian x Jay): I like this one! Not my personal fav but I've grown fond of it through art I've seen from some of the artists I follow. Again, I think they'd be great friends but don't ship them, mainly because of their limited interaction in the series itself. When I have seen it its been very cute and wholesome so I really like his ship ^^

Jaylex (Jay x Alex): I don't ship this personally. I love them as friends, and I don't dislike the ship at all, I just don't ship them together personally. I love them being best friends, and I've seen some cute content of this ship, it's just not for me I guess :)

Brilex: this one’s actually growing on me I’ve seen it a lot more recently, plus I thought some of the 'friends, to lovers, to enemies' thing ive seen is kinda cool, but overall I’m indifferent. It’s a good ship tho

Timlex (Tim x Alex): again, not for me. It's alright and I think premarble hornets they could have been friends but I don't ship them, I just dont see the appeal tbh, but idk, I think it's a good ship tho!

Jayssica (Jay x Jessica): no. Jay is canonically gay and I agree with the popular headcanon that Jessica is a lesbian so I really don't like this ship or the people who ship it tbh :/

Amylex: YES this one makes me really sad but I love it. Alex was a good boyfriend and I think he really did love her very much, and I don't actually think he killed her, they make me so sad :(

Polyhornets: I like this one! I dont see poly ships often, but I think its nice! I think of it as a big qpr personally, but either way I think its an alright ship

Bram (Brian x Jay x Tim):I like it! Ive seen it a few times and once again its always pretty wholesome!

Jessica x Taylor (do they have a ship name yet? Jeylor maybe? Tessica?): I like it! Dont see it much since the comics are still fairly new and most people don't even know who Taylor is, but I think its cute!

That's all I could think of but if you have anymore you'd like my opinions on, shoot me an ask!

[splatoon-edits]

do you have any rarepair splatoon idol ships that you really like. for me it would be the polyship of shiver, frye, and marie. and the worst part about that is that since that specific ship, not just shiver and frye or shiver and marie, since it is a rarepair, has so little content. thank fuck i have my autistic little brain so i can think up situations to put them in.

oh cod yeah polyships are so hard to find content for. I love poly deep cut and i'm so glad they do actually have some content. But frye shiver and marie???? how have i never considered that before. i do like marie x shiver and i've seen less content for it but marie x frye is cute too, but all 3??? such a good idea. i am adding this to my list of ships immediately.

as for idol rarepairs...? hmmmm.... i sort of like all idol combination ships but as for some rare ones i really enjoy...?

Callie x Marina x Pearl as a poly ship. I just think Marina deserves two upbeat pink squids. And i think Pearl and Callie should never be allowed to hang out without chaos ensuing. Which is exactly why they should be allowed to date and cause as much chaos as they want. I may have read like one singular fic or headcanon about it once way in the past and i've just liked it ever since.

Also- not an idol x idol ship, but, Marie x Spyke. I honestly see them as aro x aro who are in the worlds most evil qpr. I just know they would bully each other incessantly. It's not a ship i'm actually invested in, but i just like thinking about it every once in a while. I honestly don't even need to see ship content. Just let me see content of them as friends.

And while i'm here lamenting. I'd like y'all to take a wild guess what my fav agent ship is. IT'S 4 x 8. I CAN'T WIN. I don't mind 3 x 8 (i think of em as friends but don't dislike the ship) but its SO POPULAR THAT THERE'S NO 4 X 8 CONTENT!! Tho it could be worse. I could be a 4 x 3 shipper. Those people are just always losing. I'm not even entirely convinced they're real.

EDIT: I FORGOT SHIVER X CALLIE!!!!! I THINK IT WOULD BE SO CUTEEEE!!!! Like i think at first Shiver would kinda assume Callie is weaker than her considering she's from Inkopolis. But the more time they spend together the more Shiver starts to realize "oh she's crazy" and they do stupid stuff together. Also i just think Callie is very affectionate and Shiver is easily embarrassed and so you have shiver trying to keep her cool but Callie just smiles at her and holds her hand and Shiver combusts and starts blushing SO hard.

EDIT PART TWOOO: i didnt mention it in my original version of this post. But my other fav agent ship is 4 x 3 x 8 cuz i adore poly agents. I saw someone mention it in the notes and yeah its SOOO adorable.