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#i really really love being trans
ratbastarddotfuck · 1 year
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You don't have to answer if you don't want to, i just saw your tags on a post about feeling attracted to yourself after transitioning. I just wanted to say that's awesome, see you happy about that made ME happy, I'm really happy for you! Anyway, have a great day!
Aa thankyou!! This is such a kind message ajsjshg.
But yeah, it's been a pretty major goal of my transition to become someone that I would have a crush on - and I'm there! I have been for a while, pretty much as soon as I started sprouting hair and experimenting with my style. And even as my style changes, so too does my taste.
In other words - I'm so deep in aesthetic self love that I'm finding myself more attracted to people who look like me.
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stil-lindigo · 7 months
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undefbug · 3 months
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the transmasc transitioning experience is really just being told again and again that you’re making yourself gross. which there is a big narrative surrounding all transitioning no matter which side that you’re going to end up “undesirable” i think there’s a lot of hate surrounding trans masculine transition that surrounds becoming a gross man.
really it’s enough of a mental challenge going from fem presentation where any body hair is immediately seen as disgusting to trying to become comfortable with yourself in masculine transition with your body hair. even facial hair which is something that is a big part of masculine transition and something a lot of trans masc people may look forward to can still bring shame and guilt especially around how people will perceive you with that very masculine presentation.
honestly in my personal experiences with medical transition, the amount of negative comments i’ve gotten on body hair and facial hair from close people in my life can be disheartening and really does push on that “gross man” mentality, i transitioned for those traits. i transitioned to be a big hairy guy with a nice beard. and people thinking that’s gross or whatever shouldn’t take the fun and euphoria out of transitioning. but it does sometimes and that sucks
remember that’s it’s okay to be big and hairy and masculine! it’s beautiful too!!!
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1960z · 4 months
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“haha odo is so beige and bland and boring despite being a literal shapeshifter” like ok yes I laugh at those jokes too and find them funny I literally have no issue with them but sometimes I also wanna talk about how that’s kind of the whole point of his character.
like odo’s abilities and way of being is so unlike any other known species in the alpha quadrant that it’s shown to be disturbing and off-putting to a lot of people — or at the very least that’s what he was led to believe. like we see this in the alternate where mora tries to convince him he’ll either be locked up in a prison or put in a zoo to gawk at if he’s perceived to have committed any sort of crime or transgression.
so despite being able to literally become anything he can think of, he chooses his default presentation to be as standard, bland and uninteresting as he possibly can. male, always in a beige uniform, very standard hair cut.
odo is so plain because he was made to be afraid of being literally anything else
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uncanny-tranny · 5 months
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The weirdest dichotomy I've felt as a trans man is that, when I was a kid, I knew I was never allowed into a "sisterhood." I always felt like an interloper around girls, and, because girls can be observant and intelligent (despite popular belief), I was treated as an interloper.
Now, as an adult, I'm treated like I was always part of "A Sisterhood" that I shunned, that I refused to join, so I ought to be punished for that horrific transgression.
I absolutely know other trans men* who did feel part of girlhood/womanhood, and there is literally nothing wrong with that. However, I just find it frustrating to be... denied my own experiences, my own story by (mostly cis) people who are uncomfortable with the idea that some people never felt part of "their circle." It's a weird arm of transphobia that simultaneously expells you from conformity but also blames you for not conforming (because you were never even given the opportunity to conform because, again, you were forced out of any space to conform to). Do you see what I mean?
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cupiidzbow · 7 months
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i love you gender non conforming self shippers i love you masc girls and fem guys i love you gender weird people i love you neopronouns users i love you trans people who don’t want surgery i love you trans people who get a little silly with it!!!!!!! we are really awesome and cool being transgender is the best and I love our silly little self inserts we are so real and awesome
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mipexch · 5 months
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QUEER TRANS BEETLE BUG THING
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mueritos · 1 year
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im glad that people r clowning on that detrans person who went viral on twitter for blaming trans people/hrt for his baldness and normal male genes, but i really hope this can at least wake up some transmasculine people, ESPECIALLY white transmasculine people.
many BIPOC transmasc people already have standards of whiteness imposed onto us, but we do not cry wolf when our genetics cause the male secondary characteristics that they do. many of us are hairy, many of us have thick and coarse hair, some of us get extremely deep voices, etc and etc. BIPOC transmascs already have to deal with the masculinization of our bodies even before HRT because many of us cannot achieve white standards of womanhood. it is just also incredibly ignorant to shed tears over normal secondary sex characteristics that everyone on HRT are informed about. Just because you have male pattern baldness, an adams apple, and a low voice doesn’t mean you suddenly lose your worth as human being. white transmascs who successfully performed white femininity and desperately still cling onto it or try to be a hairless pretty twink after HRT,,,PLEASE understand that you cannot control the way HRT reacts to your body. You cannot complain about not looking like a beautiful twink because you cannot control how your genetics and HRT will masculinize your body. Like holy fuck. 
there is definitely a time and a space for detrans people to discuss their journeys. Many of them don’t regret HRT, many of them just simply realized they don’t need to be binary passing. But when we center detrans experiences as the reason why HRT needs to be stopped, why trans people are making “serious mistakes” to their bodies...yea I dont care how much you hate yourself. You do not need to make your insecurities everybody elses problem.
I genuinely hope this makes some white transmasc people realize that its okay to look like a normal dude. Some of us feel euphoric by the male pattern baldness. Some of us love our hairy arms and legs. Some of us love being men. Some of us love loving men. Some of us love having friendships with men. There is nothing wrong with being a man. The biological essentialism of vagina=good and penis=bad is not just a gender issue, it’s a race issue as well. These ideas are inherent to whiteness; when you say you distrust all men, when you say they all deserve to die...this means ALL men...Black men, queer men, transmen, Asian men, Latino men, Indigenous men, men who are disabled, men who are GNC, lesbians who are men, butches....
Having a caution toward men or male presenting people because of patriarchy, sexism, and misogyny? Fine. Hating them, vilifying them, viewing them as inherently predatory and evil? No. Thanks for making us feel like we’re all dangerous, that definitely does nothing to the male pysche, and thanks for conveying that anyone with a vagina is inherently good.
god. destroy white ideas of gender and sexuality already. you guys are just so damn annoying. we cannot get an ounce of solidarity because of you guys.
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sangerie · 6 months
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Something really profound about how in the anime Sanji's mother is tied to butterflies. And how Germa is a net that they were all trapped in. And about how Reiju made her whole outfit motif modeled after the butterfly in her mother's image. And how Sanji's character arc is like being a caterpillar that's a late bloomer and he needed more time, patience and love to reach his full potential, transform and take wing. And about how Ichiji told him to go and fly away. And even Niji and Yonji being pinned in Big Mom's book like a butterfly on display.
Just....something about that..
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cyellolemon · 10 months
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Hiiii here is a collection of many Detective Conan (moslty with Rei let's be honest) shitpost i drew.. enjoy!!
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I have so much fun drawing these jhdsjsdsd i love the characters so much </33 the multiship is very real btw
I hope that this post will found 2-3 decto fans and that they're gonna find this funny!!!
(the Kazami and Yoko's comic can look really out of context if you haven't read Hannin no Hanzawa-san but in that spin off Kazami actually tell her and Hanzawa that he works with someone who is perfect..)
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auroras-void · 6 months
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Reasons I am a catgirl:
- My hair is very soft and I need you to pet it but also if you try to without me giving you permission I will hiss at you.
- I will bite you ❤️ (affectionate)
- Will complain that my food bowl (refrigerator) is empty when it very much is not.
- Neurodivergent
- I will purr if you give me scritches.
- Will curl up in your lap and trap you
- I do not trust you, but once I do I love you and I will not leave your side
- I will meow at you if you show me affection.
- Good night vision
- Always sleepy
- I am beautiful adorable and pretty and I know it
- I will get stunlocked if you throw cheese at me
- You are honored to be graced with my presence
- Climb all the things want be talll, want to lord over my empire
- I'm not in love with you it's just a coincidence I'm always so close to you and always want to be near you what are you talking about
- I will bite you ❤️ (horny)
- socks
- Get yelled at for eating cardboard
- I know what I am doing is not allowed and I am not guilty about it
- headpats good yes giv
- Will fidget with things I should not fidget with, (I have zapped myself licking power cables before)
- Will get the zoomies at 3 am sometimes
- I will bite you ❤️ (annoyed)
- Will mlem if I am feeling particularly neurodivergent sometimes
- What do you mean I had food 3 minutes ago I'm hungy
- knock things over (accident)
- What do you mean I haven't eaten since yesterday I don't need any food
- knock things over (on purpose)
- you can't tell me what to do
- this water has bad vibes I will not drink this
- transfem who knows how to code
- doctor needs to steal my balls (bottom surgery)
- my hair is long and flowing and perfect
- you are soft and I am allowed to and I like you so I am going to fidget with your skin and also bite you ❤️
- responds considerably better to positive reinforcement
- milk is so yummy give me all of it
- I know I shouldn't be awake but night time is freedom
- drink directly from the faucet no one can stop you
- I will bite you ❤️ (felt like it)
- probably more idk
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penisbutterjellytime · 8 months
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Probably isn't what you expected (also sorry for responding so late lol)
But anyways lol there's two ways this could go
I think she'd either have PCOS and keep the beard. Or she'd have transfem butch swag. Beard could be a safety thing (passing as a man) or maybe she doesn't shave it off because she feels it doesn't take away from her identity so she keeps it. Maybe a bit of both.
Anyway, Butch Kieran Duffy be upon ye
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tangledinink · 5 months
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I just saw another ask calling Gemini au Donnie afab, and obviously he does have XX chromosomes in your au (or the turtle/mutant equivalent at least?), but if afab means assigned female at birth and Donnie and Leo were assigned male at birth by Big Mama.... Does that technically make the two of them amab trans men???
Or.... amak? assigned male at kidnapping?
LMAO yeah. I always grapple with the terms because I'm like. WELL... THEY TECHNICALLY... WEREN'T ASSIGNED FEMALE AT BIRTH LMAO,,,, they're both, technically speaking, amab, so yes, they are in fact both amab trans men lmao.
And they weren't TECHNICALLY kidnapped... so... amaa? assigned male at... adoption??? u w u
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seagull-scribbles · 11 months
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what if they where T4T?! What then?
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enby-art-creations · 4 months
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BLESS
(A gift I made for one of my religious cousins)
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shalom-iamcominghome · 4 months
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For every person I unfollow with weird opinions on jews, I follow a few other jews instead. This has been for the better, even if I was bitter about hitting the "unfollow" button at first (sound off if you want to use this post to self-promo)
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