#i say no dont (again I didn't see him shake) bc hed been looking over at us and im paranoid and was kinda scared of men back then | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

lemonlovemeanslove · 2 years

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My sister just randomly walks in my room and says "I actually feel like I'm a more confident person than you, bc like I wear all my insecurities on the OUTSIDE while u just keep everything inside 🤭" Like bro. What the fuck. Why would you say that? Why would anyone say that to another person?

#remind #and yes shes a self proclaimed empath #shes been on the empath train wayyyy lomger than anyone else tho #like way before anyone on the internet talked about it #she just lovvvves to me that kindness and generosity just comes to her more naturally while IM just not as kind and open and lovi #like fuck offff #shes been holding on to this one thing for yearrs #i was like 15 when it happened?#so basically this stranger who had some kind of disability that made him shake was trying to plug in his laptop in a cafee #i didn't see him shaking #my sister did #she says im going to go over and help him #i say no dont (again I didn't see him shake) bc hed been looking over at us and im paranoid and was kinda scared of men back then #she helps him #then confronts me like what the fuck is wrong with u why wouldn't u want me to help someone who clearly in need of help #i tell her I didn't see him shake #she doesn't believe me #thinks im trying to save my ass #obvi i know that that I shouldn't have argued with her and helped him like I know that I was in the wrong in that situation #and being mkre helpful to strangers was something i really started working on from that point #but she will NOT let it go #girl we are in our 20s #and of course she runs home and tells her best friend about how awful and um empathic her cruel little sister is #like she has no idea how similar she is to mom sometimes #the way shell hold on to things and refussse to believe that people can grow and that her prescription on a situation #may not be the whole story #yeah #thats my mom right there #and she actually genuinely wonders why I dont like to talk to her about emotional things :D #wow really is so kind

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