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non-binary-star-system · 5 months

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I went to a bad psychotherapist and she made me realize I'm non binary

I told her I'm autistic and it influences my life in every aspect

And she got overheated and said

"NO, YOU'RE NOT A DIAGNOSIS, AGATA. YOU'RE A WOMAN. I SEE A WOMAN. NOT A LABEL."

No

I do not vibe with "womanity"

I vibe with my autism label

I DON'T WANT TO BE A WOMAN. I WANT TO BE AN AUTISTIC HUMAN BEING

#nonbinary #autistic adult #actually autistic #autism spectrum disorder #autism #autism spectrum #autistic things #audhd #its the neurodivergency #neurodiverse stuff #neurodivergent #actually neurodiverse #neurodiversity #neurodivergence #neurodiverse #non binary #queer #i think im non binary

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junotter · 1 year

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All the jokes about Ken and horses are good but I just wanna say it's such a good parallel to how actual young men get swept into misogyny and the patriarchy.

Like they're told to believe it means men get to be cool and manly and have this power but with that comes extremely rigid commands of what they can be as a man and a cycle of self hatred for never matching those gender roles perfectly. Patriarchy tells men that if they just do exactly what is expected of them, then they get all the "cool stuff" that comes with. That doesn't work though when there's only a small group that actually gets that power, but men will keep trying to fit into those roles in hopes that they can.

In the end there are no horses or the myth men are told, it's just endless cycles of self hatred and ingroup fighting.

#barbie #barbie movie #barbie spoilers #ig #ive got a lot more on how barbie looks at feminism and the patriarchy cause god they did it #not to say there isnt faults such as very little conversation about intersectionality #but i can also understand the impossible task of talking about EVERYTHING in one movie #not everyone will be happy and thats fine #anyway i think something barbie did really well is fight this battle of both wanting so deeply to love (romantically or not) men but also #not dismissing the fact its mens job to solve their problems themselves #that even if women need to be the front runners of breaking the patriarchy men cannot rely on them to solve their own problems completely #also just god im so glad this wasnt a girl boss slay movie #women deserve respect and love and life regardless of accomplishment #we should not have to be ceos and presidents and world problem solvers to gain equality #i can also understand if nonbinary people feel left out/disconnected from the movie #but as always gender abolition and acknowledging the gender binary (ie the one societially impossed) go hand and hand 👍#just incase cause idfk terfs dni the barbie movie is not for you #barbie literally states constantly that her gender has nothing to do with (non existent) genitals so f off

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nonbinarylesbianherb · 3 months

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ppl who are like "have you ever experienced a close female friendship" to try deny rhaenicent like.. yes bitch i have!!! and thats *exactly* why i can tell theres MORE than just "close friendship" between these two gay bitches!!

#rhaenicent #hotd #house of the dragon #alicent hightower #alicent x rhaenyra #rhaenyra targeryan #hotd s2 #young alicent #young rhaneyra #like so many people think my best friend and I are romantically involved because we're that close #i love her to death and she loves me and we're very comfortable in ourselves and our friendship #which is why i know for a fact rhaenicent is more than just close friendship between two people #im non-binary btw !! not a woman at ALL but i am afab and my friendship w my bsf began before I realised I was trans #so we were for a period fitting under the label of close girl friends or “close female friendship”#now we're not cuz yea im not a girl got hit with the trans beam<3 #but back to the point like YES i have experienced close close “female friendship” and rhaenicent is not just friendship #alicent hightower x rhaenyra targaryen

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smuby · 1 year

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snipings a good job mate.

as you can see, im keeping the red team mostly the same while spicing up the blu team a little. i just wanna play with their designs while keeping the old ones because i really do love their designs

#accidentally made the german flag in their color palette…. good grief #btw snipers non binary here. in the yeah i think im nonbinary but i have a job so im not worried about that way #smub art #tf2 #team fortress 2 #team fortress two #tf2 sniper #tf2 au #tf2 headcanons

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vigilskeep · 1 year

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esteemed followers don’t make me tap the sign

#for context i got several ‘four women if u count shale!’ responses to that one post #so just like as a friendly reminder!#i think it also says it has no gender im not getting up to check the toolset for that #regardless of what u think of shale as a non binary character its v weird to continue referring to a character as a woman #just because it ‘was’ one in the past. when it explicitly says otherwise

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deeply-unserious-fellow · 5 months

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BREAKS DOWN THE FUCKING DOOR

Transmasc Alastor and transfemme Vox. Okay that's it.

#I will never ever in a million years shut up abt all pronouns non-binary Vox #that headcannon is important to me. for some reason-#I have so many feelings abt it #I literally made it my profile picture #I have projected my entire gender experience on to that man from the 50s #(except Im afab. thats the only difference-)#meanwhile I just think transmasc Alastor is neat lmao #no real thought behind that one just like a neat headcannon #Im going insane #hazbin hotel #hazbin alastor #hazbin vox #staticradio #radiostatic #headcannons #late night ramblings

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ewtoxic · 11 months

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The stay-at-home-mom!Alicent agenda or whatever in modern rhaenicent fics is so interesting because in the show only one of them was a sahm…and it wasn’t Alicent.

#rhaenicent #I think it’s just that Alicent is portrayed as more traditionally femme #plus Emma being non-binary #no hate just find it interesting how y’all’s minds work #and that sounded bitchy but im being genuine #because rhaenyra literally disappeared to dragon stone for years just to raise her sons #and Alicent stayed in the red keep to rule #like the whole show?#I think a lot of people fall in the trap of making seeing alicent as traditionally feminine in every aspect #for a lot of reasons #but mostly because of her feminine appearance and the appearance of her actress #whereas despite not being traditionally feminine rhaenyra definitely loves being a mom #so in modern aus where they have a choice I can’t see alicent being a sahm and rhaenyra being a working mom #but that’s just me #also thinking about gender roles within queer relationships in one of my pastimes so #and how society has pushed them upon queer people #as someone that looks very femme I get pushed into roles a lot that make me truly uncomfortable

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sanicsmut · 4 months

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people : its important to be inclusive, yes even of identities you don't understand ! support he/him lesbians !

these same people when its about using multiples contradictory labels because identity is complicated and fluid : if you support this you're actually evil

#i support he/him lesbians btw #but just #just learn the history of your own fucking label before saying such bullshit online #and in your dni lmao #stop being chronically online #yes its about mspec lesbians #JUST LEARN ABOUT LESBIAN HISTORY IM BEGGING YOU #you cant be political about lesbianism and act like you know whats good or not for the community #while simultaneously ignoring lesbian history #thats not how it works you dont get to pick and choose whats real or not #mspec lesbians have existed since the beginning and its only on the internet that people started acting like theyre not valid or whatever #btw being bi doesn't inherently mean liking men and women<3 #lesbianism in the most common definition I see (liking women and non-binary people) IS an identity under the bi umbrella.#like im sorry but if you think it isnt like #do you think enby people are just randomly included in all orientations just because you dont know where to put them?#are we like a bonus so your label can be considered inclusive?#you can not be attracted to nb people like imagine being a lesbian against mspec lesbians and say “uh they want to impose men in lesbianism #then say you like women and enby people when non binary is such a big umbrella that can include people who identify partially as men #like what do you do then?#nb doesnt inherently means agender or partially woman you know?#i just think its important to think about these things before saying nonsense ^v^#youre free to use the label you want of course and youre free to be lesbian and say youre attracted to women and non binary people but just #dont say such stupid thing if its your case #because its not coherent

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moreclaypigeons · 7 months

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No like seriously ARE we ready to talk about the misogyny in fandom spaces

#or more so like. the disparity. of depictions of men vs of women. i #and like. dear god. it's dire out here sometimes #um. anyway i dont say this to like invalidate anyone and i worry that by even saying this it feels terfy?#but its like no u can talk about misogyny while including trans people especially bc of the overlap. heterocissexism. is ghat a word #like . ugh i just. its never like an individual thing i have beef with u know #like if someone tends to prefer male characters or writing men loving men im never gonna shit on em yk #it just . bothers me how large of a trend it is #especially in comparison to f/f...#like jave u see the differences on ao4 #ao3*#or the differences in how people talk about men vs women here #obviously theres room outside that binary and i fucking hate it as it stands anyway but it does stand and we should talk about it.#like i dont think this is just a cis issue at all. we should also talk about how we talk about nonbinary or gender non conforming characters #but its also like can we be normal about women too. and not prioritize men always . um #hey guys . rambling in the tags is all to say. this post explicitly includes trans people. i will not tolerate any #transphobic rhetoric on any responses to it. you will be blocked.#sierra speaks #misogyny in fandom

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piplupod · 3 months

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i am not going to touch several queer discourse topics going around with a ten-foot pole but i will say that i think perhaps people would be more chill and less quick to jump on being angry if they actually grasped that nonbinary people exist and intersex people exist, and both of these groups are (generally speaking) not going to have a traditionally acceptable experience with gender and sex.

the binary is not real, both in terms of gender and biological sex.

there are complex experiences beyond your own, ones that you may not understand. you get to decide how you react to that.

#im so fucking tired of this shit #if like five ppl on earth /openly/ ID with a confusing label it will not change the general public's view on that label #hell people still think gay means only a man and a man despite queer ppl across the board using it to ID with #trans still means binary mtf or ftm to most people. they don't think of nonbinary people almost ever.#the general perception of words will not be ''marred'' or ''tarnished'' by a few outliers with complicated labels and experiences #(obviously this does not apply to labels that are specifically for certain racial/ethnic groups such as t.wo-spirit)#(<-unsure if ''racial/ethnic groups'' is the right wording for that. please feel free to correct me if theres a better way to word it)#i have seen above (exclude brackets) being used as a reason to shout at queer people online and i think its a fucking stupid reason.#any other reasoning behind the discourse i will simply not touch. i think ppl are too quick to jump to conclusions about intention!#and they do not ever consider non-binary experiences of things. they do not ever consider intersex experiences.#pippen needs 2nd breakfast

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jutsomethoughtsihave · 1 month

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parasocial moment but every time someone makes a post about dnp related to them sort of raising us i just start crying because of the awareness i have that i view them so much more as dads than my own biological father who actually raised me and i just have so many complex emotions about it because its fucking sad that the man who was supposed to be there for me has totally failed me and fucked me up far more than anyone else ever has but at the same time so grateful for having people who were such positive influences (haha ironic) towards me that i could hold them at such a high status.

there is not a single moment where i am in my fathers home or vicinity where i feel completely safe and comfortable but when im in my own world watching silly gaming videos from the only 2 people who make me think its going to be ok i feel completely safe

#dan and phil #phan #getting emotional in the chat #everything theyve ever done has been like a step on a staircase #a staircase theyve been building for thousands of people across the world to climb #and i could never thank them enough for it #man im going to break down completely at m&g #and im going to be ok in life #and its all their fault!!! also also my moms love u mom #i remember being 11 and telling my dad i think i might be a trans boy and him berating me until i cried because its a “dangerous path”#yet hes the only one whos ever made it dangerous #self fulfilling prophecy isnt it?#and even now im non binary and i changed my name and he tells me he prays every day that ill give up on “this max nonsense” and go back to #being someone im not #hes not even religious.

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xxxemogrrlxxx · 1 year

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#myart #doodle #art #elemental #elemental 2023 #ember lumen #wade ripple #i think my fem design is a bit lackluster but hay man!! im not getting paid for this #i am not original enough to care if my design is basic :p #people need to get on the fem wade train for REALL #u could hc him as transfem opr just afab either could work for real #his sibling is non binary so his family would 100% be supportive #someone should actually write a fic of that I WOULD READ #omg #SOMEONE DO THAT PLS #tag me if u do pls pls #also i saw a matching hello kitty pajama set and i had to draw them in it #just pretend its fire proof shje deserves fashiopn too.#BYE HOLD ON THE HAND I DREW IS SO FUCKED that would hurt . YKW. hes literally water its fine. ITS FINE.

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riddlingwife · 2 months

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i cant fucking believe 16 year old me was right abt being genderfluid

#it's something i think about a lot btw. not something i'm deciding upon a dream #like i enjoy being a boy sometimes but then i miss being a girl #and i enjoy being a girl but sometimes i miss being a boy #i do identify with the non-binary label more though #lily.txt #not selfship related #sorry. im sorry

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clickityweasel · 3 days

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Could I ask your pronouns pretty pleaseee

whatever's funniest

#jest/er #court/fool #these r jokes #i default to she/her bc that's how ppl read me #but im happy w anything! none of them feel any better than any others so it's whatever #yk that tweet that's 'im probably non-binary but i have a job'#me fr #anytime i can avoid giving pronouns and leave people with a sense of general confusion instead that's my preference #but since u asked nicely #a friend said 'every time i she/her you i have to think about it bc it feels ... wrong'#that's the vibe #i guess i prefer not to be 'it' but that's just bc i didn't enjoy playing tag as a kid

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frazelforever · 1 year

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Happy Transgender Visibility Day!

This trans vis day, I’d like to remind y’all that you can’t choose someone’s labels. If that genderqueer person identifies as trans, that’s 100% fine. If they don’t, that’s also okay. Please don’t invalidate someone over a label. If that’s what makes them comfortable or happy, respect it.

#sponsored by me telling my friends a happy trans day and one of them going i think im the only trans person here #it’s ok if the enbies i wished a happy day to don’t use trans as a label #but i in my pink blue and white and very genderqueer do identify as trans #it’s so fucking invalidating that just because i have some connection to my agab that i don’t ‘count’#trans #transgender #trans day of visibility #transgender day of visibility #genderqueer #genderfluid #non binary #enby #trans nonbinary #trans enby #trans pride #non binary pride #queer #gender

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silvershewolf247 · 3 months

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Chucky Franchise Gender and Sexuality Headcanons

Andy: TransMasc Bisexual

Kyle: Cis Lesbian

Nica: Cis Bisexual (Tiffany excluded)

Chucky: Too far in the closet to acknowledge anything

Tiffany: Cis Bisexual

Glen: Non Binary Pansexual

Glenda: Non Binary Pansexual

Lexy: Cis Bisexual

Devon: Cis Gay

Jake: Cis Gay

Junior: TransFem Lesbian

Nadine: Non-Binary Lesbian

#i think this is the first time of posted one of these for a fandom #im getting over my fear of being cringe #trans andy and junior obviously arent my ideas #i think someone else mentioned non binary nadine before #it feels right #anyway saw some people doing this so why the fuck not

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