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#i’m still upset
spyder8itch · 2 months
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I’m making a post, tw: abuse, sa
Every single disingenuous “critique” of episode for that revolves around pretending that Angel was written “liking” his abuse is fucking disgusting. You are not making any commentary about the episode, you are showing how little you know about abuse victims. You also show your COMPLETE lack of media literacy around the subject
Poison is a song about needing your abuser. The way that they have you in their clutches. You know they are bad for you, you want to leave, but you feel like you can’t, you feel their poison taking hold of you.
Poison is about Angel’s struggle with his abuser and how he hurts no matter what he portrays. The reason it’s upbeat with the horrifically sad lyrics is because that’s the facade Angel Plays. He pretends to be the sexy, open, very down to clown porn star because that’s who he’s had to be to please his abuser. He can’t turn it off because if he does in front of Valentino, he’s horrifically hurt.
However, this is a double edged sword. It causes him to not only ruin his relationships with others by testing their boundaries and picking fights with them, but it leads him to self destruct. He can’t keep it up all the time. He openly admits to letting people drug him. He’s self destructing, trying his hardest to ruin himself because he thinks he deserves it and that maybe, just maybe it’ll keep him from being Valentino’s favorite toy.
This is WIDELY relatable to many abuse victims. We suffer socially from our abuse, not just mentally. We can become mean people. We lash out at others. And we can have codependent relationships with our abusers. We miss them. We want to be with them. Not because we LIKE BEING ABUSED BUT BECAUSE WE ARE CURRENTLY VICTIMS OF ABUSE. Abuse targets people who are vulnerable. People who don’t have a social circle, and creates one with their abuser in the middle. Abuse breeds codependency.
I am extremely critical of the Hellaverse. But callous commentary on the SURPRISINGLY NUANCED DEPICTION OF ANGEL’S ABUSE has truly soured me to Vivziepop critical spaces. You’re not “owning” Viv with that shit. Viv already got her season 2 and her paycheck. You’re hurting people who see their experiences with Angel Dust. You’re also telling on yourself that abuse victims can’t confide in you about their less than flashy and fun experiences/symptoms. Just so you know.
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i-am-church-the-cat · 2 months
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Carlos: *gets the only non-Red Bull win in the 2023 season and podiums at Monza*
Ferrari: that’s great *replaces him*
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I just saw a Haikyu post that said “Good Morning to the fandom who’s not getting a season 5” and I would just like to know who I can contact about the trauma I’m currently experiencing 😭
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sainzofthetimes16 · 1 year
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Somehow, despite my best attempts, I doubt I will ever be content with my own company.
I think there will forever be some part of me who yearns for that standard teenage friendship, you know? The late nights, the car rides, just the opportunity to have someone to talk to.
I’m so used to being second place- the friend they sit with when the others are away, the one they call when no one else picks up, that despite my best efforts, I can never see myself as anything more than a placeholder.
I’ve never had the high school dream. The friends, the parties, the relationships. Just the overwhelming sense of discomfort. The recognition that despite my best efforts, I will never be seen as more than the “fat friend”.
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wolfofcelestia · 1 month
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i thought I was losing my mind when I saw the videos of rei’s valentines welcome message from the jp side of twitter
because they had the option of “you look nice too” whereas the english got “i agree” (in response to him saying you look beautiful). I didn’t want to sound selfish so I picked the option asking if he had plans, but if you picked the first option that compliments him, he pats your head
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I’ve been happy with the english translation so far but this really upset me because the english option gave off a completely different vibe and it’s a scene that you can’t replay
just because I read in english, doesn’t mean I want to sass everything. Sometimes I want to compliment my boy too
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devil-triggered-9000 · 9 months
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These two would be best friends
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bylerboyfriends · 2 years
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the duffers really kicked the other writers out of the room and said “alright guys, we’ll take it from here 😈” then absolutely demolished any chance for a comprehensive ending.
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solvrized · 1 year
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adam should have won his battle against zeus.
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karihighman · 2 years
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THIS IS THE SADDEST MOMENT FROM THE OC THAT’S ALL 😭💔😓
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ohmuqueen · 8 months
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Idk if any shawol here pays attention to Kwangya merch, but please don’t give them money for this
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furitbat · 2 years
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the new yorkers in Tobey Maguire’s spider verse looking at an adult man who almost just died to save them: he’s…he’s just a kid. be careful he’s a hero
the new yorkers in Tom Holland’s spider verse looking at someone for all intents and purposes does look like an actual older teen AND someone who has helped save the world at least once: FUCK THIS KID I MEAN HE SHOULD BE IN JAIL OR D E A D I MEAN JUST FUCK THIS ASSHOLE
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ionlylikemycat · 1 month
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he’s not an engineer he’s an inventor
and the fact that you don’t even understand the difference between those, let alone how that difference completely affects the characterization, is how i know you Don’t Get Sokka
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rosetintedpages · 1 year
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As much as I was anticipating the crows, during the show I was like you know what I think David might be my favourite right now so IMAGINE MY SURPRISE
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toffoliravioli · 1 year
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darcy & nak got their rings tonight 🥺🥺
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perfectsunlight · 11 months
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where is jihu?
six feet under now bc she lost 20 diamonds.
jihu is fine guys don’t worry we play minecraft like every night 💀
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ssssseriofoolie · 1 year
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Before and after
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