#i'm a nosy bitch

[amgroscoe]

the way I removed lando and max from my filtered tags just to follow the drama 🤡

[vikingpoteto]

sometimes people vague about fandom drama that I had no idea existed and I hate it because I want to know all the details I just don't want to be involved.

[it-lives-within-the-dark]

Look, I'm not a Sebaciel shipper. I'm not an anti, but I just read the manga and enjoy what's going on without reading too much into it (I'm also old and come from a time where the master word was "ship and let ship"). And I can tell you, the antis are fucking annoying (it was not that bad in the beginning of the manga/and then anime.... I daresay it was almost non-existent, Sebaciel was almost a given at the time). They're the ones spamming the tags with their hate when I just want to look at fanarts, gifs, edits, analysis, etc.... I swear, I see the Sebaciel posts and it's (most of the time) not those posts written in big font about how a part of the fandoms is crazy or should die or whatever else (and those hate posts can be several times a day, it's exhausting). I could have send it to an anti but they would have dismissed this message as a Sebaciel sending them hate or something and hurled more insults and I'm not in the habit of talking to walls. Anyway, you guys are chills and I'm going to finally blacklist the anti tag, never thought I would see the day.

Hey Nonny!

I agree, it's horrible what fandom spaces have turned into. I gotta say, when I fist saw the notification for an anon ask, my first instinct was that I had finally annoyed the wrong person and gotten my first anon hate message. How happy I was to be proven wrong, but I'm also sad because that is what the current state of fandom has done to us.

I've been in fandom for a long, long time; I grew up reading and writing fanfic in the don't like don't read/no flames/ship and let ship era. However, this is really my first time being an active participant in a fandom community and it sure is...something. But that being said, I also sort of get it. Because I too very nearly fell down into that moral purity cesspool about 10 years ago. It's so easy to fall into when that's what you've either intentionally or unintentionally surrounded yourself with. I was lucky to notice before I got too deeply entrenched in it and stopped looking at that kind of content.

The antis would say differently, but I don't care how someone reads/interprets Sebastian and Ciel's (canon) relationship as long as they have evidence to back up their claims; literature is subjective but that doesn't mean you get to say whatever interpretation you want and have it be valid. (Fanfic is another thing entirely - do whatever the hell you want with them and have fun).

Anyway, all this to say: good for you, Nonny, in taking the appropriate steps to curate your online fandom experiences. Life is too short to purposefully expose yourself to things that upset you or make you angry. I think more people could stand to follow your example.

[foxblood]

Some days you find yourself plotting an entire gothic romance AU novella for your tav and gale............

Perhaps I'll use it as a warm up for writing my other projects. I mean, it's already... plotted......

ANYWAY who wants to read about Gale's daddy issues and also a dragon?

[ocean-eyed-lovers]

Sometimes snk fans truly scare me 😥

[raedear]

See if you had lived in a place happily with no bother for five, ten, fifteen years whatever, and one day someone phoned and was like: I'm making a TV show about people's experiences of hauntings and this person says they had terrifying experiences in your house when they were young. Can we come and have a nosy around?

[snapdragoned]

All that gardening must have sent her into labor - It's time!

Oh my god, I saw someone running through the bedroom door and assumed it was Hamlet, but it was Sydney AGAIN, in the middle of the night 😭 JOBLESS BEHAVIOR!!!!

[sol-consort]

I never found that Button Salarian! Certainly not playing the game again to find it

First, you bait them with the cute turian fics, then slowly reel people back into their Mass Effect phase. Like a siren in the water thirsty for the kill, reviving the fandom one person at a time

play it play it play it play it play it play it

[wraithdance]

to the 5 phantom messages in my inbox, RIP I would have loved to know what you were about. :'(

[dontforgetoctober3rd]

I am first and foremost, Ghost trash.

Might I interest the Ewanverse girlies in some Ghost songs that I think fit some of his character vibes (imo, of course)?

For Aemond

Absolution, From The Pinnacle To The Pit, Faith, See The Light, Dance Macabre (for Alysmond from Aemond's point of view), Cirice (for Alysmond from Alys's point of view), Griftwood (I think it's perfect for him considering his bullied background), Stay ft. Patrick Wilson (him being desperate to be with Alys)

For Tom Bennett

Deus In Absentia (the chorus is a treat *wink* *wink*)

For Osferth

He Is (I could see Osferth singing this about Uhtred, him being a heathen and all lmaoo), Life Eternal

[milfhandholder]

I legit love seeing kuroshit ocs, I want to see and know more

[albatris]

I block ppl all the time just bc their vibes are off or whatever but when I find someone's blocked me I'm just like 🥺

[ssaalexblake]

My fav thing about people who heard somebody say 'age differences in relationships are bad' and just decided to take it at face value like they're following a school rule rather than bothering to understand Why an age gap may be a problem in certain situations, is that you can have ships in fandom where they're soooo fucked up and just deeply unhealthy Alone let alone together and you have That subset of fandom that's saying the ship is an issue because there is an age gap between two grown adults.

Yeah. That's the problem in that relationship. Sure.

[ancientstone]

I have been informed that someone recommended one of my fics on tiktok

I must find that tiktok

(I do not have tiktok)

[pontevoix]

shitty hc challenge ! either comment, send an ask, or make a post ! does ur character do yoga, what's their attitude doing yoga, & how do they handle a cat in the middle of the yoga mat ? what about a goat in the middle of the yoga mat ?