#idec about valentine's but

[asturlavi]

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY

[pocima]

WHAT’S IT GONNAAAA GONNA BE

[chanoeys]

Oop I am being hit with my first “thing I didn’t have or do before I’m 30” moment of the year.

I’m gonna be sad this year, oh boy.

[lennysfridge]

idec about anyone’s gfs but deleting the pictures on valentines or just before is actually hilarious idc

it is but it’s sad at the same time

[amorgansgal]

My brother in christ i'm going through some catastrophic trauma right now, whenever you get a chance could I get some fluffy Arthur/M! reader (even though we both know in my head it's Harlow). Maybe about them stealing each other's hats or sharing clothes or having a date night in valentine idec I just want tooth rotting fluff lolol

Sorry to hear that :( Lots of hugs <3 You asked for M/Reader, but I thought you deserved a treat especially because you have supported me in so many lovely ways and I appreciate it. So here's Arthur x Harlow and I hope I've done Harlow justice and that you enjoy :)

Harlow Stealing Arthur's Clothes Headcanons

Harlow loves his boyfriend, Arthur Morgan. He would love him no matter what! But he loves him just that little bit more because Arthur has some very nice clothes.

It’s not Harlow’s fault that Arthur sometimes leaves camp for quite a long time and he just happens to have a rummage through Arthur’s chest just to see what clothing he’s brought back!

I mean, that turquoise Parisian vest with the gorgeous detailing and brass buttons had just been shoved into the trunk and was begging to be worn. And that grey classic frock coat was tailored so nicely! And Harlow was 99% sure he hadn’t even seen Arthur ever wear that black Paragon Town Hat with the leather band.

Quite frankly it was a crime that Arthur only ever wore his faded blue shirt and nothing else that could be found in the clothes chest!

Like yes, some of the clothes don’t fit him quite right because Harlow is broader and taller than Arthur, but he looks good in them!

Arthur eventually stops asking Grimshaw where his coat has got to and if the women are repairing his vest, because now, nine out of ten times Harlow has snuck off with them!

‘Why the hell do yer need to keep stealin’ my clothes? You got yer own to wear!’

‘Yeah, but I like yours more and don’t you think they look good on me?’

‘Yeah, course they do… but that ain’t the point! Yer goin’ to wear through ‘em!’

‘At least I’m wearing them Arthur, this poor jacket had been hidden away in your chest for God knows how long!’

Arthur grumbles under his breath, then grabs Harlow by his hand and drags him over to their horses.

‘Where are we going?’

‘Shoppin’!’

‘For me?’

‘Yes, for you, ya dumbass!’

Harlow would be forgiven for thinking that he’s hit the jackpot. He gets to go on a date with his boyfriend, his lover is buying him clothes and Arthur’s temper improves remarkably when they get into town.

But he quickly realises Arthur is making every excuse to touch him when he tries on the new clothes, slipping his hands around Harlow’s waist and gripping him firmly, casually running a hand down his butt and kissing his neck as Harlow tries on a new neckerchief.

Harlow is torn between being very flustered and worried that the shop owner might see and maybe just a little turned on by the attention!

By the end of the shopping trip Harlow is like a live wire!

‘Let’s get a hotel room!’

Arthur smiles rather smugly and says, ‘Nah, think this will be a valuable lesson for yer!’

Harlow is left fuming, but considering Arthur is heading over to the saloon he figures there may be an opportunity to persuade Arthur yet!

[jackinalex]

A few Days out from valentine’s Day now… I HAVE THOUGHTS and I want your opinion.

1. Alex is the vainest man I sweeeeeear. I love love/hate him 😂😂 he posted the pic on his story AFTER HIS WIFE DID(probs felt guilty) But he was posting about himself all day. Not to mention… TAY IN THE COMMENTS HAD ME ROLLING like PLAYBOY ALEX IS LIKING IT TOO. PLAYBOY ALEX IS BACK PEOPLE.

2. Jack being dead on socials has me happy for him. I worry about him… but I am happy he just pops in when he wants these days. As far as an earlier ask about him and Jordan at Illineum(spelling?) together… WE ALL KNOW THAT HE WAS LITERALLY ONLY PAYING ATTENTION TO ALEX.

3. Zacky just sharing him and his weights in his home gym was honestly the most. “Fuck this holiday” thing I have ever seen. And I love him for it. Live your truth Zack.. we know weightlifting is your real 1st love.

4. I expected a sappy post from Rian about Sav and his proposal and that is what we got… god. That man is so boring and predictable sometimes.

I'm like seven days late, so sorry.

Nobody loves Alex like Alex loves Alex (except maybe Jack ;)). Tay in the comments was WILD.

I'm a little worried about Jack, too. Maybe he's just vibing, but it's not like him to not even post band updates. Maybe he's on a social media break. If so, good for him.

Zack does not live by the Gregorian calendar; he lives by the Zack calendar. Honestly, I wish I could do that.

Rian is so boring and annoying idec what posts he makes or doesn't make.

[sound-traveller]

ok so. despite voting baguette for cookie of the year i already knew that there was a pretty slim chance of her getting through the first round

BUT LIKE??? 2ND TO LAST PLACE??? I AM IN SHAMBLES

at least s'more and cc made it through which im very happy about but still. she deserved better than that. idec at this point ill just make an entire fanmade valentines costume for her myself

[tradingjack]

happy valentine’s day here is a valkyrae from her recent shoot because ma’am. oh my god

[majicmarker]

so i’ve had a lot on my mind lately — the good, the bad, the ugly, you know the drill. i’m used to the bad and the ugly, but i think (and ofc by my therapist’s rec) i need to give a little credit to the good, too. not to mention the good is largely comprised of people, and those people deserve a sports stadium wave, yk? idk shit abt sports, whatever, but i know what the wave is and it’s like the grandest gesture i can think of, SO

listen, y’all. to get real here, i hate fandom. my time spent therein has been hit-or-miss, but the misses got me hard and contributed to some major self-loathing, etc etc. we’re not gonna get into the specifics, i don’t owe that to anyone, but suffice it to say things got Rough.

but so much of it can be so, so good. and rn i want to keep on my rose-colored glasses, and the rosiest parts for me have always been @kitten1618x and @mygutsforgarters

(quite a few others, too, but i no longer have everyone’s info. and some ppl are newer friends, or relationships that have moved more slowly. i have mad love for u guys too, obvs, but ik melissa and gus irl so we know each other More and they’re who this post is rly about atm. pls know i don’t want to harsh on anyone’s feelings)

the tl;dr version of events is i met them both via fanfic. i happened upon theirs like “bitch!!!! **i** wanna do this, they’re bomb as hell” and then i made them be friends w me. they’ll tell you they wanted to be friends w me first, but that’s not important bc **i** am the one making this post, so they can both like,, suck it.

ANYWAY.

@ melissa : so bitch listen. here’s the thing abt melissa…… i found her while browsing jonsa fic back when i cared abt GOT, and she brought me back to what i loved so much abt romance when i first started, way back in junior high, what’s up. i bad a fascination w historial romantic epics for a loooooong time — those formative yrs, amirite ladies??? — but girl i could never write it so well as melissa. immediately she struck this balance between the drama you expect from historicals and the levity of a good romance, and i was just like, “hand to god this woman must be published already, surely???”

(she’s not, but that’s ridiculous so we’re gonna skip that)

(also she’s busy?? we’ve been friends for like six years and i will never know how many kids she actually has, but the point is she’s a goddamn superhero and i’m obsessed w her, MOVING ON)

i just Had to be her friend for two reasons: 1) she’s too talented, and b) i have said that abt 2 ppl my entire life and she was the first, so i was like, “AH YES MY HOLY GRAIL”

so ofc i slid into her DMs just as effectively as that one guy i had a crush on when i was sixteen and he’s still shooting me texts every valentine’s day bc of the societal pressures i guess (it is Far Less Effective these days, he’s my age and therefore too young for me, gross, but i digress), except me and melissa go way stronger.

she reminded me of why, half a lifetime ago, i started writing romance — bc it’s fun, bc i want to. bc i can do absolutely anything i want, bc who else is gonna read it but me and whoever i share it with? it was all up to me what i wanted to do with it, and i could do anything. nothing really mattered but what i wanted, and i hadn’t felt that way abt anything in such a long time — let alone abt something i used to love so much.

melissa’s writing is so beautiful, it’s everything i wanted to achieve when i was fifteen and never got around to perfecting. and i’m totally okay w that now, bc what do i need to do myself that she’s not already doing/wants to do in the future? when i found melissa’s writing i found a missing part of me — a part i’d maybe lost, maybe i gave it up, idk, but it was totally gone until i found her fics and they fucking clicked. i had to reach out bc there was a part of me that was a part of her, and she helped me find that again w/o even knowing it.

so i found melissa via GOT, and from the start she’d been trying to get me to write some bethyl. years and years, she dropped not-so-subtle hints — and by “hints,” i mean legit directives that i watch just enough TWD to write her some beth/daryl fic. real crafty, she is.

eventually the stars aligned: i was bored w the same dynamics i’d been writing for years, i wanted smthn new, i was restless, i was line editing a bethyl fic she’d written, and — again — this shit clicked. her fic made me want to explore this dynamic i’d never done before, so i watched the prerequisite episodes (no more than that tho, i super hate the show and i’m begging y’all to not @ me abt it anymore). i found smthn that i’d been missing, smthn that challenged and excited me and brought me back around to why i love romance and, more importantly, why i want to write it myself.

so as i was starting to write bethyl, i was poking around the ao3 tag to get a feel for what had been done, what hadn’t, anything i might be missing. and goddamn BAM —

@ gus : this is where u enter dramatically thru a red velvet curtain that i don’t wanna touch (Metaphorically bc you do romance better than me and i’m cool w that bc your talent simply Cannot be touched, and Literally bc i hate velvet) — i was like, “please for the love of god let her want to write contemporary romance, i need some good fckin food”

i happened upon “doo wah diddy diddy” first. ofc the summary hooked me, forget my usual hard no against pregnancy fics (i have issues w pregnancy and that’s all anybody Needs to know, back off), but This Bitch !!!!!!! has a way with words and i wanted to be friends w her straightaway. lmao too bad for her, now she’s stuck w me

gus’s fics gave me what i wanted without having to write it myself. her style is so distinctive, she hits the notes between porn and Actual Affection that is missing from uhhhh, every romance i’ve tried?? (why is everyone so intent on the sex part?? fckin chill. at best it’s unrelatable and at worst u sound like u’d rather wear someone than fuck them, check urself)

she writes w such care, she wants you to know what she’s doing here, and what she’s doing here is combining the physical and emotional needs of both characters w/o infringing on anyone’s comfortability. you root for these characters bc they simply want to be together, no strings (and if there are strings, damn, they talk abt it).

gus makes you believe in love in the modern age. like, not to sound like one of those ppl who post fckin “no one in this generation knows how to love!!!1!!11!!” memes on facebook, those are dumb, but gus’s writing made me think “yeah man, love ain’t dead, it’s just abt how we approach it.”

(if y’all haven’t guessed yet, i have some hang-ups abt relationships. i’ve goddamn earned those. but melissa and gus both brought me back to where i needed to be — in this place where, yeah, we’ve got some shit to deal with, but we all still deserve the things we want, and those things are achievable. i could not have gotten here without them, so jot that down.)

gus is Real, she’s funny, she’s unapologetic in the way she writes. ofc she has her personal hurdles, but who doesn’t?? and tbh nobody writes a sex scene like gus does. physical, realistic, but balanced w the emotional depth that makes you root for these characters bc you can Feel how much they want each other — not just sexually, but in the less-erotic aftermath of that passion. it continues to blow my mind, bc i’ve never seen anyone do what she does. i can’t even pinpoint the specifics, bc she just… Does It. and you’re reading it like “yeah bitch that’s it,” and That’s It.

it’s fckin wild.

these two — my best friends, the lights of my life, both of whom always make me crave chicken tenders at THE most inconvenient hours bc somehow we always talk abt chicken or ice cream or ultimately DQ, but they're both so hot idec — have something special.

i really, really want them both to know that: it’s not just in how they’ve treated me as a friend, but who they are as people, in their creative pursuits. i’ve never known support the way they’ve shown me; i’ve never known this much enthusiasm or investment or belief that i can do what i want with my talent. i want them to know that i feel the same way abt them and their works.

sometimes, when i look back at their writing that completely kicked my ass, i still can’t believe that they’ve become two of my best friends. it’s totally bonkers. they’re This Talented, and they wanna be friends w my spastic ass? GIRL. i’m out.

i’m not always the best at being present, at giving people what they need when they need it. but with everything that melissa and gus have given me in the past few years, i need them to know this — honey!!! i need all y’all to know this, bc i know fandom shit is hard, but you should know some of these friendships are so, so worth all that bullshit, so —

they have so much to give, so much to say, so much to offer. i could not have kept going without them. i couldn’t believe in myself without the faith they’ve given to me. i hope that i can always give that same faith right back.

and that, babes, is what real soulmates are all about.

[flamediel]

@ Other anon about alexia but call me dead if any of them are doing cute shit for valentines day lmao watch all of us on investigation mood this week on instagram. Idk about Joel tho idc for his tea with Sam.

I know Richard is spending it w doug, and zab w alexia OFC. Maybe chris will get some time with his potential la boo, and erick may or may not have someone so we'll see about him too.

Honest the sam s content is dry idec about them anymore lol, but I want the zalexia stuff!! Theyre the cutest 🥺🥺

[curlyhairedprince]

In your opinion what is the best Larry proofs like top five or something like that?

ooooh god okay here we go:

1. their complimentary tattoos, for me there‘s nothing that‘s as loud as their tattoos and it‘s not only the tattoos but also the timing of them getting it???? Like the freaking dagger for example? It breaks me. Also can I just say for a second LOUIS DIDNT EVEN LIKE TATTOOS, HE DIDNT LIKE THEM BUT HE STARTED GETTING THEM FOR HARRY BECAUSE HE WANTS PEOPLE TO SEE HOW MUCH HE LOVES HIS BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2. them sharing a dressing room on tour, like even if they were just best friends you dont do that? At one point it‘s like oh please I just wanna have my privacy but not with those two, all of the boys were basically living in each other‘s pockets but Harry and Louis were just like shared dressing rooms, shared hotel rooms, shared EVERYTHING (hello lairport i miss you)

3. COME SO FAR FROM PRINCESS PARK! this is recent but i gotta say it‘s one of the loudest things so far, there is no freaking doubt that this is about Louis and Harry living together after xfactor and being domestic af. People say it could mean anything but no, Louis knows that larries will definitely get it and connect it to Harry and that they are still going strong, he‘s not stupid and if he didnt want us to connect it to Harry he wouldnt have included it. This is Louis telling us that yes it has been nearly 10 years but we are doing good and going as strong as ever. (also let‘s not forget Louis bringing up the chicken story in 2019 thank you)

4. my first real crush was Louis Tomlinson x Louis saying he just had his first kiss yesterday. LISTEN!!!! You dont say something like yeah my first crush was Louis casually, you just dont, especially when it‘s two boys there is no way he was trying to be funny or edgy or idec and look at his FACE when he said it i am going to cry, he was already so in love with Louis holy shit. Also this goes hand in hand with Louis saying he just had his first kiss when they where basically only hanging out as a band and Harry looking happy af when he said it???? Sorry I need a minute, they were so young but already so in love

5. RBB AND SBB! like bro what the fuck even was that!!!! all the hints, all the warnings and all the shade was iconic af, also the way that there is no other explanation for it than it being Harry and Louis. Harry’s face when they asked them about it??? he was about to lose it. remember when they got married and remember when they confirmed the baby was not his son and the way they just communicated through them with us was iconic and wholesome. H O M E  S O O N!!!!, also let’s not forget the og dusty styles and ted tomlinson who showed us from day one that Harry and Louis really are the biggest saps out there and that they are perfect for each other. 

this was so hard to do but here are a few more honorable mentions that I just can’t leave out: all the songs they have written for each other, the lyrical parallels, nautical themes, ALWAYS IN MY HEART TWEET, PARIS INTERVIEW, the way they touch and look at each other, their secret smiles, that one interview where they said i love you to each other, all of the 1d dairies, them choosing each other as their valentine, even as young as you are, watching gogglebox together, LIVING TOGETHER, STILL THE ONE, all of their shady tweets, the fucking mario cart interview, the brits interview, harry and louis constantly eye fucking, the way they looked at each other on stage, THEM SINGING TO EACH OTHER ON STAGE, leeds festival, their ski trip and and and I could honestly go on forever 

[marthafucknspeaks]

A bitch doesn’t know if she wants to b in this relationship anymore. I’m stressed and mad a lot like tf do I needa b mad for @ 17. fuck this nigga and his games. I love him but lately I’ve been seeing how he actually treats me and it’s not great. We can play around n shit with the name calling but it’s only okay if we both knew it was coming. being called fucking useless for forgetting to do little shit is mad annoying. We’ve been dating 2 years and he hasn’t bought be a single thing. Idec that he hasn’t but idk we have jobs now and have had em for a while. So why after the two birthdays and one Christmas and Valentine’s Days does he feel the need to buy me a Christmas gift. My birthday was 2 weeks ago and he didn’t get me shit didn’t even hang out with me. LMFAO I just don’t see the point in caring now like what made him want to now? I just don’t get it so I asked “why are you getting me something now I don’t expect anything from you” and this nigga really said “ wym it’s Christmas nigga why wouldn’t I get you something?” In my head I’m like you didn’t even get me anything for my birthday so wtf does Christmas have to do with shit??? I responded with “ because you don’t b buyin me things” this nigga is so annoying for this next shit like I should really smack him for this shit he said “ I have money now so I can get u shit and it’s good you don’t expect things if I end up not being able to get anything” I really just was 😑 done I just wanted to go home at that point like nigga wtf is wrong with you. You’ll ask your mom for $20 to cop some bud but you couldn’t ask for $10 last year for any of these fucking holidays or my birthdays like are you deadass tryna tell me you really couldn’t get me shit for these two whole ass years bitch ? I must look like such a dumb bitch to him cuz WHO THE FUCK is bouta sit here with your unappreciative sneaky mean ass. I buy this nigga mad shit and b mad nice to him I’ve let mad shut slide I’ve put my fucking huge ass pride aside for him so much just to b treated like I’m nobody that shit hurts I want to feel loved by this nigga this is my first relationship bro it shouldn’t b like this. It’s not even just I want him to buy me just one fucking thing it’s how ungrateful this nigga is like I give you my everything I don’t associate with boys at all because that’s how you wanted it but you get to b extra friendly with bitches ??? I dropped my male friends for you I’ve had to tell ppl like no we can’t b friends my boyfriend wouldn’t like that like bro you go out of your way publicly to talk to bitches n flirt but when I call you out I’m just crazy and flipping shit ? I hate that shit then after all the fuck shit you put me through you wanna act like I’m the worst person ever when I do the same shit you do ? I’ve begged this nigga to please just act right for me and every time it’s ima change and I’m sorry but there’s no actual change I have my whole family who doesn’t know shit about you and doesn’t hear shit about you from me telling me to leave you bro you don’t wanna talk to me throughout the day and all you get excited for is sex and fucking Facebook like ur really a cloutchaser for F A C E B O O K . C O M wtf even is that fucking gay shit I hate it I’m not bouts pretend we don’t have good times but the bad times outweigh the good and that’s not okay with me I don’t wanna be mad all the time bro before it was worth it cuz at least you weren’t mean n shit but fr I wish you could feel what im feeling so you’d stop calling me dramatic and extra 12/2/19

[quinnmorgendorffer]

Top 5 episodes of Bob's Burgers?

oh god that is a TOUGH one holy shit um ;alskdjf

1. “An Idecent Thanksgiving Proposal” - I honestly despise Thanksgiving a;slkdfj I mean this is my fourth year not spending it with my family? And when I spent it with them, it was fine, but by myself it’s just...ugh. I don’t like turkey (unless its smoked) or regular mashed potatoes or cranberry sauce or anything traditional and ugh just thinking about turkey smell makes me...ugh. I only like pumpkin pie and then I feel awful but a;lskfj anyways okay their thanksgiving eps are pure joy and this one is number one imo. Any Fishoeder ep is perfection because Kevin Kline, my MAN

2. “The Equestranauts” - love the perfect satire of MLP brony culture and god it’s just SO PERFECTLY WRITTEN.

3. “Wharf Horse/World Wharf II” - the two part season finale for s4, truly one of the most perfect seasons of television, with amazing musical numbers, just so funny and, again, more Kevin Kline!!!

4. "Boyz 4 Now” - Louise getting her first crush and the introduction of the best boy band to ever boy band? How could I NOT love it???

5. “Bob Actually” - Again, I’m not a huge fan of Valentine’s Day, either, but this was the cutest episode and I am a HUGE fan of it. That Louise/Rudy story was fucking ADORABLE and I’m laughing just thinking about Bob’s pose when he brings Linda out to watch his dance for her; alksdjf

Honorable Mentions: “Bad Tina” (gifs from that ep were what got me to watch the show haha); ANY CHRISTMAS EPS, but especially “The Last Gingerbread House on the Left”, “The Nice-Capades”, and “Father of the Bob”; as stated before, any Thanksgiving ep, but esp “Dawn of the Peck”; “Late Afternoon in the Garden of Bob and Louise”; “The Itty Bitty Ditty Committee” (Gene’s attempt at piano lessons is just a;slkdfjas;ldf SUCH A MOOD!!); “Work Hard of Die Tryin’ Girl”; “Hawk and Chick” (sobs); “The Hauntening”; “The Deepening” - okay i love like every ep apparently a;slkdfjasd shit now i need to rewatch it....

ASK ME MY TOP 5/TOP 10 ANYTHING!

[cassene]

Idec the slightest about Valentine’s Day anymore. I was so excited.. now idek

[fictionxlover]

May Sweeps is really underwhelming so far. Not just in GH but Days as well, the only thing I’m interested on both shows that I’ve seen is Theresa’s return.

May sweeps suck. 

Idk what is going on with Days and if Gabi isn’t on idc. Everyone is like aww poor Abby even though Gabi is innocent in jail. Really? I can rant about if the tables were turned but i won’t… 

GH idk what is happening. Carly will be in jail for Nurses Ball I guess? I do wonder if Jason will be investigating to help her. It would be interesting if we get parallel of Jason VS Ava like we got Sonny/Carly VS Ava. Part of me feels like Jason might get distracted by Henrich stuff. Honestly, the Peter thing is SOO drawn out I can’t anymore. Just let it known and deal with it. Valentin is a weak Cassadine. Idec what going on with Sam that much. Liz they never show and when they do its just her propping Franco. Nothing is exciting me at all. 

[fuckinlester]

hello everyone!

we are a million years late for valentine’s day but idec sol ( @oops-phan ) and i ( @fuckinlester ) thought it would be really cute to make a crush meetup !!

+what is it? the idea is to post a selfie (or art/text post) and in the caption you could either tag your crush, say what you like about them, tell a cute anecdote, ask for love advice or anything crush related you’d like to share!

+when is it? april 21st, at 3pm EDT and it will last 24 hours so you’ll have plenty of time to participate!! (here’s a time zone converter)

+what tags are we using? oficial tag: #crushphandommeetup (or #phandom meetup, #phandom tumblr meetup)

we are really excited to host this tumblr meetup, so please reblog or like this if you would like to participate, we dont want it to be a flop! If you have any question you can ask us here or here and don’t worry anyone can participate!!