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noonblight · 1 year
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Nemona, Female Neurodivergence, and Good Representation
Spoilers for the plot of ScarVi ahead, but here’s my full analysis and breakdown of Nemona!
So, I know what you’re thinking, ‘Game Freak making an autistic female main character? You must be out of your mind. This is clearly projecting!’
I’d like to preface this gently by saying that this is obviously just my personal conclusion based on subtextual analysis, but also, I’d like to call attention to the fact that Japan isn’t like the west when it comes to neurodiverse representation, and there isn’t a lot of Japanese media that explicitly uses the word autism. It’s a little unrealistic to expect Game Freak to call it by name, especially considering they make games for children and topics such as neurodiversity are often viewed as a more ‘adult’ thing to discuss. You are free to disagree with me, but please be polite in the replies of this post, as I only wish to have a constructive conversation about a writing decision that has been made.
Anyway, on to the good stuff and I must apologise in advance for this post being long, but I wanted to be thorough!
I played through all of ScarVi and I’m actually very pleased with Nemona as a character. I feel like despite the game’s technical quality, there was a real effort made this time around to flesh out the named characters. Nemona is one of my favourite examples of this, because her arc isn’t solely about being autistic, but it’s clearly a large part of her character and affects her life in a lot of ways.
Nemona is a battle fanatic, and it’s very likely one of her special interests. It’s how she connects with other people such as the main character, and it’s something she devotes her entire being and effort to. She never says she does so in order to impress others, but rather because it’s something she heavily enjoys.
Right from the start, Nemona is a successful champion rank trainer and wants you to become a trainer who can rival her in skill, and feels like it would lead to a better friendship if you could do that. Nemona’s priorities always centre around battling, and doing as much of it as possible. She’s the one who asks Geeta for permission to bestow a Tera orb upon your player. She gives you tips about the battle courts at different gyms. She even raises a new team of Pokémon throughout the game just to have an excuse to battle you at your level and watch you improve.
Nemona even loves battling so much that she finds it a little strange when others aren’t as enthusiastic about battling as she is, below is a quote I found particularly interesting because it really does show that she can be socially oblivious at times when it comes to societal expectations about what is an appropriate place or time to have a Pokémon battle.
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Accompanying this, multiple times throughout the game she exhibits impulsive or oblivious behaviour and asks you to have another battle with her straight after another battle you’ve just had, usually due to being excited. Sometimes other characters will need to remind her that your Pokémon require healing first, or that there are other things that need doing. She doesn’t always understand how things should be handled in a conventional manner, despite being an expert on the topic of battling! (Or, she gets too excited and can’t help herself.)
In post-game, there’s even a scene where she doesn’t seem to understand that another student is reluctant to battle her and makes an excuse to leave early because she’s so far from being a casual trainer that it intimidates him. This is, in my opinion, actually quite a sad scene. She genuinely continues to think that he will challenge her to a battle at a different time, not realising that her ‘unusual’ enthusiasm and skill has scared him away, and that he has no intention of returning. A situation I’m sure a lot of neurodiverse children would connect with because it so accurately depicts what it’s like when others don’t share your interests to the degree that you hoped they would. This scene also hints at Nemona’s trouble with reading the emotions and intentions of others.
Nemona’s final post-game scene (which please, I BEG of you to go watch, it’s so good) confirms this outright, and also gives one of the most relatable lines in media about what it’s like to be neurodivergent in any way, especially as somebody who is younger:
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Something I like about Nemona is that despite being socially oblivious and pushy with her interests, she is still a very sympathetic and friendly character. Not only does she cheer you on throughout the game, but she doesn’t only do it for the sake of serving only her own interests! She’s genuinely caring about others around her too.
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(Nemona, congratulating the player when they beat her at the end of her storyline after she goes full-out. She is thrilled that you beat her! I love this moment.)
Throughout the last chapter in the game, there’s a lot of great moments with Nemona that show how caring she is. I think the best moments however, are where she tries to understand and support a scared Miraidon, and where she tries to help Arven.
Initially, she is misunderstanding and expects that the second Miraidon will be friendly and that it will be a family reunion, but once she realises this is not the case, she immediately switches to trying to support your Miraidon in any way she can. Despite not understanding why Miraidon is so afraid of returning to the Crater and facing the other Miraidon, she can be observed multiple times attempting to encourage it during the final battle, and can be seen in the final cutscene of the game with her arm around it as the group walks back to the academy.
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(Nemona, displaying an implied struggle with visually judging the emotions of others.)
Nemona is also the one who suggests after a very heavy story ending that everyone goes home, and that they take the scenic route back to town. She clearly doesn’t know what to say to Arven about what he’s just been through, but she attempts to make him feel a bit better regardless.
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I think this makes for particularly good representation, because not only is she less feminine than previous female rivals with her more sporty style and interests (something very common with autistic women) it also shows depth. I’ve seen autistic characters before that fall into the stereotype of coming across as emotionally detached or cold, or far too over-reactive. But I think Nemona strikes a lovely balance of caring, emotional, and socially lacking.
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Now, on to a smaller detail that I want to point out that I really like the inclusion of is that glove. I could talk about how Nemona displays memory issues at times or other smaller symptoms of autism, but I really want to talk about the glove. I made a post on this subject the moment Nemona’s design was revealed on the official website, but I like that the game content openly confirmed that Nemona has motor issues with her dominant hand.
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(Nemona, needing to support her arm when about to throw a Pokéball, or when she is about to terastalise her Pokémon. The burst of energy from the tera orb must make things a bit more difficult for her. A lovely small detail in her battles.)
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(Nemona, confirming that she has trouble with Pokéballs. Something her website entry also stated.)
Now I’ve saved this until last because this is, in my opinion, a smaller detail that they didn’t need to include to make Nemona read as neurodiverse, but I’m thrilled they did. Nemona is the only character who wears an arm brace, something I picked up on immediately in the trailers before the games released. No other trainers wear one for the terastalisation mechanic, unlike the Z-bands from Alola. And even though Pokémon battling is her bread and butter, she still struggles with certain aspects of it! Not only is this trouble with motor skills realistic, but it’s also a very accurate portrayal of motor dysfunction that a lot of neurodiverse people experience in their day to day lives.
To bring this all to a close, I think that even though it isn’t stated outright, I believe Nemona isn’t just representation of neurodiversity in women, but I think that she is also GREAT representation. She knows that she has problems, and tries her best regardless! She is kind, and caring, even though she has difficulties with reading the emotions of others and understanding social expectations. Her entire story may be about making friends with you through the medium of battling, but it’s also a story about how she’s struggled in the past to connect with others because of her love of that medium.
I truely do feel like she’s a lovely depiction to be in a children’s game, because she is a very positive depiction of something that a lot of kids go through, and in the end, she gets to be herself and she gets to be happy by being true to that self. She is never forced to change to make friends, and instead befriends you and the other characters simply by remaining as she is.
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avengerchuck · 5 months
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Hello, animatronic fans! Lots has been going on lately, huh? Well Do I Have Some Good News For You!
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feedeebabyx · 16 days
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marrfixated · 7 months
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Pinned post/My info:
Last updated Mar 17, 2024
TL;DR: Marr, he/she/they/any, neurodivergent, Total Drama (Alenoah, Priyemma, etc), fanfiction, sideblog @priyemma
I’ve been an itty bit inactive for a while because I need to prepare to visit family over spring break, but I’ll be more regular soon!
My name is Marr! I use He/She/They and any pronouns. I’m Omni, Bigender, and Aspec, I think. Playing around with some labels for now, but I feel pretty comfortable with these.
I have ADHD and anxiety (both diagnosed) along with other things, but those are the ones I’ll probably talk about on here the most. I’m mixed White and Latina (plus Native) but (probably?) white passing. I speak English and want to learn Spanish, but I’m definitely not fluent. (I’m also
Right now im really into Total Drama. It’s one of my longest lasting hyperfixations so far! I also post about a few other things, like House M.D.
Specifically in Total Drama I mostly post about Alenoah and Priyemma. Recently been talking about the newest Reboot season (and my complaints with it). I talk the most about World Tour and TDI 2023 because it’s been a while since I’ve watched all the seasons and those are the ones I remember the best. I plan to rewatch them all… someday. I haven’t even finished watching reboot s2 because it’s painful!
I love shipping! I can’t even list them all because there’s so many tbh. I am very much a multi shipper and I constantly am finding new things to ship! I try to not engage in ship hate ever, but sometimes I slip up lol. I post some less-than-positive content about Nemma on occasion or Juliayne… everything that could be considered ship hate is tagged as such and never tagged with the ship that is being slandered.
I can’t really draw, so if I ever post my beginner drawings please be nice lol 😭 I’m still developing a style and learning. I have many, many WIPs that I might share here and there. I do really want to be able to draw confidently and make art for the things I love!
I’ve started writing fanfiction again lately! It’s a struggle for a lot of reasons. Props to everyone who writes fics because it’s hard. It takes me hella long too! I usually get out at least one a month. My user is Marrfixated on AO3, feel free to leave comments or kudos!
I’ve written four Alenoah oneshots so far. Most recently posted Contra Entendre, so go read that! I have 3 other oneshots that are somewhat written and I’ll post someday, but I’ve shifted my focus to planning some longer fics. I currently have an Alenoah AU and a Priyemma post-canon fic in the works!
I also have tiktok @Marrfixated. Recently I’ve been posting on tumblr more than TikTok because it’s easier, but I started off there. I don’t really use anything else yet (except ao3). Don’t post on TikTok as much as I do on here atm, but I do use it. I also have a Priyemma centric sideblog on here (@priyemma), where I’ll sometimes repost content from and vice versa.
You’re on thin ice if you engage in ship discourse, constantly hate on ship I like (it makes me sad 💔), or are a dsmp fan/an enjoyer of any of Vivziepop’s works (I don’t like you).
Proshippers DNI. Zionists DNI. Vivziepop defenders DNI. Dream supporters DNI. Dsmp supporters also DNI. Do some damn research.
I might post less-than-PG things here sometimes, but I don’t think I ever have or will post any extremely nsfw content. I don’t plan to EVER post nsfw related content related to td, it makes me uncomfortable as most of the characters are minors. (Any smut I would write would not be td related and kept only on my ao3 rather than shared on here.) I do curse a lot, and reclaim the f slur some times. Please don’t engage in ship discourse on my account for no reason! That’s no fun.
I usually take like 3 years to answer asks or dms or whatnot for various reasons… but I swear I don’t mean any offense! I just um forget sometimes 😇 Or I post it to drafts instead… or I get nervous 😶 and sometimes idk if you just sent it or want me to actually respond so I just guess? Ummm yeah. Also they go missing a lot. Probably have to figure that out. Oops!
I reblog a lot so right now I’m trying to tag all my original posts as #original post. Lazy posts are usually tagged with #shitpost. Random posts are usually tagged as #nonfandom post. My td fics are tagged as #my fanfiction.
That’s it!
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futabairl · 10 months
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― 🎮 PROMO && INTRODUCTION POST
tags : : @dowllie @puriette @sakosai @hauntingidol @scytheral @lovesse @delusielle @puriette @m00nystars @yourdarlingness : : feel free to rb but no need to ! ! / ask to be removed
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Hello , nice 2 meet u !! The name’s Navi or Mimi , but cy who navigates go by a lot more xD ~ this is a blog where she who remains in her room is willing to create ;
_> Genders && Terms && Identities
_> Flags ( Pronoun , Gender , Sexuality , Mixed < ex . demigirl bisexual she/it pronouns flag > )
_> Flag redesigns ( As long as the original creator is okay with it ! :P )
_> Pronouns suggestions
_> MAD pride related terms ( Limited to : ADHD , Social Anxiety , Dyspraxia , Sensory Processing Disorder and the general terms : Neurodivergent &lt; Disability > , Invisible / Undiagnosed Disability )
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― 🎮 BEFORE YOU REQUEST :: under the cut you’re going to find the stuff you must know before sending her who consists of buttons and wire a req.
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MEDIA WHITELIST ~ aka the list of medias the hacker of justice is going to always accept.* :: any persona game , genshin impact , honkai star rail , honkai impact 3rd , project sekai , enstars , bandori , idolmaster , bungou stray dogs , vocaloid , lucky star , your turn to die , death note , madoka magica , needy streamer overload / needy girl overdose , toilet bound hanako kun , chainsaw man , muse dash , clannad , higurashi + umineko when they cry , stanley parable , slime rancher , hunter x hunter , neon genesis evangelion , serial experiments lain , tokyo revengers
*That doesn't mean she who befriends the space bar won't accept your request if you request from another media. as long as it's not on the blacklist , there's a huge chance that the navigator is going to accept it :]
MEDIA BLACKLIST ~ aka the oracle won’t do anything related to these medias < due to her personal reasons > :: omori , dsmp , qsmp , BNHA, YBC , homestuck , blueycapsules , marvel , attack on titan , lore olympus , south park , anything with real people in it.
OTHER BLACKLIST MENTIONS ~ no -songic ( ever ) or -charic genders unless it’s a character from any series listed on the whitelist. i won’t do any MAD pride related terms to disabilities i don’t have ( whitelist / disabilities i have listed above ) . I won’t accept any mspec lesbian / gay, demiboy lesbian / demigirl gay, lesboy etc. related requests as i don’t share an opinion about these terms ( i'm neutral on them .) No paraphilia / transid / kink ( ew get out !! ) . The coded one doesn’t accept anything that contains slurs either . no gorey / gross / nsfw themes.
ADDITIONAL INFO ~ please be nice while requesting and remember that I won’t realize your req right away , as i’m not always active on tumblr && have other things to take care of. I’ll make sure to do it ASAP tho :]
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askthebadkidz · 3 months
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Junior Years Tomorrow so uhhh bad kids + flags headcannons.
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What each flag is (in order) and explanations under the cut:
btw Riz has so many because I know. A lot about aroace identities. And he’s me.
feel free to share your own headcannons actually please share your own headcannons I love stuff
-Riz mod
Fig:
pretty standard adhd, bisexual, and non-binary. The other flags is for genderhoarder. She has a lot of them.
Kristen: Lesbian, Demigirl Lesbian, Demigirl. I would have put butch but. I think her art is a pride flag of her own for that tbh.
Riz: Black Stripe Asexual and Green Stripe Aromantic: Absolutely no sexual/ramantic attraction. Aemotional: a lack of emotional attraction (includes romantic, emotional closeness, platonic, and queer platonic). Antiromantic: not grasping the concept of romantic attraction and being slightly or fully negative towards it. Anatractional: No attraction whatsoever. the next are non-binary man and itgender (not fully knowing what your gender is but knowing you use it/it’s pronouns) AuDHD, OCD, OLD, and alexithymia pride flags. Genderwhat (not understanding gender due to neurodivergence) and Puffinhoarder (hoarding aromantic and/or asexual identities). And the last one doesn’t matter ignore it
Riz would hoard identities/flags he identifies with partially due to instinct and mostly in an attempt to convince himself he’s normal and feel less fucked up about his identity. After all, if he has so many labels he has to be normal.
Gorgug: poly, pan, gender-fluid, autism pride flag, orchidsexual, and sex negative (he’s not ace!!!). Gorgug my boy you’re so interesting….
Adaine: Unlabeled, cassexual (not caring about sexual identity and not thinking it’s important) apagender/gender apathetic (same but gender), generalized anxiety disorder flag.
Adaine doesn’t care enough to label herself, so people usually refer to her as one of those three. Also GAD, of course.
Fabian: he’s aro. I’m right.
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grapedemon · 3 months
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Uhhhhhhhhhhhh, yea I still don’t know how this app works ngl…. Butttttt here’s an intro thing? Information thing….? Yea, don’t know-
✩Basic Info✩
You can call me Grape/Dark ^^
I am perfectly fine with dm requests, asking to be friends, and chatting ^^
Pronouns: they/them (gender-fluid)
Sexuality(s): Bisexual + Asexual
Probably neurodivergent, idk though
Nsfw and sexual topics make me really uncomfortable, so please don’t mention those things or interact if you post that stuff
I enjoy music and cartoons a lot!! They bring me comfort
EST Timezone
Unfortunately I only speak English…
I’m not the best conversation starter/holder, but I genuinely need more friends with similar interests man :”)
If you’re curious about my age, just dm me about it, I’m not sharing it publicly
My art style is so random, I swear all the art I post is from my two hands
✩Socials✩
Twitter(X): demon_grape (GrapeDemon)
TikTok: grapethedemon (Grape💜🧠🔱)
Discord: grapedemon (feel free to friend me, I love making new friends ^^)
✩Games (can friend me)✩
Roblox: comfortablecutepig1 (Dark)
Minecraft/Xbox: GrapeDemon
Nintendo: Grap8Demon (SW-1743-4494-7312)
✩Fandoms I’m In✩
Chonny Jash
Splatoon
The Glass Scientists
Lego Monkie Kid
Ok KO
Gravity Falls
Steven Universe
Total Drama
Fnaf
Bendy and The Ink Machine
Horror
Bugbo
There’s a lot more but I’m not listing everything...
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leeblissy · 1 year
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hiii emergency commissions open 😋
long story short, the temp period at my previous job ended so I was out of a job for 3 weeks, and now that I do have a job, I won't be getting paid for another 2 weeks and I'm broke as fuck. here's info:
sketches
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$10 for bust +$5 per additional person
$20 for full body +$10 per additional person
flat colors
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$35 for bust + $15 per additional person
$50 for full body +$20 per additional person
full color
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$60 for bust +$25 per additional person
$80 for full body +$35 per additional person
stupid memes with your blorbo drawn over it
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$15 +$7 per additional person
I can also draw silly emojis for your discord server
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$10 for a head or bust, $15 for waist or full body
additional info
if you want any cool effects like the first full color example or the second flat color example let me know. it'll be an additional charge up to my discretion but I won't try to make it too expensive.
I loooove drawing dnd characters PLEASE give me your characters 😭 🙏
I don't do nsfw but I will draw upper body nudity of adults if you want.
if you want anthro animal characters please provide ample reference.
I won't do any of the regular nasty shit that'd get you on a normal dni list.
you must have a paypal so that i can send you an invoice, and i won’t get started on the piece until the invoice has been paid in full. I will be sending progress updates as i go, so please make sure you’re available to answer your dms and give me feedback so i can make the best possible piece for you!
if you have any questions, I'll make sure my dms are open! if you want something specific that doesn't necessarily show up on this list feel free to ask, I'll think about it ���
refund policy
if you change your mind after you paid, but before i start working on your piece, I'll refund you in full.
if you cancel the commission partway through, I'll give you a partial refund. we can work out the exact amount together, but I get the final say based on how much I've already done.
if I cancel the commission for any reason, I'll send you a full refund no matter how much I got done and send you what I did of it.
closing thoughts
thank you for reading, I am trans and neurodivergent and need some cash 💀 please feel free to reblog or share with your friends 💕
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rowanluvvy · 2 months
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My discord server is now open! Welcome to Caelestiac!
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PLEASE READ THE SERVER RULES BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE!
(1) : DISRESPECT No bullying, homophobia. Transphobia, sexism, racism, zoophilia, pedophilia, and such and such. These things will result in a kick/ban.
(2) : SPAM CONTROL No spamming in general chat. That also results in long long messages, constantly saying the same thing over and over, and etc.
(3) : BEGGING FOR MOD no purposely getting close to mods and begging for moderator / asking over and over for things.
(4) : TICKETS AND COMPLAINTS Feel free to tell a moderator / staff member if someone / something is bothering you. <#1137826360878964907> channel.
(5) : NSFW TOPICS No pornography, inappropriate topics | content, or anything along the line. These things will result in a ban/kick. End of story.
(6) : OFFENDING no offensive Terms / Slurs. Any of these things will result in kick + permanent ban.
( 7) : THREATS no threatening people / telling people you will harm/hurt them. That will result in a permanent ban.
(8) : PLURALKIT No using PluralKit if you aren’t a system! If you do use PluralKit and you aren’t a system, please stop using it and switch to Tupperbox!
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For the rough introduction, this is a fully inclusive server where we have contests, play games, have movie nights, throw nice activities and engage with one another.
We support all religions, sexual orientation groups, identities, beliefs, disabilities, medical conditions and health conditions! We have pretty basic guidelines and rules for the community so that everything stays as peaceful and put together as possible.
We have some pretty active and helpful staff, who are here to help you if you need anything. We also have some emotional support channels for people needing emotional and mental support!
We have a shoutout board for our hardworking members and staff, and we host events quite often! We have a lot of emojis and do not tolerate any degrading, rude, and hateful behavior towards anyone or anything!
We are a pretty fun and friendly community, even though we aren’t a big community. But hopefully our community grows bigger in the near future! Caelestiac is an engaging and entertaining server! Be sure to check us out!
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I read your last post (and all the previous ones), but I haven’t had the energy to comment on it lately. I’m a bit drowsy rn but I would like to chat about headcanons and such.
See, I’ve always been a person who tries to adhere to canon as much as possible in my own writing/art/etc. I try not to stray too far for fear of misinterpreting the characters or misrepresenting them.
But then I entered the death note fandom. You’re totally right with comparing the different canons to multiverses with their own rulesets. There’s so much out there to read, watch, etc. And everyone has different opinions on what’s “more” canon. I would take it one step further and say that anyone’s perception of the story is going to be slightly different from another’s, because that’s how we see things. And people in fandom make art and such based on their perceptions of the characters, which often includes projecting headcanons onto them. For better or worse.
Tbh, I dunno if I really got the idea of a “comfort character” until L and Near. There’s just so much about them that I relate to, especially Near. I may never solve a serial murder case, but I do solve problems by sitting on the floor and playing with toys. I find myself staring dead-eyed at people or at screens when I’m thinking. My point is that I find comfort in these characters, and wonder what they might do if scared, or stressed, or alone. Naturally, headcanons arise, based on my interpretation and my outlook on the world. The important thing is, I’m not Ohba or Obata. If I write these characters, I’m naturally going to insert little pieces of myself in the characters, whether I know it or not. And so will you, and anyone who writes them.
When you wrote your headcanons about L vs Ryuzaki, I found myself nodding along because I related to those. As a neurodivergent person myself, I sometimes feel like I subconsciously act differently in the presence of others out of a need to keep an “image” that others have built of me, even if it’s not entirely positive. That’s how I interpreted your post about L. I understand, however, why the other anon interpreted the post as ableist. Maybe it came off as you “explaining away” L’s habits, like some attempt to make the character more “palatable”. I don’t wanna put words in your or the anon’s mouths though, so I’m not gonna speculate.
I guess I just wanted to write this to say- it’s okay that you have headcanons and I promise you, I love reading them! Sometimes people interpret them poorly, and sometimes we need to reflect on why we have the headcanons we do about characters. I really do think you had good intentions though.
I’m not sure how to wrap this up, but I genuinely hope you’re doing well, Lei. Feel free to delete this ask after you’ve read it, if you like. I just thought I’d try to give an opinion.
-🎲 (I hope this ask is coherent and tumblr doesn’t eat it.)
I wanna share this because you genuinely just made my day, 🎲 anon. and also to elaborate more. So, anyone with doubts on my intentions, please read.
I did admit and I will say again that I did not approach L vs Ryuzaki in the best way and I did not think it through. But my intention was NOT to explain L's traits away and make them more "palatable." I didn't realise I needed to include this in the description of the original post, but I love him so much for his "weirdness" and being "unpalatable" because that's what society calls me when I don't mask. Like L, I sit in weird ways, and speak in monotone, and I play a lot with mouth and fingers, and I dead stare at people and I just. I see a lot of myself in him.
And the things that I've always felt bad about myself I love seeing in/headcanoning on L. To share a personal story, I stare at people without blinking for several minutes, and when I was entering my teen years I got called rude, weird and creepy for it - and around that time I watched Death Note and I immediately clicked with L (for many reasons but that's the one I can give a specific example why for). I went "L stares like me, and people call him weird, but I can see he's not bad, he's really cool - maybe I'm not bad either".
That got into a bit of a rant sorry 😭 again. obviously I didn't intend to hurt anyone. but again, I did not approach it in the best way. I should also say, because I didn't address it properly in my original answer: I wasn't trying to elaborate on the Ryuzaki theory. I was trying to share my own headcanons on how L expresses MORE of himself, NOT a completely different self, when alone.
I do think he sleeps at least once a day (if only for a short time). I do think he eats things other than sweets (especially steak. I throw my anemia onto him and with it comes STRONG cravings for rare meat). I do think he sits in ADDITIONAL ways to the 40% smarter. but I DON'T think that those traits are all 100% fake completely for show.
anyway. again. seeing this made me feel better. I'm not sure if the anon who sent the ableist thing was a follower, but it's nice to know that people I've been interacting with can tell I didn't have malicious intent. I felt pretty down after getting it, I felt so bad about writing something that could be interpreted like that - maybe that could only be interpreted like that - and I kind of avoided Tumblr a bit after. even posting of a and b or any of my recent "lei chats," I've felt so anxious that I'm going to be misinterpreted. It's the worst feeling. In real life people assume I'm being rude/malicious all the time when I'm being genuine/don't have that intent. Online, in the most part, I found a space where people assume the opposite. So it hurt.
AGAIN I RANTED AND IT GOT A BIT PERSONAL I'M SO SORRY. but thank you very much 🎲 anon. you made me smile <3
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weatherstrange · 6 months
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I haven’t had a Tumblr since college and I think I forgot how to do this. What counts as worthy of yelling into the void?
Feels like those moments from earlier in my life when people would wrinkle their noses at me and say, “you don’t have to voice every thought that comes to your head.”
Which kind of destroyed me, honestly.
Because if I talk that much around you, share every thought that comes to mind with you - that means I trust you.
Maybe I trust too easily. (At least, I used to.)
If I share even a fraction of the constant maelstrom of my everyday thoughts with you, it means I think maybe you’ll be okay with me. Maybe you won’t mind, will tolerate, might enjoy, could possibly appreciate my weird-ass mind.
Neurodivergent.
Neuroqueer.
Neurofucked.
Neurospicy.
Neurokinky.
Neuroglimmering.
Neurosymphonic.
Neurometal.
Neuroequiphyllic.
Neuroenforcer, neurosniper, neurocenter, neurogoalie.
Neurosinger. Neurosongwriter.
Neuromusical.
Neurohyperactive.
Neuromethingsomethingsomething.
Whatever, but please take your wrinkled nose and sneer elsewhere.
Sigh tiredly all you want. You’re entitled to whatever it is you’re feeling.
But sometimes I think maybe you’re wishing you felt as free to say exactly what you think as I seem to you to be.
Then again, what does it matter? Ah, the usual möbius strip. I’m probably already trusting you/the void/Tumblr too much.
So how do I do this? Without indulging myself too heavily in any one extreme? Without sharing more than is
I almost said “appropriate.”
Fuck appropriate.
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evangelina830 · 4 months
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[📌 ] Pinned!!!
🩵Introduction🩵
Hello! I’m Evangelina, but you can call me Evan! (Or any nickname of that ehe idm!)
I’m non binary and my pronouns are They/Them! I don’t mind He/Him, and I won’t get upset, but please don’t! PLEEEASE not She/Her! Pls
Pls check out my commissions HERE!!!
I am a Minor! I have adult friends, just don’t be weird obviously lol
Learning Spanish!
Please use tone indicators if you think something you say that I won’t understand! I’m self diagnosed Autistic and neurodivergent, please be patient! Also I have MASSIVE anxiety (+PTSD), so pls don’t scare me LMAOO
(Adding “read more” so the post isn’t too long, if you’re new to my account though please read!!!⏬️)
Gifts are my main love language so… YES PLEASE GIFTS EVERYWHERE!!! And I’d love if you asked me to draw things in my little inbox thing! Yes I’ll do your ocs and MAYBE characters of fandoms I’m not apart of! Not guaranteed to be super fast, but I might!
I LOVE PIANO AND HAVE OVER 10 CATS!!! So important! LMAOO- also I have 7 siblings ahahh.. last thing here, I’m very nice! Don’t be afraid to ask things even if it isn’t an art request!
If I don’t respond to DMs quickly, also apologies! I’m usually busy, multitasking, or asleep xd if it seems like I’m ignoring you, just know I’m trying my best :,0
🚫Boundaries!🚫
DNI!!! Pr0shitters (or those neutral to it), z00, fetish accounts, NSFW, homo/transphobes, AI “artists”, DSMP fans, racists, People who just be causing problems online-, any p3d0 shit like l0l1con, GOODBYE
Even if we’re friends or you’re the same age as me, PLEASE no saying suggestive comments, even for jokes! I feel like it’s okay to an extent, but im just saying it makes me uncomfy! If I ever make jokes like that, it’ll be like meme redraws or something- lmao! (This just goes for strange comments ABOUT me.)
Please do not trace/repost my art anywhere!!! If you wanna use it as a pfp, please ask, and if I say you can, credit me!!
🤍On this account…🤍
Anyone here is welcome! Of course not ones on my dni list xd OC x Canon, more than welcome!
Here I will post mainly Regular show, some Unikitty, and possibly some Welcome Home content! Regular show way more then the others, but feel free to request and ask for any of them!
Like said before, my asks and stuff, you can say anything you’d like! Art requests, questions, anything! I love getting those!^^
I’ll also be posting oc stuff!! I Wonder how side Blogs here works…
Beware, I post ships!!! Oooo!!! Lmao I support all ships! (Unless I know it to be problematic, toxic, or gross!) main ships I’ll be posting is Geneson (regular show) and.. well, I draw them mostly! If you feel like seeing other content, don’t be shy and tap that button!
✨Tags! (Didn’t steal I swear…)✨
#EvanSona (for my main persona/oc reference sheets!)
#EvanArt (for all my rendered art!)
#EvanDoodles (sorry it weirdly organized lol this is for silly doodles)
#EvanDrawing (for traditional art!)
#EvanUpdates (self explanatory)
#EvanAnswers (answering my inbox!)
#EvanReblogs (reblogging! Usually to boost friends posts, share gift art, etc!)
#EvanOther (for other stuff ofc)
💙Socials💙
INSTAGRAM - @ evangelina_830
TIK TOK - @ evangelina_830 (barely post)
TWITTER - @ evangelina_830 (inactive)
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Heyy i Hope You’re Doing well! I’m a new writing acc and I don’t really have any requests or an audience, can I please ask for your advice on how to start writing more or gaining an audience, because I struggle to write without any ideas being given or a prompt list.
Sending love!! Byee
Hello, welcome to the world of writing fanfiction! Since this might get a bit rambly, I'll stick my advice under the cut. I'll also break it up into categories, and bold the most important parts, just for easier readability.
Writing a particular niche/experience
To be honest, I'm not entirely sure how universal my experience with writing/the following I built is, because my blog is directed towards a specific niche? It was genuinely a case of there being very few fics directed at/including neurodivergent readers, deciding "fine, I'll do it myself", and then the people who also wanted more of such fics were drawn to my writing as they came across it.
As such, writing one or two things based on your unique personal experiences (that you're comfortable sharing) might be a good start?
Your blog doesn't have to be centred around those experiences for you to write about them, and it doesn't have to be very specific, either (a few of my first posts were literally HCs for "[character] x Autistic!Reader - Established Relationship"). My more specific/unique ideas came along as I wrote more, and from the requests that came in over time.
There'll always be someone out there who not only relates to your experiences and feelings, but is waiting to see themselves in your stories!
Prompt lists (even without anyone to send them!)
Other than that, though: there's no shame in starting with a prompt list! Even if there's no one to give you a prompt yet, you might be able to find a small list, and then put the numbers/prompts into a random name picker to choose it for you?
I've just had a look for some examples, and a lot of prompt lists tend to be fairly long, from what I'm seeing (around 15-25 prompts seems to be the average) - but I've found this blog, that has some smaller lists to choose from. If anyone else knows of any others that anon might find useful, feel free to share them here!
An extra bit of advice...
This isn't really relevant to your question, but is the No. 1 bit of advice I would give to a new fic writer: figure out what you are/aren't comfortable writing before you start taking requests.
When I got my first request, the requester ended up having to change it a couple times, because I hadn't considered that, for example, someone could request a character I wasn't familiar with - leading to the "don't request characters I haven't already written for" rule in my guidelines. In hindsight, I'd recommend writing several fics before you start taking requests, so you have a better idea of what your boundaries are, and can list them out for people to take note of. It'll save you, and the requesters, a lot of trouble!
It's also important to not let anyone intentionally try to break those boundaries (e.g. by blatantly guilt-tripping you). While it's wonderful to have people appreciate your writing enough to want to see more from you, they aren't entitled to cross the line like that - it's OK to stand up for yourself. Do no harm, take no shit, etc. etc.
And that's all I've got!
I hope this was at least a little bit helpful - again, I'm not sure how universal the way my blog grew is, but hopefully there's something you'll be able to take away from this!
I hope you have fun writing! c:
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About Me & The Blog!
Hi! My name is Misha (he/him). I’m a queer Russian artist and writer [art & writing tag: #misha’s creative stuff; original characters/stories tag: #misha’s original stuff]. Born in February 10, 2004. I’m also an atheist and likely neurodivergent.
I also like The Owl House. I have an AU [tag: #retired leaders au]! It’s focused on Belos, Steven (the AU version of Steve), Hunter and Kiki, aka the Wolf Fam, and they’re the characters with the most significant changes. More info about the AU can be found under the #rlau info tag. It’s a good uncle AU btw.
Small summary: The Day of Unity turned out to be a massive disaster, and once Belos finally returned from being stuck in the Human Realm with Hunter and the Hexsquad, he publicly admitted to his lies and resigned. The other highest ranking members of the EC - Hunter, Steven and Kiki - left with him, hence the AU’s name, and the Empire dissolved.
Some more info about the AU can be found in this post. I’ll make a proper, better structured info post eventually.
[Edit]: Since I changed my username, the link in the long thread no longer works. Here is the updated link.
If you’d like to ask anything, whether it’s about me or my content, or if you just want to say something to me, feel free to send an ask!
I have a positivity tag: “#positivity”, and I’ll link it here if you wanna scroll through it.
I’m not really into n$fw content, but some (mostly mild) stuff might show up, mainly in text form or character dialogue. I tag non graphic/less graphic stuff with “#cw: suggestive”, and more graphic stuff with “#nsft stuff”, though I’m not 100% sure on where the line is for me.
(I also try to tag triggers, generally with “#cw: [thing]”, like “cw: flashing” or “cw: blood”, and some are censored like “cw: sui mention” and “cw: sa mention”. If there’s anything you’d like me to tag, send me an ask)
A few more things, in no particular order:
Do not repost/reupload people’s art without permission. If you like an artist’s work and want to have it on your blog, press the “reblog” button (the recycle looking button). If you want to share it on a different platform, just don’t, unless the artist gives you permission. Or just post a link to the work instead of the work itself!
And stop with the “idk who made it, I found it on Google” bs - don’t post the work you found, and if you want to share it, do reverse image search and find the author and share their work the proper way instead of stealing. Have the bare minimum of respect for the creator.
“Do not repost” also applies to downloading someone’s work, tracing or editing it, and then posting that version. It’s fine to trace art as a form of study/learning, but only if you either keep it to yourself and don’t post it, or you get the artist’s permission to post the traced/edited version.
Please tag your ships when you post content with them. It helps people who like it find it, and helps people who dislike it avoid it by filtering the tag. This includes “OC x canon” stuff (tag the specific OC/ship btw, not just “OC x canon”), “s3lf insert x canon”, and I’d say especially “x read3r”, or frankly, any kind of read3r insert stuff, even if it’s not ship.
Pr0shippers will get blocked. “Pr0shippers/anti-antis/c0mship/pr0fic” or whatever you call yourselves, get out. If you treat p3do and inc3st relationships as some kind of “cute/fun tropes”, or you willingly associate with people who do, I want nothing to do with you. This includes people who ship distant relatives (you are still shipping relatives and doing so knowingly)
No, this does not mean I’m some kind of puritan who doesn’t want dark topics to ever be touched on in media, it just means I think they shouldn’t be watered down into a “cute/fun trope” and should be approached with sensitivity.
If you’re an exclusionist, you’re not welcome here. This includes people who tag “queer” as “q slur”, as well as label and pronoun policers. There will be people whose identities you don’t understand, and that’s fine, leave them alone. Stop doing our oppressors’ work for them. Queer discourse also comes and goes every few months and it’s always the same “trust me bro my exclusionism is totally legit this time bro this group of queer people is totally evil and harmful bro just trust me”
“Tme/tma” (transmisogyny exempt/affected), are meaningless labels that do nothing but cause infighting within the trans community about who has it “worse”, or who has “privilege”, when no one does. A violent anti-trans bigot is not going to ask your pronouns before assaulting you if they perceive you as trans (or any kind of queer). Drop the labels if you use them. Also read this post by an intersex person.
If you attack people for criticizing cops, billionaires, large corporations, etc, gtfo. Go lick those boots elsewhere.
Russia/Putin stans/apologists are also not welcome here. Same for those who are “neutral” or think that “both sides are bad” (no they are not). And if you’re one of those people who act like Ukraine has no autonomy and is only resisting because the West is pushing it to do so, sincerely, go fuck yourself.
That’s about it I think. Though remember that you won’t fully know all of my beliefs from a couple sentences or even a couple paragraphs.
(Edit: For TOH fans, filter “#huntl0w negative” if you don’t like seeing negativity towards the ship. I try not to mention it much, but occasionally I voice or reblog criticisms of the writing (it’s pretty bad if it’s meant to be romantic), and some behavior from particularly aggressive fans. Btw in case you’re wondering, no, I don’t like L*nter, they are a canonically familial relationship)
[This post gets updates sometimes]
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autisticsunite · 1 year
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autistics unite
about us
Welcome to autistics unite! This blog is meant to be a safe space for autistics to talk to each other. Feel free to send asks ranting, venting, asking for advice, or any other general questions.
After experiencing many difficulties in their life (including ableism), the owner, @t0mbles , wanted a place to share his thoughts and frustrations on being autistics. And that’s how this blog came to be.
our policies
Autistics are always welcome to follow this blog. However, while allistics can follow this blog, please do not go any further than liking. Reblogging or sending asks to us if you’re allistic is not allowed, and you will be blocked if you do this.
This blog is self-diagnosis friendly! Self-diagnosis is valid, as long as you’ve researched about Autism and know that you have it. You are welcome to interact fully with this blog if you’re autistic, even if you’re self-diagnosed.
This blog does NOT tolerate discrimination. This blog supports people of color, transgender people, LGBTQ+ people, and other disabled and neurodivergent people. Discrimination in the notes or asks is prohibited.
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