#im just exhausted and pissed off

[axolotlclown]

I suppose I'm a little late to the party, but I needed time to collect my thoughts.

Here's the thing, everyone's caught up on Caiti's age and whether she consented. To me, that isn't anywhere near the point. Her being so young is certainly creepy and strange, but not the point.

Here's the first thing, though less important than the next. As an adult, it is blaringly clear how irresponsible these "adults" were. Two grown ass men supplying alcohol to underaged girls in a hotel room. They were up drinking until 6am. They were one noise complaint away from getting the cops called.

Second thing. While underage drinking in the US is fairly normal, 18 is still pretty young here. Also, publicly admitting to supplying alcohol to an 18 year old is crazy, but not the point.

18 year olds can't compete with grown adults when it comes to alcohol. They don't have the same tolerance. There never should have been any "one upping."

No one should have gotten that drunk. The fact that there was a girl leaving, vomiting in her hand is fucking ridiculous. When someone, regardless of their age, is drinking too much too quickly, you cut them off and give them water. This is how college parties are run. Once you start wobbling a little too much, your speech is slurred, and you stop being a person, someone gives you water and walks you home.

And nobody walked her back to her hotel room?? Two grown men. I don't give a shit how tired you are. You always walk a girl home. Who the fuck raised you??

I am an adult man in college. I have been around a lot of different men. I have hung around men that behave like this. Let me promise you this: they got those girls drunk like that on purpose. They both wanted something. When they didn't get it, they just let the girls go. They were never interested in their safety. They were never interested in who they were.

And let me promise you this: there's never just one girl. And any well brought up man would have cut them all off and sent them on their way. There is way more to this situation than lets on.

And of course George never asked for her consent. It was never a question. They brought those girls back to that hotel room with the thought that they'd get something out of it. To George, he heard 18 and thought, "oh cool, she's legal."

I see this happen all the time in college. Usually men don't grow out of all of it, but they usually grow out of begging like a shitty dog in some random girl's DMs. To hear a grown ass man, 26 years old, behave like a fucking 19 year old sophmore in college is pathetic. I'm not interested in giving pathetic men any more time.

Also, love and light to Caiti, she looks like she's 16. "I didn't know she was 18!" First off, doesn't matter. Second off, I would've guessed she was a minor, so I know you checked first. Or else you're even dumber than the fucking college kids. Damn.

[missazura]

what's up with old people being the most stubborn people alive

[tenrose]

I hate living in this world.

[hella1975]

me after that concert

NEXT CONCERT WHEN

[the-unicorn-system]

reminder that proshippers are fucking DISGUSTING. if you support or are "neutral" on them i want you to get the FUCK. AWAY. FROM US. im sick and FUCKING TIRED OF BEING FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE WHO REVEAL TO US "OH! YOUR DNI? YOUR DISCOMFORTS THAT YOU STATE STRAIGHT UP? WELL I IGNORED THAT, IM ONE OF THESE SHITFUCKS."

I HAVE FUCKING ALTERS OF THE TMNT AND IT MAKES US FEEL PHYSICALLY SICK WHEN THEY SEE ART OR FICS BEING SHARED OF THEMSELVES HAVING ROMANTIC OR SEXUAL RELATIONS WITH THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS. I KNOW YOU FUCKS DONT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT SYSTEMS AND DONT CARE IF THEY EXIST OR NOT BUT HOLY FUCK. WE ARE THE WALKING DISPROOF OF YOUR "FICTION ISNT REAL!11!!" BULLSHIT.

AND IF YOU DONT WANT TO LISTEN TO A SYSTEM TELLING YOU THAT, THERE IS SCIENTIFIC PROOF THAT FICTION AFFECTS REAL LIFE, AND REAL LIFE AFFECTS FICTION.

SO, AGAIN. IF YOU ARE A PROSHIPPER THAT IS HIDING AWAY IN THE CORNER PRETENDING TO BE OUR FRIEND, OR FOLLOWING OUR ACCOUNT;

YOU ARE NOT WELCOME. GET THE FUCK BACK OVER TO THE CORNER OF THE INTERNET THAT LIKES YOU AND GET AWAY FROM THE ONES WHO WANT YOU OFF OF THIS TOXIC HELL HOLE.

[phantaloon]

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[aechlys]

UGHHHH My kansai ass hasn't spent a long time in Tokyo since I had an address there, idk what to do anymore besides what I've always done.

I don't want to fucking google anything, the internet is riddled with bullshit and literal babies trying to sell me on how undiscovered Asakusa is or some ridiculous shite, I can't bear it. 😂😂😂

I need to get my shit together seriously. I am officially out of time.

[3rdsday]

Everyone's saying that summer internships are essential for undergraduate students to have a chance at finding a job after graduation but if people aren't hiring entry level workers why would they be hiring interns? Especially paid interns. I cannot be working a job without pay all summer. And even then you can't find unpaid internships either! It's so goddamn depressing and I don't know how the hell I'm going to survive after graduation with all the debt I'm in. And I even did the "smart thing" and went into computer science which was supposed to guarantee me a job with good pay right? At least my communications major roommate already has a job. A low paying job is better than no job, and I sure as hell am not finding a low paying one right now. Fucking hell.

[bomnun]

i get super annoyed when ppl talk who don’t know much abt ptg say things like only a few members (it’s always hui, often kino, and maybe wooseok or jinho) are talented and they’re too good to be in the group or stuck in cube or whatever and disregard the talent of everyone else just bc cube never bothered to try to promote them individually .

just bc so many kpop groups have random filler members who can’t do anything doesn’t mean everyone does…ptg certainly do not anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️ everyone in that group contributes to the sound and the performances in very valuable ways

[fadeintoyou1993]

having to explain to people things like. if i have to go out to do something and run errands i need to have it all mapped out and planned w like. at least a week in advance. and if i go out that day i cannot do anything else because That will be it. if i have multiple commitments that cannot be put on the same day i need one full day in between those commitments so i can rest and be recharged for that next thing otherwise i might have a breakdown in the middle of the street (again) and then That will render me unable to function for like a whole three days. and then people look at me like i choose to live like this?

[myrmecomorphisme]

I know german people who start speaking to me in english (or ask if I want to switch to english) are trying to be nice but it pisses me off so much im talking to you in GERMAN if I wanted to speak english I would NOT be here

[gingerbreadmonsters]

I HOWL AND I WHINE, I'M AFTER YOU

[elegyofthemoon]

🫠

[lupismaris]

My therapists keep telling me to stop othering myself and I'm trying but it's really fuckin hard when I'm being othered

[toytulini]

i did do the things i was avoiding yesterday, for those keeping track

[ishizizzle]

glad I reached the other side of slowly recovering from all of 2020-2022; the loud & active racism, protesting, January 6th, covid, my own personal failings after failings and the realization of how empty and cold and quiet the world just in time to be needed for another election