#infj life

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Books To Read For The INFJs

The Secret History by Donna Tartt

Little Women by Louisa May Alcott

The Picture Of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde

And Then There Were None by Agatha Christie

Circe by Madeline Miller

To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

Recitatif by Toni Morrison

The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath

Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman

The Book Thief by Markus Zusak

The Lord Of The Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien

Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck

Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë

Neverwhere by Neil Gaiman

[poetrybyonur]

As INFJ empaths, we always want to see the light in others. We try to give them the benefit of the doubt when we see discrepancies. We try to love the red flags out of them. But more often than not, we get hurt, because sometimes the light we think we see in others is actually our own light reflecting off of them.

[blvcksoul11]

“My worth is not determined by what others think.”

- INFJ

[ursulawhosoever]

A bit of INFJ and ENFJ mood 🤭 haha

[phoenixxxrizing]

[introvert-moments]

Introvert Moment #116

Apologizing unnecessarily when asking for something since that usually gives you the interaction of least resistance

[safe-haven-safe-place]

What does it mean to be ‘sensitive’?

As a personality trait, scientists define high sensitivity as taking in more information from your environment, processing it more deeply, and doing more with it, according to Andre Sólo, coauthor of Sensitive and one of the founders of Sensitive Refuge. Sólo says that the sensitive brain is actually wired to process all information more deeply — effectively spending more time and mental resources on doing so — which means sensitive people tend to notice details others miss and make connections that others don’t see.

Because of this deep processing, sensitive people tend to have certain traits. Many are creative deep thinkers who pick up on subtle details and nuance. Most have high levels of empathy, because they process emotional cues more deeply, too. And many are highly attuned to their physical environment, noticing even the tiniest changes around them. These are all advantages, but the sensitive brain can get overstimulated in loud, chaotic or emotionally intense environments. They do best in calm, quiet settings with plenty of time to think.

Of course, everyone is sensitive to some extent. Sólo says that researchers now see sensitivity as a continuum, with most people in the middle, a few at the low end, and about 30% scoring high for sensitivity. These highly sensitive people, or HSPs, are what we mean when we say “sensitive people.”

#1 Most Sensitive Type: INFJ

INFJs usually exhibit high levels of sensitivity and have a deep affinity for other people’s feelings. INFJs have strong emotional connections to both their own feelings and the feelings of others. They are incredibly sensitive to suffering and are unable to just turn away from someone who is in pain. They tend to experience sadness about the cruelty they witness in the world which can lead them to have isolated periods. It’s this intense empathy that pushes INFJs to the top of the sensitivity list — they are often deep thinkers like INFPs, and are also incredibly attuned to the needs of the people around them. INFJs are highly sensitive to the words and deeds of those close to them. INFJ is regarded as the most sensitive personality type. Some estimates suggest that 80 to 90% of people who test as INFJs also test as highly sensitive people, because the traits of the two overlap so much.

[chameleonpersonality]

INFJ

Living with a personality that is so rare is a struggle because it is hard to find someone who has the experience. My personality, INFJ, makes up 2% of the population.

INFJ stands for:

      - Introverted

      - Intuition

      - Feeling

      - Judging

People with INFJ are very complex people with an array of emotions, interests, and talents. Though they have a reputation for being reserved and quiet, they can be some of the most highly respected and admired people in the world.

Like all personalities they have their strengths and weaknesses. The strengths in this personality trait are:

      - Zealous and enthusiastic

      - Perceptive and deep

      - Compassionate and peace loving

      - Decisive and pragmatic

      - Virtuous and Noble

The Weaknesses are:

      - Perfectionist and too specific

      - Over sensitive and opposed to conflicts

      - Repressed and too private

      - People pleaser and meek

      - Overworked and burn out

With INFJ there are 7 signs you can pick up on if they're unhappy with their life. They are:

      - They become impulsive

      - They're tired all the time

      - They're detached

      - They ghost you

      - They see no future

      - They're always around people

       They can't concentrate

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[doesanyonehaveasparelightsaber]

MBTI Community: INFJs are lovely beings, truly a celestial body incarnate. They are so perceptive and can look into your soul with their piercing gaze! But they are so sensitive and secretive, if only we could get this closed book to open *dramatic sigh*.

The entire INFJ community : *side-eyes Hitler*

[poetrybyonur]

True soul connections are rare. Not every friendship or relationship has it. You cannot force it or try to make it happen with anyone. It’s there or it isn’t. If you call every relationship or every interaction you have with someone you’re fond of a “soul connection,” then you are watering down what true connection is and cheapening it. When you have that deep connection, when someone has seen and touched your soul, you bloody will know it. It’s unmistakable, you feel it in your bones, and nothing can substitute it.

[its-all-down-hill]

[mariamthe1st]

the usual me 🙂

[phoenixxxrizing]

[blvcksoul11]

“Perfectionism is my worst enemy.”

- INFJ

[ursulawhosoever]

INFJ woman🧝🏾‍♀️🧙🏽‍♀️:

"Of course I'm weird, but I'm going to light up your life."

🤭😹