#ladylike

[dayvoidkyoto]

stop fucking harassing Kwesi James.

i'm seeing way too many Try Guys fans commenting shit on his social media claiming that he knew about Ned and Alexandria because of the concert video, and that that makes him "just as bad as them".

no, it fucking doesn't.

let's say he knew. we don't know what he did with that information. everyone's assuming he hid it from Ariel. you don't fucking know that. he could have told her the second he knew and then have been told to stay quiet or act normal by Ariel because she didn't want the public to know before official statements could be made. none of us know what was happening behind the scenes.

the fact is, if he had gone public with it, the same people calling him a snake and an awful friend would have turned around and complained that he was "talking about things that didn't concern him" or "airing out other people's dirty laundry", and they fucking know it.

the Try Guys, their spouses, and at least part of the crew unfollowed Ned the second the statement went up. many of them unfollowed Alexandria as well. y'know who no one unfollowed? Kwesi. in fact, some people are saying the official account followed him for the first time after the statement--although i'll say to take that one with a grain of salt, as i don't know for sure that he wasn't followed in the first place. either way, no one unfollowed him (UPDATE 10/01/22: Ariel herself unfollowed Alex today. she didn’t unfollow Kwesi.). y'know why? maybe it's because she and everyone else can acknowledge that he didn't do anything wrong. you know, the actual people involved in the situation? whose opinion matters way more than the parasocial relationshipping fans on the internet that many of you are simply bandwagoning alongside with zero critical thinking skills.

i can't stress this one enough: the Try Guys had known since labor day weekend (9/5/22). this is an objective fact, they confirmed it themselves in their "what happened." video, which was posted on 10/4/22. no one is going after them, calling them snakes, or harrassing them. the crew had to have known for at least two weeks this is an objective fact. the first video Ned was cut out of was the Chocolate Eclair video, which went up exactly two weeks before the affair was confirmed (confirmed on 9/28/22, the video was uploaded 9/14/22). there's almost no way they found out, had a meeting, decided to cut him out, and then edited him out of it all in the hours of that Wednesday before they uploaded. that means they most likely knew beforehand. but, they could have done it all in a day. that still means they'd have known for two weeks. no one is saying shit to them (UPDATE 10/02/22: Rachel was apparently at the Harry Styles concert with them. her Instagram comment sections? full of love and support. not a "snake" or a "she knew" in sight). hmmmmm, i wonder why.

i'll close this out here with something many of you aren't going to want to hear: this unnecessary vilification of Kwesi is at least partially rooted in racism. you can't handle having to blame Ned alone for his actions, so you would rather harrass a Black man for no real reason to than acknowledge that your Favorite White Guy™ fucked up.

[andallshallbewell]

[succulentsiren]

Here to dead the misconception that femininity is a particular dress code or is equivalent to acting in a ladylike manner. Being Ladylike is a behavior that is taught and represents good social grace and standing. (Sitting with your legs closed/Saying please and thank you/Being polite/Wearing makeup/Wearing heels and dresses). These things help with presenting a kinder and more approachable image but it is not the root of what femininity is.

Being Feminine is an innate energy that is about expressing yourself in a way that makes you feel best. Femininity is when you stand in your authentic truth and honor your self worth.

Feminine energy isn’t always polite nor respectful. Sometimes it’s destructive and wild.

Femininity is not a exact presentation, style or aesthetic.

It can look like this,

this

this

this

or this.

Femininity can be expressed with bold makeup, simple makeup or no makeup at all. It can be expressed wearing a dress, jeans, hoodies, suits, sneakers or heels. It can be nudity. It can be natural hair, bald, curly hair, braids, straight hair or wigs.

Femininity is expressing yourself in a way that makes you feel at your best.

Femininity is self acceptance.

Femininity is feeling good about who you are.

Femininity is feeling treasured without external validation or decoration.

No one can define what feminine looks like for another. Each individual has their own way of expressing their truth.

[kaito-module-of-the-day]

Today's KAITO module of the day is:

LadyLike by Pierrotsdoll!

[hometown-helen-of-troy]

It seems like the more traditional and feminine I become, the more my friends withdraw from me. They poke fun when I wear a dress to lunch, question me when I mention my growing involvement in my church, and actively discourage me when I mention that I want to homeschool my children. They also roll their eyes when I say I want God to decide how many kids I have and not use birth control in marriage. Is it just me? Has anyone else experienced this?

[qqmariztwsse]

[ladykaygray]

May the Princess of Wales, whose poise and warmth exemplify what it means to be a lady, have a complete and certain recovery and may she know how admired she is by so many of us.

[ch3shire-rabbit]

Actually Fumu's mom seeing Meta Knight's face would be hilarious 🤔 because once the initial shock fades she just goes mom-mode and freaks out about how cute he is and has to resist the urge to pinch his cheeks. She's so air-headed too, she probably wouldn't even realize that she's embarrassing him.

Meanwhile if Fumu ever saw his face she'd probably just short-circuit.

He wears the mask for a reason

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[i-cant-really-think-of-a-name]

I don’t know why but in the first episode of What We Do In the Shadows, when Laszo say “Who the hell is that, because I live on the third floor”. Just cracks me up.

[ferbracket]

Candace Competition

Ladylike. ''You gotta teach me how to be all Anglowishy and ladylike and proper!''

AU. ''New Paisley Sideburn Brothers album, don't make me bust.''

[dayvoidkyoto]

weirdly enough i think the most shocking thing i learned today was that @one-time-i-dreamt is a try guys fan lmao

[andallshallbewell]

[suitsyoumaam-blog]

Mihaela Skripnik

Source: Her instagram

[femininepinkstrudel]

[rosenlied]

Posting Vocaloid redraws again

[dailyenglishvoca]

Today's song is Ladylike by KIRA featuring the Vocaloid Gumi