Keep your heels and standards high!
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Subtle ways to change how people view you:
Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation
Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace
Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things
Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume
Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent
If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.
Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.
Stop messing with your little imperfections only you notice. There’s no need to straighten your shirt, rub your hand down your pants etc. Leave it be and you will appear more confident.
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The best thing I’ve ever learned was to be ok rejecting a man’s first offer. Specifically for gifts, money or vacations. Because I can guarantee that whatever he offered you, he can do better. They never offer you the -BEST- first.
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No More Smoke & Mirrors Women
I don’t care how much your whole outfit, lifestyle and makeup costs if you don’t care how much you’re worth. You should’ve seen a therapist 3 purses ago.
Visit your school’s guidance counselor or Human Resources at your work. Potentially, you can receive a referral to a therapist, counselor or psychologist in their network.
Spend the same amount you spend on cosmetics and clothes on your teeth and body. You can find dental tools under 50 dollars, purchase vitamins, a gym membership and cleaning products. You can’t have hundreds of dollars worth of makeup and no vacuum!
Look at how to build your own site, sculpt your body, eat healthier and save money on YouTube instead of watching hauls, expensive makeup tutorials and luxury living. You’re not doing yourself a favor lounging invested into viewing your ideal life instead of making it reality.
Force yourself to do what you don’t want to. The first step is getting out of bed. It’s literally the hardest thing to do when you’re depressed. To be able to live your best life, you have to make sacrifices. Sacrifice your sleep now by waking up at 5:30am so you can relax in Fiji later.
Shift your mindset into a growth mindset. You can desire abundance all you want, but I don’t want you to expect something if you haven’t attempted to move to square 2.
Don’t expect picture perfect results. Your results aren’t always going to appear like a lifestyle goals post.
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Identity is a prison and I refuse to be locked up
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If you don't break the cycle today, it will repeat tomorrow.
Break the cycle today.
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I love sustainable luxury so much, it opens up so many doors I thought I’d have to pay full price to access. Also, I can’t give up a good deal 🤍✨ I can’t wait to show you all how I save money buying luxury goods and extending the product’s lifespan.
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I’ma be where the love at, the support at, the pressure at, the romance at, the money at, the success at and more importantly the peace at.
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