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adviceformefromme · 19 hours
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Burn your fucking to do list. Write a love list. Everyday when you wake up. What does my day look like in love? What do I wear today that makes me feel love? What conversations do I have that make me feel the energy of love?
Normalise a life filled with love.
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chichiscloset · 20 days
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She’s a lady
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leveledupmindset · 8 months
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Keep your heels and standards high!
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boredgirlsclub · 1 year
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pink pilates princess
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khylamarieren · 6 months
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Femininity is not the absence of strength. It is the confidence and deliberate act of being exactly who God created you to be. Women are powerful in their softness, their nurturing spirit, their creativity, and their childlike wonder. A caring heart towards the people around them is often more impactful than stepping into a setting for the sole reason of trying to prove their worth to men or for the sake of proving their independence/value in some material form. Regardless of what the world says women ought to be in this age, I would like to be warm, gentle, a lover, and a friend. The creator of a home, and the giver of peace &  joy to those I love. It’s okay to want to be a feminine woman.
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jluxsymone · 4 months
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audacia · 1 year
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Health-maxxing skin >>>>> studying makeup!! 🍑 8 Ways to Start
Hydrate like your life depends on it, because your enjoyment of life sure does.
Get an expensive, high-quality multivitamin. Drugstore brands don't cut it.
Put on sunscreen before your face is ever hit by rays, and watch your bedroom shades. I've received a sunburn from the morning sun peeking through before!
Research retinoids like retinol & tretinoin, and why mega-dosing vit A can function similarly. Don't forget your neck if applying topically.
Find out what you're allergic to. Eliminate all the common allergens for a week - wheat, dairy, sugar, nuts, shellfish, eggs - and then reintroduce them one at a time. Your skin and gut will tell you if something is harming you if you're patient and LISTEN to your body.
Environmental allergens will kill your skin too - get tested for allergies to pet dander, mold, dust mites, etc. especially if you wake up with mucus habitually or feel tired a lot.
Fill your diet with antioxidants.
Quit using lip balms that make your lips more chapped and switch to applying oils.
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girlmaxxxing · 7 months
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adviceformefromme · 22 hours
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How do I stop attracting guys that just want sex? I feel like I continually am (even though I make my intentions clear I want a relationship) I feel like I’ll never get a bf. I’m 24 years old, I am very selective of who I give my energy to (only slept with one guy that was a situationship) i hate dating and feel like I don’t know what I’m doing wrong and keep attracting these types of guys like I said....
Hey sweetie, okay I would first assess if you are leading with your sexual energy. The men you attract and entertain in your life are mirrors, they are a reflection of where your energy is at. Do you lead with your body and image as your selling point? What is your social media presence like? Are you posting photos half naked or are you covered up? Do you allow conversations that lead to a path of sexual flirtation? Or do you feel like you want something from these men? Money, gifts, etc. When you objectify a men mentally for what he can offer you, in turn men will mirror back wanting something from you - sex. Questions to ask yourself... Where do i see my value? What is it I have to offer to a relationship with a man? What value do I want to receive from a man in my life? These might seem like serious questions, but ultimately you need to check-in to ensure you are projecting the correct energy for what you want to receive. If you want a man to love and respect you and see you for who you truly are. You have to become that for yourself, and you also have to start seeing men in a different light. And also start seeing yourself with love, treating yourself with love, and honouring yourself with love. Once you do this, the men in your life will honour and value the respect you show yourself. xoxox
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chichiscloset · 14 days
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“Who/What causes you to lose allure?”
If you don’t like cussing, sorry. Your future isn’t guaranteed and we don’t have time to wait for the perfect moment.
The Who’s
Negative bitches. Negative bitches can come in the form of mothers, relatives, besties, and acquaintances. In some cases, they can be well intentioned, but they’ll never understand your lifestyle choices if they aren’t in it themselves. Negative bitches will make you shoot yourself in the foot through sabotage, feeding you doubt through the guise of “caring about you”, and talk about how they never did that and they’re still fine. They want to throw you off track so they won’t feel embarrassed or left behind.
Uninspired persons. The people who want to grow with you by attaching themselves to your hip, and literally copying everything you do. If you do 100 jumping jacks in the morning, they’ll do 101 and take credit for it first if they succeed.
Level up buddies that gave up on leveling up. When you’re on your journey or generally growing your independence, you’ll realize that you can’t afford what you always want to do and staying in your current position ain’t getting you nowhere. Having colleagues that became complacent isn’t helpful to you or them, so dissociate or send them packing.
Comfort zone friends. Comfort zone friends can be the same as negative bitches, except they can become proactive if they view you as a mutual, instead of as a frenemy. Comfort zone friends can also be childhood friends, relationships that you run back to when they ran their course, acquaintances, and placeholders.
Comparison heauxs. The name is literally their description: bitter heauxs that always feel the need to compare themselves and you to their/your progress. They always try to humble you but copy your habits at the same time since they can’t trust themselves.
Unsolicited advisors. Unsolicited advisors like giving advice and comparing their progress at your age to theirs. Their desired results are attention, praise and appreciation for unwanted advice, but I ask if they want a cookie for giving an opinion no one cared about. If they’re people you can’t avoid, ask them questions that have no benefit to your mission.
The What’s
Telling your business on the first visit.
Exposing your routines, private life.
Telling your favorite habits [to heaux’s that’ll switch up on you if given a chance]. If you love singing and the heaux is mad at you, guess what? Your voice sucks and you sound like a dying goat. Love your pretty nose? Guess what’s being attacked first in a fight.
Telling your plans to anyone who’ll listen.
Taking advice from people TO HEART who haven’t experienced what you do. It’s taking medicine you don’t need, but convinced yourself enough that you’re sick. My confidence is the highest it’s been, and I now understand why low esteem people would take advice or criticism from people who’d never liked them.
Giving up after you put in the work required, because “your plan said I could do this in 6 months” but it’s 6.1 months later.
Revealing who you are to someone who didn’t put in the work to know you.
Living for other people.
Living through other people.
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leveledupmindset · 2 years
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thefemmerefinery · 5 months
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Don’t do things because other people tell you to. You have to decipher if things are for you and are authentically things that align with you. Don’t curate the image of who you want to be based on others. Don’t listen to music to genuinely don’t like just because of how people will perceive you. Don’t wear clothes that don’t suit you and you don’t feel comfortable in because you have been told to. Yes these things matter to an extent because how you present yourself matters. What I’m saying is don’t create a caricature of yourself because nothing about it is real to you. Nothing is true to who you truly are. Adapt things to who you are. Find music that you like. Find clothes that you love. Discover books you truly enjoy. Find videos that truly spark your interest. Don’t be superficial. Create a life that is true to you, one that deep down you don’t hate or feel dissatisfied with on the inside because you’re living a lie. Even if it’s different people will respect your genuity.
Live well.
- Femme Refinery
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jluxsymone · 4 months
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G O A L S
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